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Peter4luv:
Hello i need a room self contain price range from 150k_200k in a good secured environment...gbagada,ikeja,yaba,akoka or lekki

emechib:
OK sir. But no one in this thread as made a complaint importation. Thanks for your contribution

OfficialAPCNig:
Deceive your fellow zombies. Look at the time of your screenshot and number of voters and compare with mine. As of the time PT took down the poll, Obi was leading.

Your screenshot it was 20 hrs to the end of the poll with 16k voters while in mine, it was 4 hrs to the end and 49,355 voters.

Osinbanjo was leading when the poll started by 12 AM, in the afternoon Obi was leading and PT took down the poll.

emechib:
I guess the both of you work together. I never said I need money or a business. in fact I do have a business (online) that pays better than the importation business you talking about.

I posted a problem in here rather than you addressing the issue...

tripplephi:
lol TYPICAL AFRICAN.... always seeing PROBLEMS in every OPPORTUNITY.

are u not on nairaland here. can u not find importation classes on whatsapp groups to learn, or exportation and other free training that hold on whatsapp which are frequently advertised on nairaland business section?

YOUR PROBLEM is your mind and no one is responsible for it.... NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR MIND if it is not able to solve problems.... YOU ARE SOLELY AT FAULT for leaving your mind empty or without any resourceful info

GET BOOKS FOR FREE ON THE NET AND STUDY... ATTEND FREE CLASSES.. here u are thinking about friends when you have NO MONEY... its sad, your priorities are misplaced

NEVER SEEK TO GET BUT RATHER SEEK TO BE, THEN WITH WHAT YOU ARE YOU WILL ATTRACT WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE

Stop coming online to get partners to sympathize with you then you want the whole world to KNOW a problem you caused for yourself and are too lazy to get out of by asking it to be ON THE FIRST PAGE.... my brother the bitter truth is YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE SERIOUS.


If we clone you or you were a female EVEN YOU would NOT BEAR TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE YOU. So stop foooooling yourself and start changing your life with the points I already made.

since YOU ARE YOUR LIMITATION, no one has the POWER to help you OVERCOME YOU.... only you can think OUTSIDE your BOX.... in this case YOU ARE THE BOX.

Get a book, learn a skill, teach your skills for free on whatsapp and you will have friends.

YOU HAVE NOT EVEN READ A BOOK ON EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION OR PUBLIC SPEAKING, Then you are here saying you have limitations, YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS. You just want PITY.... you want someone to say they will be your friend out of PITY.... you are not serious at ALL.

emechib:
Please just post your thought here

emechib:
Pardon my grammatical blunders
For the umpteen time I have been posting stuffs in here of my lonely unattractive, tiresome boring isolated lifestyle in here.
I do not have a single friend if I try to make one he/she after few convo will just leave me or make me feel like I am not he/her mate. Call it low self esteem or but it ain't.
I discovered something that I am an extremely shy person. when I say shy I mean every single bit of meaning you can attach to it. I had someone who was truthful enough to tell me that when I talk I talk as if I am scared of talking. Well that true. not that I actually want to be. but every single time I want to have communication with anyone. I am always restrained by nervousness in form of stammering (of which I am not a stammer) not speaking articulatly and part of my body shakes. I most times get lost for words to say and cannot fully give or pass an idea fast enough. in group or meeting I participate people some times get my ideas wrong.



I am university graduate and owing to all those I posted on or in above lines. I haven't been able to get a job. There was a time i went for a bank interview the light system went off amd i was actually excited and was confident during the interview. but subsequent interviews ruled me out. And I hate the kinda lifestyle I live daily. just waking up checking through my phones that's all. no one to talk to etc.

Even conversing on phone (calls/chat)sef with another person is extremely difficult.

I know people will call this extreme shyness or introversy . Yes It is but I have seen a lot of shy people communicate well and better.

Please I need help on how to overcome this limitations or challenges in a good way because I also want good friends in my life. Life get a lot easier with people around. But it's tough and depressing when you are alone. Help a brother.




