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berem: www.saharareporters.com/news-page/mend-claims-responsibility-warri-refinery-fire

who is blaming boko haram?

Nonso23: Do males still cry after clocking 16 years I don't think so. Besides, losing a fifa14 tournament final to your hommie should hurt more than any heart-break IMO...

i dnt undrstand his coment yet, 19 people liked it.
back to the matter, me dey cry wen my bst frnd(m) leave me talkless of my sweety potatos. Lets talk the truth & put the devil to shame.

wynston: it's an african culture, it's not right to shake a woman

it is not moraly right, how can a unknown man feel the hands of my sister, or wife, trnsfering some natural current into to her. If u are not jealous, u are not loving.

fumisko: am so confused on how to advice my best friend (shes abt 19). shes been looking down for some weeks now and has been trying to cover up yesterday i walked into her room and found her bed soaked with tears. she had to open up.

I was so lost that i had no words to tell her. her story: shes very close to her dad since she can remember and as she grew up he could enter to use the toilet and he can still enter her room while shes dressing, undressing like its no big deal and shes got the best dad in the world i can say so cause i know him(hes so caring and all that).

According to her she sometimes sleep off in her dad's room like maybe they were jisting and it becomes so late and she is so sleepy. about two years ago she said she started noticing her father would give her longer hugs than usual or smack her bombom playfully when shes passing by or look at her burst like when she isnt wearing a bra at home maybe at night and that his hand would rest on her bosom if he wanted to hug her like if he came back from work. but she dint feel anything was wrong, she thought since they were close it wasn't any big deal.besides its her dad. but about 2 months ago she slept off in her dad's room one night and woke up from someone touching her and she realized it was him. she said she had to remind him over 9 times pleading that it was wrong before his brain could calm his desires at that point in time. he later apologized and told her he would never hurt her and had already started seeing a psychologist about his attraction to her. he also told her to keep it away from his wife so their blissful home can remain blissful. my question.

Is it actually normal for some men to get attracted to their growing teenage daughters?

Secondly whats her behavior towards him meant to be like? is it that he needs help and she should see it as such or he needs to be dealt with?
also she wants to know how she can try to behave normal like it never happened since he has started seeking help over the unlawful desire.

How can she stop him from wanting her and what if she actually gets Molested? what should she do? i know her mum knows they are so close but expecting such from him is unbelievable. it sounded like she was lying to me because that guy seems too good. but its true.

how can i help?

Theirs a big problem with the family morality, when yarima said women should be married out imediately after attaining puberty, una say na rape's him be. If u see a muslim lady covering all part of her body, una go say she is not wise. If we say to huge a lady is prohibited, una go say we are extremised. Now make una tell me where the sense dey for westernization? Man marry man, woman marry woman, papa f**k pikin, son f**k mother (motherf**k), broda frnd sister etc. Test before marriage, if nah ur sister u go gree? Lets be realistic, islam is the continuation from where jesus stop. If you want to know about true islam, read the history of the nobel prophet muhammad (saw).

Demdem: Killer party in confusion. This is good news.

Gov murtala nyako of Adamawa state is the primary cause of the problem in PDP. Gej made a big mistake for not dealing with him, now he is learning a bitter lesson. His minister of state for foriegn affairs Dr Aliyu Idi hong is the one person that know how to deal with nyako, but goodluck drop him. Now look @ how nyako have wasted our scarse resources on flying from 1 state to another causing confusing in the party that give him the chance of wining the seat he is occupying. Gej should deal with this man before is to late.

PrettyRita: Military, SSS Capture Top Boko Haram ‘Commanders’ In Kaduna
October 12, 2013 - 00:58 — siteadmin

By SaharaReporters, New York
An impeccable military source has confirmed to SaharaReporters that a combined team of Nigerian soldiers, police, and operatives of the State Security Service (SSS) has rounded up top Boko Haram ‘commanders’ after combing several locations in Kaduna State this week.
The source said the captured Boko Haram “commanders” were the brains behind a series of violent attacks carried out in the state in recent weeks. He added that they were caught as they planned to launch new attacks in the town of Kaduna during the Sallah festivities.
The military source stated that security operatives recovered extensive incriminating evidence from the captured leaders of the extremist Islamist leaders. “We got evidence from them to suggest their direct affiliation with Boko Haram and also that they were part and parcel of the recent attacks,” he said.
The source also disclosed that his combined team also captured several foot soldiers of the Boko Haram sect, adding that they were under interrogation.
The joint military-SSS raid that netted the Boko Haram members was carried out in the Rigasa District in Kaduna State.
“The operations brought us face to face to the reality that we must intensify our operations. We are using patrols and other strategies we will not talk about now to contain any plans by them [Boko Haram] during Sallah festivities,” the military officer said.
Last Sunday, suspected Boko Haram sect members ambushed a policeman. They shot him dead, and then escaped with his rifle.




