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He denied responsibility for my pregnancy; now he wants my babies because they are twins!
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Thursday, 22 November 2012


Hers is a case of one problem too many. Her boyfriend denied responsibility for her pregnancy. She fell ill and her father died trying to get a cure for her ailment.

Her boyfriend and his family came back to claim the twins she gave birth to because they look very much like their father.

Her mother refused to allow them take the children. She needs your help





Dear Taiwo,

Please, help me. My situation is causing very serious problems between my boyfriend’s parents and mine. As at now, the whole thing is beginning to extend beyond even our families to the church. The church members are beginning to take sides and the issue is becoming messy.

I don’t like what is happening, but to an extent, I don’t have a say any longer. I don’t even mind you seeing my mother. When I tried speaking with her, she was so angry and called me different names, including an ingrate and a bastard.

My mother; to be fair, tried while my father lost his life trying to save mine. So, my mother does not see a reason why I should plead on behalf of my boyfriend’s family.

I am 18; I was in Senior Secondary School (SSC) 3 when I had to drop out before our Senior Secondary Certificate Examinations (SSCE) because I was pregnant. Unfortunately, my boyfriend, encouraged by his mother rejected and denied me as his girlfriend and the pregnancy.

My pregnancy became a big issue; both our families attend the same church; we are Catholics. My family is not all that wealthy, but not poor. My boyfriend, however, is from a very comfortable family. He could be described as a child raised with a silver spoon. Although, before now our parents relate in church, but it is a situation where rich folks relate with each other.

My boyfriend and I met and became close at one of the youth camp meetings organised by our church. We both liked each other from the onset. We never had sex or relationship on our mind; we were just friends. He was in his second year studying Geology in one of the best private universities in Nigeria. My parents couldn’t even afford to send me to a private secondary school. We are three (all girls) and I am the first born. My father did not mince words telling us that even if he didn’t have millions, he would make sure we are well educated. I have a dream to become a lawyer. My father used to love it whenever I told him this, my immediate younger sister wants to be a doctor while the youngest wants to be an engineer.

But my dream had been truncated, I have destroyed my future and those of my siblings by getting pregnant and losing our father who happened to be the sole breadwinner when he was travelling to seek cure for me from an ailment I suffered when I was pregnant. The pain of rejection also made everything worse.

After we left the youth camp where we became friends, my boyfriend and I started communicating, to make the process easier, he bought a phone for me as a birthday gift. I showed my mother, she insisted that I returned it but my father intervened.

When his mother noticed that we were close, she made a big fuss about it and asked my mother to warn me. My boyfriend and his dad apologised for her rudeness and things became normal again. I was however careful until December 31, 2011 when the youth in our church had our end of the year party just before the midnight mass started.

I wasn’t sure of how it happened or what led to it, but we had sex in the car my boyfriend brought me to the vigil. It was my first and only time. He deflowered me. He said he was sorry and because I gave him that valued gift he would love me forever. I had mixed feelings, I was actually scared but this was not the type of thing I was bold enough to tell my parents, but I confided in my immediate younger sister.

I however had the shock of my life when three months latter, I discovered I was pregnant. Then, I had no choice than to tell my parents. My boyfriend was away in school, when my parents and I met his parents, his mother said it could never be true. She said her son could not go near a gutter girl like me talk less of having sex with me.

His father invited him home immediately. On arrival, he came, he denied having anything to do with me. My life crashed. I became unhappy. His father, though a nice man said there was nothing he could do since his son said he had nothing to do with me.

My mother wanted to make trouble, but my father, God rest his soul, a gentleman to the core asked her to leave everything in God’s hands. When my pregnancy became three months, I became very sick and bedridden. I couldn’t walk. I was in the hospital for several weeks and when my parents couldn’t afford the bills again, I had to go back home.

My father died in a motor accident, while he was travelling to our home town to bring herbs for me. Our grief knew no bounds. We couldn’t have survived if not for the help of a family we met while I was on hospital admission. We didn’t know them from Adam. The couple took interest in us and helped.

After my father’s demise, they advised that I went back to the hospital, they footed my bills and made sure I received the best treatment. Just before I was delivered of a set of twins through Cesarean Section, I was able to walk again. This couple has not left us for one day since then. They have been responsible even for my sisters’ schooling and they assisted mum to start a good business. To shock you, they are Muslims.