Please the moderators should help move this to the front-page I will be grateful and appreciate your ideas.

tripplephi:
you are NOT shy, or INTROVERT...
you issue is simply ABSENCE OF VALUE.

You need to know that NO ONE HAS TIME FOR A PERSON IS NOT PROVIDING VALUE when they communicate.

also GET A SKILL, if you are an INTROVERT or EXTREMELY SHY then at least be very skilled at something that people NEED.

Make people come to you because of your skill, your expertise can force people to talk with you even if they do not have intentions of being your friend then when you OPEN YOUR MOUTH ensure YOU ARE MAKING SENSE and they will get interested.

Value shifts.... Value is NOT money or good looks... It is simply PROVIDING SOLUTIONS to outstanding problems.... it is also how you make people feel when they are around u....

FROM WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT JOB it is clear you lack any other lucrative skill for self employment... so kindly get skilled and you will understand that BUSINESSMEN always have friends.

I hope you learn from this.

PHOTSEE:
Good day sir, are you in need of experiences fish breeder. love to hear from you

NotBeenPaid:

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BillGoldberg:
I know I may be banned. But will you bet me that ypu and whoever bans me will meet a terrible end?

You have done and said worst. You are nothing but a hate filled human being. Please do check me post on an FRSC commander that just died. You have seen norhing FYI!

You can't even begin to imagine the curse and prayers heaped on you daily.

All you wicked souls will perish terribly.

DukeofNZ:
Ma man we go yarn after. please enjoy your sunday very well. i for say make i give you this gal wey de attack me here for your pleasure today but she is below your level.

DukeofNZ:
make i remind you say one of the reasons ma good friend dumped you after your last abortion which was the 9th by the way is because he could not bear the bad smell of your kitty-cat. na because i no gree give you money to finish payment for your last abortion after ma friend refused to give you the money you de attack me everywhere from facebook to whatsapp and now nairaland. you know say with ma big money home and abroad i can buy your present past and future generation.

ednut1:
Solution is to buy water from those tankers. I give my cloths to a drycleaner who washes dem in oshodi. The other cloths i buy water with kegs to wash dem. I use the water like dat to wash cos am dark so d effects on my skin is not noticable. Even if u install filter tank it gets messed up in no time. As clay from the borehole accumulates in the tank after like 3 pumping cycles making the water brown. Cooking ahud be strictly pure water o. The island is hell abeg

Annwrites:
I am surprised the water in your place is this dirty.

I stay in Ajah and the water we pump is never dirty.

The only problem we have is spirogyra in the water of which my dad invites a plumber once in a while to wash the tank. And we additionally use a filter.

My advice is you get an expert to treat the water independent of your landlord and when your rent is almost due, you search for another apartment with clean water.

Also, avoid using such water to wash your clothes or any other thing.

Besides, the last time I saw water looking like this was when I was still a border in Badore. All wells except one (mirinda well) had this colour. We only used water from this well to flush toilets, wash toilets and do our morning duties.

Besides, didn't you check for water neatness and availability before renting the apartment?

DukeofNZ:
Ma pal wey attend the thanksgiving been tell me say the reverend father prematurely ended the church service because Linda's kitty-cat was smelling bad.

GreyLouis:
See call me anything and I will take it

But never ever call me Buhari supporter. It is an insult to my certificate. Just mind yourself...

GreyLouis:
Thanos wanna be.

Keep it up you may find the elementary stones. Lol

GreyLouis:
Like I was saying Hunger is the basics of relationships . I am sure your own is food. Did you register for tradermoni

FarahAideed:
Even by the lowest standard of development no part of Nigeria is developed , your thread title should have been " which region in Nigeria has the most advanced slum" and ibwoild have answered the SouthWest with its advanced Lagos Slum housing over 20 million poorly educated people

GreyLouis:
This account maybe new but trust me I've bn observing.

9 out of 10 Nigerian Relationship is based on Hunger : either for Sex or Money.

Nigerian economy is that bad.

Romance section hardly tells you how to handle real life relationship issues. Is always about one sex something or not. If you have had lots of sex trust me you go tire. But talking about sex or porn everyday us bs