₦airaland Forum

SGANIVA:
Please I need an advise ,I want dissolve my four months old marriage .

If you follow my post on nairaland you will see where I posted about looking for a wife some months ago ,yes someone later introduced me to this girl who's from anambra state dunukofia local government . I guess she's beautiful and possess some of the qualities I wanted from my own view , the person that introduced me to this lady already told her family all about me and my business . so no need of wasting time , we went to her place for the traditional rite with my people after three weeks of knowing her
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Everything was successful after I have spent 800k on traditional rite , there elders insist I must do traditional marriage for the community (igba nkwu ) which my people argue but to no Vail ,well the later release my wife to me .
To God be the glory my wife became pregnant the second month ,there family started mounting pleasure on me again for the igba nkwu (traditional marriage ) and wedding , well this time my business was having a major shake up because is December already, we need to settle out with partners including financial institutions

God1000:
Technology is revolutionising our lives

OChimex:
It’s not detailing my dear. I have been in the US at least for years now, actually in a most white populated neighborhood, but trust me, I haven’t for once felt racism. In fact, all I have known is love and respect.
White still dey open door for me at shopping malls/restrooms, always yield for me to pass at stop signs, and nobody has cursed or shouted at me when driving on the road, unlike when I was in Nigeria.
Racism is so political, like the way Hausa will always want to be the only one rulling Nigeria, but aside that, it’s not that common on the streets nowadays.

Trust me black people are living better lives and not maltreated.

In fact, if you be cute black boy here, na so whites babes go dey rush you. Lol

SweetDipBenny:
Wats understood dnt need to b explained. U jus know it

Tonim:
Would you have your children tutored in a language they understand (e.g. hausa, igbo, yoruba
efik, kanuri) other than English?

Ulunne777:
What are you even saying?How will they be able to communicate with their fellow countrymen.What's the Lingua franca for?Are they blockheads that they can't absorb another language easier for them.Is Waec ,Neck,Jamb written in Hausa?Can't you see the reason for their perpetual failure yr in yr out?
My kids under 10 read,speak and write Igbo and still converse flawlessly in English and Lil of French.Igbo only at home.

Stop limiting your ppl with this mentality.

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

Issybilla:
Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.

kernniejay:
But you wont be able to stand at international level and your certificate will be worthless for job outside because your language is only useful in your country and few other North african countries.

FalseProphet1:
The only wife materials on Earth is hens they can feed their children without disturbing their husband.

RenaissanceGuy:
Your last line is quite hilarious . Reading and writing is not exclusive to English language. If you were born into a Hausa or Igbo family and you are not learned, you'll still not be able to read or write in Igbo or Hausa language.

RenaissanceGuy:
How old are you, bro? Is English the lingua franca in that European man's country like Nigeria?

lilfresh96:
It's common here in the North

And even those that know how to speak English don't want to because they are shy or Alfred of being judged by their colleagues. It's so discouraging.

In the North Hausa language is considered as the lingua Franca. And it is degrading educational system

But you will find them to be very intelligent if you speak their language and reason with them

lawrenzooo:
Not when English is the official language in our schools.

Angelfrost:
Sir, you do realize you haven't answered any of my questions?!!

While English proficiency shouldn't be a total measure of learning and education, shouldn't an educated person have a good grasp of his nation's main language of communication across diverse ethnic groups?!!

ppogba:
It is totally untrue that English was imposed on us because AFRICANS were taken as slaves.
Rather, the colonialists that colonised the various countries of African imposed their official languages on the various countries. Hence, you see Mali and Ivory coast speaking french, Angola speaking Portuguese etc.

ppogba:
Have you forgotten that English is the official language in Nigeria?
Perhaps, govt agencies and ministries should adopt arabic when interviewing candidates or maybe WAEC and JAMB should translate all subjects to local languages?

lawrenzooo:
Are you surprised? Some of their teachers cannot speak English that's how bad the situation is.

Angelfrost:
Okay.... So, what should be the common language of communication across the nation?!! Arabic?!!

If a Chinese, Belgian, and French can commit to learning basic English to ease communication at their foreign jobs, why should that be difficult for a person schooling in his birth nation where that language is the main Lingua franca?!

Omihanifa:
It’s a normal thing in the north. Majority of the students can’t read and write. They are only good in Arabic.

It’s an open secret that the north is seriously dragging Nigeria behind in everything. If you have lived in the north before you will understand why am talking about.

Mirasteel:
I have also seen graduates that can't write properly, some can't even spell some simple words.

jaeyking:
Yea there are students who can't speak English
Only their indigenous language, either pigdin, hausa, igbo or Yoruba.

Well he should flush out the teachers and employ new ones

bibianna:
They're students but can't speak English in this country!

feminist35:
Men are all over always trying to deceive Young girls, 20yrs to 25yrs, into a relationship. Many of these men will not bother with a mature and independent lady because they know these type of ladies will see them for the coward and failure that they are. A 35yrs old woman is mature enough to know what she wants, but no, they won't go for her. They will rather be disturbing Young girls in their prime and be looking for virgin up and down

Jeon:
Another pass of ur diss, I'm a virgin. I do no thing in the shape of man's penis
Maybe you talking about ur mum and the other girls you've widen their vagina with ur public prick.
So the reason why you are telling me to take cautions.

Jeon:
I have never date and I don't see myself doing that for now.


The most what Men..
Yet Nigeria is not among the most faithful men in West Africa.
Sorry my head is not for ritual.
And I don't have anything to do with tribes that are selling Nigeria image in negative ways.



Another pass of ur diss, I'm a virgin. I do no thing in the shape of man's penis
Maybe you talking about ur mum and the other girls you've widen their vagina with ur public prick.
So the reason why you are telling me to take cautions.