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IAmHim1:
The complaints of modern men in relationships never change: " I provided for her, made sure she didn't lack anything- MADE HER HAPPY, yet I caught her in bed with that nobody of a guy"


MAGNIFYING YOUR VIEWPOINT:

Now ask yourself this question: between the choice of a man with an adams oshiomole physical attributes but is hardworking, intelligent and understanding VS a man with Idris elba's physical attributes but is lazy, speaks unintelligibly and lacks understanding of anything even as simple as ABCs, who do you think the girl will settle for to oil her engines?

GIRLS MAKES RULES FOR GUYS THEY DON'T LIKE BUT BREAK RULES FOR GUYS THEY LIKE

where LIKE= sexually attracted and LOVE= financially attracted

if she's not sexually attracted to you from the very start, she'll have a long list of attributes she looks forward to you having AS A MEANS TO CONPENSATE FOR YOUR LACK OF GOOD LOOKS but whenever a girl is sexually attracted to you, all rules are thrown out the window - her list of what an ideal man should be basically unwrites itself

sexual Attraction cums first for any relationship...since men love sex and women are in control of sex, SEXUAL ATTRACTION CUMS FIRST FOR ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP ON THE PART OF THE WOMAN ie not you being sexually attracted to her but her being sexually attracted to you cus if she doesn't like you, she won't open her legs without a list of demands for you to meet first

For ANY sexual relationship, sexual Attraction cums first, just the same way for ANY business relationship, trust must come first


Guys using money to get women for SHORT-TIME SEX are playing the game wrong. Guys using pickup lines for every girl they come across falls into this category also

Your pick-up lines and any attempt to "appear hip" will just be mental masturbation to a girl that doesn't like you...same way you shape her view of you by spending your hard earned money on her knowing fully well she doesn't like you -- a beta provider

For context, refer to ubunjas work: CHOSEN/GAME OF EMOTIONS and BENEE1000 work: "The costly mistake many men make when choosing a marriage partner"

Good luck!

odenkirk:
give me your number i will add you to the whatsapp group

luvyaself95:
Your reason or plan for posting all these can't work on us okay.
You should posting all these nonsense.

saphiere:
Nigeria will fair better under the leadership of a woman.

NACE13:
Yes, he is.
I wonder where he is now though.

To some, he is a hero. To a few, he is a Misogynistic maniac but to all, he is a Legend!

RedAlert08:
Which one be ubunja again?

NACE13:
My last 3 relationship/situationship I ghosted them all. I don't need to be told before I can read their intentions.
One tried it and came back to beg. I asked her, "If Bobo didn't break your heart, would you have thought about coming back?". She was all about the lies and shii- Telling me she was with another guy while thinking about me and it was obvious she wasn't over me, that's why the other Bobo broke things off with her.

The next one stood me up when I had already made plans for our dinner date. She didn't even call to apologize. I just deleted her number straight and cut communication. She called and called, sent me multiple texts. I just replied her with "I am busy, I'll talk to you later".

The one that just ended this year, I was noticing some funny tones and behaviours when we talk on phone. She hardly replied my texts, always telling me about guys wooing her just to fill her ego-meter and trying to make me feel jealous. I just shook my head and smiled to myself. I just went "Willy-Willy" mode on her. She got the message after calling me a few times and I was cold in my replies. Told me she missed me, wanna hear my voice and I was like "Oh, really? OK, you've heard it,are you OK now?".

I learnt to smell their BS from a mile away and take off before they even realise I'm gone. They most times come back if they notice that you don't really give a damn.
I'm not a redpiller but I learnt a thing or two from Ubunja

Kipaji:
This is one of the key reasons I left the redpill. It teaches men to be fake. I had to go months without sex/porn/masturbation/redpill to see that.

zenithgroup:
that is true, how ever been wealthy is a state of mind you don't have to own Cbn. Why do you think women fall for their PA, Driver? What ever a mind can conceive you can achieved.

zenithgroup:
AWALT, YES.
But getting involved with the likes of dangotes daughters is well calculated risk.
She must be ready to follow you up or she'll drag you down.

zenithgroup:
All this she doesn't call me back!
Entitled mentality!
Indecisive attitudes!
Double dating!
Recalcitrant attitudes!
Ungrateful attitudes!
Unyielding behaviour!
Stubborn head!
Paternity fraud!

All dis are epitomise of broke ass ladies...

KingDash09:
The boy for lockup
As long as say him get the money him for they play her instead of her to dey play am

E no wise

shortgun:
Do you think the way he talked to her was appropriate? There are a million ways he would have handled that situation.

shortgun:
Did you see the chat he posted between him and the girl?
His hostilities towards the girl was unnecessary, childish and out of place.

shortgun:
You fu*ked up guy.
I read your post that made fp and I was not impressed.
You wronged that girl but the deed is already done.
Hit me up whenever you have a new girl in your life, I'll mentor you for free

SangoOlukosoOba:
Looks like Ned Nwoko