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Business / Re: He Kept So Many Secrets And Lies, Marriage Is Crazy. by kulikuli45: 11:06am On Jan 21, 2023
Hmmmm

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Phones / Re: Is There Difference Between Iphone 13 Pro Max And Iphone 14 Pro Max? by kulikuli45: 10:18am On Jan 18, 2023
Yes
Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 9:47am On Jan 13, 2023
4ward4:


So if I get you right , he should have died without a son and left his property and his name to be ruined? Placing too much emphasis on a female child , shouldn’t be done .
Thank God for IVF now , one can target exactly what he wants with some money. In as much as we will try to sooth the pain of others it is necessary to let it known that all sex of children is important in a marriage … Just when a man dies, we will get to know if he will truly lives on.

Sir, this conversation about full disclosure and honesty. Our actions have far reaching and traumatic effects on those we call our loved ones.

Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 7:30am On Jan 13, 2023
DriveByKiller:
this took place in the East, right.

The good news is that that decision can be challenged in court. There are established legal precedents already.

How do we challenge paternity fraud after everything?

My brother, humanity is in the gutters.
Both parties are messed up.
We should all do better.
But then again, collateral damage is a fundamental part of evolution.
Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 7:25am On Jan 13, 2023
[quote author=Franklydes post=119982469],

Same here.

Have a blessed day.
Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 4:50am On Jan 13, 2023
Franklydes:
mumu, aleast the the child get identity and a known mum. The issue here is women who do this and make men believe that the child is his while is not and this happens for years and men keep taking care of the child who is not his

How do you jump into a civil conversation and call someone mumu?

What kind of upbringing did you have?
Were you raised by a hoodlum as a child?
Abi dem forbid courtesy for your family?

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 4:21pm On Jan 12, 2023
DriveByKiller:
thanks for your civility.

But I look at it this way....a man having a child outside matrimony and keeping the wife in the dark is directly equivalent to a woman doing the same, i.e having a child outside and not telling the man as well. Although it is rare.

Now when a woman gets impregnated by another man while she's in a marriage with her husband and she tricks the husband into believing that child is his and he cares for, nurtures and passes his wealth to this perfect stranger , this particular crime has no equivalent to any sin of in matrimony or paternity a man can do.

It is as different as their reproductive system . That kind of crime is down to biology and only females have the biological make up to commit such crime. There's just no male equivalent.


I understand your position totally.

However, I'll beg to differ based on impact.

Consider a situation where the man has a first son outside his home. Or a case I personally witnessed where a man has 3 daughters with his wife and finally got a son from his 'girlfriend' outside which the wife didn't know of. In this particular case, tje man's brothers and sisters were all aware and kept quiet about it because they claimed they were considering his wife's emotions.

However, when the man died, these same relatives agreed that his belongings belonged to this son since the girls will marry and go away.

Infact, they even told the wife that she can stay in the house as long as she liked but the house belongs to the boy whenever she leaves (or dies).

I do not think that her pain is less than the man who experienced paternity fraud.

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 3:42pm On Jan 12, 2023
DriveByKiller:
we know.

But do you call that paternity fraud?

If I should comment on your post, at least the strange child is the man's true and biological child and there's no paternity fraud involved there

How on earth do you equal that with a woman deceiving a man with a bastard from nowhere and having the man name him and train him as his and when he dies, this perfect stranger inherits his property and later relocate to find his true father?

Keep the discourse on paternity fraud and that's one crime only woman can commit.

We are saying thesame thing sir.
You choose to look at it from the lens of paternity fraud while I look at the trauma one spouse causes the other. At the end of the day, one person is suffered emotional trauma from the actions of a spouse he/she trusted.

You can't demonize one and sanctify the other. Everybody de fokop.

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 3:22pm On Jan 12, 2023
Solofresh2:
To knack you 2by2 dey hungry me
How does keeping a child outside marriage and paternity fraud relates
Even if a woman keeps a child outside marriage,is it not better than involving in paternity fraud?
Imagine giving birth to all your kids only to find out none of them is yours, where will you start from

The same 2by2 wey your mama de use because your papa no sabi knack?

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 3:19pm On Jan 12, 2023
DriveByKiller:
when men have kids outside marriage without their wives knowing about it, is that paternity fraud?

Is it same thing as a woman giving a bastard to her husband and having the husband provide and bear his name as his child?

Why una no dey use sense write comment?

Una go just dey fine cheap likes and attention like insecure idiots

Go to probate department of any Federal High Court and see the trauma some women go through when their husband dies.

