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I don't have any business with materially, financially, spiritually and mentally broke girls. Love is not a sort of parasitic relationship that is meant to favour only the girls, it is a two-way process.


No be only girls like already made. Me too like already made Heaven will not fall if girls start taking guys out and spending heavily on them. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Table the matter before your wife who understands same language as your house keeper. I don't think it is something serious.


Back then in my teen days especially when i just got out of secondary school, i was also guilty of the crime of picking up calls saying hello hello hello, bla bla bla pretending that the network is poor when i am in the presence of my parents or elder ones. I would later sneak out to call my then sweet sixteen, telling her "baby i am sorry i was in the presence of my parents" and she always understands.


Your house keeper knows that you might get offended if she sex talks in your presence. How will you feel if she picks the call in your presence telling the caller sweet words like...i love u, i miss u, can't wait to be in ur arms again? The girl is just according you respect as the boss of the house.

Delson25:
For me I will pick drogba because he single handedly won champion league for Chelsea and contributed immensely to the ivorian national team.

Mmmmmm, I never knew football was a one man sport in the days of Drogba.

KanuSE:
So what happens to their young wives and girlfriends?

Other guys will certainly take over the duty of shining and lubricating their kpekus to prevent it from rusting...body no be firewood.

GOFRONT:
Breeze don begin blow......

...fowl nyash go soon open.

Many are mad but not all are in yabaleft.

Base1line:
How does this increase the tempo of your wailing today ?!

It seems you just discovered the word WAILING?

Wetin be the aim of dis rubbish?


How people attach much value to dis BBN rubbish baffles me. Shebi na nonsense things we go de celebrate? Nigerians making irrelevant people relevant.


Make Buhari ban that rubbish.

Where are the pictures? or is this another beer parlour gist?

I don't even understand Rev. Chris, but whatever it may be, if money doesn't make one rich then LACK of money definitely makes one poorer.

R.I.P to the boy!


I don't have much to say.

Many of these SARS operatives can't pass any mental test. The truth is that a great percentage of those guys are mentally unstable, they aren't different from the folks receiving treatments in Yabaleft.

From agbero to NURTW chairman


From Chairman to member House Of Assembly


From member to HOR


From HOR to Governorship


From Governorship to senate


This is the journey of Mc Oluomo courtesy of Tinubu. Is the Lord not good?

Kanu is wrong on this, advising IPOB to attack the political elites from the east is uncalled for. How does he want to achieve the dream? Isn't Kanu aware the elites are needed to actualise the dream? What message is he really trying to pass across?


Kanu shouldn't be an "eze onye agwanam", he should hire and listen to good advisers. Kanu should let go of his ego, in his attempt to take the whole glory of the struggle, he brainwashed many and made them turn against those that even started the struggle before him. Kanu really goofed on this.

Eluwilussit:
Is there any group that does not value their culture?

I wouldn't say there is, but the way Yorubas value their's is legendary.

visionex:
The above statement Summarises you as an unintelligent person

The dude you mentioned has always been unintelligent, it is in his genes. His stupidity stinks to high heavens.

tunjiajayi:
You had better not!
You dare not!
Won ti bi yin re.

Yamrees and Yorubas are fighting different fights.

Yamrees are fighting Nigeria, Yorubas are fighting for the betterment and management of Nigeria.

Let your beatings begin and end in your enclaves.
We have better ways of dealing with our people.

Yamrees get that.

Please, don't be annoyed. What exactly do you benefit by making all these tribalistic statements?

Who is Cee C? What is her occupation? The way companies waste millions on this BBN people amazes me. What does Cee C contribute to the society? The way people celebrate this BBN stuff baffles me. BBN dishing out worthless celebrities into the society. Many go soon turn celebrities courtesy of BBN.

YorubaKing:
Spewing jargons since BC...

What made what i wrote jargons? It is better you ask questions when confused than to display your ignorance for all to see.

Ndi be anyi si na onye ajuju anaghi efu uzo ===> he who asks questions can never miss his way or get lost.

If it is true, then congrats to Kizz in advance.


Op, must you tell us that the girl in question is Davido's ex?

nams77:
Your first paragraph sounded childish so i had to correct you. I wont dignify you again with a response as this one right here will suffice.
Have a great evening

You have been noticed, you can crawl back to your hut.

