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Millenniumlady:
Buying singlet on birthday is an insult things rolex and airmax is what i can buy for a man that spend on me.

nice one wont mind spoiling her with designers and gadgets as well, I would love to go higher than what I received a bit

Millenniumlady:
So you mean you can't take care of the needs of your girlfriend

I would definitely but won't tolerate the idea of self entitlement plus the relationship must be symbiotic, you can't buy me singlet on my birthday when you can afford something better and expect me to by you quality wears, I would surely buy something equivalent or nothing

Millenniumlady:
Even if you have a well paying job he needs to be giving you monthly income to take care of your needs and he should at least buy you some wears or shoes when coming it's the responsible of a man to do this things i love and respect a guy that spend on me and pamper me.......The truth is....i can never take a guy who don't spend on me serious and I'll block his every access to me.......I'm just saying my mind

monthly income ko concoction ni, guys if you have a girl with this mentality japa she is not worth the stress

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

I agree he might be a lil bit stingy, talk to him about it and let him know you can't settle down with him if he persist, tell him to ease up a bit.

But come o u asked him to lend you some money not give, he is meant to collect it back if na me be the guy I go ask fa I am sorry that is not stinginess

Adakintroy2:
That guy came to her as a stranger. But truth was that he was not.he blind side her. He already knew her.

Meaning he will leverage on certain aspect of that to gain access to her person. It's not fair to call himself a stranger. That said love is love. It was the guy that claim love. And live don't just summit..unless it's weak version like.

ogori ma hia mofo o, he is the weaker vessel niyen make e continu

backnbeta:
Buhari won't change because some people are still applauding his failure, all because of greed. I blame the noise makers donating to the government, they know the donations will be looted, but they care more about the publicity than accountability

it is just a show off of solidarity to the government and not the people except Adeleke n very few

NaijaRoyalty:
https://punchng.com/ive-fears-covid-19-funds-will-be-looted-olaniyan/

before nko

onatisi:
This lockdown lockdown they are shouting all over will eventually end in chaos . It is absolutely insane to lockdown ppl in their houses for 2 weeks without providing them any food and expect them not to react.
Even the countries that started this lockdown method didn't do it this way, they are providing daily food to everyone and during the lockdown,they are going into every house testing everyone.
We are just telling ppl to lockdown , we are not testing them to know who and who is infected?
What the fg should have done is to close all schools ,give workers both state and federal workers 4 weeks break with double pay, ask all non essential private business to close for the same period , this will automatically reduce movement by 50% , give food markets 8hrs period to open every day. And establish testing centers in all wards and local government areas ,.TESTING IS THE KEY TO DEFEATING CORONA VIRUS NOT LOCKDOWN . the more you get ppl tested, the more you will understand and know what to do.

lock down is okay i dont see reason why they cant go from house to house and test people, as well as providing some money which should be credited in our various accounts and food stuffs probably weekly and it should be general including the rural areas and creeks with that done sort out the infected, have them treated put an end to it in the country, shut down ports of entry and border and let economic activities resume, let's bounce back, they should have it in mind that the palliative is not for ever maximum a month or two

Adakintroy2:
Tell her you were the guy chatting her you add a new twist to everything. You were probably too boring or sleepy for her anyway.

Women love twist. Play around it. But you not going anywhere. You already said you going to see her parents and that's it. Now she know anywhere she goes you will find her. That's love.

you better don't follow this advice, bro you are the one dating her she is not dating you, telling her all that would make her upgrade her cheating skills it is better u dont her when you have your chance

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

always have a plan B and switch up on her when it's time and you have satisfied yourself, it works

YorubaMyKids:
Speak English..

why mention IGBOS ?

what are you saying olodo oshi

Unintelligible questions

YorubaMyKids:
What has Igbo people done to you efulefu Afonja betrayer?? ??

oga u don collect? prove werey wo niyen abi it is only Abuja that has poor masses, they have how bvn they should do the needful, and moreover if this aidio money is real dont expect it would be distributed fairly awon werey kon go still pack keep for themselves when they know fully well that they are sufficient

aimuan:
Ghana did not share anything. Pls be constrictive in your criticism.

are we in Ghana, what is their GDP and External generated revenue stop the comparison, if they make half or have half of what we have, I am pretty sure by now they would be self sufficient, but Nigeria opposite is the case, one family would steal billions of dollars and even the little that is suppose to get to the masses would be ambushed by those greedy politicians

Oracle23:
It's just like 3 cups of rice n 3 cups of beans with N70 bread.

