LetMeSpeak:
Ok thanks


I just want her outta my house

With diplomacy that I can help.........take her back to her place spend some time with her even days, then seek out a friend in another location and cool off and make sure you limit communication.

LetMeSpeak:



You don't really have to call me a dimwit you know?


Okay I'm being used,what's the way out?

In every thing you do try not to have sex with her...... no one ever finish paying for that.
P.S a situation of bush meat going after the hunter.

If you planning to go back all I can tell you is make sure you are returning as a better you if not na your body go tell you........most second tenure na looting things. that bobo will so show you pepper in fact let me tell you the truth for shredding that cash his planning on what/where to treat your Bleep-up you actually did dent his ego.

Khemhyte:
Another one here. Your marriage is too early to experience this now. And to think baby creates more bonding between husband and wife instead he is creating a drift inorder to embrace another Eve in such a recent period.

He is solely yours, don't be intimidated by his words, your actions will either make him proceed or stay put.
Since he has stylishly made his intention known to you, have a deep talk with him first, why he want to do so, if he needs your support in his business...put cry cry and weakness aside; have heart to heart talk with him. I think him being close to that lady is the fire here with a burning effect on you without smelling the smoke in time.

Inform your people and his parent aswell, don't do solo now biko. If your relationship with his parent is a good one then you are on a winning side and you will come out victorious.
And don't forget that prayer is the Master Key.
Snap into Action Madam!

To tell you the truth that man have loss see when person quote bible give you to justify a wrong only the Jona and whale effect can give him back sanity...... concern telling the parent hope you know the reason they were pressurising him to get married was for grand children sake so just forget all she will get would be endurance therapy.
P.S That your husband just discovered himself and money isn't far from it and that support thing regarding his business it just going to hit rock cause na the business actually be the union....poor people can pretend!

You ended up marrying other people's girlfriend and after going through your post the only thing I can tell you is try make heaven.

P.S All the singles in the house hope you can now testify to the wise saying " a leopard never shades it skin" and it goes both ways and all she did was to position all her cards around her by match making her ex's while you were her retirement plan and mind you nothing exonerates you from your own blame and your financial situation is now looking like the fly and scrotum legacy in fact you are the proverbial bird in the "beautiful ones are not yet born" (Chichidodo).

some time ago there was a statement by a moniker here on nairaland that I was really not so cool with but after going through your epistle I can now boldly accept that truly broke men are not allowed an erection at least only when to pee and for wet dreams....... with all these your big English latex seems to be too difficult for you anyways hope you know that Jacob wasn't the only child with all these your end time analogies just go and return some body's daughter.
P.S come which person soul are you trying to save and dating for 8years add that to your supposed PGD to come that will almost be a decade of dating brother you have not tried you better do the needful and who told you Nigeria economic situation will miraculous change when you are done with your studies? and from all your long story nothing seems to be wrong with you mentally, spiritually and otherwise just poverty and you have already planned how an unborn baby will then become Jacob of your lineage so without Esau where him wan take scam birth right from and the pregnancy is not all the reason for her suicidal tendencies na just say the life is just all about you this and that all that will calm her down is "marry her officially".

042reports:


How do I locate the address.
Scheduled for interview on Saturday

@stbenedict has given you a clue and since you coming from Nyanya board a Wuse vehicle and tell the driver to drop you off at "Finance Bridge" walk up the bridge a little ministry of finance is just to the left you could then ask for direction for Edo House from there on.
P.S Above description will only apply if the car goes through Bullet and then secretariat but if you lucky(some cabs don cut off secretariat depending on passengers) you might just be dropped just opposite ministry of finance.

Timbuktuo:
1. The nicer you are to women, the more they will disrespect and take you for granted. Women like to have a thrill in their relationships, it keeps their cooch wet for the thriller. That's why she keeps going back to her ex. You probably disgust her with your niceness and acceptance of her numerous shenanigans.

