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If you have any business that turn over 5 million above daily. Na bank go approach you by their self, there are even many loan companies that you won't know they have your data , they just they monitor you till you reach that mark.

They look basic even with heavy make up

Is it every woman that wants you that you also want?

Try to remember that girl that loves you so much that you don't love... its the same way for people that doesn't love you or want to start anything relationship with you. The heart wants what it wants, try to respect it when people don't want you, don't take it personal.

Yorubastardz:
It was 2022 I was a lower rank in my job.
Tho I maintain myself. I sumon courage and ask this babe out.
She is my co worker.
She refuse to give me her number
Saying sorry No, I don't give out number

I come see the way she dey smile dey happy say she don use me boost her ego.

2026 I was promoted and given my own department. Now I'm making so much cash and we work together but different department
I stop looking her side and started talking to other women. Become leader of my department and made company more profit.

Fellas if I was busy chasing validation from her. I wouldn't have worked hard to the point of getting promoted.

Now I see the regret in her eyes daily
It's tormenting her it's sweeting me

Wow, I didn't even know there could be a worse case than my own experience o

Galactics:
Your own small sef. My guy's former girlfriend told him she was a virgin and the guy confirmed that her hymen is still intact. But the shocker was that other guys was sleeping with her through the anus. It was one of the guys who was fucking her through the ass told my guy and he confronted her but she denied. When my guy mentioned the name of the guy that told him she started crying and confessing that it was true. Mind you it wasn't even only one guy, they were many. If only men know the kind of heart that women have, hnmmm.

lol but couldn't get loan to buy drones to fight insecurity

My dear, we are in the fourth industrial revolution. It’s no longer about education alone, but the value you can offer. Nigeria, as usual, will only be late to the new world order.

If an HND engineer can operate mechatronics machines and a bsc plus masters can't you will have to join the queue

Onewazobia:
It’s not all about the UK or quality; if there’s no need for it, it should be scrapped — simple. We are likely to face the same problem HND and BSc are facing. The policy makes it seem as though the affected courses are less important, or that brilliant students are not needed there. The implications are far wider than you can imagine.
Except the policymakers can find a way to tighten and curb malpractice otherwise WAEC, NECO NAPTEB results are not that reliable

You don't even need jamb to enter UK university to study any course bro

Onewazobia:
Hmmmm, this is retardation


Not a good development at all

Portable has a personality that can be studied. He just lost a fight, but instead of letting it hurt his publicity, he stayed active and kept pushing with new updates and news

You mean he went to bobrisky kind of prison

Oga carry your myopic mindset go. Ifa is more than a religion, its the way of life of the Yorubas before the westerners brought religion, it was our mathematic, it was our language(Eni , eji , eta ) these are all ifa numeric.

Even the computer binary system seems to have existed in Ifa long before modern computers. Any computer scientist who understands Ifa and compares the timelines may wonder if companies like IBM copied the idea from Ifa. Every evil in the world today is either done by a Muslim or Christian. God doesn't belong to any religion.

Go and tell the over 1 billion innocent Hindus in India that they are going to hell fire.. you think say God na mumu

Hussein035:
Ifa has been updated just like the Bible

If you still don't believe Islam is the only way then I wish you good luck in Jahanam

I’ve commented before, but I just want to add this: please don’t be deceived by virginity alone. I’ve met virgins I still wouldn’t marry, even for 20 million naira, and I’ll explain why.

I met a lady some years ago. She was a confirmed virgin, everything was intact. Our relationship moved fast and we became intimate without penetration. She did everything else sexually except penetration, and honestly I was satisfied and willing to wait till marriage.

One day, I checked her phone and was shocked. She was doing the same things with about 10 other men. We all believed she was keeping herself for marriage. Meanwhile, me and another guy were the main boyfriends, while the others knew she was in a serious relationship and were waiting for their turn after she got deflowered. This is a true story, it happened to me personally.

So some virgins can still have worse character than non-virgins, and marriage is not only about sex. After some months in marriage, sex alone won’t sustain it. What matters more is good character, peace, loyalty, and contribution to the growth of the marriage financially and emotionally.

She’s a medical doctor too, so don’t overlook that. It could even help your Canadian PR plans. But above all, seek God’s direction before making any decision.

Cheers

SQLmastar:
Please house, I need mature advice. This matter is tearing me apart.

I met this lady (a doctor)
4 months ago. I'm 35, she is 31.
She told me she was a virgin and I believed her because of how she carried herself. I was very happy and rushed everything – introduction, engagement, and marriage plans (I promised my mum that I would get married before December 2026). We were supposed to do our traditional marriage in one week’s time.

