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advanceDNA:
in Iran ...someone woke up and updated the a marriageable age for girls to 9 years old......see ehn, we humans know the right thing...we just want to do evil....

Some pple sat down and did research about on the impact of early sexual exposure which made them establish 18 years as legal age of consent....
There was a time alcohol drinking age was 18, later it was moved to 21..na research

...some pple are exposed to drinking as early as 5 ears old....because the effect is not immediately visible doesn't mean this things doesn't impact the mind and body in some way
.... But una too dey carnally and lustful driven ..... So Na only physical outlook una dey see

At 16, my friends and I were sexually active. We were adolescents with the sexual energy of men. Some decided to use it and some didn't. Same is happening with a lot of 16 year old young men right now. So take your high moral ground and stick it up your behind.

Bahamas95:
Some years back my mum was admitted at a hospital a young lady opposite her room refused blood transfusion because she's a JW......She later died before my mum was discharged.


Those people are terrible.

Why label them terrible? Did they do any thing evil to you or anybody? They made their decision based on what they believe is right for themselves. Abeg let them be.

FreeIgboho:
Well, women don't "want" the way men want.
Remember, women used to be won in a wrestling match or in a battle. She goes with whoever wins and have their children and actually makes them a very good wife - he becomes who they want! So a woman's "want" is changeable. Also, MOST women change day to day, so just because she doesn't "want" you today doesn't mean she won't "want" the same exact you tomorrow!
So best thing is walk away but with one eye on her, not desperate

You're so right. It changes like seasons in a year. Much sense in this.

advanceDNA:
First ...Zimbabwe updated age of consent to 18 years old on Monday 15 January 2024.

Even if consent age is 10 years old or even worse ....The teacher will still be found guilty for abuse of trust, abuse of office, because power imbalance will always be established in cases like this btw teacher and student

Haven't you heard of cases btw senior and junior staffs in work places?? That's even btw two adults ...despite sex started with consent .it has been established over and again that the power imbalance makes consent technically under threat, fear or duress, either for loss of their job, poor appraisals, etc

Hmmm, so before 2024 Zimbabwe government no get sense abi? Morally yeah it is wrong but on a legal ground, it is a young adult enjoying himself. At 16, I had so much sexual energy and some of my mates were already exploring themselves. Accusing them of being abused when they did it with ladies older than them is crap.

LivingEarthMan:
Yes sir. They are being abused by the prostitutes if they are obviously underaged and the prostitute is an adult.

Lol, something the boys use their money to pay for

Proserpina:
This is abuse. The woman is a teacher who is supposed to protect ,guide and instill right morals into the boy. Her actions are unethical and irrespective of the boy's background or sexual experience she's not in position to be intimately involved with him.
Prostitution and teaching are two parallel occupations.

I can't believe we ( women) have to fight against girl child abuse and still spare time to educate you men on male child abuse. Phew!

In Zimbabwe, 16 is the age of consent. So since you know more than the Zimbabwean government, you can take that high moral ground and stick it in your behind.

LordReed:
I don't have standing to take them to court. It is a criminal case the state is the one that prosecutes such cases. Meanwhile, I have no brothels around me but you seem to be very knowledgeable of their whereabouts why don't you do the reporting?

You're the one so much concerned about the illegality of a 16 year old boy sleeping with an adult. This happened in Zimbabwe and the age of consent is 16.

Angelfrost:
Well, in this case, that's below the age of consent...!

Is Nigeria better than Italy where the age of consent is 16?
Also, just checked that in Zimbabwe where it happened, age of consent is 16. So what's your case actually?

advanceDNA:
Which country??

Enlighten thyself.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent_by_country

Angelfrost:
Try and be smart please... Keep up with international law.

Once underage comes into the matters of sex, consent is not even in the equation... It is RAPE! Period!

That's like saying a 15 or 16 year old girl who consents to sex with a grown man or even seduces him to sleep with her has now become a woman, and it cannot be termed abuse.


Even in brothels, a prostitute is not supposed to agree to sleep with an underage boy regardless of the amount of money offered.

Same way no bar or drink seller should ever sell alcoholic drinks to anyone below the stipulated drinking age... That's why abroad, they demand for legal identification in such matters.

In many countries, 15-16 is an age of consent.

fyneboi79:
Abuse is abuse! Whether male or female once age of consent has not been attained.

Carry them go court.

LordReed:
Technically yes they are abusing the UNDER AGE boys.

And FYI this case is also abuse.

Well it's happening in a brothel close by to you. Take them to court.

This is not abuse. The boy just became a man early.
So are all the young boys that sneak to brothels for short time being abused by the prostitutes?

Kobojunkie:
It has always been at least 50% even in Southern Nigeria, only that most do not report marriage abandonment as divorce, while in the North, the rather has been at over 50% since as far back as the 80s sef.

Ehn you have made your point, what is with the kiss? You want make I release my dogs on you?

