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Where's her fake ring

Hmmmmm.i smell .........

Nigeria and bad things.nothing is working.i will port very soon

Life is a bitch.we all gat stories

I didnt want to post anything but i just want to say something to you dear.I am a single mum since 2016 until date i havent had sex with any guy.becareful dont get pregnant until you get married.please learn from d first

Manyalove:
Hello all. I'll try to be very brief here.
So, I have this very cute guy, who's every woman's dream of a man- a typical TDH (tall, dark and handsome). He's the cutest of every guy i've ever dated. He also very good in bed. Exceptionally good. He's very much in love with me. However, he has a baby and a mama; the product of a fling he had. Thing is, his desire to be part of his son's life made him take in the mama (kid's three years old BTW), to stay in one of the rooms in his house. I've also got kids from a previous union which didn't work out fine and i'm doing my very best to move on and get settled again. He told me about his mama from the onset, but i hid my history from him. He later found out on his own and had no issues with it. I'm very beautiful and attractive and one would hardly know i've had kids before if i don't tell u.
My concern with this guy is that he's not very stable. He does several hustles here and there, but is always struggling with cash. I do work and help him out sometimes but, i'm often restricted by the fact that i have kids of my own who though stay with my parents, are my sole responsibility. Again, the fact that he has a woman like me in the background, whom i know he'll be giving money to for upkeep turns me off from helping always as well. Besides, its not like i earn so much too, its just that its more steady than whatever he does. He hardly gives me anything, but i hardly complain. Couple of months back i missed my period and informed him. He was happy and wished for a daughter. However, i was against the idea of having another child, at least not out of wedlock. I tried to make him see reasons with me and somehow, he obliged. A month after again, same thing happened. As usual he begged that this one should stay, again i refused. I insisted he must provide the funds for it to be taken care of since he keeps refusing to protect himself. But as usual, he was broke. I took care of everything on my own and kept my distance from him. In fact, i wanted to put an end to everything between us. It was within this period i met someone else, who actually tickles my fancy. He's not as handsome as my other guy, but he's not totally bad either. (I'm sure by now u wld hv figured i have a thing for appearances). Anyway, this new guy has a steady job, and he's really fun to be with. He's very much single and knows about my status yet he's cool with it.
Couple of weeks back, my other guy came pleading with me for us to get back together (as i have all this while been giving him the silence treatment). Somehow, he got to know that I've been seeing someone else and he's very mad at me. As things stand now, we're on the verge of a break-up. I should be happy since its what i had initially wanted, but I've been miserable; can't sleep well at nite, can't eat well too. Don't know why i'm feeling this way. There's this deep sadness that has since enveloped me and i cant seem to shake it off. Worse still, he's not taking my calls. I'm really confused and feel very alone right now. Should i just let him be and move on with this new guy or do i still try harder to win him back seeing how i'm feeling without him?
Guess i made it long after all. Soo sorry folks, had to pour almost all out. Won't mind reasonable advice, comments and suggestions pls. Try to take it easy with the bashings too pls, as i'm qiute unstable emotionally now. Thanks.

Sex award.thrash

I love you babe.tell the razor blade mouth[ quote author=itsmeurLady post=73022082]Aww... Just take a look at the baby the lord is your strength Madam...Thank God u were smart enough to know all these things on time.

Mr/Miss Perfect bashing her, I hope u have never made a wrong choice in your life before? I hope when you do, you don't get criticized like this because only then will you know that when it comes to other people's experiences, u shld not talk anyhow because what you do to people is what they will do to you in return. That's why, people are dying out of depression because of sharp words from unknown strangers all in the name of savagery. NLand might be a faceless forum but know that every idle/useless word you post here, you will give account. The words you posted, did it lead people to sin? Did it hurt others? Did it make people contemplate suicide?

THINK BEFORE YOU TYPE!!!!![/quote]

Lala

OP na wa o.na your thread and you run first comment

God bless you for this thread.i believe in God and in the blood of the lamb

Fufu versus pizza

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Speechless

Oga justwise as spoken

justwise:
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Human parts? Illegal drugs? Child trafficking? What exactly do you do for a living that's so secret but you keep talking about the business here? You brought the issue openly here and when people asked to know you dropped email address.