Last week, I received an anonymous WhatsApp message. The person sent pregnancy test results showing that my fiancée was pregnant for her ex-boyfriend during her 1-year residency. She had told me about this ex, but said they never had sex, and that was why they broke up.
I confronted her with the message. At first, she denied it and said it was fake, someone trying to spoil her name. But when I said I would call her best friend to confirm, she broke down and confessed the truth.
She admitted she got pregnant for the ex, aborted it immediately, and promised herself never to have premarital sex again. She said she was ashamed and didn’t want to lose me, so she lied about being a virgin.
Now I’m confused and heartbroken. I love her but the lies are too much.
On the other hand, I have already invited many people – including the chief of my village and my manager at work. Cancelling now will bring serious shame and talk in my village and workplace.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do? Should I go ahead with the marriage or cancel everything? Has anyone been in this kind of situation?

I need honest advice.

Go into a very very deep fasting and prayer , postpone the weeding date. Wait for God to give you a very obvious sign that she's your wife... I'm not a very religious person but believe me when it comes to choosing life partner, God will personally intervene if you ask him for direction

Next time you want to try relationship , try someone much older and someone that has already started future plan.

A 19 year old girl (which i don't think she's even 19, but this keeps you out of jail) someone still in secondary school will still be exercising her youthful exuberance.

Find someone around 23 - 24 who is already done with university or at least 300 level if you want someone to that will take relationship serious

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I'm voting him for sure , enough of APC in Lagos

Whose apartment is it , abi the person no get name ? ... it's just a business gone wrong between your Oga and the owner

You fine o

Thelma001:
I pity the woman loving you atm. With this your mentality, dating you will be headache. You really have a long way to go on working on yourself, your perspectives and your mentality. I hope you be better.

Just because some women want that lifestyle doesn’t mean all women are designed that way. Men and women are biologically and emotionally different.

Most women are naturally more comfortable with one trusted partner.

Many women carry rape trauma for years, sometimes for life. Meanwhile, if news spreads that women are forcefully sleeping with men somewhere, many men would rush there willingly.

A man can sleep with multiple women casually, but most women would not do the same without emotional attachment or benefit.

Men also produce millions of sperm constantly, and research shows men generally have stronger sexual urges.

Even virginity in women can be seen as part of a design that supports bonding with one man.

So stop using a few promiscuous women as the standard for all women. One woman’s opinion does not define female nature

Emu4u2c2:
The argument is not wrong and that's why she is pissed off

So this is also an achievement by APC

Still vacant, please send in your applications

These are issues the president can solve for us even if they can't solve electricity ... all these banks and big companies making big money should pay their staff well and stop all these contract staff thing

"Perceived lack of intelligence" We are so uncultured in this country I simply shared my personal experience. Only uneducated people turn a healthy conversation into personal attacks instead of discussing the actual point

AdolfHitlerxXx:
" Hapta Buhari is Fita Obi" we heard this in 2023.

They don't respect you and playing on your perceived lack of intelligence.

When the Time comes, they will remind him that he's a Christian and 1967.

Peter Obi has a chance with SW who are by far more liberal. They were his biggest supporters after his own people

I have been interviewing many aboki whenever I take bike... I would ask, who do you plan to vote for in the coming election?

They all happily said Obi ... I'm not into politics; this is not a campaign for any party, it's just my personal research lately.

I'm not even a fan of Obi, but apparently if Tinubu win's this election, it is 100 percent rigging.

Most American's and other western culture do not see tattoo as a bad thing. It is only in Nigeria that tattoo symbolizes hookup.

Meanwhile, a few decades ago, tattoo was part of African culture, it only faded in these our generation because my mom has a tattoo and she married my father as a virgin and she had the tattoo before she got married, she doesn't even know it's called tattoo.

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michaelodafe:
For roles like this, applicants should show two things clearly: content ability and commercial sense.

A better application will mention:
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Digital marketing CVs fail when they sound pretty but prove nothing. Show numbers if you have them.

Make ne no sha affect my small change

is coal the only means of generating electricity ?

keemsleek:
You didn't answer my question sir. Does lagos have coal? Yes or No.

Continue defending them

keemsleek:
Does lagos have coal? Oga hmmm haba school oooo. The Egbin power plant is where? The PPA going on in the power sector is what? Abeg find out facts before dropping comment.

Kafodus is hiring a Digital Marketer.

Requirements:
Must know how to use Canva
Good with social media marketing
Must be willing to visit prospective customers physically when required

Must live around Ojodu Berger, Alagbole, Akute axis
📍Location: Alagbole, Lagos

Kafodus is into Building construction and logistics
Send CV and passport photo to. Arishopemi@gmail.com

Salary : 150k

With all the money Lagos state is making , they couldn't do this.

I don't really think Nigerian men are this heartless, one among the ten men would have helped her gain freedom

I know we have retarded men in Nigeria, but 10 different men every day, I don't think we have that number. Most men usually engage sex workers to know why they chose that part before or after sleeping with them.