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Rillycool:
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Am i the only one that saw fellowship leader?

FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Dey play. When see finish enter, that's when you will understand.
Women want to rely on their man NOT to be relied on.

What you typed looks good on paper but is not the reality.

Ballzproblem2:
These women will cough $1111 for pics but won't share bills with a man on date ,lol that gender don't give a Bleep.

You think it's their money? It's a man's money; either their boyfriend or husband.
Women are very smart.

Nice work. You've got great designs.
Check your whatsapp.

flokii:
What if the girl is SU, no ear rings, no makeup?.

Triple the condom. They are the worst.

No light in Kaduna up till now.

So, are you still a virgin?

Nice one. They should feel a little of what we are suffering.

No. She won't marry me if don't have money.

illicit:
Search for COWAY

A Korean company that makes and sells purifiers

About 1.4 million or so

1.4 million naira or kobo?
Is it a water purifier or a soul purifier?

Pukkalolo:
The truth is,

The bad boy knows how to generate genuine attraction from women. Or we can say, the bad boy knows how to sell his personality and sexuality to women..

Let me explain...

If you remember I once said that the typical young woman have three products she sells: her personality, her accomplishment, her sexuality.

But she's mainly marketing and advertising her sexuality because that's what most men focus on.

A man too have three products he sells: his personality, his sexuality, his accomplishment.

But the Man mostly market and advertise his accomplishment more because he think that'll impress the woman. And it's for that same reason a lot of men get used and exploited by women.

A while back, my former big boss I used to work with invited me to his birthday bash party on the island... In the venue I was chilling with these two guys; these guys were sharing with me their personal experience on how most girls are gold diggers and are only looking to chop a man's money.

I just nodded my head in agreement while listening to them.

Soon, two ladies got in proximity with us, so we started socializing with them.

Now here comes the interesting part...

One of the guy started adjusting his shirt so that the ladies will see the expensive gold necklace he was putting on. He also started intentionally flaunting his new latest iPhone.

The other guy immediately started telling one of the ladies that he just finished from law school and how he's now the youngest lawyer in his home town.

I shaked my head in disappointment.... In my mind, I was like, "you guys got to be kidding me! Wasn't not these same guys that said that most girls are gold diggers and only just wanna chop a guy's money....now these same guys are the ones showcasing their accomplishment to these girls"

The guy's expensive gold necklace and latest iPhone are forms of accomplishment and the other guy's law degree is also an accomplishment.

The lady, after hearing the guy brag is the youngest lawyer in town, she noticed how unconcerned I was, so she turned and asked me what I do (for a living). I told her, "I give women maximum pleasure."

After saying that, I winked at her. She smiled and said, "common, be serious... What are you into"

I said, "If I tell you what I do, you are gonna be surprised.. but I'll leave you to figure that out by yourself."

Damn!!! Permission to steal this line...

So she gave birth to a chameleon? This one that the baby's look changes overtime.

It looks fake though. It's looking like a bad mockup done by an amatuer graphic designer.

Pukkalolo:
God bless you for this.

Masturbation is a temporary solution to a long term problem.

When a typical dude feel low self-esteem or feel an emotional pain/stress, he grab a quick drug to "escape" that pain.

Masturbation is a dangerous drug.

A drug like masturbation will probably relieve you off the emotional pain while the jerking off is in session, but once you spill your semen, you are immediately back to that emotional pain, and your self-confidence get lower.

So you masturbate again to escape the emotional pain, but once you spill your semen, you are back to the emotional pain again, and of course your confidence diminish further.

Then you masturbate again to escape the pain.... The cycle continues....

The attempt to run away from pain through constant masturbation creates more long-term pain.

One thing guys don't realize is, masturbation is a drug that weakens your MASCULINITY. It makes you WEAK, TIRED, WATERY, NON-CONFIDENT.


The simple act of withdrawing from masturbation does this one thing for you:

It increases your CONFIDENCE, TESTOSTERONE and ENERGY.

Because your confidence and testosterone increase, you have the boldness and motivation to go out and find a real girl rather than jerking off to porn.

And,

Because you are not spilling your energy/semen to porn, you have more energy to channel to more positive/productive things that will add value to your life in the long run.

Facts upon facts!!!

Please drop some nuggets for the boys. It's been long

I was once like you until i started following my boss here on Nairaland, Pukkalolo. Search for his profile and go through all topics and posts there.

Start talking to a girl or two everyday. A little hello would do.
From there, you graduate to asking for their names.

It's hard i know but its worth it.

And buy his book too.

Kaido:
97.19% of Nigerian ladies are into prostitution.

They will fvck you to buy a wig, fvck another nigga to buy a clothes, suck numerous sizes and shapes of cocks to start a business, they can even allow borisksy to drill their asssholes.

I pity men wey dey marry hookup b!tches.


Spits.

If she no f#ck oh
If she no suck
Who go pay for her wig and handbag

qbqetell:
Because that's the key to unlocking consistent mental clarity, unless you have an endless supply of healthy women, which 90% of men do not have.

It is incredibly hard to stay true to RedPill teachings consistently if you're always Hot.
You may try. You may build systems to discourage yourself, but eventually you'd do it again. And even if you don't, you would find yourself simping sooner or later.

Just like other topics society frowns upon, this is another Redpill, actually a critical one required to reach the peak of Redpill spirituality. You can't claim to be redpilled, and say you only want to take the most comfortable of the pills.

Condemning masturbation is denying sexual tension.
But no matter how much you deny it, nature would always prevail.
You are better off finding a way to work with nature, than trying to fight it.

Masturbation is never the solution.

So you masturbate when hot; when the urge comes again (it always does), you still masturbate? Lol!

You are not still different from simps that are still slaves to sex.