Calculate again.

my calculations were inaccurate

Credit our account simple 10k or 15k simple let's sort things out ourselves, when l saw the bag i was like that is a quater bag of rice not knowing it is one congo of rice, garri and 70 naira bread #2,070, i wonder if they would welcome the same kind gesture if they are in our shoes unfortunately how long will it last

emmangrace:
The problem is that FG cannot be trusted. Ghost citizens and imaginary poor take greater percentage. The unemployed are not included in their list.

BVN dey we all pay tax and we all are not northerners

In Nigeria the gvt would go against such saying no money but mention roburst allowance and billion naira cars for the members of the house the money would surely crawl out thieves

Some people need deliverance, it irritates

Try this with a naija girl
She would start thinking it's because u want to
knack
Next thing billing starts, send me recharge card is their motto

Most ladies I know have this ideology of your money is our money, my money is my money and all financial responsibility must be taken by their husband/man, then I would normally ask what would you be doing with your own money then they go ballistic on me, women?

emmanuelewumi:
Make sure your wife doesn't have a job , business or make any money by her self.

A man who was 100% responsible for his family, wife and for his in-laws, almost committed suicide when he found out that his wife who never contributed a dime to the home front has built 2 houses in Lagos, when the husband doesn't have a single house and still struggling to pay rent.

When the family and the pastor intervened on the matter, she later agreed to change the title of the property to her children's names. And started using the rental income from the two properties to assist in the home front

mehd oooo

MrBrownJay1:
in this age of woman being intelligent and educated, of course they will... unless of course you are talking about useless good for nothing slay queen that have nothing to offer a man but a warm coochie.
REMEMBER a man may be broke AFTER paying the rent/bills/food etc and that certainly does not make him a poor dude....far from it!



i dont believe it is... it only is in Africa/Nigeria etc where marriage is a do or die mission. thus many are marrying donkeys not because they want to spend the rest of their natural life with their loved one, BUT SIMPLY BECAUSE thats what society/family/religion/friends etc demands of them.

there should be no overcalculation here... you find someone, she ticks all the natural foundation/character/desire that you need in a mate, and you you guys settle to spend the rest of your lives together. having a job is irrelevant, so long as she is intelligent/educated and actively seeking for employment.

i am not marrued and not close to that yet but what i have observed is if she compliments that intelligence and education with some quality skills that she could make money from job is fine but nothing beats skills matters

It is well

This was how my case looks like had issue with my card complained to the bank online customer care only to be called at the time the bank chose to reach me details collected more than 55k fiam from my account, the funny thing is i fell for it cos they knew my bvn, full name, date of birth etc how did the they get my info? is still a mistery I am sure there is a lesk somewhere and they minitored my acct, still hoping to have my money retrieved...

Bsd Reached out to

Police reply goan bring 16k

EFCC reply we don't handle cases that is not up to 5million

Right now I am hoping the bank would help retrieve

Op: Ask the bank to investigate

To avoid things like this in future stop using debit card, if you still have one disconnect from your account, stop using the sim you use to receive alart for other things infact keep it in your house, if i had known all these earlier i wouldn't be complaining now

To make the matter worse Unilorin don join strike Mr Age VC na bad market that man just spoil Unilorin selling point lawd y

They keep devaluing naira what's this peoples' problem no common sense only economic analysis that would later backfire disgruntled animals

This days most people don't have common sense to differentiate between religion and culture not a single atom of common sense

obailala:
Buhari is battling with his health currently, that's why you hardly see him in publoc. He would probably not be alive for long after leaving office. This one is a problem for future Nigerians.

He won't die ijn he must be alive to witness another party rule Nig and probe his gvt, I would live long infact must live long

obailala:
Hmmmm.... $22.7bn... Obviously Lawan used his powers as oga here to mussle every dissenting voice; he forcefully approved this loan request single handedly.

IF the money is juduciously used for it's intended purpose, then it wouldnt be a bad idea borrowing, but anything else, Nigeria is in serious trouble.

above all no plans on ground to pay back, I sha know that one day buhari would leave the gvt and his immunity would be scrapped then fowl yansh go open

Seeing how other senators kept mute especially senators from the south is worrisome, he made it clear the provision for the request of the loan is lopsided to one part of the country and instead of speaking out some were murmuring others remained mute, lawd

Kekereekun123:
More trekking more fitness. In VI today i saw many people trekking

lol