Only a very naive or gullible person will email you.

Is it Mexico

starbn:
PLEASE HELP ME TO BOOK APPOINTMENT.IM FINDING DIFFICULT CREATE ACCOUNT WITH EMBANXCY
ITS SHOWING PASSWORD ERROR

I have hope and faith in God.thanks

DateMynd44:
do u still have Hope in him?

Lol.they are trying to be strong.crying and smiling

Bluezy13:


Tell them.

When I say that there is no single mother who does not harbour one regret or the other, they'll start shouting and claiming feminists.

No dear

DateMynd44:
this is an old thread.
kizme is he back?

Ugosample let me tell you a little story.2010 my girlfriend told me about traveling to germany through Land i said No o God forbid.she took the bold step went with one of her friend today they are in germany doing better than me in Nigeria. I know people will say destiny differs.my dear na once person dey die.i dont advice land o.

Ugosample:


good

you could also improve your skills set

it will help you a lot abroad

I make hair i also sew but simple style

Ugosample:


good

you could also improve your skills set

it will help you a lot abroad

Thanks for your little advise first of all i am not desperate if i was desperate i would have gone through land in 2010 when my girlfriend went to germany through land.secondly nobody can scam me i look b4 i leap.thanks

Ugosample:


the first thing I'd advice you is this....


Don't be desperate

it's very important

I know someone who was desperate to leave, and was scammed. the person was a nairalander, and sadly, he has committed suicide

I know others personally like that.

Kill desperation


Secondly, you will have to give a one year lag, between when you begin research plans to leave and actually leaving

the internet is ur friend, do all the research you can, and then narrow down to a few countries and eventually pick.

If you were business savvy, I would have suggested a stable African country to establish and grow
but then, if you want to do corporate work, then the west may be the place

but then, be careful o

Tell me other options to leave this shithole.canada express entry is high.i don't have masters whats my assurance?

Ugosample:


wait o

why do you even consider Mexico to be an option in the first place,??,


I'm just curious to know

Oga ben come back to your thread.i can see US citizens arguing on mexico thread.help us with ways to migrate abroad una no gree.no argument on this thread or i will ban you.i am d mod

Na wa for this argument o.we in naija are looking for escape route and you are arguing over what i dont understand. If i tell you to invite me over na you will abadon me at the airport

drakeli:
One last thing I’m going to tell you is this. The Op of this tread got to Mexico and he was able to secure US visa right in Mexico. Today he is able to crisscross the US with no problem from Mexico. He has now the opportunity to become US legal recident if he chooses to do so. In the case of that person you made an example out of, it is either you are telling a misleading lie to drive home your point or the person in question is not opening up to you in details on how he made his way into the US. But trust me, if he is truly a US citizen today, definitely he did not cross the boarder on foot. However, if he did get smuggled through the boarder, he must have realized his fate by now and he will never tell you guys back home in Nigeria that he is stucked with no legalization. On the other hand , he might be able to get a visa while in Mexico just like the Op. That will make his journey smoother. We that are hear, most of us love telling lies and showing lies about ourselves to people back home and even on Facebook. Guy don’t let anyone deceive you about himself. Don’t believe him until he tells you the truth about how he was able to secure a visa in Mexico to cross. I know a lot of South Americana here in different capacities. How funny non of them ever told me that some “smart” lawyer does that or has helped anyone of them even when I see Mexicans with US citizen wives and kids being deported everyday leaving their families behind. I wish they could know where this “smart” lawyer resides. That would really be helpful.

Will you come back or get a teaching job

Meximan:


Yes ooo

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Are you going with tourist visa.

Meximan:


when are u leaving? Bcoz am leaving by December still in the process anyway

There was a Thread

My sister i tire for nairaland.

ferhyntorlah:
And that was how the Mexican topic died a natural DEATH!

SMH!