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dingbang:
Adultery...

Why?

Hello Nairalanders! Happy Sunday.

I do hear a lot of religious leaders preach on 'SIN'. And whenever they do so, they start listing the type of sins.

What surprises me is that whenever these religious leaders talk on sins, these sins listed below are always on their top list of sins.

1. Adultery/Fornication

2. Killing/Murder

3. Stealing/Robbing

then the one that most times come last on their list is 'Lying'.

Why is lying always the least?

Should we say that those 3 sins listed above are the worst sins?

And why is 'lying' not always on the first 3 sins on their list?

I grew up with the mentality that 'All Sins Are Equal'. But the way religious leaders handle sin of adultery/fornication is different from the way they handle sin of lying.

They award more punishment to those who commit the former while giving little or no punishment to those who commit the latter.

Matured response please.

Elder001:
You're stupid, seriously.

You can't condemn male sexual assault but you want a male pervert to be prosecuted.. crawl back to where you crawled from.

Mumu..

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MissyB3, puskin, seun, Lalasticalala,

Elder001:
I don't just know whether some of you are intentionally stupid or not.

Instead of condemning the horrible act or consoling with the man you're typing bullshît here.

I wonder if you'd have typed this nonsense if the reverse was the case and the girl was the victim.

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Naijacutee, puskin, seun, Lalasticalala,

Elder001:
Those Hollywood 15year old girls who display older boyfriend what's happening to them?


Dude.. The stuff isn't legal, yeah. Never said it isn't illegal but back in 2009 when I was in Texas with Old man, 16/17year old walk down the roads with their old boyfriends and police don't call them to ask any questions even though they probably know something is going on because of the signs.

People don't come online bragging about where they've been to.

Elder001:
This is funny. There are girls that age that are dating people who are more than 5years older than them in the UK, US ..I surely don't know about other western states but it'll be the same.

Stop typing nonsense as if everyone on nairaland is local like you. People don't come online bragging about where they've been to.


You're so childish dude. You need to grow up

Pot calling kettle black.

THERE IS NO REAL MALE FEMINIST ON NAIRALAND.



The self proclaimed nairaland male feminist is just a rapist and a brown-noser.


BEWARE OF THIS FELLOW!

PRESS RELEASE

BEWARE OF FAKE MALE FEMINISTS.

The attention of the AWRM has been drawn to the activities of a particular individual on this platform forcing every nairalander he comes across into becoming a feminist. He poses on this platform as a male feminist. Investigation was carried out and after a thorough investigation, it was discovered that the self proclaimed male feminist is a rapist who hides under the umbrella of feminism to carry out his evil act of raping women and defiling teenagers.

Feminism is a movement to supports women's rights and not a force to make everybody becomes feminist.

We hereby call on every nairalander to avoid this fellow and his useless feminism ideology as he is not a real feminist.

Thank you..

REAL MALE FEMINIST:



* To give rights to women
* To treat everyone as equal
* To make women responsible



WHAT I DO:



*Talk to people about feminism,
*Its goals, principles, and benefits.
*Support women.
*Host seminars on feminism.
*Give women opportunities to prove themselves in various fields.



FAKE MALE FEMINIST:



* To be liked by women
* To have free access to women
* To get free laid from women



WHAT I DO:



*Force feminism ideology on people.
*Talk about feminism only when women are around.
*Gets angry at people if they don't welcome the feminism ideology.
*See men who don't accept feminism as misogynists.
*See women who don't accept feminism as dumb slaves.

While REAL feminists see feminism as a movement to liberate women from oppression by their opposite sex, the FAKE feminists see feminism as a way to get easy laid therefore forcing everyone mostly the women they admire into being feminists. To what end are they doing this? To get laid. That's their end game.




The thread is about male feminists. The FAKE and REAL male feminists.

It’s probably been almost a decade now that millennials and non-millennials and everyone who gives a crap about social interactions started this thing about feminism.

And as I type that word, NL feminists emerge from their ******* and NL trolls emerge from their °°°°°°°, preparing to do battle.

If you found the former offensive, but the latter funny, I will get to you people soon.

The term “ FEMINISM" and all of its derivatives have such loads behind them, it is now time to clear this fog from them.

Beware, I am not taking a side here.

If you ever talk to a NL feminist about something egregious a so-called “feminist” did in the name of “feminism”, you will get the usual response.

“That’s not REAL feminism.”

And guess what? They’ve got a point.

Go to Oxford dictionary and look up
feminism; it’s a typical definition. It has nothing to do with man-hating or gender-bending or whatever. It’s just female advocacy.

They FAKE feminists misrepresent what most of what feminism’s goals are.
It’s analogous to me calling myself a rapper and only doing R&B relating music. I can call myself a rapper all I want to, but my actions misrepresent my affiliation.

