At present, right now, today .... I would advise you not to marry her. How many times has she slept with the married man 4 times ( Its likely more but Irrelevant ) How many times has she sent nudes to people especially about her coochie ( I am sure more than what you discovered)
My 2 cents - She's too young & immature to marry. - She is struggling with leaving her past behind and moving on with you in a serious relationship. ( hence, I can only do this but not all the way with fans ) - She is going to break your heart not on purpose but she comes across as someone who hasn't lived life or is fully committed to a single partner at this juncture. - There is a song - Leave before you love me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ogUKZXBMUQ It talks about a guy leaving before the girl wakes up after sex because he doesn't want her to fall in love with him. He's a heartbreaker. ( In this story, she's the heartbreaker)
Conclusion You have fallen in love with her but she isn't the one you take home to mummy. If you want amazing sex , trust Issues & headaches - She's the one. If you want good sex , a home maker and contributor & peace of mind - Find someone 25+ years, who has a career , less exuberant and matured !!! They are out there..
cowboyvs: Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.
You know what to do already comrade so you don't need advise ... Don't forget marriage is a game forever and not just for sometimes ..... Also I wonder why some people will be in love with a 22 years old girl don't u know all this are what to expect from them
FLYFIRE: NIGERIA ALREADY HAS A NEW PRESIDENT IN PETER GREGORY OBI. NO EVIL PLANNED AGAINST NIGERIA SHALL PROSPER & NIGERIA WILL NEVER EVER GO BACK TO THE EVIL DAYS OF APC & PDP
So you think obi can win in the midst of 2 warriors
ATIKU and Jagaban TINUBU himself ..mtheew gone are days when dreams will come to reality but this days ehn nothin like that oo
And yet some people will be shouting nigeria should divide ..don't u know this are d things to expect for division... See d case of isreal and palestine also ukraine and Russia
Really but the police man for just allow them because him know say army they always won form superiority mtheew see now he had.lost his life...
Offpointng: I happen to witness the incident, and I'd say both are at fault, there were just few cars bfr the soldier's bus which the police saw, it cost the police nothing to spare few minutes to allow the soldiers pass for sake of peace bfr stopping other cars, they might have been on orders and late coming is always punished in the military. And when they came down in rage to question the policemen, the police men to were showing power and superiority hence reasons for the damages
The Soldiers were wrong to beat them and the Government also got greater blame for not fixing traffic light, in a saner clime the duty of Traffic Police is to ensure traffic light are obeyed strictly not to stand and control traffic with their hands. but this is 9ja
The stupid MURIC muslim scholar will never say anything concerning such but if it's against chrsitainity the full would have open the air to talk abt it on the TV station mtheew
These bandits terrorists are majorly fulani, hausa and sometimes kanuri people who often shout Allahu akbar each time they kill people or detonate bombs.
I'm wondering why all Muslims have not taken to the streets to protest the evil use of the name by these terrorists.
I'm wondering why all imams, ustazs or scholars have not aggressively told their followers not to indulge in the killings and all.
Aren't Muslims embarrassed by these things?
There's a huge dent on the fulani tribes by these act if terrorism by some fulanis.
It is actually making islam and fulani people scary and unappealing.
Why are all Muslims in Nigeria not protesting against these things?
Why are all hausas whose image these fulanis are spoiling not standing up against this evil?
Why are the Hausas no dissociating themselves from these evil people using religion to destroy lives and destinies?
Prince001: The only solution is to go our seperate ways ooo cos other one none of the politicians or the President aspirants ready to changed or have d d power to do. So therefor the only solution be Yoruba Nation, Biafra republic, Ijaw Nation and any nation that like to control their on destiny no going bk!!!!!!!!
It's easier said than done because i think we may experience another civil war for that to start or work out ... nigeria my country
martinmiller: Absolutely, no need to paddle about, the problems facing Nigerians did not start today, it have been in common since 1960 till date. Nigeria will turn 62 or 63 come October 4th, f**k the country is no longer a toddler but being run by toddler, they keep running it to the floor and that is a sign of a total mess and irresponsibility..
To this end, the solutions facing the Nigerian citizens for decades should be a paramount discussion through which we can lead the country through a progressive path, no country as ever prospered either without a great leader or a popular revolt.
The problem of Nigeria �� are Nigerians..
Correct so we shouldn't yhell only about APC cos the problem has been compiling since the years of PDP administration
Tzar: So because you can cook & f*ck makes you wife material? How about your greed? Laziness? Dirtiness? Trashy behavior? Disrespectful nature? Lack of ambition? Wickedness? Lies? Fetish propensity? Pastor/ Imam worship? and so many other rubbish character womenfolk display?!
Righteousness2: If marriage is all about your sexual exploits and expertise, then the prostitutes ( both secret and open) should be happily married in their homes.
Marriage is an institution that is made and ordained by God Almighty. There is Need to Conciously involve GOD ALMIGHTY in our homes and work by his Marriage principles. It does not Matter what you have or what you are, if you take away GOD and His Principles of marriage in your Home, it's only a matter of time. e go crash!
Thanks you my brother i love this postmmdint mind the useless girl with stupid point of her experience in marriage..she only mentioned style of sex mtheew