₦airaland Forum

hadura29:
i sent you an email, did you get it?

Xisnin:
Don't just shake your head, imbibe the lessons from my post so that you don't end up disappointed.

Xisnin:
You can accept gift from anybody, it is not a consent to do anything. It serves the guy in this story right because he was pretending about his intentions. Even if I agree that gift is part of a dating process, is dating a do or die affair?
Isn't the dating process allow the parties involved to make their own decision?

Rukkydelta:
I need a mugu like this guy
I'm sure his mother will be using fire wood to cook at home and sweating daily before eating. He is a disgrace to humanity. Spending over 120K that you can give to the less privileged and they will be more than grateful

The girl is a smart bad ass and the foolish guy just fall into her trap.

Bidobado:
We told them to stop dating these hungry criminals they won't listen. God forbid I ever date or love a Nigerian woman.
I repeat, God forbid!!!!

Xisnin:
Nothing is wrong in asking a lady out but everything is wrong with spending on such a lady while expecting sex and loyalty without explicitly asking for it.

Flexy2009:
Reason is, The girl no like the guy; she nor dey feel the guy atall believe. Na only some indecent girls wey go collect gift from guy wey she nor like then come gree to date am for Benjamins. Most decent girls hardly date guys that they dont love but may likely accept gift. As for the nigga, him nor be sharp guy as him for read in between the lines. If na sharp bad guy, him for understand the level then shun the girl tey tey!!!!!! Then onto the next one. If the babe na that kain girl, before him go even spend 5k for that banni, him for don collect her main main. All girls nor be the same; na wetin I dey try yarn.
Guy bleeped up sha......
Na the mistake wey most guy out there dey make till today.
Any girl wey nor like a guy, go always give the guy this same treatment last last. If a girl nor like u, she nor like u be that. no amount of gift go make her wan date you if u like buy her moto, she go collect am tell u sey guy, I get very serious boyfriend na so E just be.

agabaI23:
What was the let see how it goes about? What was she thinking? She forgot she loved her boyfriend then? She knew the guys intention from the word go.

donstan18:
Why are you lots insulting and blaming the guy

The lady played her card well and the guy fell for it, she didn't force him to spend, she didn't blackmail him, she didn't steal from him, she didn't promise him sex for those expenses, she didn't promise to date him.

The only way the lady faulted was by accepting those gifts when she knew she wasn’t gonna date him, but all the same, it's optional to reject, it's still not a sin to accept it.


The guy shouldn't be blamed for any reason, he needed the lady, he wanted to get her at all cost, hence the spendings, but it didn't work out. Most of you condemning the guy and asking if he has gifted his mum can still do the worse to get a woman you want, that's the fact with men. A big FACT, so you all should stop forming baddoo and players on social media, we know ourselves in reality


In this case, support no one, blame no one. It'll be an embarrassment and a shameful act for a man to request back what he gifted a lady because she didn't accept him.
It'll be a shameful act.

I think the question should be; If the said lady was your girlfriend, would you be happy if she dumps you and fall for another man because of gift?

No boyfriend will be happy if his girlfriend do that , so let's be real. The lady might be a materialistic lady, but she loves her boyfriend, had it being she dumped her boyfriend because of a gifted phone, na una go still condemn her for being a gold digger

odinga1of:
Oga don't mind that nairaland mod, his hatred for GEJ PDP led administration is the reason behind all his failed analysis.........

and he is a Yoruba guy, supporting Fayose cos of APC, talk about ur useless state.........

ask mydn44 who be him governor?

Because you are a mod now, u will start bringing in rubbish analysis of made in Nigeria rice, make u nor de eat for your house

hadura29:
Hmmmmm.. you are a fisherman, and I would like to learn how to fish... I am loyal..

Jaideyone:
oh so because he's a mod he shouldn't show us what fayemi commissioned? if you are so pained why not show us what your fayose commissioned? let me tag you in my post up there

Mynd44:
See, name Fayose's projects. It is not so difficult.

