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Celebrating Christmas on a desert island.

I think this piggy bank of a thing is good for those who aren't disciplined with money. For me it's not an option. My money lying down there losing value everyday. Plenty plans to execute!

Dogalmighty17:
I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.

Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.

I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands.

My brother, you're sitting on a trailer load of gun powder. If at all you want to have a happy home, you need no sootsayer to tell you that, that lady isn't meant for you. Forget all those qualities you listed. You get the best of your partner in courtship, she can only get worse. And if she gets worse, there's no one to run to, as the parents have affirmed that, that is how their daughter was brought up. Abeg, there are superb ladies looking for a responsible man like you. Please move on, the ladies in question will tear you and your family apart and the worst part of it is that, when the deed is done, from what I read from your post, her father's door is still wide open to her.

Is the price negotiable?

Niccoloimhotep:
Features includes: Genuine custom, perfect engine and gearbox, auto drive, spare tyre, alloy rims, power windows, power side mirror with pointer lights, Rim 18 tyres, 139k actual mileage, the engine still steams and drops water.

Price: 1.75M
08034290032
Ibadan
Clean Title
No Accident
First body


Vin 3VWJM71K68MO74692

Engine picture?

Price please.

Azin stealing from a thief?

Hey Dolly, how cool is the price?

I won't lie, unlike other similar vehicles, I left the tab for the bus opening it back and forth for 2 hour+, wished i was ready!

NGO doing the job of a church!

'...that there may be FOOD in MY House. '

How true?

Same set of people with different alphabets......

Who cares? They all know where they meet.

The only set of people I pity are the fools who will lose their lives for 'friends' portraying themselves as political enemies.

No difference still

President material

, they're just against picking an anointed candidate like you did for Secondus.

All forces are against Ambode already.

Ifesinachi!!!!! Useless agbero transport cult group... in fact I have more confidence in nurtw than those useless clueless guys! Everything about them is a trash! Stay clear of them guys... tell friends and family too, it might save a life.

In the West, we called it 'epon elede ' , pig's scrotum.

Please PH guys, how do I locate Ace International center 1. Through Rumuokoro or Rumuola, whichis better?

Why not align the Ground floor and first visitor's toilets?

With the 100% hike in their data cost?!

I'm not against the increase in the minimum wage. What aches my heart is the services delivered by public servants. 90% of public servants don't want to add value proportionate to their salaries! They resume when they feel like, take breaks when they feel like, close when they feel like, absent without permission, demand gratification for what they're paid to do... the list of the atrocity they commit is endless. Some are not even competent in what they do! It's just money! Money!! Money!!! No one talks about adding value to the public sector!

My submission,
In as much as I support minimum wage increment, I would suggest the FG set up a 58 man(2*29) panel to set up modalities on a quality check on public service delivery!

I thought this OP is learned until he proved his ignorance in the highest order ever. Seun, you think you can spite the Scripture? I'm sorry for you. You'll weep over this soonest. Have you ever taken time to study the phases the BIBLE went through before getting to this published copies we have today? Just a brief one, there was a time that due to persecution, the only copy of the scripture was buried in the ground for several years and when finally exhumed, termites had eaten some part of it. So, Learn!!! Seun, Learn!!!! Let me state this and I'll do that over and over again even at gun point! ' The BIBLE is SEAMLESS and as such CANNOT be Broken! '

I see many lawyers and judges already, even when there's no accused person. For crying out loud, why not see the issue from a lighter perspective. For the information of the accusers, we both got married as virgins and hold our marriage bed in high esteem, to remain undefiled in our entire life time. We have mutual trust for each other and no such thing as 'cheat' or 'extramarital affair' is permissible.

And for those who think @26 I was still too young or childish, that must be a reflection of who you think you are. I got married by God's Grace, being qualified having met all prerequisites in all dimensions and out of necessity to start my family.

I only gave an overview of my personally not to boast, but for readers to know who is talking.

And for the devil's advocates, ask the devil himself, he knows we're a 'no-go zone ' for him.

In all, thanks to everyone for the advice and criticisms.

Also noteworthy of mentioning, *not only that I know men are after her, I'm also after her*

Our leaders, due to the current situation keep emphasizing Agric and solid mineral as the way out but left out the place of Science and Technology (R&D) as the major hub for the earlier two.

It is noteworthy to mention that, finished goods such as necklace and rings are about 8 to 10 times more valuable than raw gold, same goes for Cocoa and chocolate.

Developing our local technology to process our raw materials will give us leverage on international trade floor.

#my5cent

I got married last year at 26, used to work for an oil servicing firm, about 5'11" and dress well on the average.

On many occasions, while with my wife, I see signals from small girls and big girls too, and I mean it's real. Most times, I tell my wife when these happen and she tells me they are lies.

Should I walk up to one in her presence to prove my point or just let sleeping dog lie?

Most of the tips sound foreign.