₦airaland Forum

Modupeola17:
Omoooo, sometimes I just sit and wonder what is the essence of being alive sometimes, my and husband both lost our jobs coupled with the fact that we have a one year old daughter , everyone we tried to confide in makes it a subject of mockery, no one to confide it, just tired of everything

You should both consider moving back in with your side or the family or his side, assuming one has housing so you can save money while you both job hunt. No need to mind what other people say because the economic problems are real in Nigeria.

Psoul:
■ Are you normal? I mean did you really typed this?

Answer the questions!

Why should a woman be disrespected because of her choice of clothing though, at her own wedding for that matter? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Does the image of Beyonce below equally lead you to conclude she deserves no respect? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Bintasukai:
■ And it’s simply ignorance on yours’. You do realize that white wedding gowns signify virginity, right?

Signi-what-now? When? where? Huh? Do you actually think that every bride who has ever worn a white gown has always held that thinking of yours? Do you equally believe that grooms all walk down believing the woman a virgin because she wore white? Which kain yeye reasoning be this abeg! Bullsheet! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Onogiede:
Hypocrisy everywhere,..in the olden days there where nothing like clothes they one cover their main Private part nothing more.

Why you dey remind our morality police officers!

Silentscreamer:
So they don't have any external relatives that can reconcile them since they are not divorced??

Reconcile? The story says the woman was not happy and she still does not desire the man. Na by force to be with the man abi wetin?

illicit:
The landlady ought not to allow her into the compound

Nonsense! Why she go wan carry another person quagmire for her head!

eliyke:
First is to do DNA for d two children she left behind

Do we even know that the woman claimed they were her kids to begin with?

Afuzeman:
■ What is really shocking is that the man who impregnated her did not marry her or take her to his house but rather rented a place for her on the same street were her husband is with their children and she feels no shame or guilt about anything to the point she even comes to our compound and acts like the husband and children don't exist.
The man said when he was sick and trying to gather money for his operation that was when the woman told him she wanted to go visit her people to seek help only for her to stay there over a month and refused to return. However when she returned she started giving all sort of problem and excuses till she packed and left the house only for them to discover that all her attitude was because she was pregnant for another man and started telling people that her husband is too old for her and he wasn't giving her sex after having two kids with the man just because the man fell sick but he has recovered now.
If it were you how would you feel seeing your wife living in your neighborhood and pregnant for another man.

Mr. Storyteller, are you certain the children in question belong to the woman? No just come tell us one-sided tales by moonlight at least go ask the woman her side and come present both here instead.

Rapmoney:
I mean, the price of this bread is half the salary of some Nigerian workers. So can you purchase this bread in this present Nigerian economy? E be like say the bread dey cure cancer

Why is the bread that expensive? Na gold dey am?

MOG6670:
■ yeah, there is something underneath (just re-checked it). But "for me" her gowon is nt aproproriete and decent. (it suggest immor@r¡+¥)

And who made you morality police over what she can or cannot wear to her own wedding for that matter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Hussein035:
■ You will never see this craziness in Islam if you like let your father be president, as long as it is Muslim wedding you will rather convert to Christianity to dress anyhow

Of course, Islam has its own form of craziness were children and women are dragged into marriage, most of them unprepared for what is in store for them. The world is well aware of this. So, if you are attempting to sell us one form of crazy for another, you are thoroughly deceived!

MOG6670:
haha for where? I only sight white down her legs while the main asset are almost on public view. Or is it my eye!

Yep! It's your eyes. She is actually wearing nude tights.

MOG6670:
LMAO what is the point of covering legs while nyansh and full asset are glaring at public

she is clothed.

Barcalee:
So wetin the guy dey marry?

A wife to his obvious liking! 🤔🤔

Mercisharelove:
∆ Now another bird singing their evening cry, you know when you have folks going nowhere, avoid this pathetic person. You looked at yourself this morning and hated everything you represented and a beautiful thought of repentance came upon you, but you know as usual, you bluffed, wow, little bird 🐦🕊️, do you actually think you'd continue tormenting your moments, why not live a happy life forever!

Again, You are an eediot! How can a woman be considered useless based on the choice of what she does with her own body?

AngelicBeing:
Love, beauty etc is in the eyes of the beholder, Sukkot has found a pretty damsel from Planet Jupiter to help him with his stargazing profession

Like I said, women dey indeed marry things! 😞😞😞😞😞

EreluRoz:
A smart woman will still value money and won't become useless. Forget these things men are spending heavily without even getting a hug. Just know when to run away, that's all.

