My sister are you so naïve that you can't read the handwriting on the wall?
The said guy doesn't love neither does he value you, it is crystal clear.
Nobody really has time or chance, you create time for people and things you love and value. If he values you, he must certainly make out time for you, no matter how busy he claims to be.
Is he trying to tell me that 24 hours in a day is no longer sufficient for him? My sister, use your head!!!!
As long as I am concerned, the guy is not serious with you...guy man just dey use u catch cruise.
I suggest you start making another plans right now to avoid had I known.
kennywagz: Hello nairalanders, I know how you felt looking at my post before opening this, but pls know one thing am not a bad person or a foolish son, I just happen to have a *** mom..
The thing is me and my mum almost got into a fight yesterday. Now pls let me explain something to you... I understand how yall love your mother's and would do anything for her, I wish I could say the same for mine.
Anytime my parents get into a quarell my mother won't want to talk or do anything again. She goes to work and comes back late, lies down and sleeps.
It's over 5 months, she doesn't contribute anything, doesn't say anything, does not concern whether the children eat or not because of their quarrel..
I don't fight anyone but if I have a quarrel with my friends or bro, 2 days or the next sef we are talking. He will stay in the room by herself after work while we'll be in the palour eating, She will be in the room sulking.
I once came home and my junior ones told me they were talking about something and laughing and mom came out and said sheybi they are all laughing and very soon they will start crying. Like what kind of mother says that.
If you are looking for woman that curse and swear no one pass my mom. She has fought every of our neighbors, every last one of them. I can't count how many swear and cursed she has said to my father and even to we the children. My father's brothers and sisters, she has been keeping malice with themsince a month after her wedding. That's over 20 years ago. Something happend and she hates them. If you are seen with your aunt or uncle you'd be in serious trouble.
She has this toxic nature/character always wishing evil for others. If she doesn't like you and she sees you happy it's sadness for her... How can someone be like this.
Today one woman she has quarrelled with had a fight with her brother. My mother was happy, saying e don catch am, laughing and praising God. My father is sick and doesn't even have the strength. They don't talk, she stopped talking to me cause she says me and my dad are always planning what we will eat, that am now the wife abi.
I can't express how hateful I am towards this woman, my heart is full of bitterness towards her.. I can't possibly type everything that I personally go through because it would seem as if I came here just to spite my mother. No matter what, she is still my mother, I am just looking for advice.
I give the children money sometimes when they are angry and I cook the food cause she doesn't do anything. She's sees me as her enemy when you don't want to do it, we should come and be begging you. Everytime we get into a fight for very petty things I always go and beg her, you must beg else you and her are enemies she won't talk to you.. I greet her and she says next time I greet her she will swear for me. This negativity is too much, I am a very Sane person, I won't come and write all this if I ain't pained... I have a father I love and my siblings, but it's this woman now.
Pls what can I do, everyday everytime person go dey beg you for the most unreasonable and petty things, after swear and curses with bad words Don follow steadily.
Juliearth, just take a look at the bolded.
What kind of work can a woman be doing that he leaves and comes back home very late at night?
Icetech: My brother, what kind of work does your mother do that makes her come back late in the night and for that matter goes straight to the bed and sleeps off? The bitter truth is that she is in a relationship with someone else, they have good time out there every day before she comes back.
My Advice... Track her and see if you can pin something on her. Make sure you get an evidence if possible, then you have won!
Your father can now officially divorce her based on infidelity and you people can be free..
At the bolded, bro I really think so.
What the Op wrote was almost what happened to my uncle and the cause was that she was into another relationship.
Juliearth: I don't think she is fed up with the marriage. If that is the case, she won't lash at the kids, neighbours and everybody. She has some deeply rooted issues that have to be unearthed and solved.
It is very likely she is fed up.
The above scenario almost played out in my uncle's life.
TruthSeeker1: I believe there's something your mum is not satisfied or happy with in her marriage which is subconsciously and uncontrollably making her to be bitter and hateful. To worsen the situation, she has a choleric personality (she's bad-tempered and irritable). If you reciprocate her bitterness with hatred (which is how you would want to react naturally), you would only aggravate her bitterness and make her more hateful. The best approach to change your mum for the better is for you (and your siblings) to show her love (genuinely or pretendingly) despite her dislikable attitudes. Don't ever give her the impression that you hate her for being who she is. Talk to her lovingly and play with her cheerfully. Show her that you love and care for her. Stop being angry at her. I know this may be hard for you to do (considering how she behaves and treats you), but that's the best chance you have of ever changing her to a better person. When she perceives such love coming from you (and other members of the family), it will be hard for her to remain bitter and malicious. [b]JUST AS YOU USE WATER TO QUENCH FIRE, YOU USE LOVE TO QUENCH HATRED[/b]
It seems your mum is fed up with the marriage. There are many reasons that can make a woman detest her husband and children so much, the chief of them being that she is already into a relationship with another man...I just hope it is not true.
