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From what i just read, you have just one problem and that problem is Low Self-esteem.

Stop focusing on things you can't change. No matter how you whine from now till eternity, you will not become 'fat' or 'short and muscular'.

Never talk down on yourself no matter what. Love thyself!

SpencerForbes:
The craziest part is that you’re actually a senior member of this thread. You’re supposed to be the one educating the young ones, yet look at the Bluepill trash you’re typing here. It’s a total disgrace to the brotherhood.

All the Redpills you’ve been swallowing since, it’s like you’ve been flushing them down the toilet. Or are you just cherry-picking the ones that favor your simping tendencies and leaving the rest? You’re moving like a total amateur.

I don't think this is necessary. There is no 'senior' or 'junior' in this game.

At any point anybody can mess up but what really matters is you realising your mistakes and seeking help from like-minded people.

Nice one ...you got me with your post title. I'll try checking the book out.

This is powerful! I always look forward to your threads

Streak47:
I have a question for the veterans in the house. They will have many experiences in the game. Good and Bad.

Has anyone been in a situation where you entrust your business and monies with a girl you have had something with either currently or actively smashing(situationships). For example, a sales girl.

How did it turn out with finances & other aspects. Is it advisable?

I won't advise this tho. Remember, don't shit where you eat.

There is this familiarity that comes with having sex with a girl and as they say familiarity breeds contempt. You won't be able to correct her as a 'boss' should and that is when see finish will enter then you are finished.

Pukkalolo:
The main problem with the modern man is that he doesn't truly understand the ruthless nature of females.

And because of that, he keeps getting played, used, and heartbroken… over and over again.

One of the most bitter truths about female nature is this:

A woman’s ego doesn’t crave love. She craves power over the man.

You see, brothers, the female ego wants power over you.

When she bills you, shames you or threatens to dump you, she’s trying to dominate you emotionally. When she praises you, it’s not always admiration… It's often a strategy. Flattery is the softest form of control.

Naija women are out here playing and manipulating the typical naija guy from day one…. because naija guys don’t realize for women...it about power, not love.

Women have deceived men that they need to spend money to get sex. But that’s the female ego deceiving men, and most men are submitting to the female ego.

You don’t win women's hearts by submitting. You win by challenging the female ego.

In the garden of Eden, the serpent understands this. This was why he didn’t seduce Eve with sweetness or compliments.

He didn’t sell her the fruit: he sold her the illusion of power. He told her: “Eat this… and you’ll be like God.”

He wasn’t flattering her. He was activating something deeper. It was never about the fruit. It was about giving her something to wonder about.

That was the real seduction.

Master seducers, pimps, cult leaders, expert marketers... they use the same blueprint today.

More importantly, this is how veteran pimps persuades beautiful girls to start hookup(prostitution), sleep with simp and then the money to the love-vendor.

A pimps doesn’t walk up to a pretty girl and say, “You’re beautiful and special.”

That’s what simp does. Simp flatters. A pimps doesn’t flatter: he provokes.

A pimps looks her dead in the eye and says:

“You say you love designer heels and Brazilian wigs? But you’re still chilling with those broke mumu boys who can’t even buy you puff-puff?”

“I see a star in you… But how can you become that star when you’re still living off your mama and washing plates in her kitchen?”

Every sentence is a seductive challenge to her ego.

Because the pimps knows what most men don’t:

The female ego doesn’t crave love. It craves power and becoming “more.”

And the pimps established himself as the bridge to that “more” the female ego crave.

That’s the real game. Not gifts. Not validation. Not playing Mr Nice guy.

Just Challenge her and make her Wonder.

That’s why Eve ate the fruit. Not because she was hungry. Not because it was juicy.

But because the serpent made her wonder what it would feel like… to rise… to transform… to become like God.

You see brothers, women don't want peace or perfection. The garden was perfect. Peaceful. Safe.

The female nature doesn’t want peace.
She wants challenge… she want something to wonder about.

This is why:

– You treat her like a queen, and she still cheats.

– You give her money, comfort, security… and she still leaves.

– You try to make her happy… and she still breaks your heart.

Because peace bores naija women. She wants to worry. She wants to wonder. She wants “more”

This is why you can never satisfy the typical naija woman. She’s wired to chase "more."

And that’s why even the Garden of Eden wasn’t enough.

The serpent didn’t need muscles. He didn’t need money. He just gave her something to wonder about. “Eat this… and see what it’s like to become like God.”

And that one sentence cracked the foundation of paradise. Then Eve started wondering what it would be like to be God.

That's the female ego for you. It want power and dominion. That's the Sapent nature too.

The female ego is ruthless to the nice guy... Because the nice guy gives her power on a platter of gold. He show her love, peace, devotion, and she cheat on him and dump him.

But the man who challenges her, who gives her a puzzle to solve...she follows him.

The serpent knew it.

The pimps lives by it.

And as a Man, if you’re smart, you’ll stop trying to make women happy. And start challenging their ego and make them wonder.

