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pansophist:
Long distance relationship for men is basically responsibility without reciprocity. You are already investing resources in her but you might have been dumped without knowing until you don't have money to give anymore.

She wants to move to another state, which of course, you will be expected to bear the financial responsibilities in full or partially. If she stays there for years, you will be carrying her financial weight for years. What kind of stupid relationship is that? Are you okay?

As an analogy, a distance relationship is like entering Germany and being jailed immediately for five years, then deported back. You now started telling people that you lived in Germany for five years lol. Distance relationships for years have less value than physical relationships that last for months.

A man dating a lady for five years in the same city will have a qualitative, comprehensive, and real-time experience with her, unlike a man who dates her from far away, where he knows and experiences nothing about her, except what she tells him.

And with the temptations that permeate society, that an average lady is being toasted online, offline, in her dreams, etc, you just create a scenario where cheating on you is so easy, and at the same time, she gets rewarded for it, since you are bankrolling her from afar.

Distance relationships should only be tolerated when it's temporary, and also when you guys have been together for a long time, and better if you are married. But to allow yourself to be in a distance relationship as a man is been foolish, It doesn't benefit you at all.

akwesenana:
How much are we to pay for the registration?

Pukkalolo:
You're wrong bro.

This was my biggest limiting belief back then.

I used to think physical looks is all that matters. But I started meeting guys who are average looking like me and observing their behavior with women. I saw that despite their average looks, they seem to be scoring with girls.

I realized I got no excuses.

As long you don't look like a chimpanzee or Shrek, then your looks can not prevent you from getting with women.

Physical looks are important attraction switch for men, but with women, it’s only a part of the whole package. Yes, if you're tall and handsome, you will have it easier with girls....

But I will be brutally frank here: in my neighborhood, I know quite number of fellas who are better looking than me, but I still score more girls than them ... Infact many of them struggle to get anywhere with women.

Anytime I'm seen with a new cute girl, the fellas tease me, "Baba, how you take they get all these fine fine girls??"

Well, I've got, AUDACITY

Here's how I define audacity: when you interact with a woman like it already certain that you are gonna Bleep her. Whenever I interact with a new woman, I have this audacious and entitled attitude of a guy who has already slept with her.


Asking a girl to hangout with you

Other guys: "I'll like to hangout with you dear...Uhmm, please what do you think?"

Pukka: "I want you to wear this beautiful pink gown on the day you and I are gonna hangout."


Inviting her to your house

Other guys: "Howfar girl, Uhmm, how about you come hangout with me in my place... Uhmm, let just chill and you know, maybe watch movie or something?"

Pukka: "I wonder what I'll serve you when you come to my crib this Sunday, I'm still tryna remember what I've got in my fridge."


If you notice from my own interaction, you could see how audacious I was. I interact with pure certainty. I talk like it's already certain I'm getting them.


No jokes, Couples of time girls have ask me,
"are you rich or something?"

I'll ask "Why"

They say things like, "only rich guys talk in this confident manner."



Many girls are attracted to my audacious attitude, and not my looks.

I'm just average looking by the way, so most girls don't look at me the second time. That's why I don't wait for chosen signals, else I'll be waiting till thy kingdom comes.

Like I said, most girls don't look at me the second time, but when I start talking, they are intrigued immediately because I attack them with my audacity and unpredictability.

See my interactions with these different ladies, so you can get a glimpse of how audacious I am with women.

Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7800065/darkest-aspects-female-psychology#125048452


Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7809463/funny-experience-beautiful-muslim-lady


Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7835777/crazy-experience-two-beautiful-nurses

And here:

https://www.nairaland.com/7868239/crazy-experience-lady-restaurant-yesterday

Meteng:
If you follow this OP module, expect failure at the end

Walehelt:
Time no dey baba

KennethIbe59:
Omoh, i don laugh tire.

Waterlilly:
dis one na confirm Odede, she don advance pass Edede

Pukkalolo:
My Gee.

seanwilliam:
This girl like me die that year , but I no give am face . How time flies sha

Stanweezy:
It's only club girls, a lady that avoids club like plague will hardly do this