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We are also not hungry , its stomach that is paining us.

He might have done it deliberately

Apc should not be too confident, they are not the first incumbent to be defited

The woman looks pretty and responsible. There's no age limit to gold digging

Actually they use to seize russian ships

masterfactor:
For those supporting USA, try to listen to what is going on in cuba.

If the ship that brought crude oil to cuba was from another country., The United States of America would have seized it, but since it Russia, they decided to look the other way.

A civilized country would provide good housing for city areas and restrict people from living in the bushes during this security issue ... it will also ensure that the civilized area is mounted with heavy security cameras with designated military personals watching over 24 / 7 .

We do not have any camera in Nigeria, we can't be wiser than those western countries with millions of cameras.

osuofia2:
With bushes everywhere, how na, make we just give them their own country, so they can enjoy their islamic caliphate and Sharia

Just install cameras like every other civilized country ... Move people away from the bushes where cameras won't work.... It's called urban and regional planning

this man will be a very wicked and strict man... People like this are best as CEO of a Chinese company ... Keep it up bro

Most successful tech people can't code either , include bill gate. It was paul allen that was doing the major coding

All you claiming Iran is winning.... If USA decides to fire bombs any where just like Iran does , Do you think one single soul will be left in Iran?

When you leave her she will find the father. Continue carrying other people's problem for head like you don't have your own problems.

Go and pray for poverty deliverance. No rich man will say this. Find a white garment church ASAP

God1000:
Who cares about going there anyway, I will never set my foot in that terrible country


I pity some N@gerians that are worshipping these useless racists

We no too dey sick like that , and someone of us dey port am with agbo.... So i can't see any scarecity of doctors in Nigeria

Go and take that pregnancy out ... you will use your ignorant to bring the child unlimited pains... If the child not up to4 months he or she is not a child yet and can't feel pains.

fixzycode:
Hello Nairalanders, my friend got a lady pregnant and later discovered that both he and the lady's genotype are AS. Now he is confused because the lady is suggesting abortion but he is not In support of that.

He is confused because he don't know if the child will turn out SS but he wants to give luck a chance. Those with experience please advise.
Thank you for your attention to this matter.

You have all these money and fame, you still dey fight physical

Okay I appreciate your explanation. So please kindly explain the game plan to me now that he has left labor party to form coalition with Atiku and Rotimi Amechi.

Is the plan for them to give him free ticket in ADC ?

Or to contest primary election with Atiku, Elrufai , Amechi ?

If he loss what next ? Go back to labor party or form another new party ?

Please explain. Just my questions. I want to learn

reddingtonblack:
Tinubu is Tinubu, Tinubu is not the standard of how politics must be or run

What works for Tinubu might not work for obi, thats is the mystery of Life, that said
Tinubu did not leave his party But at the same time Tinubu solicited a coalition and he opened up for political weight like Saraki and Tambuwal to come in, as smooth as all sound

Tinubu survived opposition cos the ruling part were more democrat.

With what Tinubu did in Rivers, it just dawn on me Obasanjo could have snatched lagos heavens wont fall like Wike and Tinubu normally say

Those ones just have small conscience nii

When Tinubu went to form a vibrant opposition in 2013 as you claimed, did he leave his party to join another party?

It's very hard for nairaland people to accept they are wrong even when it's obvious.... I said Peter Obi made the worse political decision in the history of human by leaving a party that gave him 6million vote to fight for primary in a new party that nobody knows where he can't even win primaries.

reddingtonblack:
OGA dont sweat !! Please go and get a proper education on what is called " enabling environment"

in 2013, Tinubu met El rufai, atiku formed a vibrant opposition, yes we agree they built and were strategic BUT all that endeavour paid off cos Jobathan was democratic enough

Uncle the best of coalition, strategy and support will go down the drain in a paul Biya world were state institutions and the judiciary are captured

I retietrate The beautiful APC coailition in 2015 thrived becos Jonathan allowed " enabling environment". Opoosition wete free to incite the people, stage protests and slander the presidency without intimidation and harass
If Tinubu was the president in 2015, i swear APC wont have seen the light of day ... NO matter the strategy in a Paul biya world it will look like opposition no try nii ... " enabling environment" is key to whether opposition will thrive or not

Learn and rest

Let me educate you, Apc didn't fall from heaven fully formed, presidency and party takes time to build and with the power and momentum obi had in labor, he could win lots of state government elections and start forming big structure like APC did till they won the first presidency in 2015 from the Almighty pdp.

Fine they are having issues in labor party, if you can't settle party issue as the most respected in the party then how will you settle a complex Nigeria issue

What obi lack is patience, tinubu paid his dues by waiting that long, if it could take another 12 years, that's fine and that's the reality we've found ourselves in, but wait if you have to wait... Better late than never

You are talking about coalition... with who?.... Obi won't even come close to second in the primaries of adc because he doesn't give shi shi , which is fine but to what end has the coalition helped his political career. Pdp obviously won't give him ticket because the wicked Wike has one goal in Pdp and it's to ensure the party doesn't produce a credible candidate to compete with Tinubu, ofcourse APC won't, ADC also won't give him ticket because Atiku gives more than shi shi , he gives dollar...., so why won't any intelligent person stay where he is valued and build it.