Bro, no matter what do not fight your mum, I repeat do not fight her...i repeat do not even touch her for any reason.
I suggest you approach her calmly, tell her your mind, ask her certain questions pertaining her attitude and sort out things amicably...If you believe in God, then take your matters to HIM in prayer.
kennywagz: Hello nairalanders, I know how you felt looking at my post before opening this, but pls know one thing am not a bad person or a foolish son,i just happen to have a *** mom.. the thing is me and my mum almost got into a fight yesterday. Now pls letme explain something to you... I understand how yall love your mother's and would do anything for her, I wish I could say the same for mine...anytime my parents get into a quarell my mother won't want to talk or do anything again. She goes to work and comes back late lie down and sleep. its over 5 months, she doesn't contribute anything, doesn't say anything, does not concern whether the children eat or not because of their quarrel.. I don't fight anyone but if I have a quarrel with my friends or bro, 2 days or the next sef we are talking. he will stay in the room by herself after work while we'll be in the palour eating, She will be in the room sulking. I once came home and my junior ones told me they were talking about something and laughing and mom came out and said sheybi they are all laughing and very soon they will start crying. Like what kind of mother says that... If you are looking for woman that curse and swear no one pass my mom...she has fought every of our neighbors, every last one of them. I can't count how many swear and cursed she has said to my father and even to we the children. My fathers brothers and sisters she had been keeping malice since a month after her wedding.. That's over 20 years ago.. Something happend and she hates them, if you are seen with your aunt or uncle you'd be in serious trouble. She has this toxic nature/character always wishing evil for others, if she doesn't like you and she sees you happy it's sadness for her... How can someone be like this.Today one woman she has quarell with had a fight with her brother... My mother was happy.. saying e don catch am, laughing and praising God. My father is sick and doesn't even have the strength. They don't talk, she stopped talking to me cause she says me and my dad are always planning what we will eat, that am now the wife abi. I can't express how hateful I am towards this woman, my heart if full of bitterness towards her.. I can't possibly type everything that I personally go through because It would seem as if I came here just to spite my mother. No matter she is still my mother, I am just looking for advice. I give the children money sometimes when they are angry and I cook the food cause she doesn't do anything. she's sees me as her enemy when you don't want to do it, we should come and be begging you. Everytime we get into a fight for very petty things I always go and beg her, you must beg else you and her are enemies she won't talk to you.. I greet her and she says next time I greet her she will swear for me. This negativity is too much, I am a very Sane person, I won't come and write all this if I ain't pained... I have a father I love and my siblings, but it's this woman now. Pls what can I do, everyday everytjme person go dey beg you for the most unreasonable and petty things, after swear and curses with bad words Don follow steadily.
At the bolded, Your mum must really be related to Tyson Fury.
GladGlad: School threatens Muslim girl's parents with legal action because her school skirt is too long
A school has threatened a Muslim schoolgirl’s parents with court action for refusing to send her to school in a shorter skirt.
Siham Hamud, 12, had been wearing an ankle-length skirt to school for years, but was allegedly told the school uniform was incorrect last month, December 2020.
Her father Idris, 55, said Siham was sent home from Uxbridge High School to change every day in December, and told to return wearing the correct uniform, but she refused.
The school, Uxbridge High School, in Hillingdon, west London, says girls should wear black trousers or a black pleated skirt from official uniform suppliers, which the family says falls above the knee[b]. Idris, who has 8 kids, said both uniform choices go against his family's Islamic religion.[/b]
The family said they recently discovered a new school uniform rule about skirts was introduced two years ago, stating shorter school-branded skirts had to be worn. But the family claim they didn’t know, and Siham continued wearing her longer skirt, unaware until she was pulled up on December 1. She was sent home to change but didn’t return, and the same thing happened each day for the three weeks of term in December, her family said.
The school, has now threatened Idris and his wife Salma Yusuf, 44, with legal action over Siham’s alleged unauthorised absences.
Siham, who is currently studying from home due to lockdown restrictions, said:
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