₦airaland Forum

Obi could have been our last hope to change this government, but he is dead politically. He should be studied in university political science as what not to do 101.

How can you have over six million votes in your first major attempt, and you left the party with the hope of winning primaries in a party of atiku and amechi.

To be honest obi is not intelligent

Which entire planet, count me out

God1000:
What a patriotic man, God will send his angels to protect Iranians tonight, trust me Donald trump will not succeed



The entire planet knows that trump is a lying, cheating, disgusting, maniacal and sociopathic 79-year-old spoiled demented toddler.

They know that Trump is talk and do

Nobody is bulling them, we can't have a world without a leader, and I would rather prefer the western country to rule over me than any Asian country. The world power said he doesn't want any Islamic country to have nuclear weapons, why must you have it. Is Dubai not doing fine without nuclear? if they don't have an ulterior motive why are they bent on having it.

They said you have uranium, Why can't they come on national tv to tell the world that they would be willing to allow 100 US delegates to come and search their country if they see any uranium they should take it, is that not peaceful?

Why can't their leader come on National TV and declare that they don't have it and doesn't have any plan to having it , and would be open to doing business with the world and let's see who will still say no to them.

This people invested 90 percent of the country's revenue on military weapon while the mases doesn't have good water to drink.

mynd1:
All I have to say is God bless Iran for teaching America and Israel that not everyone can be bullied.

As for you up, I don't like you cause you full of hate for Muslims and Islam.

PR for APC should be listed as one of the most difficult job in 2026.

Imagine campaigning with uncompleted narrow road. Two Toyota tundra can't even overtake each other on this thing

Come back insults ke!!! At least understand the words you use. All this forming intelligent and forcing opinions on others feels so backward. A forum is a place to share ideas, not wear them like armor as if your life depends on it.

The victim went to church, not the police station, and she’s 19. And if the wife wanted a divorce so badly, she wouldn’t come here to seek our opinion. You don’t even know exactly what truly passed between the house help and the man, aside from what the woman knows and wrote here. Yet you rush in, raining insults on everyone like some self made scholar of low budget human psychology..... unless you have a hidden agenda to marry her when she leaves her husband.

Truth is, only empty minds shout this loud. Wise people speak and still leave room to listen.

advanceDNA:
lol… trying to turn ur rape apologist comment into a come back insult is just pathetic…

It’s not a consent relationship btw the maid and the man, if it was then I would agree with you that its something a lot of guys can do…
But ….how can u say most guys will rape….A crime was committed here man and all I did was acknowledge it from the angle of the victim who should get justice… but to you.. it’s being full of myself …. lol….No wonder we have leaders that recycle bokoharam…: na pple like Una dey aso rock and senate…. Justifying evil with technicalities

Don’t blame the design, blame the designer. You don’t hand a dog meat and punish it for eating. And YES if I have a sexy house help that I find attractive I may ask her out but will never rape a woman. Your low testosterone doesn’t define other men, and you’re no better than Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, François Hollande, or Jacob Zuma and many great men who made similar mistakes and weren’t killed. You are just a nairaland guy who is full of himself. Thank God the woman involved isn’t pressing charges. If you read properly, I clearly said more than three times that I don’t support rape. So relax and stop stressing over other people’s issues, and don’t act like you know it all.

advanceDNA:
Baba…Cover your face in shame…. If ur rape ur own wife’s maid… just say so…. Dont try to sugarcoat it by saying most men will do it…. Hian!! This internet seff

…. Please u pple ahould stop justifying evil
Someone was raped and nearly killed and Yall are treating it as if the victim is not important and only the marriage ahould be saved…

Have u pple asked urself if u can marry a rapist and assaulter if your wife was guilty of this offences..??
Una Dey try oooooo

I don't support rape, even though all men are promiscuous in nature, but rape is a different level of mental problem. Most men would do the same thing your husband did but would only persuade the house help till she consent to the intimacy but they won't rape her.

My best friend who is a youth pastor in his church has slept with his secretaries till I lost count, he has also slept with his wife's close friend but he his always very careful and ensure that it's out of consent. I don't support what my friend does , but aside from me knowing this secret, everybody in the neighborhood and family members always thinks he is the best version of a man that God has ever created. He doesn't miss Sunday church and vigils, he dresses decently and he's currently doing his third masters. If people didn't tell you about their dirty laundries you wouldn't know what's hidden under their cloth.

