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Omogbhollahorn:
what the essence every1 cheat even u d were won tame has done it some tym in ur life

This is some serious incomprehensible bullshit. . .

Ekiti1:
This thread, hmm. . .
These are the salien points:
-they were havin an argument.
-op decided to ping with his phone to avoid further heated arguments
-the girl decided to get his attention by collecting the phone and smashing it
Now to all the feminists (chima, killz & co);
If you are having an argument with your man/woman will u break/smash their belongings just to get their attention?
If you are an advocte of this type of behaviour, I wonder the type of upbringing you people have.
Dont get me wrong, wha the op did was wrong but hey, he acted out of provocation!
What type of girl breaks her man properties in annoyance? All the men (women wrapper) supporting this girl would have done worse in the same situation! I hate hypocrites!
For those saying if it was their sister they will do and undo, dnt try that bul.poo with me.
Finally, @Op what you did was wrong but Itz good feeling remorseful for what u did.
@2buff, harakiri, natasha thumbs up. I like the way you guys presented your case(s).

fr3ddi3:
@OP

I have experienced a similar thing too. Best thing to do is this:

1. Dont make urself always available to her.
2. Always encourage her when she does something right.
3. Control ur temper when u are with her.
4. Compliment her even whn its not necessary.
5. Control ur emotion, and stop telling her how much u love her too often.


I hope my little advice will help. Goodluck brah

ada24:
what is there to understand - she broke his phone he beat her up - did I miss anything out.

A mature man just ignores the woman - trust me nothing hurts and makes a woman go mad than this.[size=15pt] A phone (no matter how costly) can be replaced a human being can not (if he had killed her)
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[size=20pt]do you know how many time my daughter has messed up my phones - i will now beat her cos of simple phone - chei. [/size]

@killz
why do we beat a child if he or she steals something ?
I m sure you recieved some beatings from your parents or teachers for doing something wrong. I did and i m sure 98% of nigerians born in nigeria did. It is called training here. The op merely trained his girl. Violence has different degrees remember. There are different kinds of beatings.  Americans go to war to correct some things remember. People get killed and things become better as a result.
Walking out of a relationship because ur phone was smashed makes you a coward. How many times will you walk out of a relationship/marriage if your property gets damaged by an angry companion ?

You beat your child every time? Does your child steal something anytime? This analogy is pointless. is the OP's girlfriend a child? Did she steal anything? Ok, now, is the OP the father of the girl? Should you discipline any child that is not yours? Would you beat a child until you are satisfied? Another reason why the analogy is pointless. So what if the OP and girlfriend were not in Nigeria, would you still support the act of beating up a girlfriend? So you wont support him beating her up in America, but you'll support him beating her up in Nigeria? Shame on you! Training someone is by beating them? beating them until they bleed? Beating them to satisfaction?

He trained a girl you say? Can he use such training in America? if you answer no, then your analogy is baseless, and pointless. Americans go to war, but they haven't corrected NOTHING, pls dont go there and stick to the thread. WTF is the american military doing in this issue? You want to use that as a support of wife/girlfriend beating? Shame again.

Now, did you fall in love with a goat? Only a goat is that stubborn that you need to beat her up every time. Now again, what led to the provocation of the girlfriend? Did you bother to know? But you are in support of him beating her up. I'm not in support of her smashing the phone, two wrongs never make a right. Op had his own faults as well, but he'll never realize it if you keep supporting him beating up his gf. It will sadly continue to the woman he eventually marries. He'll beat her up at every provocation, and of course you'll support him, because it's in Nigeria, and it's called TRAINING!. Shame on you!

What the fcck do you mean how many times will i walk out of a relationship/marriage if my property get's damaged? Did i marry a lunatic? Are you implying all women are lunatics and will destroy my property, irrespective of who she is? So you will rather suggest i beat her up till satisfaction, and still stay with her? A lady who has show traits of psychosis in it's elemental stages?

Something must cause a quarrel before it get's heated to the extent of a lady destroying your property. Why don't you solve that problem to avoid weightier problems? Will you rather use violence to solve all issues? I take it to mean that you fight all the time someone makes you angry. If you don't fight and beat up anyone that makes you angry, but you are quick to beat up a woman for making you angry, you are a fccking coward and deserve an award.

Still LMAO at beating a woman = Training in Nigeria. There are a lot of half wits perambulating as Men in Nigeria if that is the case. . .

Relationships are not for idiots who resort to physical violence to resolve a problem. . .

@ killz
After reading some of your posts, i really want answers to questions like :
is it when your life is threathened that you have the right to beat your girlfried ?
- what level of life threatening situation does one have the right to beat the girlfriend ?
Do you have to wait until the girl throws an iron or acid @ you before you do something ?

op,tell us the source of this info.you are spreading false rumours.[size=20pt]the picture you ve displays is about an acid bath incident that happened in port harcourt last year about medical personnel and her patient.please stop misleading people.[/size]

God bless you and your generations. . .

Kanmiboy:
@killz who told u destroyin some property is nt a criminal.its tagged malicious or willful damaged if u dont n u could b held up 4dat, gud job jare u do well 4samplin ur babe ova smachin ur new tear ruba bold4 e eazy

2BUFF

You know KILLZ is not just 'one of them'

He is actually 99% feminine.

Men bleep him in the asss.
You can see the signs written all over him that he has been through so much in the hands of men.

Anywayz its good he(or is it she) has his own opinion well taken.

Bro, you need to see 2buff first, and all the signs written over him. . .