Feminism’s goal were (and to some extent still are

*to pull women out of the home.

*to get them more representation in the public.

*to push them to use their voices.

It’s how people use the term “FEMINIST” that makes all of those past advances blur.

An entire wave of new people have shanghaied the word, stripped it of it’s meaning, and used it as a symbol of a radical culture change that puts women as the dominant gender and lowers men to nothing more than scapegoats.

Again, not what the feminist movement is supposed to entail. However, if feminism wants to gain it’s respect back and return the word “feminist” from pejorative to proud description, REAL feminists need to take action and forcibly take it away from FAKE feminists.

Let people know that what other “feminists” advocate for is not the way for equality.

The more attentions the radical side gets, the less powerful the real feminist movement gets.

At the end of the day, if your idea of feminism tries to exclude anyone for gender purposes or race or any other identifying features, it’s not real feminism.

If it scapegoats ANYONE because of their skin, religion, gender identity, sexuality, etc., it’s not real feminism.

If it tries to gain “equality” by forcing people to believe that other genders are not as good as women and do nothing to support women, it’s not real feminism.

If it makes other people who don't support feminism misogynists, it's not real feminism.

If it's bent on forcing people into being feminists, it's not real feminism.

Real feminism is bringing everyone together, to achieve a better future so that everyone can live in a world when no one gets put on a lower level because of their gender or skin color or religion.

Everyone has a part in the feminist movement.



SayNoToFakeFeminists

A lot of sex starved men see this feminism movements as an opportunity to get close to women and get easy or free laid.

They hide under the umbrella of feminism to get easy access to the opposite sex as they believe being feminists make women feel comfortable around them (male feminists).

When the women turn them down after doing everything to please them, you most likely hear them shout; "“OK, b¿tch! I wore this T-shirt (feminism T-shirt) and you won’t even let me nut? I followed all the rules! I f×cken joined the movements for you to get all the privileges that come with being a man”.

Research has shown that most male feminists are rapists and pedophiles.

HOW TO IDENTIFY A FAKE MALE FEMINIST:

1. He most times wears things that identify him with feminism. E.g. T-shirt. Has dps that reflect feminism.

2. He boast about the feminism movements.

3. He can't wait to talk about feminism and mention feminism or say what feminist he is, (but only when women are around).

4. He forces feminism ideology on people (mostly women).

5. He is most likely to be housed by a woman. (a woman caters for his needs).

6. He is always talking about feminism in an effort to score points and be liked by women.

7. If he doesn't consider the intersectional elements of feminism, "that's probably a pretty good sign that his feminism is made to get laid".

8. If his feminism stops at women. When I say women, I mean default women. If all he's talking about is women and he's not talking about trans women or have no knowledge or interest in trying to parse apart what it might mean to be a woman by default or a trans woman.
I'd say that's a pretty big red flag.
It's probably about getting praise.

9. He sees every man who doesn't buy his feminism crap as a misogynist.

Women run the world.
Money makes the world go round.
Men own the world.

Hanseel1:
A low IQ individual who have never left the shores of Africa decided to contaminate this thread by including the Bible.
We all know that the Bible is a sexist book written by misogynistic and sexist men to favour men in so many ways.

Slavery of the mind and slavery of religion can be worse than death.

volation of rule 2.

FOD, honsule, Seun, MissyB3

Hanseel1:
When people say romance section is filled with stupid, unintelligent and childish people, I usually dismiss them as false claims but I've come to realize that they are right.

Your slavery of the mind is beyond redemption.
You created a thread and you advised only women to learn how to cook ,why didn't you tell men to learn how to cook?

You once claimed that you're a mature lady and this section is filled with kids but you were indirectly talking about yourself.

And she's insulting me? I really don't expect much from you. Typical dumb and primitive African lady.

Like I told someone here, until you travel beyond the shores of Africa you won't be wise enough to decipher my massage from this post.

rule2 volated.

Puskin, naijacutee, RoyalRoy

It is impossible for me to forgive a cheating partner regardless the gender.

Elder001:
The head of the home will always be authoritative, egotistical and bossy.

If he can't control you in a relationship then he can't control you in a marriage . No Man will tolerate that .

Just like an individual who's stingy in relationship will likely be stingy in marriage.
Kids confusing themselves on social media.

rule 2 volated.

Seun, Finestboi, Angryman

Elder001:
Common sense isn't common.

A typical Nigerian misogynistic pig will go any length to prove a point.

volating rule 2.

MissyB3, RoyalRoy

Elder001:
You're just a misogynistic bastard who live somewhere in Africa ..Keep on dreaming

Your idea of a man who has pride and dignity is man who controls and bully women.

This is a civilized world..

Rule2 volated.

dragnet, FOD, OAM4J, naijacutee, honsule, puskin