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Agboriotejoye:
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Franzinni:
The word God is of pagan origin!
Same with a lot of names we call Him thinking we are referring to the Father.

People perish in ignorance ... I choose the light.

Didn't want to share this but He asked me to.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/God_(word)
Peace.

The earliest written form of the Germanic word God comes from the 6th-century Christian Codex Argenteus. The English word itself is derived from the Proto-Germanic * ǥuđan. The reconstructed Proto-Indo-European form * ǵhu-tó-m was likely based on the root * ǵhau(ə)-, which meant either "to call" or "to invoke".[12] The Germanic words for God were originally neuter—applying to both genders—but during the process of the Christianization of the Germanic peoples from their indigenous Germanic paganism, the words became a masculine syntactic form.[13]

GenesisForum:
Reno Omokri, a former aide to ex-president Goodluck Jonathan, has dropped a bombshell on Christendom by revealing that God does not love Christians. In a debate with Daddy Freeze, entitled "Daddy Freeze Debates Reno Omokri: Should Christians Celebrate Christmas?", Reno argued that God loves Muslims particularly because they are obedient to Him and faithful to their scripture.

Christians, on the other hand, are alien to God, disobedient, unfaithful and impious. He ended his argument by begging Christians not to assassinate him.

Jerryherd:
The sooner as an African you understand that a Jew and an Arab both share Geographical space, same History, Mythology, Food, Similarity in language especially greetings, believe, Ancestors, and Prophets the better for you

Know this and know peace

Christianity according to how your colonial masters, Emperor Constantine and Apostle Peter presented it may lead you to miss out on important facts
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kkins25:
You do know that sex drive is ultimately influenced by hormones right? If the woman is healthy, not old or aproaching menopause, has recently given birth, what would you say is responsible for the low sex drive

Richy4:
You have to learn how to read between the lines buddy.. everything must not be written in black and white... It's safe to say that you didn't do literature in high school...Yes he may have said that his marriage was dwindling. So in order to save it, he came here to seek for solutions. That was why the thread was opened.

Jerryherd:
So typical
Emotional rather than objective

Jerryherd:
I don't know about the God in Bible especially new testament(Apostle Paul, Peter , disciples and Roman emperor Constantine's God)... But the God of Quran is the God of Abraham, Issaac and Moses, the God that instructed Moses on Mount Sina

Jerryherd:
As long as you haven't read the chapters or reasons why she was mentioned, technically without emotional outbursts you have no reason to ignorantly give verdicts here

Arewalegend:
even in the birble he was ... Read clearly book of John 14 vs 27-29

Jerryherd:
Not really the most virtues woman in Islam is Mariam and she is the only one with a complete chapter in the Quran, one of the most mentioned personality of the Quran is Yeshua or Issa or what your colonial masters adulterated as Jesus a bad Greek word

Muslim and Jews only have issues with romans interference and adulteration of their Ibrahim icc mythology

Agboriotejoye:
No sir. He did not practice Judaism according to the teachings of Moses. It was why he always clashed with the Pharisees Sadducees and eventually got killed.

Jerryherd:
Hmmmn
Total submission to the will of Allah
That is the bases and principles in which Yeshua Son of Mariahm in Hebrew, or Jesus son of Mary (in English ) stand for

He lived and died painfully for the love of God
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Richy4:
Oh!!! so that's how you understand it...Then I have one last question for you before I sign off.... Why did you think OP opened this thread

<<< A) To seek for solution?
<<<<<B) To vent out anger and frustration? or
<<<<<<C) To seek for validation on how to leave his wife or cheat on him...

what is your pick?

Richy4:
So u said that he should live with things the way it was, what does that mean?

Richy4:
Still what I was saying<<< One sided sex..<<< Wife not enjoying it<<<< wanted solution to their problem... did I miss out anything in summary ?

Richy4:
In my own understanding, Op was here to find solution...He was tired of the one sided love making.. he wants the wife to enjoy it the way he was... 1. He was not blaming her because if he was, he would have carried on selfishly even when the wife was suffering and enduring it.. after all, the end result for any man that was having sex is ejaculation or am I wrong?

In terms of your previous comment and Advise, Yea I have seen one of your post where u asked the OP to continue enduring or 2. better still keep on punishing the wife without looking for solution to their problems because according to you, the situation has lingered for long and they should leave it the way it was... That's a beautiful suggestion buddy...u deserve a high five ...

Gobdddd:
Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.
Alot of things have been going through my mind.
I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.
Pls is there any known solution?
I need help.

ahnie:
He has bn watch porn lately,the wife even tried seff...me my libido yaff died 13yrs ago.and ayam not ready to resuscitate it.