I delivered a set of twins, both boys few weeks ago and they both looked so much like my boyfriend and his father. After I had put to bed, I became a lot better. Some of our church members heard and came to see me. All the while that I was ill, my boyfriend and his family refused to see me.

Now that they heard I delivered twins and that the boys looked very much like both father and son, they wanted to come see me and the babies and even accept them, but my mother has refused to let them come even near the threshold of our house.

Her refusal is generating a lot of trouble. My boyfriend’s mother is even threatening to involve the police and family lawyer.

My predicament is creating so many divisions as some members are supporting my mother while some are for my boyfriend’s family. His father is a good man who doesn’t want trouble, but his wife is a real trouble maker. The most painful thing is that the reverend father asked my mother to see him, she did not go and when he came to our house, she also refused to see him.

Not that I want to have anything to do with my boyfriend and his family again, I just want peace to reign. I have learnt a lesson or two from what I got myself into. I want my mother to have peace of mind; I don’t want to lose her like my father. I could see that the whole thing is affecting her, please, help me. What can I do?

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@MIEKOVA,

Calm down. No harm in asking a guy for his number. If he had doubt about starting a relationship with you, the fact that you push the relationship a step ahead will give him reason to consider what he wish to make of your friendship. He may be hesitating because he does not want to hurt you if he was committed to another woman.
If he has plans for you, he would most likely take things further from there. However, do not force him to declare love for you. Should that happen, it would be a ready excuse when he decides to do away with you that is you forced him to the relationship.

All the best.

Hi Chidi,

Thanks all.

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Very good points and message. But of course, it will not attract comments from those who make the basing of muslims thier pleasure and may not make it to front page here because it would not appeal to the muslim haters.

@maclatunji, you are right on the issues. Moderation is required by the muslims showing displeasures worldwide and from the Islamaphobia tendencies of the west that gained momentum since 9/11.

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@ZUBY77
Anambra State. I am ashamed of you people. I am from Enugu and the only kidnapping case i know of in Enugu was committed by Two Anambra people and one man from delta state. When other tribes talk about the kidnapping cases, you attack them. Why ?
Why do you folks believe that money is everything? Who instilled this senseless and dangerous ideology in your core culture?
Just because of Range sport and Escalade, you kidnap and kill your fellow human being.

What is the problem? Niger delta militants started kidnapping foreigners for a reason. What is your own reason? Money is my best guess. Money right?
Anambra state, you boast of Azikiwe, Ekwueme, Ifeanyi Ubah, capital oil. You boast of Ikemba, Author Eze, Osita Osadebe, Oliver de Coque, Mikel Obi, Achebe, Ibeto, Chike Obi,Emeka Ofor, Andy Uba, Soludo, You are the highest producer of bread - Agulu town, etc etc. Which other state in Nigeria can boast of more powerful individuals ? My guess is none.
In Enugu, a neighbouring state, tell me two powerful individuals you know.. Yet your people flooded the Enugu city to hide and rest after commiting crimes all over the place.
You even kidnap your Igwes, traditional rulers, you kidnap Rev. Fathers, You kidnap school Children, you kidnapped Soludo's father, you kidnapped and killed God is good motors, you kidnapped and killed Obilinks, all these people are your brothers. You kidnapped my elder Brother Albert, who lives in Onitsha and i have not seen him since then. My mom has been praying against you folks and sooner or later, curses will be upon you. Flood will carry your houses, erosion will damage your lands.

Was it because of the civil war? Then why not start kidnapping The Alhajis. Atleast send a message to them that you are not happy about what happened.
Was it Awolowo, grow up and move on or start kidnapping the Kabyesis, send them a message . Why kidnap your fellow Igbo business men who are struggling to establish themselves since the war ended ?
The truth is that you are cursed. You manipulate business in Onitsha, Nnewi and even Lagos, you see even the other Igbo traders as inferiors. While Enugu and Imo is fast developing in infrastructure and Agriculture, you develop in criminology. You forge results, cheat on exams, abuse Abakiliki and wawa people, abuse other tribes, yorubas and hausas and kidnap your own brothers and sisters. Your time is up because, the campaign to correct all this will kick off soon.

