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@porter
forget all dis pple way say make you no snatch another guys girl. She hasn't got a ring on her finger so she is still available. She is doing what i call 'initial gragra' d boyfriend might jst b imaginary, some girls cant jst come out straight 2 tell a guy how they feel, it makes dem look cheap. Force it out by tighting ur game on her(seduction). Even though she say road no dey go call RCC 2 construct a new one.

She jst wants u around when she is bored? Dat does nt sound good. What of wen she is excited. If u know u feel something for her nt infatuation. I would say tell her how u feel, if she feels d same way then her boyfriends game is nt tight. Cos i nover see any guy dat would snatch my girl 4rm me.
Remember dats her boyfriend and nt her husband, so she is still open approaches. Tushe.

Kini big deal

@ tangent
straf=bang

@ tangent
seconded. Best friends keep mutual and platonic rlshp. While lovers dey straf each other.

She probale like d guy so much and wont want 2 loose him, at first wen dey are still trying 2 know each other. She front 2 be a good girl and av probably told him she is a 'virgin'. So she wont want 2 blow her cover. Dis happened 2 a friend of mine. After dating dis chic for abt six month, they went out one evening and both came back wasted she did nt know wen she forced d guy 2 come into her. U can imagin what happened next. I think dis is one reason girls refuse their bf sex bt freely give 2 other guys.

Pls can we end this thread here. I don laughed tire.

Guy i dont think u need 2 practice anything, cos u would jst turn into a stammerer if she does nt fall into d group u practised 4(talking 4rm xperience). All u need is confidence. Jst walk up 2 her in a cheerful manner and introduce urself and tell her u would like 2 get 2 know her(as d case may b).

@porter
why are you like this? Even though u goofed must u apologise like dat.

@porter
why are you like this? Even though u goofed must u apologise like dat.

Honestly i would prefer i find my girl dating a guy behind my back to know she has something 2 do with another girl. Jizz its heart rendering. Guy pls flee 4rm her and find ur type.

Guy make i tell u d koko, forget about d age difference. Do ur thing, dont b shy tell her wat u want, she might feel d same.

@porter
just shut up ur mouth and look for dust bin to sit on. Oboma would make a difference. Watch out. For obama fans make una jirat.

@porter
just shut up ur mouth and look for dust bin to sit on. Oboma would make a difference. Watch out. For obama fans make una jirat.

Oh sure

@190
happy you enjoyed it. My brother its quite difficult 2 ignore a hot chick bt dats how ur game can become tight.

you have violated the law if you find yourself in such a situation. ALWAYS switch off your phone.

ITS NOT IN OUR NATURE

You should not be scared of anything if you have shown some level of commitment in the past while you were still close. Am sure she will not forget it, but you have to be sure to keep your snake in its cage. She may never know but i tell you the truth you will begin to lose touch, she might just sense it as a sign you are slipping off.

Nautillus:
Mister Lecturer,

This your lecture is too long oh haba . . .didnt noone tell you that we folks here have very little patience for such long text . . ._{save 4 maybe holyeyes discriptives . . .}

Oga . . .Please . . .Summerise abeg.

would try next time to summerise

ramonacee:

nice one!!

Thanks

dawgy:
Oga ur post long o, next posting abeg compress am,

Noted

Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "how do they do it?" Yes, females are attracted to status. Yes, they are attracted to strength and confidence. The art of distracting a woman from all of your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for who you are is called seduction. Read on to find out how to do it.
1. Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
2. Manage your reputation. While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. You must also subtly reveal your human side with talk of sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
4. Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Try and make sure she sees you and some female friends.
5. Wait for the sign that she is interested. The gorgeous girl was ignoring you at first and now she flirts heavily. The not-so-attractive girl was shy and hesitant at first, but now she drops (very subtle) hints that she wants you to make a move. Now when I see these signs I give her just what she wants, start calling often, and when she just begins to know me I withdraw for a while to surface after about 7-9 days with excuses of begin busy with work.(girls don’t like idle guys)
6. Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, , or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about history, astrology, dreams, fate,  sex (sometimes),and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things with a lovely facial expression and a wonderful smile. The eyes are very important. Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of weakness.
7. Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about.  Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. I love this step, because am very ticklish and once a girl spots this little weakness she will always like to tickle me.
8. Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
9. Ask her out. You will eventually learn what the right time is--not too early and not too late. If you flirt with a chick over a long period of time, you will notice that the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off. This is a signal that she is sick of waiting and spites you for it(she begins to avoid you). You have no chance after that. Girls are very picky about timing. Make sure it's an offer she can't refuse. It takes attention to detail, practice and luck to pick the perfect first date. I had a problem like this with a girl I once dated, I wasted time in getting into something we could have started long time, then she started avoiding me. When I asked her what the problem was to my greatest surprise she said she sick of waiting for us to have sex, I was stunned.
10. Turn on the charm. She already said "yes." As difficult as it is to blow it now, many guys do by being shy. If you don't show that you're attracted to her now, you will be seen as unappreciative or weak. Girls typically give about ten "nos" for every "yes," so show (don't tell) your appreciation for it. It's OK to bend the truth. If she's gorgeous, insinuate how clever and charming she is. If she's not, insinuate that she is. A great deal of the conversation will be non-verbal. Use ambiguous physical contact. Walk close enough to her that you brush against each other often, touch her lower back when you are on queue making an order in a eatery . If you are nervous when you touch a girl, it will make her very uncomfortable. Confidence is the difference between touching her and molesting her.
11. If she is shy, send well crafted text msgs to her. There are some diamonds in the rough out there. When she is reading a letter, she can enjoy your words of love without worrying about whether you like the way she looks or acts. Each time she reads it (and she will read it over and over again so make it good) she will wish more and more that you are there with her. Make every word count and keep it brief. Whether talking or writing, keep it brief. It is better to say nothing at all than to say something that is not seductive.
12. Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions. Don't move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing. Then comes the making out and heavy petting and all the rest. The process should be slow, poetic and musical. There is no room for discomfort in seduction.
13. Establish an emotional connection. When you talk to your person of interest, find out commonalities, establish the moment, and you may relate to things she is passionate about or interested in.