http://mobile.saharareporters.com/news-page/military-sss-capture-top-boko-haram-%E2%80%98commanders%E2%80%99-kaduna

please my fellow nairalander broda & sister, help me ask who are this boko haram fighting? If the are planing attacks on muslim on sallah day, then who is not in their hit list. Pls their fight is unislamic, so pls stop associating their devilish strive on islam.

Kemy11: The title suppose to be 89perct of northern students cannot communicate in English Language. Bar Turenchi.

To sabi speak English no b by force, & as for you kemy, 89% percent of northern graduate's. are far more inteligent than other graduate from other region. Just becos they cant speak English does not mean they are not qualify to graduate.

dmalam: http://dailytrust.info/index.php/top-stories/7222-senators-call-for-resignation-of-aviation-minister

broda & sister, who dey clamb plane? Na them them(minister, senetor, governor, president, commisioners etc). How many million people don die for road accident wey them go fit avat if them no chop the money for the road contract. i just pray say 1 day make ol of them clamb 1 plane, make the plane crash weda we go see chance drink water.

solomon111: Nonsense!
We've wasted billions of naira exploring for oil in the desert,all because these abokis are obsessed with oil.
All those money gone down the drain with no single drop of oil in sight.

if i say u are a big f-o-o-l now, they will say i am insulting u, where by i just state the fact.

ariseandshine: Paying N1 million to become a professional Ashaw.o?

To the Lady Bankers:

Sorry, I'm an insider.

may fellow brothers & sisters, here is my advice. Please check your pocket right now, any amount of money you find, use it to acquire skill, or get a good business plan that will enable you be your own boss. Seeking for blue or green colar job now is heartbreaking & waste of time, i told my brother before he got a job with this 18century bank call mainstreet. He is working in abuja, & his wife is in kano. He is been paid #57'000, and he is working as contract staff which can be fired @ anytime. If he start complaining, i told him, come let me employ you.
here is my little testimony, i was 17 when i lost my dad. I just graduated from secondary school. I was so naive & never knew the true meaning of life, because despite they fact that my dad was sick for 5years before he died, he takes care of all our need. Imidiately after his death, i started realising that things will never be the way the were. I decided to learn something that will help me get money to finance my education in the nearest future, luckily that turn out to be the best decision i made. To cut long story short, i learn interior decorating, specifically curtain designs & window blind. I spent 3 years to acquire the skill, i even have to drop out of school to fully concentrate, though it was a hard decision which i have to make. Is either skul or food, which obiviously the former wont work without the later. As i am saying now, i am a level 300 civil engineering student. Am having my shop(some pple call it company, but i call it shop) with goods worth millions. I have 8 trusted people working for me, while i school with rest of mind in an airconditioned room chai!! Thank Allahu (swa). Brothers & sisters, please dont depend on any institution for work, strategise ways & God will help you. Remember, i started with only with my heart, soul & my able God, see where i am today . Alhamdulilah (meaning glory be to almighty God), i pray my able God provide more for me & you that read this.

ariseandshine: Paying N1 million to become a professional Ashaw.o?

To the Lady Bankers:

Sorry, I'm an insider.

may fellow brothers & sisters, here is my advice. Please check your pocket right now, any amount of money you find, use it to acquire skill, or get a good business plan that will enable you be your own boss. Seeking for blue or green colar job now is heartbreaking & waste of time, i told my brother before he got a job with this 18century bank call mainstreet. He is working in abuja, & his wife is in kano. He is been paid #57'000, and he is working as contract staff which can be fired @ anytime. If he start complaining, i told him, come let me employ you.
here is my little testimony, i was 17 when i lost my dad. I just graduated from secondary school. I was so naive & never knew the true meaning of life, because despite they fact that my dad was sick for 5years before he died, he takes care of all our need. Imidiately after his death, i started realising that things will never be the way the were. I decided to learn something that will help me get money to finance my education in the nearest future, luckily that turn out to be the best decision i made. To cut long story short, i learn interior decorating, specifically curtain designs & window blind. I spent 3 years to acquire the skill, i even have to drop out of school to fully concentrate, though it was a hard decision which i have to make. Is either skul or food, which obiviously the former wont work without the later. As i am saying now, i am a level 300 civil engineering student. Am having my shop(some pple call it company, but i call it shop) with goods worth millions. I have 8 trusted people working for me, while i school with rest of mind in an airconditioned room chai!! Thank Allahu (swa). Brothers & sisters, please dont depend on any institution for work, strategise ways & God will help you. Remember, i started with only with my heart, soul & my able God, see where i am today . Alhamdulilah (meaning glory be to almighty God), i pray my able God provide more for me & you that read this.

