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MissJoy29:
Lol....

You that has been trying to slap almost everyone here nko?

RTSC:
Whinning?

Who the fucvk is this guy?
You well so?

MissJoy29:
You think I sounded cocky?

Anyway, I was seriously vexed that's why I sounded that way.

MissJoy29:
Do you really think the crop of men available now want women to be better? Our being better will mean less dependence on men and men will NEVER be comfortable with that level of liberation.
Therefore, I don't think men will EVER be comfortable with women being independent no matter how much they say it.

It's a vicious cycle.

RTSC:
Oga, I don't know what you are on about.

I want women to be independent in everything including during dates, just like their counterparts in other parts of the world.

I don't know exactly what you are talking about.

MissJoy29:
Who's talking about social media even though you used to do it. Lol.

"I'M U HAPPY WALAHI"
What does this mean?

MissJoy29:
Good to know you haven't changed your stance on these things.

MissJoy29:
You know me to an extent. i don't do because others are doing.

I didn't cuss; was only saying the truth. These guys dent the image of the good guys out there. Those who are future father figures spew thrash all over the place. Don't you see it's worrisome?

Btw, I have been looking all over for you on the other side. You have been MIA.

Awoo88:
U get problem oo. Person say him cheap u still dey ask who him borrow cloth. Mind you being broke is not there same as being cheap. Cheap is the operational word here. You can be broke and not cheap. You can rich and still be very cheap!!!

RTSC:
It's not that we don't like independent Women, we are just not used to it.

Most women are dependents.

If more women start being independent, men will get comfortable over time.

Shelloween:
Nothing surprises me anymore... No be Naija again?

Jidibia:
Lol.... Mogbe..... Jerk off Lol

IAmSkinny:
That's what you get for balling on budget.

MartinsD12:
I see we are saying the same thing living within your means thank goodness you now agree with me 200 naira hate fee peppery meat and drinks that's like 2k or 3k about highest you never spend 1mil brother you are the realest gee just like the guy that took a babe on a date with 2k no difference between you and the guy so you too get sense I see and you are busy blasting the guy for 2k date when na only 200 naira gate fee you pay while not go for rumors club or quilox club where they pay 15 to 30k gate fee or more than self yeye dey smile if I check wella na 100 naira data you dey use dey form wetin u no be

MezieFresh:
...Guy abeg naa...

� hahaha

MissJoy29:
Already, you are saying she's full of herself. The next thing you will say is, "she's not submissive". MEN!!!


No matter what you guys say, y'all will never really be comfortable with a lady who can take care of herself when you guys start misbehaving. The moment she starts showing that she can take care of herself, your insecurity & inferiority issues start. So why do y'all keep yapping about how ladies are leeches when you can't even handle what you ask for.

The moment I realised that a lot of you guys are confused & like contradicting themselves, my life became easier. I stopped thinking so much about the tantrums y'all throw up & down like overgrown babies about ladies, money and submission.

Every man has that make-up to want to provide. Take that away from them & their ego is bruised. That's why I cringe when I hear the immature, senseless and poorly-raised BOYS (masquerading as men) these days try to shy away from that responsibility. They label all women(including their wives and mothers) leeches & bash them all just to avoid providing. I tell my friends, don't date a selfish woman no matter how beautiful she is. The consequence is you labelling all women leeches. For ladies(not the selfish and entitled ones), a man is meant to provide. If you notice him being selfish and unnecessarily stingy, run! He's less of a man.

Clefayomide:
So because of reputation, a man should spend more than what he can afford on a date?
Pls let's be guided ooo

MartinsD12:
And you think first impression is by him living above his income you are definitely wrong first Impression is the true state of things which is the 2k he has even the girl understands pay for the date why the noise na, staying true to self is the best first impression you can present to the world don't fake things but unfortunately in a world where we want to sheepishly belong to the happening trend we lose our identity and originality

MartinsD12:
And you think first impression is by him living above his income you are definitely wrong first Impression is the true state of things which is the 2k he has even the girl understands pay for the date why the noise na, staying true to self is the best first impression you can present to the world don't fake things but unfortunately in a world where we want to sheepishly belong to the happening trend we lose our identity and originality

MartinsD12:
Mind your words this ain't no joke, I love to be real OK, let's face the fact the truth, do you want the guy to borrow because he is Going out on a common date hell no, you owe the lady nothing OK at the end of the day a date involves two matured adults and not one person and whatever comes out of the date the two parties so I don't see anything wrong with the lady supporting the guy in settling things they both eat and who says it's only the guy that pays for date that's why we are uncivilized, see western people they don't mind who is paying for a date, we take things too serious it's bad, you go chop this chop that guy man say na only 2k I get why not take coke and Fanta respect her self you go order pizza and barbecues eeh wetin

MartinsD12:
Mind your words this ain't no joke, I love to be real OK, let's face the fact the truth, do you want the guy to borrow because he is Going out on a common date hell no, you owe the lady nothing OK at the end of the day a date involves two matured adults and not one person and whatever comes out of the date the two parties so I don't see anything wrong with the lady supporting the guy in settling things they both eat and who says it's only the guy that pays for date that's why we are uncivilized, see western people they don't mind who is paying for a date, we take things too serious it's bad, you go chop this chop that guy man say na only 2k I get why not take coke and Fanta respect her self you go order pizza and barbecues eeh wetin

HardMirror:
i hope the lady dump his useless ass. He deserves those cheap girls always asking for recharge card. He is not in this lady's level at all. Uselesss foool. Imagine calling her a glutton

HardMirror:
i like how you are replying the id!ot. He is a disgrace to guys. Stingy fooool. I 2k for a date? What will 2k buy? And. For his mind N500 for transport. Hahahaha. Na wa o. Some guys sha. Instead of thinking of how to make it up to her on the next date and give a a treat he is here complaining

Athena4:
WTF? Can you say to her face? It's like you're a two faced kind of person. You are thrashing her now abi? Cos she paid her bills wahala.If she had eaten down the restaurant and wanted you pay wetin u for come tell us here. U don't deserve better thing abeg .What type of yeye egotistical droll are you?

Gaspardd:
Nope she's a glutton.

MartinsD12:
My brother I support you, nothing to feel bad about, a date is a date even if na Fanta and coke you fit buy join na date, I do not advice guys going above their income in order to please their date that will amount to fake impression, she seeing you as rich when in the actual situation you are not, guys should endeavor to be real at first date this will go a long way to let her know your true self no faking it, once again congratulations for being your self and a real man .

IAmSkinny:
Ehn go and clear your account in the name reputation na.