I don't support rape and I think it's a different level of mental problem. Has much has I know so many men are bad and would have sex with anything on skirt, yet I wouldn't support rape. Your husband could have left her alone after several persuasion instead of raping her.

My conclusion is, if your husband is a good man , if he takes care of his children, if he's willing to be a better person then I would advise you to forgive him and also leave that community to start a new life somewhere else with your husband. Forgive him, marriage is most needed at old age and it's not easy for you to find a new person to grow old with after two child children. So forgive him.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

Carpenter

Yeah no bluffing... Only Trump can say it as it is

White men does not like tick body , they prefer model or very skinny body type and its rear to find that among black woomen.. maybe one out of 100

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

This method again, why always election time ?

There's no tech boom. Prepare for the worse when A.I can improve itself

Its very hard to understand Nigerians. to think that man still has supporters is counterintuitive

VOsimhen144:
Fuel #97 - Jonathan must go

Fuel #1,350 - on your mandate we shall stand

Funny Nigerians.. it is well oo

Good when you gain power again , you self fight the opposition , half best is better than nothing

what I've tried that works is asking them for direction immediately they stop you

You forgot to mention musicians and online sex workers making millions in dollars

Nigeria has the highest number of churches with the highest number of poor people .

voortrekker966:
Abiola married nearly 20 women and countless concubines. Our politicians are the highest patrons of hookup girls. Find another excuse. This one is stale.

If you were younger the relationship might not even work

Anybody with the interest of Nigeria at heart shouldn't be in APC

He will come back and build big houses and expensive car then start bullying hard working people online.

And those are the documented ones o, imagine the number of the undocumented, dragging the limited resources with the citizens

You still dey believe these people. Ok o

ponlear:
CBN did this one right.
If the funds is used very well as stated, it's a good one and they should please make the interest rates reasonable, perhaps just a single unit rate

lol... I'm actually one of those people that often preach against bullying on this forum. We can have decent argument without exchanging bad comments but unfortunately there are too many kids here. Ones again thanks for the correction, surprisingly many people saw my comment including people that knows me personally and if not for your correction I wouldn't have gone back to edit the mistake.

uvie66:
...wow this is a fine Nigerian that accepts correction. If it where some other people Na insult them go take respond.

Omo if trump no win this war , this is the end of USA

The fact that he's even trying to go for second term, a failed old man.

at this point people are wise bro , give me 100 billion i will collect and vote for peter obi , i'm not gen z and i am yoruba

lionshare:
Please remove your data from your name. Anyone who can afford to pay ₦1 million in cash to each voter will win.

Oga I , my friends and family voted for tinubu in the last election. Right now none of them will vote for Tinubu even if you put 10million naira on the table.

lionshare:
Dey play—reality is different from noise. Just like content creation is different from value creation.

thanks

uvie66:
..... outweighs not out ways

thank you... baba Ijesha

delpee:
You mean Baba Ijesha.

See that's the mistake you all use to make, I could trust a hookup girl than a church girl . Trust has nothing to do with decency. Trust is all men needs to love you. If a man can't trust you , they can't love you. And that's why you see some men marrying runs girls... its a deep shit. Just be trustworthy, these church girls have the habit of talking to three men at the same time hoping that if one messes up , they can fall back on the other one , that is usually their number one problem but they wouldn't know. If you want to keep three men at the same time , I hope you have the nerves to tell the three of them about it, because if any of them finds out on their own , the trust is gone.

zedman1:
The saying " life no balance" appears simple, but there's so much meaning to it. For example, I know a family of eight, all girls but one boy. Now among these seven girls. The first two who got married were the only two who were not "holy" at all. Them tear eye no be small. The other five? They grew old at home with their parents. They were very decent good Christians. In fact, the first and 'holiest' daughter was the last to get married - maybe in her late forties or early fifties then- it was a miracle. Now, was it bad that the good ones were good?

Just install cctv every where in the coutry abi money to buy cctv no dey

no doubt about that , i would prefer usa or uk any day ... but its too late bro.

delishpot:
For your mind china is a better slave master na?