Tips
• Seduction is an art. It takes as much practice as learning a musical instrument or painting.
• Empathy is essential to seduction. Every woman is different, so tailor your date, your words and your actions to that specific woman. You must know what she is thinking before you can offer her the pleasure she craves.
• Read poetry. Notice the imagery, the ambiguity and the sound. Notice how modern poetry uses colloquial language to achieve all that. Don't use big words or cliches. Your language should be "diabolic" (ethos and pathos) like that of a naija politician.
• If she senses that you are seducing her, she will run away. The pace of your seduction should be slow and the volume should be quiet.
• All women like power in at least one of its many manifestations: money, status, intelligence, strength, etc. You need at least a little before you can seduce the most beautiful of women.
• Many girls will tell you that confidence is what they look for, but nothing will increase your confidence like a successful seduction.
• Insinuation is a must. Only a movie star or a professional athlete could expect success with a brash line like "let's go back to my place and, "
• Don't be a doormat or a people-pleaser. If you are perceived as weak, you will never get a girl.
• Always be honest, meaning don't tell a lie. A lie is something you can get caught in. Don't lie about your income, whether you have a girlfriend or not, whether you are good at sports, etc. Girls can see right through lies. However, bending the truth to achieve a more poetic effect is absolutely necessary. Also, most of the time, the correct answer is to say nothing at all.
• Seducing a woman is like dancing with a woman. Sometimes you hold her close and sometimes you let her shine on her own and watch. If you are too clingy, she will feel suffocated. If you let her go and never come back, she will be insulted.
• Reveal yourself slowly and only when directly asked. Don't show more of yourself than she asks for. When the mystery is gone, the seduction is over.
• Girls with boyfriends make excellent targets. If you can seduce a faithful girlfriend without showing up on the radar, you will have no problem with a single girl.
• Seduction does not always end in the bedroom. If you seduce a faithful girlfriend or wife, she may decide to cut off all contact with you when she realizes that she is in love with you. Mark it as a success and be thankful that you didn't have to break up with her. Do NOT however, go around ruining lives, there are people out there who are happy with each other, and who really don't need you to ruin that.
• Not every woman can be seduced. Yunger girls want to feel mature and older girls want to feel young.
• If the seduction fails for one reason or another, leave a good space of time before attempting to seduce her again. She must completely forget about the bad stuff before you can try to revive the old feelings.
• Women can sense fear and weakness very easily. If you have shown fear or weakness (we all have), it's time to start over.
• If you use this technique purely for the end result, you probably don't have the patience to perform a seduction correctly. Pleasure plays a major role throughout the process. You are not offering her a chance to sleep with you, but rather a chance to FALL IN LOVE.
• Study the biographies, writings and speeches of the world's greatest seducers: Erroll Flynn, Casanova, Lord Byron, Charles De Gaulle, Gabriele D'Annunzio, etc.
Physically attractive seducers will be able to seduce much faster than unattractive ones, because the attraction is already there. However, unattractive men will have an easier time getting close to girls and gaining access to their hopes and dreams.

I wish you the best.

My girl and i are always on phone like every 2hrs cos we are far apart. If i dont pick 2-3times den she stops calling, thinking i might be in a meeting or very busy at work, bt i always return d call later.

MISS B, cos her name is blessing.

I would like 2 ask d girls if dey are God fearing. Some times dey try 2 look 4 a gentle guy dat dey can oppress, talk rudely 2 him, do whatever dey like and he jst keeps quiet. I think dats what dey call God fearing. If una dey find God fearing guy go church, nt a club.

I would like 2 ask d girls if dey are God fearing. Some times dey try 2 look 4 a gentle guy dat dey can oppress, talk rudely 2 him, do whatever dey like and he jst keeps quiet. I think dats what dey call God fearing. If una dey find God fearing guy go church, nt a club.

@darefestus
well i think uv got a wrong view abt this. He shouldn't b untidy because he goes tru all u mentioned above. Its all abt upbringing and attitude. If he has always been tidy, he will keep begin tidy no matter d condition.

Hey guys wats d favourite line you use when you approach a lady, and for d girls what do u like 2 hear when a guy approaches u for d first time.