Romance › Re: Post Your 1st 2016 Selfie (as E Dey Hot) by kinglekan: 11:45am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Twaci: Blame it on the crush dear  Hehehehehe, 
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Romance › Re: Post Your 1st 2016 Selfie (as E Dey Hot) by kinglekan: 11:38am On Jan 03, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Post Your 1st 2016 Selfie (as E Dey Hot) by kinglekan: 11:37am On Jan 03, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Post Your 1st 2016 Selfie (as E Dey Hot) by kinglekan: 11:27am On Jan 03, 2016 |
Twaci: U no go post ur own? Abi u want make we give u egg first? 
kingl.ekan get in here and post yours too 
U neva tire to see my face ni?  |
Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 8:49am On Jan 03, 2016 |
tosyne2much: As she say she go woo you, see as my guy happy
Baba, don't be a kitty-cat starved dudes
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 11:13pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Adanna28: I recall having this conversation with my father back at 21 in regards to liking this guy, that I was friends with whom obviously liked me too, but was shy in taking it to the next level of asking me out.
I was waiting n waiting with the same notions of "I'm not asking you out, you are the man, it your job to do it" lol.
I dey vex he was taking his merry time, though dropping signals in his actions that he wanted to be closer than friends.
Said something along the lines to my father " I will never ask a man out, if he wants me he will make it happen".'
My Dad said to me " Ada this is not the year of prince charming riding a horse, nor is it the stone age, it the 21st century, you got to move forward with the times, have some courage to let what you want be known.
He not a mind reader, could save so much time just thinking about it, n actually going for what you want. He just as scared as you are, but even if it doesn't go the way you want, at least you would be satisfied with knowing you tried, and can move on from there".
I was mad at first at what my father said to me lol, but looking at the overall picture, understood his point of view.
I had the courage to make the first move n the guy was more than happy to welcome it, lol. He even said he liked my confidence since he quite shy, didn't want to be rejected by me.
So yeah that my piece on this. It not a crime for a woman to make the first move, after all we won't know what could have been, until we try.
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 10:58pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Well well... This has been a thoroughly informative and interesting thread for me. I did discover new things and had some wrong notions set straight, had to view certain things from a different perspective and saw some sense in them.
I believe a lot of others learnt too. I'm actually not so rigid.. I listen to voice of reason.
So, in the absence of of any further controversies which I intend to counter, I might as well strt making moves on a number of these guys here. Lol.
Tosyne2much
Ronald4lif [size=40pt]Kinglekan [/size]
Wristbangle
BUTCHCASSIDY
Doskie
Pls, permit me to woo YOU I CONCUR 
You are PERMITTED.
I'd have wooed Francizy too, but that one is going about looking for boobs. This Boy again? 
I'll woo naijaboiy in private... And if he misbehaves, all his results will disappear from the notice board! 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 10:49pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: I'm already here preparing my strings..

Give Olivia back the phone.  |
Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 10:48pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Lol. If they don't pursue me, I'd have to learn how to pursue them then. Sweetie am just watching out for my homie naijaboiy and just incase he backs out, I need to have annihilated every competition the 007 way. 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 10:39pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
francizy: Those ain't females na!! 
I look gay to you ni? Abi you wan make I come dey press macho chest? Never!  Ogbeni don't be greedy, half bread is better than puff puff 
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Romance › Re: A Counter Thread: About Women Making The First Move By Oliviaarims by kinglekan: 9:40pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
myfantasies: I just wanted something new for the new year Okies. Happy New Year. 
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Romance › Re: A Counter Thread: About Women Making The First Move By Oliviaarims by kinglekan: 9:24pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
myfantasies: Let me go nd look for a guy to toast
I am tired of waiting for guys to ask me out Y do u keep deactivating to later come back with a different moniker? 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 9:13pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
francizy: I no mind oh, so which one will do it best?
M.zpecs, Lav.eda or Olivia.arims?  No of the above.
Delectablegyal, pussysandie, sandie or irunoobo would do just fine. 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 9:10pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Lekan, where did you hear that one again? Lol. I don't want all these bois to be disturbing u anyhow. 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 9:08pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
tosyne2much: She's just a friend with no strings attached If dem born u well attach string na, u go know as water take enta coconut. 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 7:12pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:
 Don't mind tosyne2much, thats how he wee be vibrating like jelly fish at the mention of anything Olivia.... 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:51pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Emmagenius: BABA WEREY Nea. You just looking for Trouble.Abeg na new year be this ooooh Baba so u sef just remember sey na 2016 we dey. 
Na as u talk am me sef remember oooooo. 
My hand dey up Sir.
