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Have it in mind that you can NEVER tick all the boxes of a woman and those boxes you did not tick, there's another man out there who would tick it..

Unfortunately, she will be judging and intimidating you with the ones you didn't tick and ignoring the ones you ticked. She wants all her boxes/ fantasies in her husband. But expects the man to accept and tolerate all her weaknesses and short sides.

femi4:
When you chase money n neglect to train your kids...you might not live long to enjoy the wealth

You can do all you can as a Parent, pikin wey go spoil go still spoil. Have you not seen even Pastors children doing strange stuff?

For me, I will only worry myself till he/she is out of NYSC. After that, I am still your father but you are fully responsible for your life.

So unfortunate. I blame the man sha, unfortunately he is dead. He chose to argue with the son over his own peace of mind and mental health.

He is 19 (a legal adult). You have trained him in school (you have done your part).
You talk to him about his way of life, if he doesn't hear/take it, you leave him and set him off. Don't argue with him to the detriment of your mental health and personal peace.

He is done with NYSC: get a house for him, give him some money to start off his own life/business. Let him live the way he wants and carry his own cross, while you face and enjoy your own life. Do your best and leave the rest.

Parents, Instead of your child to "kiilll" you, let him/her go especially if he/she is already an adult. You have done your part. Live your life in peace.

See the way that Governor is ignoring his efulefu child (I don't know if that is a son or daughter).

Sometimes, you can't help but wonder why the SW has not really pushed for their own country. Do they really "need" the rest of the country?

Obi should start working towards 2039. The earlier, the better.

...her husband posted it himself in a private group chat, and it got out.

You posted something on a GROUP Chat and you are it got out, as how nah.... What is private in a group?

HMMMM, they should create a criteria that qualifies a citizen to bear arms. Let every be armed for self protection.

It is better to died fighting (in self defense) than to be killed like a helpless chicken.

According to eyewitness accounts, the incident occurred between 7:30 pm and 7:50 pm as she attempted to cross the road. After reportedly ensuring the road was clear, she stepped forward, unaware of an approaching convoy moving at high speed.

Rest in Peace to Peace. It is well. So unfortunate.

The quoted part is not clear or straightforward enough.
Ada George road is a wide and busy highway, about the 2nd widest expressway in Port Harcourt after Aba Road. It holds Four lines of Car traffic on either side (8 lanes) conveniently. OPM branch at Ada George is by a bend/curve on the road (opposite Arcania). There are Five speed bumps/breakers by that bend (OPM side) because it is a sharp bend.

It is practically impossible for any convoy to be on "HIGH SPEED" at that bend with all the speed bumps/breakers.
It is practically impossible to say that you have looked on the road as required, "ensuring the road was clear," and still be "unaware of an approaching convoy" and other traffic before "she stepped forward".

Truth is, the eye witness story no clear, but the dead are silent. So we say again, Rest in Peace to Peace. Soo Chi Maa

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Why is he this ugly... as in, just so ugly.

Gender Equality abi...

Confused people.

Someone should kindly inform Mr. Hon. Minister that to renew Driver's License is taking about 2 years. (November 2024 till Date, still waiting)

Glimpsetv:
Summary:

Nigeria’s Interior Minister, Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, stormed the Gwagwalada passport office in Abuja during an unscheduled visit, rebuking NIS officers over delays and inefficient service. In the video, he said, “You are wasting people's precious time, time is money, time is expensive, it's not acceptable,” and criticized VIP arrangements, asking, “So because it's for VIP and children now, you people will just be taking rest and be chopping life while Nigerians are waiting outside?” He also warned against unofficial charges. The visit has sparked strong reactions online, with many praising his hands-on approach and calling him one of the most active ministers under the Tinubu APC government, while others urge systemic reforms and routine inspections.

2pm December 24th, heavy raining is falling in Port Harcourt. Same thing yesterday

SlavaUkraini:
Jagaban nor fear this Northern people...

Ban open grazing with the same Audacity that you used in removing fuel subsidy...

Heaven will not Fall..

Let their activities be restricted to a Ranch provided by government or bought by the herdsmen..