The people who gave those kids those trays of groundnut to hawk deserve all the blame. They must certainly run on unimaginable loss.

I am very sure that many people won't be as kind and sincere as the Op. Thanks Op for your kind gestures.

pcguru1:
Okay now that you put it like that and use those examples, it make sense then and true. Because I see a lot of people who talk more than executing so it's way I have that mindset.

Always understand that for the fact that a person is broke today doesn't mean that he will remain so. Situations change.

PrimadonnaO:
Just freaking shut the hell up! A man doesn't need to have millions to live in a decent apartment. Learn not to comment when you don't have anything sensible to say.

If not for the fact that i don't argue with fools, i would have given you excess dosage of the insults you desire. Learn how to respect people's views. Its an advice.

pcguru1:
Sorry sir I don't see this 'VISION' as you do. I have only seen many people with 'visions'and no drive to act on it, maybe you can shed some light

Like you rightly pointed out, some have visions but no drive at all, i see no reason why a girl that loves a girl who has vision but currently broke should be discouraged like many commenters are saying. Am gonna give you some instances, the former managing director of Chivita fruits juice is my town man, he had absolutely nothing when he married his wife but he had vision and his wife believed in him. Secondly, one of the notable oil dealers in Enugu also started from the scratch with his wife but today you know the rest.

pcguru1:
So in other words, you won't mind if your sister or daughter ends up with someone like that, it's easy to sound righteous , me fvck no I don't even like me when I'm broke

There is one thing you don't understand and it is called "VISION", that some one is broke now doesn't mean he will be broke tommorrow. Once my sister is happy with the suitor what stops me from allowing her to take the shot.

SEGLIZ:
you make me believe there is nothing like tribe but real people.
you make me believe we don't need tribe but genuine people.
if only we have real and genuine people like you around then this nation would have a sound footing it need.
remain blessed.

Remain blessed too sir.

nams77:
Come, how old are you? Do you think job falls from heaven? You think if the man has a job nearby he wouldn't accept it with outstretched arms?
Or you want him to resign and come home and sit at watch his wife with empty pockets. My friend, try and stay jobless/ broke and see your once loving wife turn to a mean, nagging machine as bills pile up.
Its obvious the man has sought out plans to move closer home.
Now @the poster. There Are a lot of immature and stewpid folks on this forum. However, try and weed out the useless advice you will get here ( majority)
Its not easy to be in your shoes. Have you asked her what's the reason behind this action? What was her response? Let's start from there

Putting Spanish fly in her food/drink is just a temporary measure. After the act, what next? Everything returns to status quo, problem still remains. Tackle this from the root pls.
Good luck brother

Wisdom has nothing to do with age and the earlier you get that into your skull, the better for you. I am sure you aren't the Op and i am equally sure that i didn't mention you so why quote me to pour your frustrations on me as if i am responsible for the Op's predicament?


I expected you to counter the possible causes of the problems i listed rather than throwing tantrums like a child. Learn to respect people's views, its an advice.

Wow!! Super Mario is back home.


This guy would have gone very far in football had it been he was just desciplined enough. He hitherto bragged that only Messi & Ronaldo were better than him.


I wish him the best at Brescia.

Back then in UNN, person been don do this kind thing o.

Not now, what we have now are celebrity ekelebes...Dolapo Badmus and crew.

Oga, I have to let you know that you really messed up by allowing your wife stay far away from you. You come home to see your family once in three months, that is four times in a year and from this fact i can point out that you spend less than a total of 60 days with your family out of the 365 days in a year. That is too poor, you really messed up i must tell you.


90% of long distance relationships are always doomed as a result of many factors the chief among them being infidelity. Do you expect your wife to believe that you weren't banging any woman up north to cool off the stress of life...after all, body no be firewood. You are even lucky that you didn't come back to meet your wife pregnant for another man.


It seems your wife had to make up for your absence by finding a person who lubricates her p**sy to prevent it from rusting since you were not always around to perform your marital duty.


I advise you to sit your wife down, talk to her and let he tell you what her problem really is. If after that you can't still make a head way then take the case to your in laws and spiritual leaders pastors, priests, imams e.t.c. If they are still unable to talk some senses into her, then baba you go and get yourself a s*x toy. You see, life is too short to be bothered. This is the best i can tell you.