Rizzputin:
You failed to understand his point. A lot of times a reason why a girl stops loving you (or doesn't love your) has so much to do with his presentation & carriage.

Before tossing things away blindly, it's best to re evaluate. Sometimes the problem is the guy, sometimes it's the girl. And sometimes it's no one's. Just two incompatible people meeting each other.

Having said that... if you want to enjoy beautiful relationships with women, you have to look at things from three views. Your view, hers and from the outside. This way you avoid falling to arrogance or misdiagnosing your relationship.

This is especially true in today's world where guys are beyond clueless. I can tell you for free most guys have no clue about speaking a woman's language or understanding a relationship

Self reflection should come first before anything. Self reflection is NOT the same as self blaming

Look, men and women don't reason the same way.
Some women are ready not to like you for the most silly reasons. If you now try to fix your life based on her standards, then you are bringing down your self worth. You are yourself, there is little wrong with you. Adjusting your life to suit one woman who will lose her current beauty in 10 years isn't the best of wisdom.
I was in talking stages with a lady and she demanded an apology, I rejected because I was not wrong. She told me to thrash my mentality and I instantly pounced on letting her know it's not in her place to tell me what to change in my mentality. Eventually, she blocked me and I moved on. There are over 500 million single women in the world. That one isn't mine.

FreeIgboho:
Easier said than done. Who you want is who you want. You want that partcular person, nobody else

Yeah you want someone and the person wants you too...perfect.
You want someone but the person doesn't want you, but is willing to settle for what you have then that is disaster loading.

More are breaking as we speak. And more will break next year.
These days men are really reconsidering the trap called "marriage"

Wananonly:
An unexamined life is not worth living bro...

If she stops loving you, why don't you go back to your drawing board and go through your sketches again. It's a smart move to consider that you might have been the problem..

I say you should revisit your formula.. if you got things right and still lost, then better luck moving on. If you don't do it, well good luck ever finding a girl that likes you for long

Nobody should build their house on faulty foundations bro...

If someone doesn't like you, it is not your fault. Some people will just choose not to like you because of the way you walk, talk, eat, sneeze, etc. Even your smile can irritate people. So rather than self-blaming, look for someone who is compatible with you and cherishes you for the imperfect being you are.

I pity men that defend the female gender like they were born to live and die as simpletons. What now will they say about this?

IF Ned deal with this one ehn, na from prison to court for the next 5 years. Get a job, stop being a nuisance on tiktok.

UniversalDove:
Very simple, inform the law about the DNA and it's not so hard to prove how it all works
I don't actually believe these things. I find it to hard to believe a woman you share everything with will want you to go hungry and broke.

On the bolded, which world are you in?? Some even don't mind the man dead.

Kaczynski:
stories by moonlight



anyone that bekieves this has a brain thats is a null pointer in excesses

This is the new fad. Lunatics try to label others who aren't like them lunatics. Spits

SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk about the one that failed and its negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.

You are talking of 3 decades ago. Now it's like 40% of them failing. Many you see appearing good are just heating up till it gets out of hand.

Those kind villages need friendly fire.

Obadare laid out a two-fold policy goal for the U.S. government:

a. Work with the Nigerian military to neutralize Boko Haram.

b. Put pressure on President Tinubu to (a) make Sharia law unconstitutional in the twelve northern states where it has been adopted since 2000, and (b) disband the various Hisbah groups across northern states seeking to impose Islamic law on all citizens regardless of religious identity.

Obadare noted that Washington must keep up the pressure, citing recent moves by President Tinubu — such as ordering air strikes against Boko Haram and recruiting 30,000 additional policemen — as evidence that Nigerian authorities are “not impervious to incentives” following Nigeria’s designation as a Country of Particular Concern (CPC).


Above is a perfect solution.
But the average Northerner and Muslim will be against this.

It's like Tubaba sacked or refused to pay his manager and his manager is trying to exert his own revenge.

SisterAnn:
He's just a fool at 40!

I don't know who cursed him.

I pity his grown children the most.

He is 50 not 40. In next 5 years might be a grandpa

I remember that ill tragedy then. The first to blame were Fulani terrorists and Boko Haram but Nigerians were shocked to realize that it was fellow Igbos, supposedly Christians that killed their own in church. May their souls rest in peace.
Mine is that churches should investigate on the builders and sponsors before allowing them to commence. God is a God of righteousness. I hope this will never happen again.

Thank you PRemium Times, this has been nothing but a charade.

The American-Venezuelan beef has been on before the popularity of Fetanyl.
Maduro is continuing Hugo Chavez's war. It'll be a miracle for his miracle to keep surviving because they are really on him. The nobel peace prize being given to a member of his opposition wasn't accidental.

Exousiang01:
I no dey believe all these kind story again.
A lady once threatened me with rape if I dare break her heart
I just do mumu till she tire for me come breakup by herself.

When I fear woman na when one girl vow to knack DPO to make sure one guy enter prison.
Men are the victims indeed.