[quote author=Ujujoan]wow . . . that must have been very traumatic for you!

Mine was my DAD . . . he was laid to rest on my birthday, 6th oct (eight years tomorrow)!

I still feel raw pain when I think about him . . . [/quot
the 1st] was my aunt, she die 2004, 2nd was my dad, in 2007. The last happen september 2013, she is like my boss, i use to help her install window blinds. She use to pay me much money for a little job, i swear, she is the most kind lady i have ever met in my life. So caring, soft spoken, humble, & generous. She died during childbirth, i have not even go to console her husband about her death, because i feel she just cant die. Her name is patricia, pls pray for them all.

aforebby: what a pity,,a young dude that should have use his intellent to develop our nation information technology rather he is using it to hack govt agencies websites,,na so bill gate dey do am?

did they give hm job? If you want to get employed, u most know somebody.

bloggernaija: These guys like the politicians are a bunch of jokers .
Lazy ,unthinking typical Nigerian .
In that organisation ,is there nobody there to do the maths that Nigeria cannot afford that much money ,even if the country was not corrupt?
That is about $7 billion in a country where over 50% are very very poor.

why did fg sign what they cant implement. The government of gej is irresponsible

Trendy247: Hmmmm... Moslems killing fellow Moslems. Now what are they fighting for, Is Johnathan a Moslem?

i pray that this clear proof will make some of our fellow brothers & sisters that believe that boko haram are fighting for Islam to know that they are enemy to all. i swear to Almighty Allah , islam do not ask any of her follower to kill a non-believer. This blood thirsty group kill 70 people, which more than 60 are muslim. Please tell me, what is the indication that they are fighting for Islam.

[quote author=maxwello.yg]As a parent, I'm so worried seeing our children who are supposed to stay at school, at home'
this sentence is hilarious.
So your kids study in Nigerian public universities?
Woow lol[/quote]which of his children do you mean, i hope you are not talking about his biological children? Cos all his children are proud & boosty. Also with thiefy attitude.[color=#006600][/color] and they all school abroad!!!!!

1st to coment! Jooooor, but do sule lamido think he can win against gej. Dreammmmmmmer!

jammyng: Good of him. We have sensible muslims.

in every religion , or society there are bad egg's, Even among christians . Try to understand islam by reading the holy Qur'an & the moral teachings by prophet muhammad (saw) hadith (beware of fabricated stories). They only reason that warrant a muslim to fight back are when any person or group of people stop him/her from worshiping of Allah (swa), stop him from preaching , or wage war against him/her. Islam strongly encourage good manners such as honesty, patience, love , pity, helping the poor handicap & the less previlaged. So any body that thinks islam is the religion of terrorist due to what he/she read on media, should pls endevour to go for fact rather than unfilted stories.

seedord247: Person wey go get money go get money forget all this Incantation above.

so i thought before. I open a small interior decoration shop where i sell curtains& other accesories two years ago, within this period of two years i only have small amount of goods there, though i am a student. But since i join niaraland, before ASUU strike. I read alot of financial tips, for only the period of 3month that ASUU went for strike, i employ the technique, and now am having goods worth 8 hundred thousand naira. So my advice is that, if you read such important tips. Dont throw them away , they may be applicable either directly or indirectly.

Cutecharlz: dis is absurd...completely arrant nonsense...

u are suffering from gross in-decency. Very acute one. if u are unabie to control your emotion, then your have a big problem.

kacheezy: They have given the term 'brotherly love'a new meaning...

lol, this guys are just influence by bad video clip.

[quote author=Table Leg ]OK cool.[/quote]bros, na so! Kool is beta, cos i realise that this women words sometime's pains more than a sword that spears the heart. E.g 'u are a useless man' to a man that b4 losing his job was the sweet potato. Or 'you beta look for your children, because this children does not belong to you' , or 'is a mistake that i marry u' . Why wont you slap the nonsense out her. is actually bad to shot her, him for slap the shit out of her head.

