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ChinenyeN:
. . . what exactly is your issue with prostrating?

Thank you for helping me ask oooo

Just like topup said my dad sometimes wishes he could be like my mum, funny always got home at 7pm took us 2 the club but it never just clicked cos he wasnt as patient as my mom and u better not mess up anything of my dads orm else the belt is coming off his trouser's. I am very impressed at 21st century dads more grease to ur elbow guys

Outstrip:
I like the man o jare. I agree 100%. Why does he have to get his clothes dirty for her parents to feel respected. Africa and so called tradition

It's courtesy and the brides family has every right to demand it, and for ur information their are mats on the floor and they only get to prostrate once unlike before when it was five times and if anybody doesnt like it they should leave us Yoruba's the f**k alone

@Mrbrownjay to each his own

This is a tight situation

Abuzola:
Kunbee, it is the truth, nothing to conceal, your bible is worst

Don't u ever in ur stay on NL type my name was i referring to u i dont think so cos i remember putting the poster in her place and i dont need ur petty truth cos u aint nothing but a mere mortal it may be worse but i believe in it so dont irritate me have u ever seen me bash u or ur religion so wats ur problem every one is opinionated but dont add stupidity 2 urs. Have a nice day

MRbrownJAY:
what has god got to do with cheating? aint we all sinners? are you saying that this sin is "bigger/worst" than any other sins?
there are NO big sins or small sins, sins are sins and since we all know that we are all sinners (unless you will claim to never have/will sin) then this subject is the same as any other.
do what is right by you and try to be the best you can knowing that it aint easy.
but hey since you are talking about god and the bible, here is what this great book says about WOMEN in marriages:

1 Corinthians 11:3 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.

Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

1 timothy 2:9-10 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

1 Timothy 2:12-15 I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. But women will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

1 Corinthians 14:34-35 women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

Genesis 3:16 Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over you.

believe me, if you want to use the bible as a reference for marriage conducts then women will be no better than slaves in their own homes. LOL

MRbrownJay if we can reduce our atrocities then cheating should be 1 of them cos it drags along other sins like lying, dishonesty etc. When i typed unGodly i meant not morally good,yes we are all sinners but some of us are quick to realise what we done go and ask God for forgiveness and try not to do it again, as i said earlier it brings other baggage. I dont know how to use the quote well cos i would have loved to answer u one after the other so bear with me and here goes as for the Bible verses i don't agree with everything times have changed but women do have to submit but not be stupid in that trend, men the head women the neck we can rotate that head 360 degrees if we want to or not but that also could be manipulative, should a woman married or not be showing too much cleavage i dont think so remember dress the way you want to be adressed and i think the Bible meant about character not physical, the child-bearing its painful but my dear what can we do its Eve that started it all we pray is to deliver like the Hebrew women, its can swing both ways u have to talk it over with ur spouse b4 u take a decision and i dont agree with that Bible verse not cos i am a lady lol but cos if men ruled all this while i think a lot of little details would have been overlooked and their is soooo much a woman can do for the church, and lastly if ur desire isnt for ur husband then who will it be 4 the gardener and ruling i think doesnt mean dominate it means working side by side 4 a better r/s. I hope i have made u see understand a little, and any woman who wants to be treated as a slave is just ignorant not wiv the the kind of DNA's out there nobody takes shit from nobody


P.S pls do write God with a capital G

I'm diecisiete but act cuarenta y tres

agathamari:
ok im sorry. what exactly is this prostrate?

My dear its when a boy/man in the Yoruba culture lies flat on the floor as a sign of respect

You and who pls stop generalizing

I hope u know u r toying with the devil metaphorically and figuratically speaking [size=14pt]BLOOD OF JESUS[/size]

As the bible says he will be loved by women who dont know him and envied by men who cant identify him as the anti-christ and his number shall be 666 which will be hidden on his body but if u r a true believer u got no worries u will know him wen u see him

Father Lord forgive them for they dont know what their doing, THE WORST SIN IN THIS WORLD IS BLASPHEMY AGAINST GOD AND GRIEVING THE HOLY SPIRIT in which is the most unforgivable sin and most of u r doing that here i have stopped trying 2 convince people cos we will all know in the afterlife wat is and isnt, TO THE IDIOTIC poster contradicting the holy bible hey hey and u claim u r a christian hey hey hey hey careful on the path on which u tread this lovely divine book was written before God ever knew ur snitchy ass would come into existence as they say Olorun Oba ni kan lo mo eni ti on sin oun

