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Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do ?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.

His parent is not aware of all this? Are they in support of him? Because personally I think his parent should have cautioned him against doing such to you the first time it happen, if you think his parent support his decision beating you then I think you have to report to your parent before he cause you more harm, you don't need to wait till he almost kill you before you speak out jst because you don't want family issues, by the way how old are you? You are already in school which means you re matured enough to reside within your school, what if those families are NT residing dere? Pls speak up before the guy kills you oo

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SeverusSnape:
I dey laugh

Bubu the mumu is heartless.

Who is he that people won't insult??

Sensible former presidents and even present ones are being insulted day in day out, Including Trump... So i ask again, Who's that Mr. lifeless

Ogaaa dae can arrest u oo

SoftDrink77:
. My beloved brother and sisters on nairaland, please kindly help me and my family, we are dying of hunger, please we need food, if there is any way you help us with foodstuffs our location is lagos. Thank you all

Where is ur location in Lagos, I can help u wit foodstuffs

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Heloo

Umarzy:
Made N13,000.

Made 8.5k on logo designs. Also bought a coin on Hotbit exchange, hodl for 2 days and sold it with a profit of 4.5k

Bro can u drop ur digit I nid to knw more abt dat hotbit exchange

mabeni:
lately, I have been seeing myself in the community where I grew up and with my childhood friends. The community I left over 14years ago. What does that implies.
Note : I am an easy going person and I don't keep friends now.
I only have one friend.

Man u gats to pray against any power that want to return u bck to square 1
Anoda praya u can pray is God should elevate ND move u to a higher level if u tink u av been in d same position for years....
Seeing urself bck in d village wit the people u grew up wit togeda or seeing urself bck in primary skul or secondary skul is synonymous to a downfall bt trust me dat will not happen to u...try nd cultivate d habit of reading psalm 91 frm verse one to d end everyday..

allthingsgood:
i think the deaths need to get to a number that will force nigerians to have common sense
Buhari should lift the lockdown and let people die by choice. By the time you bury your parents and children nobody will tell u before u enter house and lock door

There is no reason using dis kind of Grave statement. U will b d one to bury all ur family first idiot. I don't knw the reason y some people and sense are born enemies

Giwoni:
My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

I understand how u feel bro, brace urself up, accept d fact that she z gone, u re a medical student, u shuld b a hot cake, trust me love will come at d right time, don't rush urself, aw old re u to start wit, start tinking of aw to travel out of d country after ur programme, pls tink abt all wat u will love to bcm later in lyf, I suggest u forget abt woman for nau, most of Dem ain't worth it, I av a similar story to urs dat I will love to share wit u 08149959843 my watsapp no

ikh777:
Aptech Lagos

Tank u

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Ishilove:
They will not use carbohydrate to kill someone in this country.

Lolzz naija...we can Neva b satisfied, na una day complain govt no gv anitin Dem one make u die, person pikin collect rice noodles ND garri u still day complain did day want to use carbohydrates kill u...lol naawaaa ooooo

Anoda 14daes..........we die here! Receive mysoul Lord!

Nodogragra4me:
Even with the Leopard Omotekun?
If the federal government had come down hard on their stand againt the outfit , all the media houses from and in the region would have been foaming from both sides of their mouth

Depressed ipob member spotted!

The best tin is to get d fucking out of dis shit hole country after all dis issue....I don't mind saving for 10yrs to achieve dat dream...God Wu did we offend??

Imagine....chai we don suffer

Tudox05:
Fashion but it makes some man to arose as quick as anything.
I like it, I can pay for any girl that put it on

U like it, u like it...I pity u

JustAwesome:
Lagos State has started distribution of food stuff
They recently brought this to my residence in ebute metta.

The bag comprises of rice and garri and a loaf of bread all tightly sealed with threaded sacks

Useless people day can't even manage to put slice bread, dae goan bring agege bread, day knw agege bread dae hold Tommy well well...bro check inside, akara fit day..enjoy ur meal while it last..jst knw as long as coro go last das wat u wee eat...

micxwell:
Higher degress or not, bro if you're not lucky enough to get a graduate trainee role, you have to die, get buried before you start growing (you may have to work for free, get treated like a dog or a househelp just so you can get there).. I'm into Occupational Safety and Health, my boss says it all the time that it's only experience that is holding me back from becoming a Manager. By God's grace, next year, I should be up there. But baba I don read, get turned down so many times at interviews. Had to learn Structural design and detailing from scratch.... No Uni can teach you that.... Na wetin I dey use do side hustle right now.


It's simple..... Like you have said it's what you have in you, yes but your degrees will be appreciated later...

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I received mine yesterdae...

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englishmart:
Well, Messi is the only goat I know for now.

He has also been raped few days ago by realmadrid

Greatzeus:
You want to further your education,less than a year of graduation? The Bsc you have what have you done with it? Collecting 20k salary. I don't know why lots of youths are so senseless..
First,how much will you save monthly that will be enough for your masters?
Secondly, after the Masters what next? Job will come? Big lie. Why not safe to start a small business or use the money to learn a skill .

Can't u jst advice without insulting, i don't think you have to call him senseless because he wish to further more, habaa...let's respect ourselves na

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