₦airaland Forum

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

Epic! Thanks for this boss.

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qtguru:
Always search for Nigerian Graphic designers on Upwork, do some research and see what your peers are doing, that will show you what to learn and what niche field to look into.

Ok, thanks

Depriest2020:
Suspension and every kobo retrieved. She would be scared not to try it again.

Seconded.

Depriest2020:
It has been the trend for politicians and political appointees to steal in Nigeria, it didn't start in her time neither would it stop after her time. Nigeria has chosen this part and it won't stop again.

So what are you now saying?

She should not be sacked or arrested because "it did not start in her time neither will it end in her time"?

Shey eye dey pain me?
Is this not the 'Gistlover' the Police arrested? Naija na cruise.

To avoid Main boyfriend coming over unexpectedly and seeing you there.



Kasala fit burst oh!

Good evening everyone.
As a graphic designer, is Upwork a good platform for me?

millie0:
Thanks for this.

No problem bro.

millie0:
Long Post Alert;

Please pardon the multiple grammatical errors and disorganization, i wrote this with difficulty in my heart. Please read it and advice me.
Hello everybody. Happy New Year.

I'm in a dilemma and I need help. I have been feeling down and almost depressed for the past few days.

There's this girl that I met in school last semester. I go to a university in the US. So, I met her in like September. It was a school event and someone introduced us together. She's mixed, Nigerian and Asian (blasian). She's also relatively tall and she's older than me. She'll be 22 this year and I just turned 19 a few days ago. but i told her i was 21 as well She's also noticeably taller than me. She was a first year student and I'm in a higher year...

Please can the bosses in the house give this post attention. I'll need the answers too.

She doesn't rate you.

The most useless lawmaker in the history of Nigeria.

Wike never forgives.

Don't worry, you will meet the men with "sense" in Shiloh 2050.

chariisGRACE:
If you have never been called wicked, stingy, heartless etc. by women...


You get massive job to do.

That's my second name now.

They'll be like, "...you have changed oh."

They don't know warris going on.

Anny69:
She said her opinion. She didn't tell the Canadian Embassy to stop issuing visa to Africans because I don't understand why y'all are crying.

Her opinion is hers. She should keep it to herself.

Why then is she in Canada?

Or is she the weapon fashioned against us?

Maybe you need honey

IAmHim1:
Yes boss

Walking away screams "I have more bitche$ in front n behind salivating to suck n choke"

And what I've noticed is there's a fine line between punishment and pleasure with ladies

A man may think punishing a woman by spanking her very hard or slapping her face would make her behave BUT that's just the opposite

She was waiting for that slap...she wanted that slap. The slap is a punishment and that punishment is her reality

"Doing it all just to feel things" as drake once said

Most ladies are fvcked internally. They see themselves as b1tches and want to be treated as such literally.

A man has to know his woman and KNOW EXACTLY WHAT SHE DOESN'T LIKE, THEN AMPLIFY IT AND USE IT AS HER PUNISHMENT when due

Unless he be UNKNOWINGLY reinforcing her image as a b1tch.

Imagine punishing a girl by kissing her and biting her lips till she bleeds?

Hello!

She cuts herself when you're not even watching. Her seeing her blood gives her dopamine hits...you just reinforced her behavior

Guess what she'll do in order to get you to bite her lips hard and make her bleed?

Exactly!

That same behavior THAT YOU DID NOT LIKE !

Nice one

Fake!
How will you tell.me someone makes millions of dollars on tiktok?
Dey play!

That's how witchcraft starts oh.

Vanity upon vanity.

Catarrh and pap?

EbolaTinubu:
NONSENSE noise
Most Nigerians don know good songs

Why don't you make a "good song" for us.

Bahamas95:
Vibrator should also buy them range rover, ice cream, shawarma, bone straight, iPhone etc.

Urgent 2k too

If she falls down, otilo!

Ghanian music is trash compared to Nigerian music.

When he wanted to do the surgery, did he tell me?

Now that it's time to face the consequence of your action you are telling me, to do what?

Make everybody just dey!

This guy is my role model