2. You have a problem pedestalising women. They are just flesh and blood like you bro. Their poop stinks like yours. Your babe has bitchy friends and you think she's different from them? Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are; evil communication corrupts good manners. These are not idle sayings, they contain wisdom. Your babe is just like her friends.
She visited a guy and lied she was at the mall, later she said she accompanied someone there. She's making all these silly comments because she thinks you're silly for not slapping her like her ex would do.
By the way, maybe her ex knew she wasn't worth shît that's why he treated her that way. Are you not curious that she keeps going back to him despite her description of him? Shouldn't she avoid him since she's found a saint in you? Either she likes bad boys, or she's a bad girl or both. And we know you're nice or trying to be. You will get your fingers burnt. I can confidently tell you that the ex dumped her that's why she was heartbroken. That's why she keeps going back tand him at every opportunity.

3. You are trying to change her, does she want to change? You cannot project your preferences on her. Even if she desired changes, she's still prone to falling into old habits occasionally.
You cannot change anybody, they change from within and it can be a difficult and continuous process. Go for someone whose lifestyle is compatible with your preferences. How do you think you can cope with a girlfriend that went out with a suitor, and against your express resistance to the idea. She doesn't even respect you.
She might get change for a while or pretend to change but if you go further and marry her, you're fûcked. Her true colors will resurface when she has secured the ring and name. Don't be foolish.

4. You need to look beyond her packaging and consider if the content of her soul matches your ideal woman. If not move far away from her. She'either toleratingyou or grooming you to her spec of mumu.

5. You need to realize, the nicer you are to a woman the more disrespect she will mete out to you. This one obviously likes her men disrespectful, if you are not that man you need to cut her off asap. You also need to get some fûcking steel because you really don't know how to handle women.

Grow some damn balls, dude

It like brother Anonymous010 has been given a second chance at love and marriage in case anyone found the write up too annoying so in summary this is actually a Prequel to the present story on these same "FAMILY SECTION" about change and two weeks after wedding, humans do know how to repeat history one thing is for sure kelvinboj thinks his been whispered to by the holy spirit and has the life ambition to effect change(i.e you better look for the river and horse story).
P.S My brother it seems your life was initially stress free and you needed adventure and you did not bother asking if your close pals needed love or cash, anyways I believe your helper will soon connect with you and by the way try listening to "F**K YOU" by kizz Daniel.

Kingosytex:
Dis is really pathetic, i can feel ur pains, believe me i seriously do.

If I understood u Anonymus010, u said you never had sex with the first girl u dated because she was a virgin and u didn't want to assure her of marriage: VERDICT==> U are a nice guy with self control. U aren't like a great majority who insert their rod into any available hole.

You equally said that her ex wished her a happy birthday b4 u: VERDICT==> Okafor's law comes into play. i almost had sex with my ex, though she is married but we still have affections for each other. What if i tell you that the new born baby isn't yours? i suggest you run a DNA test to ascertain the paternity of the baby

She is very determined 2 bring u down and i am afraid to tell u dat peace might be a stranger to u until d matter is resolved. DON'T TAKE HER TO THE STATES atleast 4 now, else u are a "goner". Her heart still beats for her ex, take her for counselling both spiritual and psychological and above all take your case to God in prayer

This sums up all you need to know and do.................it will help you in looking before you leap, since the first leap (marriage) is now a night mare and please listen carefully no go carry that woman go U.S if all stated according to you is true cause no be for that country person they learn how to control wife.
P.S I noticed you amongst the few that reasons too much before you act, sometimes and most times it comes as a blessing but abeg try not to allow anyone insult your mother, you for drawline that moment.

jihday:
you are pathetic tho

Verily verily pathetic...... A little faith will definitely do him no harm.

somadinho10:
brother did you also notice the camera is not as bright as before

Techno phones and their cameras seem to suffer from the half life effect, the quality tend to fail without warning.

P.S Inferior materials can not hide with time they will show, me am just tired of my present techno waiting patiently to free myself...... Lunching phones every now and then like one nollywod.

fabyom:
I believe Iwobi will come good in the AM role.
The Super Eagles played a high level footy yesterday against a team that topped the Ivorians during the AFCON qualification.
The weather affected our play in the first (over 30degrees).
However, in the second half we played some really good footy as the weather was less sunny.
I have a question:
Why did we play ahead of group A?
Is it because the organisers did not want the Egyptians to play in such a dehydrating weather or what?