Are you Igbo? You partly echo the troubling thoughts in the mind of other ethnic nationalities in Nigeria and even disporal about the insatiable lust for money Igbo syndrome. It is good that some Igbo at least admit there is serious problem with this extreme lust for wealth by the Igbo at the expense of anybody, and anything. May God touch the heart of the Igbo parents. The parents need to slow disuade the yound and growing up Igbos from this destructive path.
No prejudice or offence meant to innocent Igbo men and women.

@banki
Before I make any real contribution i would like to clarify who exactly Ruben Abati is to the president,and the difference between his job function and that of Doyin okupe, also Reno Omokri and Oronto Douglas, and Labaran Maku and the Minister of State for information, and News agency of Nigeria National orientation agency and all the Department and agencies under the ministry of Information, because all of them have thier own media advisers and special assistants and NONE OF THEM HAVE A FUNCTIONAL WEBSITE, that details the "good work" of Mr president.... that alone makes all of them clueless and redundant coming from a government that wants to reduce wastage and totally eradicate corruption that alone confirms that ruben Abati is a liar.

Mr Abati should realize that nobody takes delight in abusing the president, the same social media they criticise is the same social media they used effectively to mobilize support for mr President!The president we know is the president that dines and wines with the people who have consistently Molested the nigerian people daily, I hear about road construction only on the social Media and whenever I travel by road i see no change, infact i read Ruben abatis article on my road trip from ilesha to Abuja yesterday and i can confirm that there is no improvement and no sign of improvement....especialy on the lokoja Abuja road! mr Abati you and your cohorts should understand that Bi courtney/ Wale Babalakin should be in jail by now for collecting money and fulfilling thier own part of the consession agreement! Mr abati am sure your salary and allowance and that of doyin okupe and all his assistants alone can fix at least one of this roads.....immediately, Mr Abati what if people did not come out to protest in January would you have even come out to publish the list of the subsidy thieves? Mr president whose job was it to pay the subsidy cabal, who signed the cheques, who confirmed what they imported, who gave them thier licences? who paid them?....The presidency should be lucky that nigerians are docile if not by now you and your PDP cohorts would be burning in hell right now. what is 400mw of electricity when over 20billion dollars have been pumped into the electicity projects over the last 13 years by your party and governments that you have been an intergral part of, Mr Abati odinary nigerians are made to suffer for mistakes and the incompetence of you and your government. We dont want to know what happened in the past or who caused the problem we want the problems solved.

Mr president if you and the pdp think throwing money around is the solution to the degradation of the niger delta waters you must be DEAD WRONG how much of that money has asari Dokubo , Tompolo and the rest contributed into the development of the niger Delta how come warri is not yet like Dubai? thats why people think the president is clueless.....and no amount of PR stunt can change our minds until we start to see real changes and sacrifices from the top ... if i earn 45,000 as salary and a wife and a kid how on earth do you expect me to survive in Nigeria? without stealing... and you have the guts to talk about GEJ being simple and honest ....he is so honest and cannot put the chairman of PPRA who by the way is the former PDP chairman in jail,he is so simple and not a tribalist so as soon as october 1 bombing happened he quickly told the world that it was not his brothers MEND but a northern cabal against him.

The president we know is a weakling, that is quick to send soldiers to ojota park when people were protesting a legitimate cause none violently instead of sending the soldiers to the houses of the so called subsidy thieves... the president we know is the one that increases coppers salary and increases the price of fuel.....at the same time, the president we know is the one we see everyday that doesnt inspire the nigerian youth through his speeches works and actions... the president we know is the one that kept an incompetent inspector general of police in office for almost 2years because they were friends... the president we know is a bad example of a leader who instead of keeping nigeria together his aides are talking about war! the president we know is one who knows the boko haram sponsors and members but chooses not to act! the president we know is one that always cries foul and always complains about other people but has all the power to put them in thier place but would not do it!

The president we know is the one that could not stand up to Turai yaradua and the rest of the people keeping nigeria at a standtill, we know our president to be incompetent

I can't agree less with you. You are right on spot here.[b]@banki
Before I make any real contribution i would like to clarify who exactly Ruben Abati is to the president,and the difference between his job function and that of Doyin okupe, also Reno Omokri and Oronto Douglas, and Labaran Maku and the Minister of State for information, and News agency of Nigeria National orientation agency and all the Department and agencies under the ministry of Information, because all of them have thier own media advisers and special assistants and NONE OF THEM HAVE A FUNCTIONAL WEBSITE, that details the "good work" of Mr president.... that alone makes all of them clueless and redundant coming from a government that wants to reduce wastage and totally eradicate corruption that alone confirms that ruben Abati is a liar.