Polynek:
It depends the of Her understanding and maturity shaa

Mindlog:
Not necessarily a "sex therapist" but a therapist who is grounded in Marriage/ Family Therapy and Human sexuality (just reminded me of my PSY 304 Human Sexuality course back in school and my class presentation titled: God and Sex )

Mental blocks are affecting their sexual life and should seek professional help if they don't see that approach as being "unchristian" as they need to shed off the title of Pastor and Pastor's wife once in that therapy room.

ZKOSOSO:
Just a kobo junkie......vibrations.....!!

Richy4:
1. Actually, If I understand you correctly, U were implying that OP should continue staying the way he has always been without seeking for solutions on how to help the wife because according to you, there's no solution right?

Let me ask you this question.. Is sex supposed to be one sided or for the equal partners to enjoy?
When you discovered that your partner whom you claimed to love is enduring sex instead of enjoying it, will you selfishly continue to ejaculate while she suffer the one sided punishment?...

gentlegenius:
I disagree with you on this...
Though, there are some men that can sleep with anything that has hole between her legs, but I am not one them. There are some women I see and I will tell myself NO MATTER WHAT I MAY BE THINKING OR FEELING, I can't just sleep with this one. There are some women that even if I am having erection on my own, and they suddenly appear before me naked, my erection will go away. This is not a psychological problem because there are other men like me. Men who have high taste for women don't sleep with anything they see. Even animals dont sleep with anything that is of opposite sex... A male lion can't sleep with a female tiger even though they are all cats. There can't be any attraction between them.
Every reasonable man should have taste when it comes to female attraction. As, a man, if every woman you see in this world can attract you sexually, then something is wrong with you.

Richy4:
Provided it's not psychological in nature right?...You are basically waiting for them to spell it out to you that there's something wrong with no sex drive?....

One very disturbing thing I have noticed about you is that you always think you are right, You are never flexible when it comes to topics that u knew next to nothing about...

Seriously, If you think that No sex drive is 100% normal to you and you did not see it as a problem in any relationship....Then it is ok.. u can keep on telling yourself that ..

kkins25:
and this people are the minority. infact for most of them its hormonal dysfunction or some form of trauma and phobia.

aluyapreston:
go through your different response to the OP comments and see who has gots comprehension problem. and yes, the wife has a problem. she has no right to marry if she cant have sex. Sex is a very critical part of marriage, in fact so critical according to the bible, that a person could get married for just it alone 1 cor. 7:9

aluyapreston:
Again big problem. He said she is frigid, you said she is not. are you mad?

you talk about age? Didnt she know this before getting married?

if the above are the issues, then she still is the one at fault except she married at gunpoint. 9 years of Log lying kind of sex. i would rather not marry

Mydazz:
I wish Oga Pastor's wife can come and say her part of the story in all these,..... things are not adding up.
I am sure your wife is not frigid, you probably didn't allow her discover herself sexually, since you are here one and only experience.
Age is also a factor you refused to mention which is important.
Apart from sex do you have other ways of having fun,..... abi na work, work work, konji, and Knack?

Richy4:
You are very funny and endearing in your ignorance...There's nothing wrong with someone with no sex drive?
Anyways, this might interest you..https://www.mentalhelp.net/advice/no-sex-drive-ever/

Q: Is it normal to have no interest in sex? Is it different for everyone? I’m just never interested in having sex and I don’t really enjoy it when I do have it. How can I increase my libido or make it more pleasurable?
The short answer? It’s 100 percent normal not to be interested in sexual activity.

There are an infinite number of reasons why someone may not be interested in sexual activity, whether this has always been the case or is a new development.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/i-dont-want-sex#1

moneyissweet:
Na you dey talk nonsense.

There are so many ways to know if a woman will like sex or not.

Examples:

1.When you kissed her for 10 $econds she will be wet down there or even orgasm.
2. When you touched her breast nipples she will be vibrating like Tecno phone
3. When you romanced her for 10 minutes she will either orgasm, get wet or drag you to slot in your cucumber.
4. When You traveled for few days and returned back,she will be the one to meet you in the other room.
5. When she finished watching BBN jacuzzi party or Saturday house party,she will come to bed naked.

In fact, e reach 50 ways.

Of what use is marriage without sweet sex?

aluyapreston:
1. why do you talk like this. you have been making it sound as if he is wrong to want his wife to reciprocate his feelings. just because you are a woman does not mean you have to sound unintelligent. that is not an excuse. God Does not hate sex and it is not carnal for a pastor to want sex everyday except he wants to pray and finally nobody enjoy sex when the other does not reciprocate.

2. no vex o but you always don't know how to address issue at all. you miss point up. pls post your certificate let me check something. it is not a proof of wisdom which you obliviously lack but at least it is somewhere to start from. there are people that are married for over 20 years and the sex is still great. and dont give me the virgin crap for being the reason. Hell, everyone was once a virgin

xamuel17:
If her libido becomes high, can you satisfy her
there are drugs out there that enhances female libido,
but rather talk to her about it, y'all can go to hospitals / certified pharmacist & don't do anything without her permission