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Samyj247:
SMH for u instead. I am speaking from a philosophical and psychological point of view here...it is not a negative foundation... do u even know what a negative foundation means in marriage
see e.g of a negative foundation

-If he says he has a car and and working and doing fine...NEGATIVE

if he says he is totally single, no kids and never married.. NEGATIVE

my mind de tell me to yab u sef but I go just say good night.

THIS OP WOULD BE A GOOD HUSBAND... THIS I BELIEVE.... He is plain

MissJoy29:
Yes you are...Ub-nj- bought the pill for you. Forgotten?

My dear eh, people don get mind these days o. I fear! It's as if there's competition for who has the worst experience and people are clamouring to make sure they PRODUCE the worst.

Nothing o. Just wasn't seeing you around here.

MissJoy29:
Everything is okay o. Can't I look in peace?

Lol...the toxicity is what gives me the distraction. Especially comments from people like you that have swallowed the red pill.

It may look like we are winning but truly we are losing. None of us CAN be winning & the society is still this bad.
You are so right @damaged people. It's what scares me. Every is suspicious, or caution, or paranoid, or pretending, or broken, or hard hearted, or brainwashed, or plain evil, or worse still, all of the above.

Samyj247:
then when she comes and discovers all that, she would run away just like the first wife who ran away because he lost his job. The truth is that, most of this ladies doesn't really like their husband, but the money they get or comfort gotten from the man because of is financial status. Take that away and they will begin to cheat in marriage or walk away from the marriage. The way the OP did it is better cos it would filter away those kind of ladies from contacting him but only sincere and good ones that can stay with him and fight the struggle until things gets better. This OP can still become rich....a life can be transformed within days or month. OP once again success to you.

Samyj247:
no it is better like that. any lady that would love to be with him, already knows what is on board. Both of them can work things out and build from there, if she is interested. success to u OP

Greenbullet:
My uncle just bought a car , a new model Benz , he is very much single , a hard-working and non philandering individual , he is over 6 feet and fair in completion and has an athletic build , when he had not bought his car , very few ladies associate with him , but since he bought his car , haaaaaa ! , His phone , his house , has never been at peace, almost every girl in his church comes to clean his house on a daily basis and cook for him , they all know he is not married and are flocking over him , as I am typing a lady is cleaning his house and cooking, he didn't invite her over at all, we just heard a knock on the gate by 5:30am this morning and it was the daughter of the woman he buys foodstuffs , from, she should be in her middle 20s , she came to clean and cook for him and even offered to give him a massage , my uncle is not interested with having sex with any lady , most times he switched off his phone , ladies always wanting to see him at home , even when he is at work , they visit him and give him food , I know what these ladies are doing but they are disturbing him alot , some call in the middle of the night to check up on him , the previous time I visited , two ladies came at once and a verbal battle ensued between them as to what each of them was doing there , I was on hand to separate them , I don't really blame the ladies , the pressure to find a suitor is quite alarming , when mother's force their daughter to go and visit a stranger because he is eligible !

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MissJoy29:
Yes o...look for you.

Don't mind NL. It just provides a form of distraction for me. The 'characters' here are the ones that give me that distraction when I want it.

Everything is fine. Just gallivanting up & down.
Are you feeling this thread?

XhosaNostra:
Mandela doesn't represent all South Africans. Ask any South African here or on any other platform when they 1st heard the word "Nigeria" & you're going to be surprised.

MissJoy29:
How are you? I been don dey look for you.

MissJoy29:

MENSO123:
my love for this profession is undying that i have decided to settle down with one.
no insult please,the post is for one serious minded medical doctor.

MENSO123:
I am 26 years old,fair in completion,complete and killing figure 8 shape ,5:6 feat tall,i am career lady,based in Lagos.
needs a medical doctor for a serious relationship.
strictly medical doctor.

FarahAideed:
Because of Buhari I have thought of taking my life many times as it depresses me that such a man is my president but the only thing stopping is that I have resolved I will never die before Buhari no matter what in the Name of Jesus !!!!!

NigPatriot:
Let me share mine...

I got an unidentified number call me, on a very frustrating afternoon. I normally don't pick unsaved numbers except I'm expecting one. Out of frustration I was about to pass the anger to this unknown caller, but the voice I heard next melted my soul. "Hi, this is xxxx from xxxx you left your notepad at xxxxx, I saw this number written on it, with the name, pls am I speaking with xxxx".
At that point I've never heard any soothing voice as such in my entire life. I kept stuttering with my words. She was the Usher in a church I had attended the previous Sunday, at this point I had no regular church, but then I told my self this might just be it. I couldn't wait for Sunday to reach so I could match the face with that voice. (I'm not a social media person
Sunday came, I waited for two services , lo and behold I met with the stunning beauty, and as they say .. the rest is history! She has been bursting my head ever since that day.

T1mmy:
I'd like to understand better why most young people feel they can watch TV, browse social media, eat, sleep, do house chores, and repeat the whole process everyday, and then think that after NYSC, a job will be waiting for them.

I need to understand the reasoning behind this process to help some people in my life.

I've tried to emphasize why this is stupid. Even while I was in sch, I tried to let my colleagues see this (most of them are now into fraud btw).

I've been trying to convince my siblings for a while now to get a reasonable skill, but I don't know what strategy to use in getting this stuff to stick in people's heads.
So I'm asking. If you've ever derailed someone from this deadly path, how did you achieve this?

messi042:
can you help me?

BarrElChapo:
Bro long time.. how have you been ? I just thought about you now.. hope you're okay.. holla back

purples25:
Guys really worship the most pretty girls and its unfair really .

Anyway both guys and ladies are guilty of this. Everyone should try to control themselves.

Karma is when they turn on you and hurt you. Then you get a taste of the sadness and bitterness the less pretty people feel. That's life.