Atleast I can testify to being physically present when the old garage-Okeyinmi road was dualised, I was there when Fayemi built the Deputy governor's office, the pavilion, and the government house. Which I can't mention because just like the bridge, they are useless and doesn't develop the state.

But I was also there when Ikogosi was refitted, I was there when the one-time road was fixed, I was there when the Okesa market road was tarred too.

Mynd44:
I don't even like Fayemi.

But I didn't also create the thread did I?

Funny is that the OP was skewed towards Fayose.

Please lets see Fayose's projects

Mynd44:
He commissioned a bridge.

And he commissioned a 6.3km road, another 3.2 km road too. Dazzall

An over priced and unneeded bridge that he demolished houses and rendered people homeless for.

Mynd44:
Don't do this to Fayose. It won't end well.

You, in your quest to make Fayose look good are opening him up to public ridicule and scorn.

Do you know that in Fayeni's term as governor he didnt owe worker's salary? He left owing just a month which was because the month had not ended before he left office. Fayose is owing 8 months salary and is not talking.

This is what Atiku had to say about Fayemi



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/169115-atiku-commissions-300-bed-hospital-in-ekiti.html

Do you know where the said hospital is right now? It is there paying host to insects and reptiles. Fayemi commissioned it in October 2014 before he left, Governor Fayose has refused to open it and equip it because it is not his project.

But bringing and posting links here is just a joke.

Let everyone have fun on their own.

Get on google and do a little exercise.

Type "Fayose Commissions road"

Then type "Fayemi commissions road"

Even though one has left office about 4 years ago, you are still likely to see more of his projects that the present one.

Worse still is that for some reasons, Fayose has commissioned more projects outside Ekiti than inside Ekiti

princfred:
I agree to all your points and submissions above. I really dont like over criticism but one gets provoked into being less politically correct over the way the supporters tries to twist very simple glaring issues even to the point of trying to demonize people for raising important issues.

Hopefully someday we will meet.

princfred:
We start by no longer keeping mute and revealing the truth, then pointing forward suggestions and ideas that hopefully will get be heard by the GO someday. Hopefully, God will touch their hearts and they will..CHANGE .

Raw capitalism has negative consequences if not balanced by some humanitarian ideology. Such humanitarian ideology can be imbibed by individual when they behold church leadership dedicated and highly committed to bringing certain socialistic upliftment apparatus within the reach of the poor. In contrast, if the church fails to bring such to the social and ideological table, where will individuals learn it from? Then it will be a case of "chop whoever you can anyhow you can" as seen in Nigeria.

princfred:
Thats basically what is going on. Imagine if that was how Christ, the apostles and missionaries ran the religion if people would have given their lives for it or if e for expand beyond Isreal?

Whites carry better religion which helped meliorate the negative effect of capitalism with humanitarianism and welfare for the poor, come Africa, show them example finish go only for Africans to turn around and use their selfishness render the religion inconsequential.

Not as many churches in developed nations but the much manage to balance capitalism by infusing humanitarianism and a look out for the poor into the sphere but Nigeria with churches littered every corner can't counter the effect of greed and exploitation of the rich by the poor ideology because the church tacitly fuel such mindless mindset.

gamelove:
Nigerian pastor, Olugbenga Oladejo has said men who allow their wives to be on top of them while having s.ex will not be allowed into heaven by God.

In the video which has since gone viral, the Complete In Christ Church (CICC) pastor was seen saying:-

“God has made the man the head not the woman, so those men who enjoy their wives coming on top of them in their matrimonial bed, the Lord said they’re not coming to heaven at all.”

See video below:-
https://www.seegist.com.ng/2018/05/men-who-allow-their-wives-on-top-during.html

Let’s hear from you all about this.

Thank you.

sarrki:
Our Amiable Kemi please don’t follow the trend of that havard woman that helped is squandering our common wealth

Havard my foot with the way she helped in looting our money

She’s a natural disaster

princfred:
What manner of gibberish is that? Am not surprised you dont have enough brain cells to decipher the lesson of the widows mite. You need to change church because its been a waste of time attending the ones who are busy manipulating the poor to build universities for the rich than explaining the import of the widows might.