Preach sir, preach!

SpencerForbes:
Last week, I played a prank on my babe by using someone’s else pics to chat her on TikTok. She always leaves my messages unread cos of TikTok. The moment I told her I really like her and I asked her if I could ask her a question. She started narrating her life story to me. Telling me where she lives and where she’s from. Then I told her I want to date her, she asked really?

You don't have a girlfriend sir.

muyico:
??
It's part of 10 commandments
We shouldn't dye our hairs?

What then seperates christians from unbelievers? They dye their hair, we dye ours. They listen to afrobeats and now i'm hearing there's something called 'Afro-gospel'.

What are your thoughts about thi song 'No Turning Back' by Gaise Baba and Lawrence Oyor. Is it Christ-like? Because looking at the artist, Gaise Baba, he has a dyed hair and is still allowed to perform in churches, hmm.

What's your take on this?

Seun, Mynd44, Nlfpmod

jayAjoku:
A woman that does not like or want you will exhibit the following characteristics.
1) she will resist you and your attempts
2) she will give you a lot of excuses as to why she cannot meet up with you or have sex
3) she will start billing you or asking you for unnecessary favors
4) she will ignore your texts and calls or she will take a really long time to respond to you
5) she will not follow your instructions
6) she will begin telling you about how you should treat her or how she expects you to treat her.
simply put a woman that does not like you will show you several signs of disinterest and disrespect when you see any of these signs do not misinterpret them any other way other than disinterest. leave them alone and go find more women

Yes! And i feel like most guys know when a woman is not interested in them but they think they have the "game" or ability to change her mind.

Men, a woman who is interested in you will make it obvious, very obvious. They may not necessarily approach you but they will give you signs that even if you are a novice you will know they are interested.

If you are confused whether a particular girl likes you, she's behaving hot and cold, then i don't think she's feeling you like that. She may be trying to get you to chase, don't!

How much?

Why did i say the above?

They say men are logical but i strongly defer.


Few months ago, Senator Natasha accused the Senate President, Akpabio of sexually harrassing her without a single evidence, either a whatsapp voice note, pictures or even a single screenshot of call history. 8ut i saw "logical" men screaming he (Akpabio) is guilty without even a simgle evidence. How do we expect to fight against false rape accusations then?

Don't get me wrong. If i should see/had seen credible evidence from Senator Natasha, i'll have been at the forefront screaming "Crucify him!" but not a single evidence yet he's guilty.


We can do better.


Seun, Nlfpmod

Pukkalolo:
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.

I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.

Here it is:

Attraction is predetermined.

Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”

Let that sink in.

When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.

And how you respond determines everything.

Green Light = She’s Into You

She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you.

Red Light = She’s Not Into You

She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.

Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life.

Yellow Light = The Test Zone

When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.

Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.

Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”

I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)

Anyways,

There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots.

Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”

This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.

She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…

This is where the weak crumble.

Nice Guy Reaction:

The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.

Girl: “I only date tall guys”

Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”

He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed.

RedPill-Junkie Reaction

If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…

For example:

Girl: “You are short ”

Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”

Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed.

High-Value Man Response

A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.

For example:

Girl: “You are short”

High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”

He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more.


Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”

This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…

With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used.

Nice Guy Response

Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.

Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”

Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”

Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval.

Redpill-Junkie Response

He would want to show how alpha he his…

Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”

Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”

She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?

But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex

That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more…

High-Value Man Response

A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.

Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”

High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”...

This is da bomb! Thanks for this.

ednut1:
almost all the ipob guys killed had juju on their body. It failed. Anambra recently arrested a babalawo that was also kidnapped last year. His juju should have made him vanish. Its all a scam juju no dey work

The real native doctors are not on social media. That one is just a content creator.

Facts!

Nice post as usual.

They don't care about what you did for them. I have experienced this first hand .

All these Japa Crew you people are funny .

So if you travel out and start earning in dollars or the higest currency in the world, do you think you will spend in naira or that same currency? Is that not the same as staying in Nigeria?

Y'all think there are jobs waiting for you over there that will pay you $5000 per month, Lol .

Pukkalolo:
As a Man, never express interest in a woman in a way that put her on pedestal.

That's suicide. It naturally put you in a weak position.

Instead express your interest in her in a way that put YOU on pedestal instead. Even if that makes you look like a cocky asshole. It's still Awesome. You're the MAN. [/b]It naturally put you in a more stronger position.

Example of expressing interest in a girl:

[b]Other guys : I like you so much girl. I want us to hangout.

Pukka : I’m very sure you'd love to hangout with me. I can see that in your eyes.


The other guys are already putting her on pedestal. But I am doing the opposite. I'm putting myself on pedestal.

Welcome back boss.

The site: https://niggrid.org/DisCoLoadProfile for monitoring Disco load has become unavailable or has being taken down.

Are you sensing something fishy is going on?

Nlfpmod, Mynd44, Seun

fitinwell:
Strong men now drain transformer oil and steal armoured transformer theft is now rampant .., around here

Where are you located?