Na wa ooo na 2 day people no de believe anywayz all atheists r reserving a seat for themselves in HELL

Bini traditional marriage arrrggghhh _{sumtimes i wish i was bini} 

There is no reason that justifies cheating on ur partner/spouse its unGodly and its cruel to do dat 2 another human dat has over-the-top feelings for you people shuld sit and talk about sex before marrying in couples programmes in church these days 4 peeps who r not married dey discuss dis sex issue alot u shuld be able 2 sit down wiv sum1 and talk extensively about fantasies(if not over the top like 3somes),wants,cravings,must-haves and needs. And to the idiots who do u dont know u r digging ur grave i crack up sumtimes wen i think of their afterlife in HELL and ur wife sipping grapejuice at God's right hand side

The guy is a coward cos the prostration is only once dis days unlike b4 dat u do it up to 5 times

Why do people feel that condoms r safe, its even on the pack 97% what if u fall under the 3% anywayz as 4 OP the shit is gonna hit the fan

ifele:
The word "akata" was invented by corrupt dudu Yoruba to denigrate the African Americans who were returning to Yorubaland in the late 19th century and early

20th century. The word was used to put them in an inferior place in society even though they were not inferior in any way. The true meaning of the word is "these are the ones we collected and sold". The corrupt dudu Yoruba wanted to revive shame in the returnees by reminding them of the enslavement of their parents and corrupt dudus involvement in the enslavement and betrayal. In short it was another way of the children of the slave traders and enslavers to mock the children of the freedmen/women. The returnees paved the way for educational advancement and modernization in Yorubaland. They brought technology, skills and money into

Lagos and other parts of Yorubaland. In some ways the returnees were superior especially in intellect and intelligence. I do not call African Americans "akata"

even though I have heard some older people call them that.We have to start teaching children to stop insulting others by calling them foul names.

What substance r u on?

hey Teddy, 9ce ride but could u plz post the VIN of this car and can we do this for 1.5mio

Espanol, Yoruba and aiyede dialet , English, Pidgin english

Its not derogatory but it depends on the basis it was used

Ummmm mrbrownjay,theseeker,sistawoman,brash,seun,amebo1 and a lot others who r mature and write the truth

@blac

blackmann:
Talk about two naive entities. i'm pretty sure that sillyme chick(did i say chick?) wey dey form like say butter no fit melt for her mouth is at this moment in one remote location in Mushin eating[b] pelenu[/b](boiled corn and coconut) with a sachet of pure water. i no blame una.

ROFL,LWKMD

9th love dat day, ikomo 16th

God pls pls 6 or more but dont forget i dont want twins and even numbers will be fabulous

TheSeeker:
I believe that.
Just messing withcha. But what kind of lyrics really? Give me a hint. Wa, i, t, i, i, n, g,

I dont know any cos im not a guy and besides u wrote a nice one back there, the point is grammar is confusing 4 some peeps and 2 much bollywood and nollywood movies dat declare love at first sight which is by the way infatuation
In Naija guys toasting dictionary:
Like: want 2 be friands wiv benefits, or just rebound gal or use u to pass time until some1 he "loves" strolles by therby the term chewing gum boyfriend cos he's useless 2 u except on bedmatics
Love: the epitome of affection more than like less than love but doesnt know how to use it cos if he utters "likes" u know dat means and therby the term official magar so other bitches keep off cos hes on lockdown buy stuff and yadi yada yada

As i said its not compulsory but necessary 2 be with some1 who understands and speaks english not all those mofos who slept in class when Mrs Makinde was teaching them english in sec. shl or staring at her ass when she wrote on the whiteboard, but this like=love doesnt apply 2 everyone and depends on both parties

@Theseeker not dose kinda lyrics lol

sistawoman:
I would love to hear from the 9ja women here.

If a guy told you he liked you and would like to date you then how would you respond?

If a guy told you he loved you and would like to date you then how would you respond?

1.Ok
2.Try explaining 2 him wat love is and no i wont date u until u get beta lyrics