Pray tell, what determines this uselessness of a woman?

Mercisharelove:
Once you place your value on money as a woman. believe me, there are men ready to pay you until you are useless... and that's what's up!

You are an eediot! How can a woman be considered useless based on the choice of what she does with her own body?

Justiceganduje:
True.

Nonsense conclusion!

FireUpNow:
∆ Only a Monkey can identify another monkey 🤣🤣🤣😆

Nah! The name monkey was given those animals by humans, not other monkeys.

FireUpNow:
It was once said that women will walk naked I. The streets and 7 women will beg a man to allow them bear his name. It's happening already. The nonsense man don marry confirm opio

That was only said of the women of Judah at the time of its captivity in Babylon which took place approximately 2600 years ago. Are you some sort of monkey that you would think to apply that to life in Nigeria 2600 years after the fact?

candelahria:
If you wear something that gives an illusion of unclothedness, you are as well naked.

And who came up with this? Is this a "Thou shall not wear a fabric that gives the illusion of nudity for by it thou art made nude" societal ordinance or something? When? Where ?

Bintasukai:
∆ The fact that it’s brown is another problem. Her body count has turned the white to brown. Men don use this one back scrub ground.

Utterly Nonsense thinking on your part!!! 😑😑😑😑😑😑😑

God1000:
I'm disappointed in you today.

See this one! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Psoul:
■ The same gender will be shouting "give respect to women" upandan. [sup][/sup]Women, where are thou honour? 😭😭😭😭

Why should a woman be disrespected because of her choice of clothing though? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Does the image of Beyonce below equally lead you to conclude she deserves no respect? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

Lovit:
■ Bro leave that matter, there are societal ordinances which people must abide by. everyone can't be left to decide how to live his or life in every way.
■ That's why sex in the public, nudity at work, rape or even pedophilia is frowned at by governments and authorities
■ Well they are adults and they can choose to live their lives the way they want but there are consequences!
■ Modesty pays, no matter how anyone wants to promote irresponsibility, Modesty Pays!

Ah, I see! What you are saying is that even the Constitutional freedoms to live as one pleases within the confines of the Law of the Land are impinged on by these, what you call, societal ordinances, right?

2. The government is the Consitution, and it does not impose one's desires as far as weddings are concerned, including this particular one here. What you are instead suggesting is that there is an additional moral police out there.... like Hisbah in the north and Bokoharam... 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

3. Duh! Respect people's freedoms abeg! 😁

4. That one na story for the gods! Go around all of Nigeria and see how women have had to sell even their bodies—many others had to reduce themselves to slave status for men — to make it in that country.

ChronicGp:
Olosho don finally marry

Nonsense conclusion!!! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Lovit:
■ bro my suspicion isn't about emotional and domestic violence, it is about the moral standing of the couples. When you are about to raise a family, you should be matured enough to do away with childish tendencies.
■ Rihanna recently told the whole world that she regrets her nude pictures and presentations while she was younger.
■ secondly, the man should know better. certain things are not advisable as an adult even if you love to do them. There are even children in the second picture.
■ What is good about public nudity at weddings? nothing really. Nothing!

1. What is "moral standing"? I have literally no clue what you mean by that. Do you even realize that? Your "moral standing" may not even be the next man's "moral standing" so why should your "moral standing" matter where this particular couple is concerned?

2. When did Rihanna become representative of all people out there for Pete's sake?

3. Huh? Talk about taking Botox for someone else's migraine! The man married exactly the woman he wanted as he looks pleased in the picture. But here you are trying to convince us he should not have done that. What in the world...

4. Public nudity as a private wedding ceremony? Hi-aaan eee!!

Nackzy:
Just imagine advice

He himself dey Nigeria as we dey speak?

Lovit:
Before I opened the thread I knew say na blacks e go be. Blacks dey over do things secondly I guess there is a brown material covering those parts, the colour blending with the skin makes the whole thing suspicious
All that said, I don't see that marriage lasting more than 5 years.

Let me guess, to you, a 25-year-old marriage where one or both partners have had to endure severe emotional and psychological damage is more savory than a marriage that ended after just 1 year sparing both partners a lifetime of all unnecessary emotional and psychological damage. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tell that to people like Osinachi who are no longer here to even air their opinions because of marriage.