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RepentToday:
What's God's cut off mark? You need to read your Bible

Only those who go on to, through continual submission and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ - God's Truth - are made free from slavery to sin and are transformed into Sons of God - John 8 vs 31 - 44 - I.e. Perfect/Holy acceptable vessels that are then led by the Spirit to doing works of righteousness- Matthew 25 vs 31 - 40 - will gain access into Heaven in the end.

The rest of them, children of the devil, who refuse to submit to and obey the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, are slated to spend eternity in damnation - Matthew 25 vs 41 - 46

RepentToday:
You are quoting Gen 3:16-22 out of context. That was when God placed curse on humanity because of their disobedience in the garden, they were chased out of the garden and remember they later raised children and had generations until Christ came to deliver is from the curse of law

Jesus Christ only gave salvation from God's curse to those who believe in Him - John 3 vs 16 - 21. Even John the Baptist reiterated this is John 3 vs 36.

So I am not certain why you claim I quoted Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 out-of-context.

Polynek:
Really!! so someone can ask me such question? If your fiance is displaying such attitude during courtship, it is in your hand to accept or move away from the relationship. If the Man observe Her attitude towards sex in there courtship day's and He didn't say anything, then He has Himself to blame.

You assume that everyone's definition of courtship includes sex games, right?

And you didn't expect me to ask you this question to ascertain the mindset with which you approach the issue of courtship?

Newsflash, just because a woman acts like a IndecentStar during your courtship periods does not mean she will act the same way through marriage.. so be careful that you are not easily deceived by that too.

RepentToday:
But Jesus Christ won't force anyone. You have the choice to make. Whosoever believeth in Him. It's a choice to turn away from wickedness and turn to Christ today

It is indeed a choice to turn away from wickedness to Jesus Christ but once you repent and enter into the Kingdom of God, there is no way out. And if you miss God's cut-off mark, it means one will spend an eternity in Hell.

So better to perish in the grave, I say, than to spend an eternity in damnation..

NLKing01:
And that's more reason you should repent while still alive, because after death there is no room for repentance again.

Nope.. that is not even a reason at all for those who are unbelievers.

You seek God denied all unbelievers eternal life back when He condemned them all to perish in their graves in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22. - they cease to exist , mind, body and soul, when they die. So Hell fire is not for them at all.

Instead, Hell is for those who enter into the Kingdom of God , albeit through the broad gate that leads to destruction- Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14. Those who will end up in Hell, belong in Jesus Christ's flock , only they are the goats in His herd - Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46

mariahAngel:
Are you the same as Kobojunkiee?

Yep!

Polynek:
This is why courtship is very important b4 marriage, but wait oo U said 9yrs? And u haven't complained in d early stage of d marriage, why now?

How in the world could courtship have helped in this case?

NLKing01:
But you know there is no repentance after death

There is Hellfire after death, is there not?
So again,

Kobojunkiee:
That is not a good enough reason to repent through. In fact, fear of death is the worst reason to chose repentance as chances are high such a person will only end up spending eternity in Hell instead.

RepentToday:
What are good enough reasons?

Jesus Christ said He is here for those who are weak and heavy laden... those who are tired of the troubles and the burden that is the world... who are sick from the emptiness emptiness of it all and seek out the will of the most High and do that instead.

crackhaus:
Since you say you're a pastor, my usual kind of professional advice in a situation like this cannot apply to you.
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Maybe she didn't expect that a pastor sef will have so many kinks about love-making.

Abi oo!

ROFLMAO

Gobdddd:
It's not sudden expectation bro.

It's something av been enduring for long.

Besides, when you have a situation that seems deteriorating with your lover, just for a day, it usually seems it has taken decades.

Look, according to you, she hasn't changed since you married her, so she is not the problem here but your expectations of her is. These things aren't magical in nature.

So, what you should be asking yourself is how do you continue to live with things as they have always been. You claim it is deteriorating but your own words say what has been deteriorating is instead your patience.

Gobdddd:
Time without number.
She doesn't even know what she desires or likes about sex.

If found out that there's pre marital sex, my Church will cancel the marriage and make it look very dishonorable.
So,I can't risk that.

From the first day, she was afraid of it.

Never showed any interest afterwards, despite spending our honeymoon at Obudu cattle ranch.

Our last babe is 2. We have closed childbearing.

We are supposed to be catching fun.

1. You married her a Virgin.. probably sought her out for exactly that reason too. So what do you expect she will know of sex or what there is to want of it.