Read this on the side effects of masturbation:
https://www.nairaland.com/6545375/been-masturbating-since-19-now
https://www.nairaland.com/4115226/learn-me-masturbation-ruins-life

Masturbation is a temporary solution to a long-term problem.

qbqetell:
These references say nothing tangible about what I posted.

What I see in the above articles is a guy sharing his Journey on how he quit masturbation. I don't see how that counters my argument? Was your post just a knee-jerk reaction from your brainwashing, or do you really have something to say?

The guy masturbated for pleasure, which I spoke against. Did you not read that?

Maybe it's a good thing to quit, for someone in his position, but how good has the quality of his decisions been as regards women.

Some of you are always eager to condemn masturbation, but hardly with logical reasons. The same people who condemn masturbation are the same ones who SIMP for every woman they interact with. Will Smith was also a strong advocate against masturbation, yet look at him. You guys are the ones your wives beat down like dogs, but think you are qualified to voice opinions.

Masturbation is for losers.

Why advocating for masturbation on a redpill thread? Why not self-control?

qbqetell:
Don't Masturbate: A Dogma from People You Least Want to Emulate

The saying, "Don't Masturbate", is a saying you must have heard by now. On this thread, there are countless instances. On YouTube, there are countless instances. Your pastor and imams must have also promised all masturbators hell. I could go on, but you get the gist.

Like many of you, I stayed away from this act for almost as long as I have been alive. I didn't want that disdainful look if I was ever known to be a masturbator, I stayed away from it. Many of us can't understand why it is wrong, but we all just stay away from it, to avoid disdain from society.

If you ask the people who espouse the idea, "Why is masturbation wrong?", you'd get one of the following answers:

1: God Frows At It
Holier-than-thous can't wait to espouse how their religion is against masturbation, yet they are never able to provide a reference in any of their Holy books.

Your pastor would say masturbators are going to hell, but if you ask for a reference in the bible, he would ask what authority you have to question him. In fact, you may become a scapegoat and an outcast in your church.

2: It Would Destroy You
This is another bullshit. You will see why I said this...

Bullshit!!!

Read this:
https://www.nairaland.com/7995872/how-tricked-myself-never-masturbate
https://www.nairaland.com/7977487/see-reason-why-cant-stop

This woman's husband should do DNA test on their children. The way this woman has been ranting about DNA is suspicious.

Women cannot effectively train a male child. This one has finished himself.

Later they will say marriage is not an achievement.

Korra is a free giver. She should be the president of Freetown.

Nonexisting1:
Question 2.

$2, 000

He is the definition of A Real Man.

She brought her suger boy monk into her home.

writetopoker:
Check if your landlord is still ok, or he might coming begging for negotiations.

It looks like one of these landlords

The Landlord must be from Lagos.

Nigerian girls will see the ram and be like, "he's so cute..."

Pukkalolo:
That's a really interesting question....


It's because in those first couple of weeks she was either PRETENDING or she was
just UNAVAILABLE


Let's start with UNAVAILABLE.

In those first initial couple of weeks when she's not showing interest in the guy,

The typical guy with low self-esteem might say, it's because the dude is not handsome enough or he didn't shower her with enough cash...

The typical pua/game junkie might say, it's because he did or say something that mess things up or he didn't game or seduce her enough.


But they are both incorrect....

In reality, she might be UNAVAILABLE in those first couple of weeks.... What I mean by unavailable is that there's an external "barrier" preventing her from showing her attraction/interest for you.

Some Examples of those external barriers might be,

#1. She has an amazing boyfriend she was dating,
or #2. She has a guy she was already fucking and already satisfying her,
or #3. She was preparing for serious exam/interview that will change the course of her life and she doesn't want distraction,
or #4, She was obsessed with some other guy or ex-boyfriend,
or #5. She was just busy with something important going on in her life at that period,
or #6. Any other fucking reason.

If a girl is attracted to you but unavailable due to any of those external barriers I just listed or any other reasons, then you might find it difficult to move things forward with her even if you apply all the seduction and game in the world.... Those external barriers are out of your control...

But the moment the external barrier disappear, she will suddenly start showing you interest. For example, if her boyfriend cheat or start misbehaving on her, she will feel romantically lonely and want to connect with someone new. So, she'll check the list of her current toasters for the guy she's more attracted to, then she start showing interest in him.


In some occasions, a woman will be interested/attracted in you but will still reject you due to any of those external barriers. Some ladies have rejected me because they were UNAVAILABLE at that time, but few weeks later surprisingly they reconnect with me again because they were intrigued by my ultra confident and I-don't-give-Bleep behavior.

No girl will be inspired to reconnect with you if you interact with her in a needy-pussy focused manner unless she wants to exploit you.


So, she was already interested/attracted to you initially, but didn't show it because she might actually be unavailable at that period due to maybe any of one of those examples of external barrierr.

Yes, this is true with women, But if that's not the case with her, then she was just "pretending" those initial first couple of weeks.

That's leads to the next one: PRETENDING.

One thing you should understand about women is that they are natural expert pretenders. They do it in two ways,

#1. She pretend to be interested, but she's actually uninterested in you, This is the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't want you.

#2. She pretend she's uninterested but she's really attracted to you. This is one is just playing hard to get.

Let's first talk about the manipulators who just wants your attention but doesn't actually have interest in you:...

Nice post boss. Sorry i had to cut the rest to conserve space.

I have met a lot of these manipulators. They will be all vibes on whatsapp and call but the moment you request for meet-up, they ghost or decline.

That's one way i use to weed them out.

Someone said it's clitocurrency,

Skit.

Osiris12:
My mind just dey put Bryon long for the picture

Bryon Long na camera-man?