Mr Abati should realize that nobody takes delight in abusing the president, the same social media they criticise is the same social media they used effectively to mobilize support for mr President!The president we know is the president that dines and wines with the people who have consistently Molested the nigerian people daily, I hear about road construction only on the social Media and whenever I travel by road i see no change, infact i read Ruben abatis article on my road trip from ilesha to Abuja yesterday and i can confirm that there is no improvement and no sign of improvement....especialy on the lokoja Abuja road! mr Abati you and your cohorts should understand that Bi courtney/ Wale Babalakin should be in jail by now for collecting money and fulfilling thier own part of the consession agreement! Mr abati am sure your salary and allowance and that of doyin okupe and all his assistants alone can fix at least one of this roads.....immediately, Mr Abati what if people did not come out to protest in January would you have even come out to publish the list of the subsidy thieves? Mr president whose job was it to pay the subsidy cabal, who signed the cheques, who confirmed what they imported, who gave them thier licences? who paid them?....The presidency should be lucky that nigerians are docile if not by now you and your PDP cohorts would be burning in hell right now. what is 400mw of electricity when over 20billion dollars have been pumped into the electicity projects over the last 13 years by your party and governments that you have been an intergral part of, Mr Abati odinary nigerians are made to suffer for mistakes and the incompetence of you and your government. We dont want to know what happened in the past or who caused the problem we want the problems solved.

Mr president if you and the pdp think throwing money around is the solution to the degradation of the niger delta waters you must be DEAD WRONG how much of that money has asari Dokubo , Tompolo and the rest contributed into the development of the niger Delta how come warri is not yet like Dubai? thats why people think the president is clueless.....and no amount of PR stunt can change our minds until we start to see real changes and sacrifices from the top ... if i earn 45,000 as salary and a wife and a kid how on earth do you expect me to survive in Nigeria? without stealing... and you have the guts to talk about GEJ being simple and honest ....he is so honest and cannot put the chairman of PPRA who by the way is the former PDP chairman in jail,he is so simple and not a tribalist so as soon as october 1 bombing happened he quickly told the world that it was not his brothers MEND but a northern cabal against him.

The president we know is a weakling, that is quick to send soldiers to ojota park when people were protesting a legitimate cause none violently instead of sending the soldiers to the houses of the so called subsidy thieves... the president we know is the one that increases coppers salary and increases the price of fuel.....at the same time, the president we know is the one we see everyday that doesnt inspire the nigerian youth through his speeches works and actions... the president we know is the one that kept an incompetent inspector general of police in office for almost 2years because they were friends... the president we know is a bad example of a leader who instead of keeping nigeria together his aides are talking about war! the president we know is one who knows the boko haram sponsors and members but chooses not to act! the president we know is one that always cries foul and always complains about other people but has all the power to put them in thier place but would not do it!

The president we know is the one that could not stand up to Turai yaradua and the rest of the people keeping nigeria at a standtill, we know our president to be incompetent

I can't agree less with you. You are right on spot here.[/b]@banki
Before I make any real contribution i would like to clarify who exactly Ruben Abati is to the president,and the difference between his job function and that of Doyin okupe, also Reno Omokri and Oronto Douglas, and Labaran Maku and the Minister of State for information, and News agency of Nigeria National orientation agency and all the Department and agencies under the ministry of Information, because all of them have thier own media advisers and special assistants and NONE OF THEM HAVE A FUNCTIONAL WEBSITE, that details the "good work" of Mr president.... that alone makes all of them clueless and redundant coming from a government that wants to reduce wastage and totally eradicate corruption that alone confirms that ruben Abati is a liar.