I know you will reply me with abusing my family like you nairaland guys always do, but you can't change the fact just because you want to be happy

reddingtonblack:
I hope you've not assume you are intelligent ... Have you checked labour party and you did not see leadership crisis

peter obi has 6million, buh remember he is 3rd cos someone was 2nd, lets assume labour party no get leadership crisis Peter Obi stay wont still getting him to win ..apparently he needs a coalition, he needs to build bridges and work with others if he wan to raise his votes

Sticking to the obedient base is not enough, if you were intelligent you would have learn from Buhari road to presidency ..he failed how many times until coalition, intelligent people will know that one tree cant make a forest

Obi could have been our last hope to change this government, but he is dead politically. He should be studied in university political science as what not to do 101.

How can you have over six million votes in your first major attempt, and you left the party with the hope of winning primaries in a party of atiku and amechi.

To be honest obi is not intelligent

Which entire planet, count me out

God1000:
What a patriotic man, God will send his angels to protect Iranians tonight, trust me Donald trump will not succeed



The entire planet knows that trump is a lying, cheating, disgusting, maniacal and sociopathic 79-year-old spoiled demented toddler.

They know that Trump is talk and do

Nobody is bulling them, we can't have a world without a leader, and I would rather prefer the western country to rule over me than any Asian country. The world power said he doesn't want any Islamic country to have nuclear weapons, why must you have it. Is Dubai not doing fine without nuclear? if they don't have an ulterior motive why are they bent on having it.

They said you have uranium, Why can't they come on national tv to tell the world that they would be willing to allow 100 US delegates to come and search their country if they see any uranium they should take it, is that not peaceful?

Why can't their leader come on National TV and declare that they don't have it and doesn't have any plan to having it , and would be open to doing business with the world and let's see who will still say no to them.

This people invested 90 percent of the country's revenue on military weapon while the mases doesn't have good water to drink.

mynd1:
All I have to say is God bless Iran for teaching America and Israel that not everyone can be bullied.

As for you up, I don't like you cause you full of hate for Muslims and Islam.

PR for APC should be listed as one of the most difficult job in 2026.

Imagine campaigning with uncompleted narrow road. Two Toyota tundra can't even overtake each other on this thing

Come back insults ke!!! At least understand the words you use. All this forming intelligent and forcing opinions on others feels so backward. A forum is a place to share ideas, not wear them like armor as if your life depends on it.

The victim went to church, not the police station, and she’s 19. And if the wife wanted a divorce so badly, she wouldn’t come here to seek our opinion. You don’t even know exactly what truly passed between the house help and the man, aside from what the woman knows and wrote here. Yet you rush in, raining insults on everyone like some self made scholar of low budget human psychology..... unless you have a hidden agenda to marry her when she leaves her husband.

Truth is, only empty minds shout this loud. Wise people speak and still leave room to listen.

advanceDNA:
lol… trying to turn ur rape apologist comment into a come back insult is just pathetic…

It’s not a consent relationship btw the maid and the man, if it was then I would agree with you that its something a lot of guys can do…
But ….how can u say most guys will rape….A crime was committed here man and all I did was acknowledge it from the angle of the victim who should get justice… but to you.. it’s being full of myself …. lol….No wonder we have leaders that recycle bokoharam…: na pple like Una dey aso rock and senate…. Justifying evil with technicalities

Don’t blame the design, blame the designer. You don’t hand a dog meat and punish it for eating. And YES if I have a sexy house help that I find attractive I may ask her out but will never rape a woman. Your low testosterone doesn’t define other men, and you’re no better than Bill Clinton, Donald Trump, François Hollande, or Jacob Zuma and many great men who made similar mistakes and weren’t killed. You are just a nairaland guy who is full of himself. Thank God the woman involved isn’t pressing charges. If you read properly, I clearly said more than three times that I don’t support rape. So relax and stop stressing over other people’s issues, and don’t act like you know it all.

advanceDNA:
Baba…Cover your face in shame…. If ur rape ur own wife’s maid… just say so…. Dont try to sugarcoat it by saying most men will do it…. Hian!! This internet seff

…. Please u pple ahould stop justifying evil
Someone was raped and nearly killed and Yall are treating it as if the victim is not important and only the marriage ahould be saved…

Have u pple asked urself if u can marry a rapist and assaulter if your wife was guilty of this offences..??
Una Dey try oooooo

I don't support rape, even though all men are promiscuous in nature, but rape is a different level of mental problem. Most men would do the same thing your husband did but would only persuade the house help till she consent to the intimacy but they won't rape her.

My best friend who is a youth pastor in his church has slept with his secretaries till I lost count, he has also slept with his wife's close friend but he his always very careful and ensure that it's out of consent. I don't support what my friend does , but aside from me knowing this secret, everybody in the neighborhood and family members always thinks he is the best version of a man that God has ever created. He doesn't miss Sunday church and vigils, he dresses decently and he's currently doing his third masters. If people didn't tell you about their dirty laundries you wouldn't know what's hidden under their cloth.

I don't support rape and I think it's a different level of mental problem. Has much has I know so many men are bad and would have sex with anything on skirt, yet I wouldn't support rape. Your husband could have left her alone after several persuasion instead of raping her.

My conclusion is, if your husband is a good man , if he takes care of his children, if he's willing to be a better person then I would advise you to forgive him and also leave that community to start a new life somewhere else with your husband. Forgive him, marriage is most needed at old age and it's not easy for you to find a new person to grow old with after two child children. So forgive him.

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

Carpenter

Yeah no bluffing... Only Trump can say it as it is

White men does not like tick body , they prefer model or very skinny body type and its rear to find that among black woomen.. maybe one out of 100

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

This method again, why always election time ?

There's no tech boom. Prepare for the worse when A.I can improve itself