Lilimax: I've seen this same topics in some other dailies today. There is nothing wrong with the Fedral Government bailing out some ailing states in their projects.This may be what is happening in Nasarawa state so it is a welcome development.

broda, i wonder why building a borehole will make headlines in our dailies. Gej is making an insensible mistake, why will send ur aid to make a retaliation statement to governors that visit maiduguri. '' i am not afraid to visit any state in nigeria'' is a hoot slap on his face.

iOmoge: Wat kinda gun did they use?

which kind nonsense question?

yuzedo: Who is the animal between this woman and the dog?!?!

thats what some group of people want to turn us to, 'animal'. If you turn out to be so obses with sex, you may go to any length to get satisfied. Sex before marriage is strickly prohibited, no way out except marriage. Hardship, economy problem or anything can not be an excuse. When islam said, parent should make provision ffor there children marriage as far as the are mature enough. The whole non-muslim critics land on the issue with great negativity. Assume u find your sister having sex in your house, how do you fill? Iff u hav a sister or close relative having a child out of wedlock, how will u feel? Do u ever imaging how does bastard feel when the realize they are born out of wedlock? Islam meant well!!! Dont just judge, make reseach.

Scarpon: n.a. dem dem

there this thing about psychology, when forbiden things is made an everyday discussiong in become's normal. That is the tactis the are using to influence pple into gayism. AND ALL OF U ARE BECOMING VICTIMS. why on earth will this stupid topic reach this length, the associate it with football to draw more customer. during the 7o's down to the 80's, funication is a taboo. Na having sex b4 marriage is a normal thing. So will this gay thing be.

MacDaddy01: Can any honest muslim tell me why this deserves front page? The last time I checked anyone can quote a holy book and reflect on the miraculous signs of his god- Jews, christians, pagans, hindus etc

macdaddy, i bet u, u hav missed alot & still & will continue missing out if u donot accept islam now. Your phone can brows, read the translated english Qur'an from the internet. Dont believe anything people say about islam, knw the facts ur self. U may be missing out.

[quote author=honeric01]On the issue of his ambition to contest the next election, the General said, “many people especially from my party are really disturbed. The joyful thing is that I didn’t say I quit politics. I will never quite politics as far as I live. I only said that I will not present myself to contest but my party members said they want me to remain in the race. But I said the new party will follow due process in selecting candidates’ right from ward level to National level.”

“Since I am in the new party as a member, if after consultations they included me among their aspirants I will not reject their offer. This is what I want people to know.

“I want people to be patient with what we are doing now. They should allow the merger to succeed first. I am sure the new party leaders will know those that are relevant and saleable to Nigerians electorates. I don’t want people to be too much disturbed about my political ambition. I will only abide by what my supporters say

Buhari's words.

[quote]stop being hateful, BUHARI words are crystal clear. He will simply contest for primary election, if he wins fine, if he didt so be it. Tribalism ,& sectionalism will not move this country forward. it is the igbo elders & representative that are embezzling the money meant for your developnment. Ministry of niger delta, huge amount of monthly alocation with no tangeble developnment. Even if the whole revenue of oil is allocated to the region, nothing will be done, this selfish politicians intentionaly turn us on each other so that the will have there way. Be wise, open ur eye's, if buhari is a curupt man, he would have been hanged long ago by this chronic thiefs. By 2015, if a credible igbo man contest, i will vote. So also a yoruba or hausa man period.

[quote author=frank3.16]Well, what evidence do u need? Look around u and if what I am saying does not make sense u let me know. Do u know anybody who does not pray? Does good thing happen to him? Do u know anyone why u feel sure prays with his heart? Does he always get what he wants?

U see, belief is a strong mind controler and a determinant of behaviour.

U see, my fear for some people who are so dogmatic in their belif is that when they finnally do not get their answers and really see that they have prayed the best way they can and yet they didn't get the answer(this happens always and u can't deny it) they lose it. Some end up blaming the God they have served for years, some become neurotic, some become agressive etc.[/quote]mr frank, stop playing with our inteligence. U ar jst a freethinker, your prayer can only b accepted & answered if u put it through the right direction & believe in who you ar praying to (GOD ALMIGHTY). & also make sure u pray for something positive, also make sure you are clean but in heart & act. Retry using this methods , u will see wonders.