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victorian:
The two first things u typed are the main red flag.

She is too naive in the ways of men

Ladies when dealibg with men need a male.mentor. some.guys tried the marriage card with a gurl i qas mentoring, ii them.them all.off the bridge. She try with me,after pqtiently heeding to my counsel for years,shes married now to a wel-to-do guy.


Ladies shiuld be careful.when dealing with men of this generation

victorian:
Very deceitful, the girl will think it's love.

A lecturer of mine was gisting with us way back in school and he said he met one lady in school, while he was still a student. She was a student too. He wooed her, but she turned him down. He didn't give up wooing her. He kept on wooing her for 5 more years even after graduating. Last last she fell. For him on the 6th year when he's gotten a nice ride and two jobs both in school and outside school.

She fell for his matured looks and car. So she finally said yes after 6years of wooing. He said when he slept with her few times , that was the end. He withdrew and became impossible to reach. She got angry and breakup with him.

He said he didn't care, she can go

I then asked him but Sir why allow her to go like that? Don't u love her? With all those years u were pursuing her

Guess what his answer was: he said, he wasn't persisting because of love. He persisted because of his ego. He was like how can a girl turn him down, so he must get her even if it take him the rest of his life. He must have her. At the end she fell at his packaging, said yes. He slept with her couple of times and was like, is this what have been slaving for all these years? He lost interest and cut off.

I was like, na WA o


So all those years, he was claiming he loves her.. He didn't love her but more Concerned with his ego.. Hmmmm

We men are.like this. But some.not all. The lecturer and guys like tbis have it in the reverse.


A healthy ego is walking away and wwishing the person well. the moment a person places their own psychological needs on people,thats where they fall.short. Na the same thing dey under every woman skirt. Men should be smart and spend.their lives developing people,society and themselves and stop.slaving to pvssy. Six years just for two fvck sessions aany broke dude can afford. Yeye man

Ndidi will reply you


Ndidi how you see that Linda issue.I'm sad

Toks2008:
In most cases you ladies are your own problems.

Most ladies have penchant for falling for bad guys and they usually know from the onset but that nature of loving the wrong guy won't let them be.

Toks he made the first.move,he sustained the relationship. He's a boy thats scared of closure. If he lives.long,qhen he's 60 you'll hear his regret story. No be today. May he find what he's looking for

victorian:
That's it!

Everybody knows Linda. She fall mugu.

The first red flag is he didnt know her

Next


At 37 loaded with money he's single


Next


Dude suddenly doesnt like the limelight after knowing her. Why waste her time?



Ladies always probe a man's philosophies,how he grew up,people he grew up with,his beliefs and values,then family,peole close to jim,all these people will bring support to hild the relationship and make it sturdy not some unknown bloke that calls.himself.a billionaire

valentineuwakwe:
I WAS YOUR BIGGEST FAN UNTIL THIS WHOLE PREGNANCY ISSUE COOKED UP..THEN I HATED YOU AND WALK AWAY......AFTER READING THIS, I FELT YOUR STORY AND AM BEING TOUCHED......I HAVE WALK BACK IN.....STILL YOUR GREATEST FAN AND WILL GIVE YOU A CALL TODAY AFTER THE CLOSE OF WORK....INDEED YOU ARE A SUPERWOMAN..CHEERS

Do you know anyone that has personal contact with linda?.

kandi006:
And to think that somany people have judged and condemned this lady without knowing the real story, I can relate to her story though.

It baffles me to see how some people can be so mean and selfish. They walk into your life, claim to have somuch love for you at the beginning with somany promises, lead you ON for as long as they want only to wake up one day with somuch hate for you like they never felt a thing for you.

The question is:
how do you lead a girl ON for somany years?
Why plan a future with someone you know very well from the start that you will never end up with?
Why make promises you don't intend to keep?

How do you just wake up one morning after somany years to realise that you can't continue, what changed after the years? Why didn't you see those obstacles in the first 6months of the relationship?

