₦airaland Forum

creativehubb:
He likes following the camera and publicity, he knows the wedding up north will get more attention

Okoroawusa:
I was surprised o! Instead he went to the wedding up north because he knows that a lot of cameras will be there

Mohamid:
FAKE SMILE 😁😁😁

allthingsgood:
always complaining. everything is negative in your eyes. keep waiting you hear

easzypeaszy:
u be chimpamzim.. I kw u live in d jungle so u only rely on iPob news

DestinedForGrea:
Hello everyone.

Please I need an urgent advice from the mature minds here. I'm about to take a decision that has the potential to change the course of my life.

A quick background:
I come from a family consisting of five "children", of which I'm the fourth. Right from the days of my childhood, my parents and older siblings have had a firm control over me. They often dictated the friends I'd keep, placed I'd go to, where I should be, and almost how I should behave.

I was mostly indoors because they didn't want me playing around. That had an impact on my personality, because I couldn't master the ability to make friends, express myself confidently, and get involved in social activities that my peers relished.

Fastforward to this point:

I'm in my late 20s, a graduate and an NYSC cert holder, and although the level of control has been minimized, I still experience a bit of it. I don't have a place of my own for now, so I stay in the family house, but my older ones are independent in that aspect though they don't stay far from the family house.

I have a job too, but the salary is not even enough to take care of myself and support the home for a week.

Now here's the issue, I got a job offer from someone I served with during my NYSC, in a state about 8 hours from my current state of residence. It's the same job with the one I'm on right now (a teaching job) but with a slightly better payment return.

The person has a good relationship with the principal of the school, so according to him, the job is secure. I had to accept it because I'm tired of my current situation, and I'm tired of the life I'm living here -- my social life is next to zero, I don't have friends close by, I'm not socially active, and I need to explore. With my little savings, I plan to get an apartment as cheap as possible when I get there.

The problem is everyone is kicking against , because they're concerned about my safety, how I'm going to cope alone in this harsh economy. They've told me that if I decide to leave against their wish, that I'll be on my own and won't get their hands involved if anything goes wrong.

At the moment, I'm thinking of standing my ground and sticking to my decision, because I'm depressed from being in this environment, but I'm a bit afraid of my family cutting ties with me.

Please any advice? I really need some right now.

Thanks!

Emekaonline:
Please will you and your father commit suicide when the judgement does not go your way? Will you be manful enough to do the needful or you will choose to be shameless like on prince of aba that called himself princeoflagos?

talented321:
The opposition party especially (lp) they are doing like they can fight the govt' some times i just wonder'' this people has taken this freedom of speech to far'' it high time they deal with them.

SalamRushdie:
This billboard was real ? How did they get regulatory approval for it ?

Moh227:
All you Ipob, ESN, Ugm on Nairaland would be fished out really soon... Order as been given to DSS and Police cyber security unit

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Ikaeniyan0:
Yes, I prefer the brain of a man who graduated with a first class in CSU, worked for companies like mobil, became a senator and a governor and now a president to that of your daddy.

fuckJones:
this are the characters of labour party