Then we will know the true herdsmen from the Terrorists claiming to be herdsmen.

Southern Business Persons and Investors should begin to get into Cattle and General Livestock business in the South. Afterall, the Cattles are moved from the North to the South for better pasture and grazing, and they survive well.

Cattle (livestock) rearing is not exclusive to the Fulanis. From US to Europe, to Australia and the Arabs, Cattle and Livestock farming/business is done there in massive scale. THEY ARE NOT FULANIs

tundegan:
Absolutely, any military action in Nigeria must be sanctioned by the Nigerian government. We appreciate the US understanding this and the importance of sovereignty.

If they don't inform or seek permission from Nigeria what will happen? What will Nigeria do?

Nigeria will run to the toothless UN or draw the longrope of ICC abi. Did you forget how Trump and Mr. Ben dealt with the UN and ICC recently?

Dey Play

Non Lagos Yoruba enjoy political opportunities in Lagos and enjoy in their state too. But a Lagos Yoruba does not have that opportunity.


Ogbeni for example.

festacman:
This is a grand plot spearheaded by non indigenous Lagos Yoruba for them to dominate indigenous Lagos Yoruba in their own state.

The only one moment a true Lagos indigene was elected the Speaker of Lagos State House of Assembly, it was swiftly revised and even some indigenous traditional rulers who supported the move were sanctioned and later forgiven when they kowtowed once again in total submission.

Why is Badagry treated like an orphan in Lagos State? When will a true Lagos Indigene: an Awori, an Egun, an indigenous Egba or Ijebu become Lagos State Governor instead of people from other states? Funso William, Musuliu Obanikoro, Jimi Agbaje, etc. were all frustrated. Why should non indigenous Yoruba have access to opportunities in both their true State of Origin and Lagos while Lagos Indigenes eat crumbs in their own state. So many questions.

God never sleeps.

Maybe they should give them till October 7th, to decide.

It took almost 2000 years after Christ before the Bible and Christianity got to us in this side of the world. We were not aware that anybody died for anybody. It it was now that the Bible/Christianity came, a lot worse could have been adjusted in the Books to suit themselves before bringing it to us.

Of course, we know that their culture was a huge influence on the Books/Writings that they brought to us.

But why Hamas release the hostages, make everybody rest and lay down their arms. It is mightily clear that October 7th was a huge error, of which the consequences was not well thought out. Hamas, Hezbollah, Houthis combined cannot win a war against Israel.

Peaceful Negotiation is their only option.

Part of the Judgement clearly ordered her to apologize in National Dailies, she didn't do that. But she is bent on forcing herself to implement an order that does not exist.

Confusion. She should sack all her Lawyers.

Hope we can allow this kind of thing on the Streets of Owerri, Enugu, Aba or anywhere else in Igbo land?

Hmmmmmmm. Don't give what you cannot take or cook what you cannot taste.

MosakuAW:
Hmmm! Very soon a lot of work will be obsolete.

We are happy now, thinking we are progressing every year with tech. Yes, we are progressing but at what cost?

I am not against technology advancement but at what cost. Driver's jobs, Ehailing job and others will no longer be available in the near future. Africans will suffer the more. May God help Nigeria.

For every Job or Vocation that Technology eradicates, it creates a Thousand more.

This was how we were saying in the early 2000s that Computer will take away peoples jobs. Of course, it did to a few but it has created a million more jobs and opened opportunities so unimagined then.

Check.

Why is Anioma State from (Delta State) not on that list?

If Buhari with his below freezing level maladministration could be reelected, I don't see why Tinubu will not be re-elected.

This is Nigeria.

Anytime I watch a John Wick movie, I remember Hamas' Oct 7th and the current devastation of Gaza.

Choose your battles wisely.

They should keep the pictures for reference tomorrow.

20 friends don't play for 20 years.

Inaugurate or Commission, which one please?

This is good news. More Fire Power to the Nigerian forces.



Sorry to ask o, while is it that such news report/information always comes from... you know who.

Zagazola Makama, a counter-insurgency expert and security analyst in the Lake Chad region...