Mr Abati should realize that nobody takes delight in abusing the president, the same social media they criticise is the same social media they used effectively to mobilize support for mr President!The president we know is the president that dines and wines with the people who have consistently Molested the nigerian people daily, I hear about road construction only on the social Media and whenever I travel by road i see no change, infact i read Ruben abatis article on my road trip from ilesha to Abuja yesterday and i can confirm that there is no improvement and no sign of improvement....especialy on the lokoja Abuja road! mr Abati you and your cohorts should understand that Bi courtney/ Wale Babalakin should be in jail by now for collecting money and fulfilling thier own part of the consession agreement! Mr abati am sure your salary and allowance and that of doyin okupe and all his assistants alone can fix at least one of this roads.....immediately, Mr Abati what if people did not come out to protest in January would you have even come out to publish the list of the subsidy thieves? Mr president whose job was it to pay the subsidy cabal, who signed the cheques, who confirmed what they imported, who gave them thier licences? who paid them?....The presidency should be lucky that nigerians are docile if not by now you and your PDP cohorts would be burning in hell right now. what is 400mw of electricity when over 20billion dollars have been pumped into the electicity projects over the last 13 years by your party and governments that you have been an intergral part of, Mr Abati odinary nigerians are made to suffer for mistakes and the incompetence of you and your government. We dont want to know what happened in the past or who caused the problem we want the problems solved.

Mr president if you and the pdp think throwing money around is the solution to the degradation of the niger delta waters you must be DEAD WRONG how much of that money has asari Dokubo , Tompolo and the rest contributed into the development of the niger Delta how come warri is not yet like Dubai? thats why people think the president is clueless.....and no amount of PR stunt can change our minds until we start to see real changes and sacrifices from the top ... if i earn 45,000 as salary and a wife and a kid how on earth do you expect me to survive in Nigeria? without stealing... and you have the guts to talk about GEJ being simple and honest ....he is so honest and cannot put the chairman of PPRA who by the way is the former PDP chairman in jail,he is so simple and not a tribalist so as soon as october 1 bombing happened he quickly told the world that it was not his brothers MEND but a northern cabal against him.

The president we know is a weakling, that is quick to send soldiers to ojota park when people were protesting a legitimate cause none violently instead of sending the soldiers to the houses of the so called subsidy thieves... the president we know is the one that increases coppers salary and increases the price of fuel.....at the same time, the president we know is the one we see everyday that doesnt inspire the nigerian youth through his speeches works and actions... the president we know is the one that kept an incompetent inspector general of police in office for almost 2years because they were friends... the president we know is a bad example of a leader who instead of keeping nigeria together his aides are talking about war! the president we know is one who knows the boko haram sponsors and members but chooses not to act! the president we know is one that always cries foul and always complains about other people but has all the power to put them in thier place but would not do it!

The president we know is the one that could not stand up to Turai yaradua and the rest of the people keeping nigeria at a standtill, we know our president to be incompetent

I can't agree less with you. You are right on spot here.

I think Reuben Abati again got it wrong. I can imagine Reuben Abati is trying very hard to play himself back into the heart of GEJ with this write up. Unfortunately, the write up is absurd, uninteligent and completely fallacious and misleading. Reuben should remember there would be life after GEJ's Presidency and therefore should tow the path of honour. I duff my hat to Former Minister of State for Finance Remi Babalola who willingly resigned from GEJ government. I see many Minister's in this government who ought to know better to quit than continue to work with GEJ.
Reuben should get out of this government and find another job to do. Not even GOD would be able to defend the shortfalls of GEJ and his wife.

So sad. The worst write up I have ever read from Reuben Abati. How people change for a little pot of porridge. Very sad and hurting self distruction by Reuben Abati.

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@9ja voice

HAUSA/FULANI'S ARE NEARING THEIR END.


THE WORST THEY WILL DO NOW IS TO REVENGE, IF THEY DO THAT THERE END WILL COME.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH HAUSA/FULANI'S?
WHY CAN'T THEY CO-EXIST WITH OTHER'S?
THEY FOUGHT AND KILL IN MIDDLE BELT,
FOGUTH AND MASSACRE YORUBA'S IN SOUTHWEST,
FOUGHT AND KILL IN NIGER DELTA,
NOW FIGHTING BUT WAS KILLED IN SOUTHEAST.

@9ja voice, your hipocrisy is not undetected. So the Fulanis are able to kill and massacre all other tribes but Igbos killed them. I would not expect ethnic bigotry in a serious issue like this. Anyway, everything has to be tribalised in Niger.

U tried but it won't fly.

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