A woman will toil with a man all his life only to be told that his belongings (which they both suffered for) will be shared with 5 other male children which she is not aware of. Or they will bring one young man from nowhere and say he is the deceased's first son so na him get inheritance.

Guy, I have seen things. Life is not about likes.

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 3:14pm On Jan 12, 2023
abobote:

You just don't have sense

Just like your mother when she chose your father.

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Family / Re: How Paternity Fraud Is Finding Its Way Into Northern Nigeria by kulikuli45: 12:53pm On Jan 12, 2023
This is a two way street.

Many men also have kids outside that their wives (or nuclear family) do not know about.

Everywhere don spoil. Manage the one wey life give you.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Does It Take One To Work In A Mortuary? by kulikuli45: 12:41pm On Dec 20, 2022
Liver

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Politics / Re: Okowa, Tambuwal, Lamido Others Meet Obasanjo In Abeokuta by kulikuli45: 7:12am On Dec 04, 2022
Is PDP still the main opposition party in Nigeria?

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Nominates Lauretta Onochie As NDDC Chairman by kulikuli45: 2:08pm On Nov 23, 2022
Kai

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Crime / Re: Obajana Cement Firm Attack: Our Story, By Dangote by kulikuli45: 7:10am On Oct 09, 2022
All this one na grammar.

If Bello is saying that the company wasn't properly acquired, then his only card is to go to court.

Maybe Dangote is funding a different candidate for governor of Kogi State, or e get settlement wey e never settle Yahaya Bello.

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Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing Shares Dildos As Souvenir At Her Late Mom’s One Year Remembrance by kulikuli45: 1:02pm On Sep 26, 2022
She knows her friends

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Politics / Re: ICPC Uncovers ₦49.9 Billion ‘Ghost’ Workers’ Salaries by kulikuli45: 5:41am On Sep 16, 2022
The ICPC is only exposing its incompetence.

It's function is to also make sure that the perpetrators are probed and those found criminally complicit are prosecuted.
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Health / Re: Woman Shows Impressive Transformation 5 Months After Suffering Burns by kulikuli45: 4:01pm On Aug 25, 2022
Sue the pressure pot
Autos / Re: Landdrover Defender (reg).. diesel by kulikuli45: 6:54pm On Aug 19, 2022
How much?
Politics / Re: Opeyemi Kadiri: Police Dismisses Officer For Searching Mobile Phones by kulikuli45: 7:19pm On Aug 12, 2022
Good
Crime / Re: 58-Year-Old Woman Kills Her Husband's Side Chic In Adamawa by kulikuli45: 4:02pm On Aug 10, 2022
This is self defense.

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Crime / Re: Uduak-Abasi Akpan Sentenced To Death For Murder Of Iniubong Umoren by kulikuli45: 11:56am On Aug 04, 2022
While this is a welcome development, allegations of powerful forces/persons behind the culprit have not been thoroughly investigated.

Infact, the speedy trial and conviction may just be a way to silence the lad and protect his sponsors.

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Autos / Re: 1.5M For 2007/08 Lexus Is 250. by kulikuli45: 5:55pm On Jul 04, 2022
Still available?
Music/Radio / Re: Nigeria Musicians Who Couldn't Handle Fame (opinion) by kulikuli45: 6:23pm On Jun 16, 2022
Hm

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Politics / Re: No Kidnapping Incident At Gwarimpa Estate Abuja - Police by kulikuli45: 12:23pm On Jun 06, 2022
Just like the bombing in Kano was a 'gas cylinder' explosion

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Romance / Re: My Experience Dating Girls In Their 20s And 30years by kulikuli45: 9:01am On Feb 14, 2022
Experience is key to handling an older woman

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Crime / Re: Hanifa Abubakar: Abdulmalik Tanko Confesses, Statement By Kano Police (Video) by kulikuli45: 5:51am On Jan 21, 2022
Why is he still breathing?

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Politics / Re: 2023: Who Do You Think Should Be Tinubu's Running Mate? by kulikuli45: 4:08pm On Jan 17, 2022
Boss Mustapha
Pets / Re: Inside China's Dog Meat Trade As Animals Are Beaten, Boiled & Burned Alive(Pics) by kulikuli45: 6:26pm On Dec 28, 2021
Hm

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Politics / Re: APC Convention: Why Governors Won’t Determine Who Becomes National Chairman by kulikuli45: 6:39am On Nov 11, 2021
Hmm

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