Strangely no body asked, knowing fully well most of our players are foreign based they put the match for hot sun.

My good friend trust me on this you are okay........it just love (infatuation) and insecurity that is affecting you and you worry too much if the said Lady truly bewitched you, sense no go even reason you, for now nothing do you till then and try writing down your will since you fear your will seems threated.

eni4real:
Those that blame Messi are simply happy with his misery in the national team.

But that will not stop Messi from being the best...

No Superstar in history has ever played with such ineffective teammates!!!

People mention Cristiano but Portugal rose in FIFA ranking when Ronaldo was not even available to make them win all their games in the UEFA nations League.
That is a good team.
People said Euro 2016 final is due to his motivation but what about Confederation cup 3rd place, what about UNL before the semi final, why is Bernaldo Silva the best player in the tournament

Mention any Superstar : Zizou, R9, Maradona, Pele. None of them has teammates that can't even complete passes...

Just watch the present Argentina team if I am exaggerating...

yesterday match was as if Okpotu of the home base eagles and Tijani of the under 20 were partnering Messi, first of all I was like who be this people with strange names, abi the coach collect inducement select boys come the competition because as I said it like as long as you can kick a ball having Messi as your team mate na like 80% of your football woes are solved. And Paraguay had a filled day playing police football even shame come they worry me cause they were enjoying the unorganised display by the Argentine. In fact large part of the match lacked fluidity any small thing referee have put whistle for mouth and before I forget Otamendi na Calamity.

Jejebabaa:


Its either you are genuinely misinforming your potential customers or you have no idea of what is obtainable in the financial market and not good at your job for you to be saying the interest is 12.5% flat which is a cumulative 150% p.a. There is no legitimate business in the world that will yield such humongous ROI consistently.

Just leave him to continue selling maybe a client will learn the hard way....... speaking from experience but not from his bank thou, I had to travel from Zaria to Lagos ( i.e nightbus) cause of the anger after discovering the alert gotten was different from the blues I was played went straight to initiate liquidation abi na termination and never looked back in fact I even asked them to terminate the account join........... funniest thing was that they initiated a clause on the account that stipulated that for ever N1,000 naira withdrawn outside their bank a N100 naira goes to them even if na ATM (I mean their bank, branches are not involved) I had to top my money just to get a round figure cause of the fractions incurred based on the clause.

P.S so as long as it has feathers na fowl whether it a dock I don't care, feather is involved and that's enough for me.

eni4real:
Aguero did not start against Paraguay because he has a poor game against Columbia..
Dybala don't even have up to 5 goals for Argentina...
Icardi is not even present in this tournament
Di Maria had to be withdrawn against Colombia because he had a very bad game in the left wing. He was replaced by Mattias Suarez. An unknown player. That is to tell you how poor things are in Argentina now...
It is not enough to blame Messi for everything...

Thank you very much for your understanding and I cannot blaming Messi for the outcome of this competition just saying same thing but in different way, players that were suppose to help him out seems to be shooting blanks, if am Messi's brother since him suppose don retire cause it like every Argentine that can kick a ball just enters the field of play and believes Messi will do everything even the stars just they show lacklustre attitude. Watching the match was like watching the NPLF where Enyimba vs MFM play without precision, muscle here, anywhere belly face, kick and follow while for Messi mind he will just be saying wetin carry me come this competition injury for end of season for save me from this set of rookies called team mates.

eni4real:
Diminishing but has 36 league goals and 12 UCL goals, better than his last season performance... And better than any player this season!!!
English??

It like you seem to only see what you want to see...... all this goals and trophies listed will never be disputed, am speaking of his overall performance as it concerns the Copa America and team play in Argentina's colours please don't come up with winning the league of last season cause that cup in itself shouldn't be a thing to beat your chest over cause na every season consolation be that if the Champions League slips, the Copa America seems elusive to Argentina even with Messi in the mix, as an Argentine it makes no sense to me listing all this laurels without having the Copa America in it.