2. A woman is not a dog that you teach "tricks" to. And honeymoon is not meant as a period to teach sex lessons to a wife but instead a time for both to enjoy each other..

3. You closed childbearing - she delivered on that end- and now you expect to have fun and you expect the woman to now automagically deliver on that now too?

ayomilore:
Bro. Don't spoil your marriage because of what you can fix. I heard there are some recipes that improve libido, try it, you can watch some adult films together too, try serious romance prior to your lovemaking, I believe there should be improvement...
But your wife will be good for all these abroad hustlers ooo that are scared of all these local predators..

Improve whose libido? The woman is not the one complaining that she doesn't have a healthy enough libido.. the man is. So unless you are trying to exacerbate issues, stop it!

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.
.....
So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.
Alot of things have been going through my mind.
I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.
Pls is there any known solution?
I need help.

1. What exactly are you confused about ? What is it that you really expect your wife to do in this case?

2. You claim the marriage is dwindling but from your explanation, the problem is not the marriage but your sudden expectations that is the issue...

3. You claim you are a pastor but it seems you are suddenly letting your body pull the strings as far as your decision making. You married a virgin and it turns out she is not as enthused about sex as you are, what do you want? For her to turn into a porn star in bed after 9 years and 4 kids?

RepentToday:
The Sun may rise tomorrow but YOU may not. Repent from your wicked ways and turn to God

That is not a good enough reason to repent through. In fact, fear of death is the worst reason to chose repentance as chances are high such a person will only end up spending eternity in Hell instead.

DoggoneDogg:
Buhari

bmdmix11:
apc members is the d bible is talking bout

Are you here because you have been paid to advertise Buhari and APC ?
Or are you doing this for them for free?

Lightorder:
I didn’t get you

God already judged and condemned all unbelievers, beginning with Adam and Eve, in Genesis 3 vs 16 -22. He sentenced them all to sweat for their food until their death after which they perish in the grave .I.e. cease to exist as it was before they were conceived.

Agbebakun22:
Maybe if condom dey scarce na e pregnancy go show up. Local man no fit made such mistake bro. Marriage is a no no no for me cux i'm damn scared to go into it. Maybe surrogate or adoption will be a nice option for me to raise my child..

1. As long as you intend on having sex with another human, expect "mistakes" to happen whether you use condoms or not. People get different intentions as far as these things too are concerned.

2. Surrogacy in Nigeria? Goodluck!

NLKing01:
Who is he?

The false teachers and false prophets that Jesus Christ warned His followers against - they fleece, kill and destroy those in His flock with their lies.

God complained about those of them in His Old Covenant in Ezekiel 34 vs 1 - 16...where they did the same in His name.

simplesearch:
Are there many un-uniformed creator (GOD) of the universe who support sin and illegality from your own perspective? If No, then the fact that a few decides to take up the title of a governor in a state to whom some may owe their allegiance does not undermine the power of the constitutionally elected one. Just go against the law and you'll be surprise how those with such mushroom tittle to whom you hold in allegiance will be helpless to come to your rescue. Anyone living in sin will face the wrath of the God who created the universe whether or not you know or believe in him and he is just one. It is for your good to truly seek him and know him before you depart this earth. This is important because there are not many country in eternity with different law to whom you can apply if the other turn down your application as obtained down below.

God already punished all those who do not believe in Him since the time of Adam and Eve - Genesis 3 vs14 - 19. He also denied them access to eternal life - Genesis 3 vs 20 -22 - so I am not certain why you mention that here where it does not even apply.

Stop drinking up the lies served you by your Mogs who are all false prophets and teachers abeg! Pick up the book and read it for yourself so you can actually understand who God is and what He in fact said and did..

Lightorder:
not believing in the ALMIGHTY GOD doesn’t stop his punishment. God doesn’t need your opinion to make good His word. That the southeast didn’t believe in Buhari did not stop his visit

God already punished the unbelievers since the time of Adam in Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 - He doesn't have any intentions of punishing them again since His first attempt was not wrought with mistakes.

The punishment you mentioned is for those who believe but refuse to obey God's every commandments, those are the ones whose punishment are still off in the future.

Agbebakun22:
I'm not weak just that I can't tolerate nonsense.. I love anything that wouldn't deny my joy and happiness. Marriage is one of it cux I don't have time and energy to bear all these that's why I don't even keep a girlfriend or whatever. I love enjoying my life without no one bothering my peace

And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!

