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Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

bro stop abusing the word Gentleman if you were a gentle man, you won't have opened up to the babe about your conversation with her guy, you intentionally wanted to break their relationship knowing fully well the babe would get furious & confront the guy stop all the cheap lies you knew what you wanted all the while stop asking us for approval & you even seem like a guy who is easily manipulated emotionally, truth be told dude you sound like all these weak guys who are easily pushed around.......

chigoizie7:
She has been a lesbian tey tey. Marrying you was just a way of covering up,


Btw I don’t know why people’s hate telling others the simple truth.


See them telling him that it is his fault that his wife is with another woman.

This is like a woman coming to say that her husband is cheating on her with a fellow man simply because she gave birth and added weight and no longer attractive. Lies, he would have cheated with another sexy woman and not a fellow man, it only means that your husband is gay, he only married you to save face. Simple.

And that is what happened in this very case.

Who does that?

bro you just spoke my mind

Mystiquefia:
Will u keep kwayet? Apart from 2face which other artiste is bigger than stonebwoy in that biased list? Yenyenyen!!

bro you Sabi music people that hasn't listen to stonebwoy dey talk that nigga is good let's leave sentiment

[quote author=sEGXY2 post=83468014]abeg you Sabi bro zinoleski is more talented than him but it's all grace

Casalinda:
It is so alarming that the poor will always act stupid and foolishly. You dnt see the rich fight or clash You dnt hear this things in Maitama non banana island!!! Seriously am really sick and taya of all this level of stupidity the low class people always exhibit it a shame

you have said it all my dear they just Keep displaying their stupidity instead of looking for a way to better their lives & that of their family

Nabi2000:
i just want to confirm from google pixel users if it really holds up the title of best camera which it gets almost every year beating out apple and samsung?

its way better I make use of it

when we see a woman that controls or dominates a man we know it & here is one

Psalm2423:
Please correct them bro. Most people can think nonsense. That was how one idiot came to quarrel with me for always staying indoors. If my job is a work at home position, and I can order the basic things of life directly to my doorstep, is there any need to be jumping around the world? I’m an introvert, I hate phone calls unless we’re close. If we’re close, I can talk for 2 hours nonstop, else, everyone else is a nuisance.

I actually don’t keep friends cause I know they’re more fake than real. Messi is more like an introvert, he doesn’t run all the after match comment, rarely do you see him off-season. So he has low self esteem right? Most rich men just don’t have friends, and they don’t need them.

Albert Einstein
Isaac Newton
Buddha
Gandhi
Jesus without his disciples
Owner of Tesla (I just forgot his name)
Your favorite Bill Gates who stays away from people to come up with new ideas.
Trump (since you said they blame others, then he has low self-esteem right?)
Buhari (same with Trump, daddy has been blaming past administrations).

Please OP research before you write. While some points are true, never generalize. That’s why we have the statement: “all Rottweilers are dogs, but not all dogs are Rottweilers.”

bro I really admire your intellectual prowess the way you broke Everything down tells alot about your personality I admire that alot, most people don't know the difference between low self esteem & been an introvert

Your head no strong you go dey do drugs, what's wrong with our youth of today is peer pressure, some one said something in the comment that demand meet supply if the youth don't do drugs those dealers would be forced out of business #Say no to negative pressure & drugs

slawomir:
Bunch of upcoming untalented Moda fuckkers about to join the already untalented nigggarzzz we have in the music industry

Especially that frogged voice called davido using too much enhancer
Only Burna boy and 2face have talent

If you want to know that Nigeria artiste are dog shiit
Just listen to these foreign artiste and you will never play any Nigeria song

The weekend
Imagine dragons
Sia
Katty pery
Passenger
Bruno Mars
Avicii
Twenty one pilot
The Chainsmokers
Dig the kid
Cold play
Khalid
Maroon 5
Calum scot
John legend
Selena Gomez
Post malone
Ellie Goulding
Christiana aquilera
A great big world
Rita ora
Clean bandit
Dua lipa
Martin garixx
Major Lazer
The night
Edsheeran
Taylor swift

u Sabi but you missed out Joyner Lucas & lil baby

U Sabi but you missed out Joyner Lucas & lil baby

Op I totally disagree with you on this blaqbonez shouldn't be on that list he isn't in their league non of them is to be compared

armyofone:
Please where can I watch the original Living in Bondage? YouTube ?

You can watch it on YouTube

I bet it can't be like the original one

Inside Life

Anthony Joshua be like person wey they fear sef

Oh lord where did African get it wrong

Frustrated father pouring out his frustrated on this little child, he should be jailed what if he sees a stranger beating his daughter this way that means he can't defend & protect his child END TIME FATHER

I don't think all the cows were killed by that car look at some of the cows had their throat slit but what do I know sha

There's nothing wrong with your kid it's his age I think with time he would out grow the playfulness & about the beating please I think you should resort more to talking to him & make him see reason y he shouldn't be acting the way he does its even in the Bible When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. He would outgrow it

Primesharck:
you dont seem to be sane. Pls go buy sanity. MilkBoy

mind your use of word boy i guess you don't know the meaning of sanity cause if you do you won't be using that word anyhow "A Foolish Person spotted"

It's just quote unfortunate one man go still Marry this one. But our youths are not thinking of tomorrow & what life lessons they would teach their child's am not judging ooh because nobody holy pass

He wasn't missing his gf he was just trying to show how cheap ladies were & also prove to his gf that even if she leaves him, his still going to see ladies to bleep

And the winner is AJara Nchout from CAMEROON

It's all staged the guy begging him in question is a fellow actor a yoruba actor

Davash222:
You wan come chop yam for Germany... yam no dey Enugu

Ike Ekweremadu will never in his life go close to anything related to Yam again!!

The fear of Yam is the beginning of wisdom(Ipob 2019)

bro you got me laughing really loud #SAVAGE

This is the height of cruelty black man is naturally EVIL & WICKED

I guess this was the reason why the guy left her & ran for his dear life. Wickedness at its peak buf finally e no go work two matured people in a relationship is a consensual agreement & anyone is free to leave at will when the relationship is not bringing out the best in him or her all this kind swear no dey work the only swear wey I know wey they work Wella Na Parental curse abeg shift

So sorry man but with all you just said your wife can't stop cheating truth be told you have to part ways with her, for a married woman to be sleeping around with several men it's really not good it causes so many bad things in the family from hard luck to business failure but I am not saying her infidelity is the cause of your business low turn over but it might also be the cause man..... You have to man up & quit the marriage give her space to abit if she wants the marriage am sure she would change but for the idea of selling your land or house to finance your business that's laughable pls don't do it you might end up regretting it... I wish you the best most woman don't value soft men...... You have to man up

It was returned because Na iPhone with iCloud wahala, which the phone would have been useless to the man, but am not saying if it's an android phone the man would have stolen it pls ooh .....

One of the most shameful ways to die on top woman... Wetin you want tell God say Na Punna kill you

Dreal1247:
What of women who are aspiring to overthrow the madam of the house?

bro your head dey there