I know there are still good men out there with morals and concience but for those That still play games with a woman's heart, be careful because what goes around always comes around eventually.

Aunt Linda, I must commend your courage and strength. I pray you find a good and genuine man who will love you unconditionally and be a great dad to Jayce.

Well said. I swear never to feel sorry for any of my spevie any woman treats unfair. what a stvpid fellow he is. I pray he's sacked tomorrow and he's associates starts withdrawing their support from.him

Lilimax:
Ladies should learn to use their brain when in any relationship.
Any relationship you're in and all of a sudden you start going back and forth with the guy, it is not a good sign at all.
Learn to quit at that point.
If you force the relationship to be and ends up in marriage perhaps, it will still hit the rock at last.

May God lead us right!!!!

Onpoint. Once back.and forths occur, iits.a bad sign

victorian:
Na wa.o

I feel for Linda. She wasn't street smart. Sholaye played a well scripted personality, all to humiliate her and make her a baby mama. He was never in love from the beginning. Especially the part of where, he added his name to hers, when they were together gisting.
Ladies beware of such acts, where a guy dating you or about to date u, will call your full name and add his own to it, then he will be like oops! Sorry, hope am not moving too fast? Smiling innocently. And the lady will chuckle and said so u are already seeing me as your wife? Really? So quick?

My dear sisters, that's a good question. So quick? It clearly means he's playing a script o! He's not in love with you but dating you for something and most times, it's all in the plan of making sure your guard is down, u get pregnant, he pretends he's coming for engagement and fiamm! He has changed. Some guys even go as far as engagement ceremony but they will never marry you.

All is just a script. Be careful. Don't carelessly get pregnant.

I almost fell into Linda shoes but thank God I never allow a man to make me loose my focus or senses. I will never get pregnant by mistake. Never.
Or it just happened. My own no dey just happen o.
And there are guys out there bent on making career successful ladies single mums, by playing the love card very well.

Career ladies shine una eyes well o! Take protection before sex or after sex. Don't be fooled by his sad face or excited demeanour saying babe! Am simply crazy for you! Can't wait to make u mine forever and marry you.

Na lie o.. Lol

Let him marry you first before u let your guard down and get pregnant. If u must have sex, use protection and if protection fails, take pills within the next 5hours


Linda fell for the recent trick in town and got carried away.

I really feel for her

Well she should thank God, she's very rich.. And has family to support her emotionally. Unlike some single mums who are poor and no support from family or friends.


Human beings are wicked. Not all but some

God bless.you my sister. Why out men of my generation aew heartless i dont know. Anyone that counters you or me ogun qill kill that person. He just came in to mar her life. Which kund of excuse is that he cant date her cause he's famous. Was he blind for four years. When ladies suffer we men weunderstand its tge fault of some men before us. They are experts,they are only targetting getring career ldies pregnant without marryibg themthem.What it profits them i eont know. They will leave women who will give them peace of mind and go settle for the obes that will kill their mother at the end of the day.Some men are cursed never to see good and even when they do ut diesnt fit them. I'm sure he's bosses and business partners wont like the developmebt. I expect him to start having problems with work.from tomorow morning.


Ladies if a man doesnt want to be in the light seen around you,its because hr doesnt want to be held accountable. Libda didbt ubderstabd this part. Thus is whyfirst born ladies shiuld find male.friends who will guide their steps. Thubdr fire that guy

flyca:
In this backyard, he should also plant cassava, yam, onions, potato, rice, beans, vegetable, mangoes, plantain etc to be able to eat right because they are all expensive now, yes?
Confirmed ode!

When.you expect.produce at harvest you reap the wind. Yes,i have an.half.plot space planted about 200plantain trees. Havent bought.plantain in 8 years. Didnnot buy yams.in.fibe years. IIf productive isnt embraved before need arises you pay the price. Glad to educate you

winningwinner:
Those who started a farm as you advised are regretting. There is no money to hire labourers, no money to buy fertilizer and many farmers are losing their investment.
It does not end in starting a farm, but getting the expected harvest!