But the moment you get a gal pregnant, you are married to her whether you like it or not.

AABBIIMM:
. At least the wives and children will become born again and saved. What is the need of putting them away?
If your doctrine leads to someone going far from God then something is really wrong.

The statement in bold is lie as that doctrine belongs to the Old Covenant and not in the New Covenant where the rule is individuals are responsible for their own continual submission to and obedience to the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ. No individual can "save" another let alone help another enter into Heaven...

ptoall1000:
One cannot really trust these popular cartoon networks these days. Does anyone know how one can get Christian cartoons?

There are no such things as "Christian" cartoons. Becareful that you are not trying instead to indoctrinate your children pretending you do so in the name of God.

If you want to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ to your children, read to them straight from the Gospels yourself so you can avoid the lies that are the doctrines and traditions of men(churches included). That is what Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him do... teach His New Covenant Law to others, just as He taught it to us.

SilasIBB:
I have experience all these and more
THANK you �

You have, and has any of it made God speak to you as He did the men of Old?

terrezo2002:
Okay sorry, you are a pest

Good for you!

Why isn't this on the front page yet?

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MufasaLion:
I really despise women that do such. They're usually gullible, insecure, wicked and dangerous.

Men do it too... do you also despise them? Don't forget to include on that list of yours men and women who regularly visit their horoscopes or believe in ideas like destiny and other superstitions.

Sayelabola:
Does the church support burial ceremony after a year or more. Maybe remembrance or the like?

What did Jesus Christ say of the burying of the dead?

Did He mention that it has something to do with Him or His Kingdom?

greencard:
yeah of course its a hard thing to live with

my late pastor shared same view using same reasons of hardship experienced by those other woman whom are the victims of restitution as unfair

but I rather would want the church to dwell more on hospitality towards those women, probably setting them up for SME than just leaving them to their fate

Hospitality towards women that the church, through its false doctrines, helped impoverish?

ZKOSOSO:
DCLM shaped me. Grew up from childhood to university days. A wonderful church with least fraudsters and hypocrites.

But..... marriage restitution is still my headache with Deeperlife.

I preached it on the altar. But today am no longer convinced about it.

The hardship of extreme poor mothers that left their husbands cos they were not the FirstWife......!! The poor conditions of the kids and their mothers....
As usual the man can cope while silently praying for the return of his first wife who is doing well with her now husband and kids sef somewhere unknown to this same man that allowed his wife to leave.

May God grant us Wisdom to approach life Challenges.

You preached restitution in the name of Jesus Christ? I am afraid you instead preached lies in His name since Restitution is of the Old Covenant Law of Moses as reiterated by God in Ezekiel 33 vs 9 - 20.

In the New Covenant, which those who believe in Jesus Christ are instead called to live by, anyone who does not sell it all, not some, in order to buy the treasure that is Heaven, cannot be a follower of Jesus Christ - Matthew 13 vs 44 - 46 and the same was reiterated in Matthew 19 vs 16 - 31

As for marriage, Jesus Christ made it clear that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - meaning the same laws and promises of the New Covenant, the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ , apply to each individual regardless of marital status.

Jesus Christ also upheld God's Law from the beginning which defines a marriage as being between a man and woman... that Law does not prohibit polygamy or polyandry as we see it in the case of the people of Old.

Also, the idea that a man is Head over his wife is born of a curse, the very same curse Jesus Christ came to redeem us from. So anyone who claims to believe in Jesus Christ but continues to,by choice, live according to the curse, rejects Jesus Christ. - Genesis 3 vs 16

greencard:
1- Holy Bible - False Doctrine

2 - The God Head(Trinity) -False Doctrine

3- The Virgin Birth Of Jesus Christ

4) Total Depravity - False Doctrine

5- Repentance

6- Restitution - False Doctrine

7- Justification - False Doctrine

8-Water Baptism

9-Lords Super

10- Sanctification

11- Holy Ghost Baptism

12- Redemption

13- Personal Evangelism - False Doctrine

14- Marriage (monogamy ) - False Doctrine

15- Rapture

16- Resurrection of The dead

17- Great Tribulation

18- Second Coming of Jesus Christ

19- Christ Millennial Reign

20- Great White Throne Judgement

21- New Heaven and New Earth

22 - Hell Fire

Right off the bat...I point out the more obvious false Doctrines taught by the church. Next, we can analyze the details of the rest to understand why they are also not on par with the teachings of Jesus Christ.