What is the situation of light in your area now. Has light been restored?

heironymos:
...So guys looking at all this criteria who do u think I should pick based on ur analysis...cos left to me I will pick both... but girl B is not open to me exploring other hoes while girl a is comfortable with it as long as she wears the title of main girl or wife...so at a point in time I will have to choose 1 who may that be it's really tough for me cos they are both good girls and adhere to my authority... I await ur comments... thanks.

Left to me, none.
Girl A: You said you 'vetted' her and confirmed her body count to be two, lol!

Since scientists have not created a mchine to test pussy mileage, you can never know the true body count of a lady forget all the bullsh!t they tell you.

Also, she cheated on you by giving another guy the chance, in this case you since you did it with a fake profile. Red flag!
This is the one you know of, what of other ones? And remember, she's not remorseful she cheated, she's only remorseful she was caught.

Girl B: no genuine desrire for you. A girl giving you conditions before sex like marriage under the guise of being a virgin, is not sexually attracted to you. Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi to understand the concept of genuine desire.

There are billions of women to choose from. Forget the two.

Also read Top G dating secret by Pukkalolo and you'll see the missing parts in your game

Rizzputin:
By simping, acting nice, needy and not building sexual tension with a woman.

Once you do this, you've landed in the friend zone.

One of the biggest signs of friendzone is she resists your sexual advances or any opportunities that could potentially create a sexual occurrence to happen

Thank you boss, i appreciate.

Pukkalolo:
That makes sense bro... But there's a little thing missing.

The truth is,

A woman actually has to feel like she can own you or else she'll not be inspired to chase you.

Just chill let me explain.

Remember, Men are naturally superior to women. Women are subconsciously scared of men because men are naturally more superior, smarter and physically stronger than women. Plus the world is dangerous place, so she needs the love and care of a strong man to survive this dangerous world.

This is why the number one thing women look out for is safety. Every qualities a guy possesses like confidence, leadership, richness, physical strength, dominance and so on... They all tie down to helping a woman feel safe in this dangerous world.

For a woman to feel secure and safe with you she has to feel like she owns you or she can own you.

If a woman feel likes she can't own you, then you're dangerous to her. It's actually scary to her. She demonstrate this fear by either criticizing you or staying away from you in general.

This is why women criticized mgtow or (even the redpill community) because women feel like they can't own this set of men, so they feel unsafe with them...

So in summary, if a woman feels like she can't own you, it's dangerous for her. So she might hate you as a result of that.

But wait....

If a woman feels like she owns you, it's dangerous for YOU as a man.

Just like you said AlphaNugget, " Women with this mindset always stray."

This relates to the question I was recently asked about being in the "Friend zoned"

The truth is,

The woman actually feel safe with the nice "available" guy because she feels she has own him, but she's BORED because she feels she owned him EASILY. This is why she friend zoned him; he's no longer a challenge. It was too easy for her. So she tells him, "let's just be friends."

"Let's just be friends" = You are weak, I owned you easily.

This is also why women get bored in marriage. She feels she has already own the man. Nothing to fight for anymore.

My own honest solution is,

Let her feel like she can own you only if she can continuously prove herself to you..


Most guys here think that a woman is more attracted to a guy when she see that other women want him. WRONG!

It's not attraction is just safety.

Preselection only create safety and comfortableness NOT attraction.

Attraction can't be created. It's either there or not. Only safety(comfortableness) can be created.

This is why you always see me talk about sexual comfortableness.

A woman feels more safe and comfortable with you when she feels that other women wants you. She subconscious thinks, "if these other girls wants him, then I guess it's safe for me to mate with him."

Let her feel like she can own you ONLY if she prove herself to you constantly.

Look at this 3 guys. The nice guy, the Asshole guy, and the Confident guy.

See a simple basic example:

Nice guy: "I like you, i want to be with you."

Woman: Oh, really. ( She feels she has own him already. Now she's BORED. And she easily stray away.... She Friend zone him.)

************

The Asshole guy: "I don't like you, Bleep you"

Woman: "To hell with you too. I don't like you too." (She doesn't own him, and she feels she can't own him. So she doesn't feel safe with him. So she blocks him out of her life)

**************

The confident guy: "I kinda like you, but there's something about you I'm still not of sure of yet."

Woman: "Really, what's that's? Tell me" (She doesn't own him, but she's intrigued. She feels she can own him if she clear the doubt he has about her. He's a challenge.)

The idea remains:
Let her feel like she can own you only if she can prove herself to you....

And even when she finally owns you (that is when you decide to commit to her), let her feel like she can lose you if she stop proving herself to you.


Stay blessed brothers.

Thanks boss for this, welcome back.

Good afternoon bosses i the house.

I want to ask a very important question.
How do you get friend-zoned and what are the signs to know you are in the friendzone?

I will appreciate your replies, thanks.

Who blurred the most important part of the video?

YOU ALMOST RUINED NIGERIA WITH YOUR FAKE NEWS!

Precious.