There's something called farm.magement. yiu draw blueprint before yu start so you know how much to spend when to spend from land preparation till harvest. Stop seeing.obstacles

flyca:
So you must be a farmer to eat well, right? If he is a student or a banker or an architect, he should leave it and start a farm, because Buhari is president abi?
Is it only farming that add value to the society?
One-digit IQ kid!

He criticized implementation.dufos. i aint a buharibsupporter but sitting.down.to.compkain is.about only.thing peole do. Than.being.productive. even sophisticated qestern nations have vegetable grdena in their bavkyards

Oluwa4u:
Ladies if you are dating a guy who wears something like this i am sorry to say that you are just wasting your time if as a guy you wear something like this then you are more than likely to be using one browsing cheat. Its not me that said it o. Its research!!!

Lmao

FarahAideed:
This is child's play compared to when Buhari is relected

Farahaideed. Lmao. Na wetin bubu do you

You can tell she loves motherhood. Some.men sha. Instability,it is well

Ok

Sharp

FortifiedCity:


The lifelessness of buhari went international.
Now he has been replaced by jubrin al sudani whose incompetence and complicity in killings allover the country has gone viral.

Congratulations Jubrin, you are an idiot

Chai. Buhari don suffer

It begins with you. SStart a farm

Ok

daddytime:
All these concoctions for attention and traffic to your blog?

Na wa Linda...

Una go still pay even when she hurts. Money.must.complete

Salary

wilcox:
This guy owe APC anything?

The matter tire me

Water filtration tank isnt for the rich alobe.theissue is the level the borehile was dug doesnt have pure and.clean water. It will require industrial.drillibgto dig deep and then do water filtration. 300k does.all these

AntiWailer:
He never dated u.


How do you break up with person wey no date u.

One night stand does not mean any relationship started.

Linda Ikeji’s attitude shows that you can have money and still have low self esteem.

That she drives 2hours from banana island to Lekki 5th roundabout is a pathetic lie and contradictory to her claims the guy said he want to put a billionaire inside her.

The guy man simply did not take you to his house but to his slaughter house. The jeremi we know is a billionaire since ......


And it is boring to hear money money I have money money money. Yes we know you have money. Can we rest ?

You did not address the stealing of sperm.

We are not interested in the damage control. You mocked Baby Mamas and as Karma will have it, you are now 1.

Sgut up.fool. oversabi. Tommorrow your specie will say qorking class.women have issues.she does.good.in the name.of.love you calledit low self.esteem. where has your high self esteem.carried.you to,bloody hypocrite

daddytime:
Beautiful...congrats bro...greater you I pray...

Wish you the same mate

daddytime:
Thanks mate...how Kubwa you go host me this xmas ooo.. see you next week.

Hahaha. Me.ke. New frontiers.bro. After years of research and.planning the time is here. This December,moving to setup my.own plantation. Farming rules bro

Oreofepeters:
They arrested me and my bro and detained us for 2 days because we argued and refused to settle them. @iya ganku Ibadan. And this is my 5th times experience @ibadan

Our offenses:

1.I was carrying phone and laptop with no receipt automatically I'm a fraudster.

2. My bro car was tinted.

They collected 50k for our bail, Mehn I'm thinking about suing them to court.
right now my mind is full of more bullets than what AK-47 hold. I gotta let my stinking memories be told like it unfold
I wonder why we were locked up in cell because we were in hell already. Stink as hell.
This is my 5th experience from the Nigerian police.

Thunder will fire anyone who will say Nigeria will be a better place. Come to iyaganku police station where criminals dwelled, where super standards is being taken for sub standards in a Giffy.

Its an.iffense to use.tinted.glass.sir.

Ok