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Wow! Exactly what happened when my mom was having me.

She knew she was pregnant, of course. But I was the most peaceful birth, according to her. She was doing whatever she was doing and the doctor was like "Madam can't you see that baby is... " I came quiet and easy, according to her. People don't believe it when they hear the story.

But my brothers were total cases so, lol, that's believable. Some of them were totally painful.

noweakness:
over threat to human life which she made?

OK now I see your point. I was only caring about her before. If it was a man, I would be happy the audio was revealed and I would want Tonto to be careful ...

Sorry, I was selfishly thinking of my gender alone and didn't reason about the wrong thing she did.

If she did not bring this out herself, she should sue whoever did.

Truvelisback:
He sees u as a burden and a liability to him. U are clingy to him. Don't u av a job?

He said I did nothing to him.

produce:
From point of view you really love this guy.

Try also to give helping hand no matter how little, not about sex or immorality or are you draining him because he is good or nice guy?

What are you doing that pushed him away?
Are you supportive to him or making him jealous, cause at times some ladies attitude can be annoying.

Talk together, tins will be right

Tnks.

princewarri1985:
Then give him his space and go get yourself a job, for Bleep sake i dont know what is wrong with these feminist them, God gave you brain to think please use it for once

He got me a job.

Zenithphil8368:
when a man you claim loves you starts telling you He needs space my dear, He is being idiomatic with you and doesnt want to come out plane so He doensnt Hurt your feelings, probably He has realised that you love him thats why he is giving you a soft landing, my dear if you have invested in that relationship pls just forget it and move on because a man who trull loves you will never tell you to give him space especially when you have been dating for a while and same with a woman. my advice to you is that gather your life together and move on straight away, trust me if He trully loves you He will come around.

OK. He said he loves me but his mind is on making money. He wants to focus on making money, that he doesn't focus on women this long. I've heard sha. Tnks.

Danisaint112:
Madam give him space stop seeing him frequently like you both house is a stone throw. I just hope you ain't one of those girls that leave their boyfriend?

No two stop sucking him dry. Reject his money and tell him to use it for himself and you will have your respect back. Infact if you do this you would be surprised he would ask you; "what did I do to you that you are avoiding me?"

But would you adhere to all this? NO. Because I'm a stranger and you also feel my opinion don't matter. Do this or learn the hard way. The choice is yours.

I don't live with him. I tried to give him back his ATM card but he said he is not collecting it. And he said no matter what any year or day from now I have access to his account.

He gives me money, the few times I have I give him too. But now, since he wants space, I will just dey my dey. That way there's no need to give me anything.

He's nice. I guess he is still exploring. I'll just go with the last shreds of my dignity.

phemmyfour:
You are choking him.... Don't appear desperate, give him space

That's what I'm going to do, starting today.

For some time now, my boyfriend has been telling me he wants to take a break or he needs space. We still meet frequently despite this.

Lately he said it again. This time he said he is stuck with me. The thing is that when he says these things we will play afterwards and I will not take what he said seriously. I think he's serious and just trying to cushion the blow for me. I don't want him to lose his temper one day and tell me to get lost to my face, finally.

What do you guys think of this situation? I looked at it and I believe he wants me to leave. Can you state your opinions, and also ways to move away, heal and stay strong?

It happened to me yesterday. Almost all my trousers have spoilt. So I wore a top to cover my trouser since I could not zip it, as the zip was spoilt. That means I have to Jack up the trouser every five minutes as it's coming down. I left it like that. Cuz I had to go to work.

I made a mistake of entering a bus that was already filled up. That kind of bus that you have to be standing up for people to come down every time. Immediately I sat down, the top went up.

I stood up to fix the top on my jeans, to yank the jeans up, I was embarrassed as my ass was showing. The conductor and other men starting grinning and making happy sounds.

Conductor now said he wants to help me fix my seat, while I was fixing my jeans. I stood up and immediately I did, he left the seat he claimed he wanted to fix. In a flash, he put his hand in the hem of my jeans, then yanked up my jeans for me.

I was so angry that without warning to myself I wagged my finger to him and warned him not to touch me again. As I turned around one lady yanked the trouser up for me agajn.

One old man on the bus was already shouting to me that the conductor did the right thing. Other people on the bus started arguing that, "If na woman, e for better na. The conductor na man, him no suppose touch am." Some people, like the old man, argued against it.

I was embarrassed, so embarrassed, I feigned anger to cover the embarrassment, since some people were already supporting me. I couldn't use the bus again and I got down and didn't ask the conductor for my fare again.

iamtardey:
LoL are you kidding...
Why keep dem texts? To feel yourself? To have dem exes number ABI why exactly? Look I'm not siding him o. I'm out of here.
Go talk to your nigga.

Thanks.

iamtardey:
What do call old and abandoned texts from exes from the pasts.

Texts in my whatsapp from when I had not met him. The time and date of those chats are there. He even checked and confirmed that they were there at months before we met.

So they have nothing to do with our current relationship. Yet he went to read them all and got angry.

If you are the one that never dares to cut your partner's calls or mark their chat as unread on Whatsapp even when you are so angry, yet they do it to you constantly, what does this mean?

If you never grow the 'liver' to tell your partner that you want to end the relationship, YET your partner does it to you, what does it mean?

If I am the one that constantly runs after my partner to make amends, yet my partner has the mind to ignore me for days, keeping up attitude and anger for days, what does this mean? Especially when I cannot do so to the person.

To me I'm beginning to think that I am not a diamond to him.
I'm not precious to him, that is why he is easily throwing me aside.
He feels I love him more, so he is taking risks knowing I won't react but simply keep apologizing and begging...
Am I right?

He got tempted by a girl, almost celebrated her birthday for her, even made videos of her in his car drooling over her, ran to me for forgiveness, I forgave. He used the money that he would have used for her birthday on me, and I accepted. I forgave THAT VERY DAY without looking back.

He saw old and abandoned text between me and my exes from the past, he gave me attitude for almost a week. He showed all his different characters.

Please, what does this spell in a relationship? Am I overreacting or is this a normal way that partners behave? Is this how any misunderstanding should be treated?

What can I do to get my partner to treat me calmly the way I also do?