2buff:
Ignore all trolls. Killz has always been one of them. He threatens the same women he claims to "never hit" over even the most silly things.
[b]I JUST KNOW killz [/b]would actually choke a b[i]i[/i]tch in real life if she so much as called him a "rat-looking, disgusting albino" 

You know sh[i]i[/i]t!

breezy147:
Killz

I'm not here to batter words with you cuz I just got banned after idiotic cowards like you reported me but still I feel Its not safe to permit a mad dog like you to be unleashed to the society.

If you have any schooling in your background it dosnt take much common sense to differentiate the context behind my situation and that one you just quoted.

Different context get it?

You seem to be good at nothing except sucking gay Joysticks like yours with your albino rotten tongue.

Yeah I just did it again. Hit the 'report to moderator button' and have me banned again.

Goat!!
No offense.

Girlfriend Beater. You can kill for a damned phone. Ode. Beat your mother too if she makes you angry

991:
@kills
"It's either you are for, or against the motion. Stop changing lanes"

yet you call supporters idiots, THAT is out of your anger on what the supporters are saying and that act of anger makes me believe that you are so unrealistic. why don't you just ignore calling people idiots as you would ignore ur girl and walk away as you CLAIM.

Hehe. I know you'll leave the issue and digress. . . Typical. When i said changing lanes, i wasn't talking to you now, was i?
What would you call a person who would not beat his girlfriend, but advises another to beat his girlfriend? i dont know about you, but i call them idiots!

@killz

sure you sound so unrealistic. no offenses. but an African adage says
"Good women always think it is their fault when someone else is being offensive. Bad women never take the blame for anything"
be a little bit more realistic man, relationships are not big-brother Africa TV show

Thank you. . . At least method man's life was threatened after a pressing iron was thrown at him and hit him close to the eye. . . oh, and this was after his phone was smashed and he kept his cool.

Please, don't antagonize me. . . If you wanna beat your girlfriend, do so with pleasure and dont feel remorse. if you feel remorse, you are a fccking coward. Stay on your lane. Relationships are not BBA, so let us all beat up our girlfriends when they make us angry. . . The world will be a better place. . . Smh!

breezy147:
[size=15pt]Bros don't beat her again ok?
Beating won't solve anything it will only make her life worse.
If you love her you can help her grow out of her insecurities and childishness.
Just take your time to help her learn to have trust and be patient.
Its like a building process and it takes time.[/size]

Height of Irony is when an unrepentant girlfriend beater is advising another against girlfriend beating. . .


Colossal discombobulation. . . Smh!

@ Killz

If you want to know about the threat to life.

You can scroll back and read METHODMAN's post.
Its good for your hypocritical behind

Yeah. . . keep consoling yourself by comparing your dimwitted self to Method man. What is the correlation between what you did, and what he did? Very soon, you'll tell me she threatened your life by smashing your BB. Odelistic coward!

I saw your idiotic comment advising someone not to beat his girlfriend. . . lol. What happened to you? Girlfriend beater. May you continue to beat any girl that smashes your phone. . .

Kindly stop quoting me, as your foolishness cannot be compartmentalized. . . You feel remorse, but allow your self to be swayed by idiots supporting your actions even though they'll NEVER lay hands on their own GF's. . . i dont have time for such lopsidedness. It's either you are for, or against the motion. Stop changing lanes.

After all said and done, Moderators take note, this post should win the most traffic pulling and interesting post of the year! It added 3pages in the Last 4hrs and counting!! I wont be suprised if it reaches 30pages by the end of the day!  @ Killz. Wit all due respect, Try to be realistic.

@killz

i think u need to chill on the rhetoric,it makes u sound very juvenile

most of us hav wondered how we scaled a six foot fence [size=15pt]in the face of impending danger[/size]. well it is the work of adrenaline,ur flight,fright or fight response hormone and in the case of this young man,he just responded the way his rage hormones pushed him as it surged through his body.

never be hypocritical about a situation you hav never been in cos u never can say what you would do in the face of extreme provocation and women can be extremely provocative especially the really pretty ones.

Thank you sir. . .

Now kindly point out to me the danger he was in after she smashed his phone on the ground, and not on his face. . .

Nairaland Mods why the hell did they change the title?    

That's the most befitting title. . . If she had not smashed the BB, he wouldn't have beaten her. So he actually beat her over a phone!

@killz

man, my boss's wife, years ago called him when it was late and he was still not back from work,  but the fone was off, out of anger she opened his wardrobe and set it on fire, the fire then expanded to the entire room and whole house at last.
now tell me WHAT was the gravity?
listen man, some women are absolutely brainsick.

I know a guy whose wife killed with a pestle in a domestic argument. I know another whose wife smashed all his car windscreens while shocked neighbours stood and watched the show of horror. Yet another one was doused with acid by his wife while he was sleeping here in Abuja last year. What do we call that?

That is gross insanity of the first degree.

Women need to know their limits. Honestly. The OP walked away and the woman still went to cause more aggravation.  

I always say that the 2 things that'll make me end a marital relationship is
Infidelity
Threat to my life.
Now, there was no threat to his life now, was there? Who said he walked away? He walked away and he was pinging in her presence? Do you know what that means in a relationship? Do you know the gravity of what they were discussing? The importance? This guy told a one sided story. Walking away from her entails walking away from the scene of the incident. She obviously smashed that phone because he ignored her in that manner.

If it was his mum or his sister that smashed his phone, would he beat them up? Are they not women too? Look, let's call a spade a spade. People no longer value women and believe they should be treated anyhow. That girl was nothing more than a sex object to him. If you love someone, you don't beat them to satisfaction.

I ask again, can you value an inanimate object above a human life?

C'mon man its just a damn birthday. Maybe they meet over the internet and got married in 2 months lol. U never know

How long they dated and where they met is inconsequential at this moment. They were happy with each other and got married. This aint no common bf/gf relationship, this is something serious. It shows a lack of value for his wife. . .

Bro, what if it was "her?"