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:44pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
tosyne2much: I say make I hail her ni Oya e do, Ewa ma lo Sir 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:43pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
oseod: When it happened to me It felt like rapture......like I was paying for the sins of my ancestors... A dinner party that turned out to be a horrible memory. ..the babe was staring at me so I was thinking greenlight don show only for me to muster some half baked courage and walk over to seat beside her. Before I could say anything she put on her earpiece and looked away......
.I was already damaged at this point!!..
Then she completed the job by turning to me and saying "please someone is sitting here, when you're done please stand up...I don't want any trouble
I just stood and walked humbly like a beggar to my sit......I felt like plucking out the eyes of everyone that was looking at me in that hall..
Till today I don't believe In greenlight .....I don't even believe in traffic light or police warden......Am I mad!!!!
Its probably a good thing you have experienced it .......you'll be an expert at turning down a guy ithout embarrassing him since you know how it feels OMG!!! 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:38pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:30pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Emmagenius: BRO,why are you Quoting me without any Advice??.You need to visit YABA LEFT Brother the very fact that you broke out of YABA LEFT has reduced my confidence in the mental institution. 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:20pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
wristbangle: I hate it when ladies form James Bond to enjoy the fun of guys been rejected. Meanwhile they hate it most. They should know how it feels to be rejected na. Padi mi JE KAN MO!!! 
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:18pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:06pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Emmagenius: What of People like me who are Shy to Approach a Lady. For a lady to Touch me,i will have an Organsm.I can't even Decipher between Green light and Red light. Please,the ladies should Advice me oooh.The Ladies Love me and i also Do but i can't approach them to por out my Emotions.If i see a Very pretty lady,she seems to Like me but i don't know how to make the first Move
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:03pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Of course you'll move on! That's the only reasonable thing you can do about it.
Guys get rejected everyday by girls and they move on. You don't hear them telling her to go and hang herself or become insultive towards her. The ones who have tried to do such things have always been derided and tongue lashed by their fellow guys Coz it's a childish thing to do. 
Therefore,I don't seem to get why you all are sounding bitter,telling a guy to go hang himself simply because he didn't notice your green light. The same way you girls have the choice to turn a guy down is the same way a guy has the right not to make a move whether you show him your green light or not.
It doesn't make him any less of a man. [/color] The undiluted _FUCKING TRUTH.
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Romance › Re: About Women Making The First Move. by kinglekan: 6:01pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: I can bet on my two Di'ja-like-boobs that she's so never going to try that again. Heck, that dude was mean! francizy: Those boobs am seeing ain't Di'jered!!! 
Except you're referring some other ones am not aware of...  Na the only thing wey ur brain read for her post be that bah? 
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Romance › Re: ‘i’ve Never Had Orgasm With Any Man, Always Faked It’ by kinglekan: 5:30pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
It is clearly evident from your post that the issue isn't really with the sexual performance of the men you have been with even though this might be a factor but rather a psychological issue bordering on commitment and your emotions.
Its apparent you have little love for yourself hence the feeling of emptiness and that vacuum you feel might be as a result of an embattled childhood.
To begin to fix this, you would have to work on loving yourself. No man would fill the void in your heart, nothing would bring you the happiness you desire until you begin to truly love YOU.
You ALONE are responsible for your own HAPPINESS. You can start off by doing things you love or picking a hobby or an interest. Do those things that make you smile, then you would gradually begin to get yourself to a state of self-awareness and self-love.
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Romance › Re: Must A Guy Always Kneel Down While Proposing To His Babe? by kinglekan: 4:30pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
ronald4lif: I'm not going to kneel down to propose to anyone, not even sure I'd formally engage anyone. We'd just get down to the business of fixing a date for wedding and every rite that goes with it. I don't conform to societal delirium. What next? Baby shower and other madness? No thanks.  |
Romance › Re: Is There Any Guy Who Has Used Female Condon Here? by kinglekan: 1:36pm On Jan 02, 2016 |
theyrynsolar: Sachet water nylon is still the best  That's what he has been using on you? 
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Romance › Re: Guys Only: Post Ur Picture, Let Me C How Handsome U R. by kinglekan: 10:55am On Jan 02, 2016 |
mommysgirl: Cap on his head  There is no cap on his head. 
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Romance › Re: Guys Only: Post Ur Picture, Let Me C How Handsome U R. by kinglekan: 12:16am On Jan 02, 2016 |
mommysgirl: I am not bothered about how you look I want your cap 
Cap of his.......  |
Romance › Re: Would U Slap Ur Ex For $10,000,000 by kinglekan: 11:56pm On Jan 01, 2016 |
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