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Anywa, that by itself is still not a good reason to want to break up. have you talked to her about your concerns - how did she take it?

Bottomline, you guys need a some sort of income to enjoy your relationship so I wont encourage her to leave her job

Good luck

hey there hi there

miss me?

OH

So she has a job and you dont - she's likely the one feeding you.

And now you feel she's cheating on you with her boss right . . .do you want her to quit her job so you both can be jobless . .what can you offer her?

you need to work on yourself cos you are the one with issues.

Well, no one can force you if that is your excuse for wanting to break up. Good luck.

You said you trust her . . .what's ur beef?

Nothing wrong with her client getting her a phone - it is easy for anyone around her to know she does not have a phone so it aint like she went around begging.

You obviously feeling insecure cos she got something much better than what you gave her. No big deal my guy - she's still yours.

Calm down and dont get worked up for nothing.

^^^

Cash down. True

Borrowed cash. May be

You dont have a job yet . . .is that your reason for wanting to break up with her?

yemi313:
Please, let there be a consensus about mods, you shouldnt just pick anyone you like.

Did you see "Buhari style regime"??

This is not a democrazy.

If you want consensus cos one moderator cracked on you, go and start your own forum.

Omolola1:
@kokoye,what right?

Like i said earlier, anyone can say what they wanna.

It is up to you to do what you want.

in kan to ba wu elenu lo le fi enu e so . . abi?

Yes he does. He has the right to say anything.

But you dont have to do as he says.

death.

^^^

hhmmm. This really depends on the individual but I will try to b as general as possible.  These suggestions go for the men as well.

I believe every man needs a good support system (just as the women do).

- Yes. We do need you to be our mummys every once in a while. Forget all that macho stuff, not to the wives.

- Compliment me where I am lacking. This is not always within the spouse's control. My wive is an expert in bargaining and I dont know how so I dont worry about it.

- Whether we choose to accept or not, every man has an ego that needs to be massaged every once in a while - we will appreciate the lady who knows how and when to do it.  I mean, dont knock me down when you know I'm too tired to get it up.    And real strenght is knowing when to play weak - we do it for our kids so why not for our spouse once in a while.

- Be strong and bold enough to let me know when I am going in the wrong direction. BUT there are smooth ways of getting the information across. If you truly want a lasting marriage, know when to keep quiet and when to talk some sense into my head.

- Dont bring past relationships or your parent''s style into the house. Dont compare me, treat me with trust and respect and you will enjoy me (cant say that for everyman)

- We are a couple so dont run off to your parents to tell them when have a dissagreement all the time. We need to be able to sort out our own issues.

- If I tell you I need sometime alone - (like drive out or talk a walk or stay in the room alone to clear my head), pls respect it. Men cannot always multitask like women

- I'm trying to provide for the family. Please stand by me. Have you seen the movie mystic river? Everyone thought the guy killed the little girl, including the wife, even though the guy swore to his wife she didnt. The wife encouraged the guy to be fatally published - only to realize he was indeed innocent. Now who's the widow - she killed the husband when she did not trust him.

- At times I just need a quickie

Maybe 'they' are busy providing for their family.

Check back later for your reports.

^^^

of course.

that's part of why I created this thread - to talk about how husbands react to those changing moods.

life would be boring without dem bad boys

^^^
easy dearie.

I did not have you in mind when i talked about gender fights . . i thot you understood me by now . .

I mentioned ur name cos I figured you would be able to come up with interesting conversations

sorry . . .

Mrs.Chima:
Sorely well. Thanks for asking. I am making sign for baby sale shortly. If you know any clients that looking for babies let me know.

Bruno may be interested.

Go watch the movie.

^^^
I hope married folk remember to do those things that they enjoyed doing while they were dating . . like dancing of course.

At times we'd stayed outside the house and talk about passers-by, without their knowledge of course

or just get in the car and drive to nowhere

anything you wanna talk about . . questions, ideas

for married / engaged couples

why not?

^^^
do you just listen to music . . or you dance?

so what do you do for fun when

- the kids are away

- tired of sex

- not hungry

- no tv

- and still decide to stay indoors


what do you do for fun?

Waiting on Mrs Chima to start up some juicy married thread then.

We're all married or engaged pls so - matured chats.

good humor and no gender fights

dayokanu:
Thats true.

Dancing is for short people with low Center of gravity.

How good is my partner in what? Ask Odunnu, Ifyalways, Ujujoan, Mukina, Spikedcylinder etc and they would tell you.

Notice that they all developed bowleg after meeting me.

lol

crazeman

^^^

those are lyrics from a song . .really.

Tony Tetuila is the artist.

Moderators

Could we please have a thread for the married . . and engaged folks in this section?

I aint talking about the already existing Family thread . . smart arses

thank you

the poster is singing a freakin' song!

yup . . how are you?

hi there . .

she said baba iyabo