When i said diminishing, please try watching the match again and you will observe moves that naturally back then in Messi's prime would have been goal bound where just as if Messi was wasting goal scoring chances those mesmerizing runs, cut-backs, free kicks and take-on's hardly connect to perfection as of the days he came into limelight, see in a nutshell what am trying to say is that at this stage Messi needs the likes of Dybala, Icardi, Di maria and Aguero to always start this matches with him cause they operate on same frequency and professionalism, this is not about how many goals or trophies the country comes first and Messi cannot alone do it.

P.S Kindly stop seeing it as if I have anything against Messi, football is a team sport especially when it comes to the National team individual laurels remains with the individual, as a country that copa cup matters more to an average Argentine fan than the stats of any player on the field of play.

trustbaba:

Well said. That's is why he needs to help others evolve.. he needs to be a model for his team to follow... Ronaldo does well in that aspect, mpampe and other young stars look up to him.
That is why the world will remember Ronaldo than it will for Messi in many years to come

Watching the match without seeing Icardi, Dyabala, Di maria and Aguero on the Pitch and Messi no de ask the coach questions or na me just don't understand the tactics of the argentine coach? the people meant to support Messi get benched all the time making it difficult for him to do anything reasonable on the field of play, forgetting in Barcelona he is surrounded by like-minds.

trustbaba:

It seems u don't understand what is going on, Messi is the mess of Argentina he wants everyone to revolve around him . That's not brillance, it's selfishness... That's the hard truth... Ronaldo is a better captain than him, he allows others to evolve. I pray u don't choose someone like Messi as a role model

This here is the bitter truth.......His abilities seems to be diminishing with age but in his mind he is still the Messi of then.

P.S There is a time for everything under the sun, seems only Ronaldo gets the Memo.

BascoVanVeli:
Who happened to see the smile on that last boy's face when he saw Alex Iwobi during handshakes?

Which station are you currently watching it on?

elyte89:



So because he doesn't joke anymore, means automatically his form is back and shld b on d plane

D only reason he's making it to Egypt is because he made preliminary list despite his awful season,dt speaks volume...rohr is not ready to drop him,simple as ABC.

Maybe Rohr wants to give him the benefit of doubt and concerning his form the boy needs a therapist the mojo has left him, Like play Kellechi go turn training material for camp.

bossto:
Rohr should not try that....I don't know what kc brings to the table!...he's not it abeg!....

I think he has taken correction if you noticed he doesn't joke anymore like before and all that Instagram nonsense, hopefully when iwobi arrives the madness no go return and am not saying he should make the team base on this observation just saying the lad seem to be learning the hard way.
P.s Kellechi himself is mystified on how the peeking order between him OShimeh and co seem to have left him rock bottom.

soetanoreoluwa:


I don't expect any miracle from manu garba. This is not manu we know... Something is wrong somewhere.

I share same feelings with you, just couldn't understand the whole drama with his team selection then came Paul with his Uefa licence of old misplaced men.

After watching yesterday's match and the follow up on how this team came to be, I only hope Many Garba is also watching and following cause the same drama affecting this team selection was what we were made to believe during the u17 team selection for the Africa qualifiers.

zamirikpo:


Chief am sure u are still single ......somethings are better left to her imagination.

A man may have more or less than his wife imagines but it's safer she keeps guessing. Cos if she knows the exert figure and it's way below her expectation na wahala, if its much more still wahala.

Most importantly let her know where and how to get it in case something happens.

*Word

Toylove:
Africa my africa....
VAR was supposed to be used in the caf champions league final....It was even at the pitch side, but It wasn't working

You think say Africa send the world ? Wait till nations cup start for hypertension sake watch every match forgetting there is even what is called replay, referee's in Africa are like INEC and VAR (is just like card readers).

I weep for my country, for God seek how did we find our self here and some grown ass men pride themselves for being amongst this cretin's.