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keep the sabath rice and holy

At 17 he is no longer a boy. What happened to ashewo

man's not full

The FG must be mad. Wettin consign them with our woman breast? Foolish government

The minister said: “What has been shown clearly is that the brain, which we actually need to drive everything we do in life, is sorted out in the first two years. So, if you give the baby good food, good protein, we will have good workers and good leaders in the future

Buhari's father must have drag breast milk with him no wonder

nellyquash:
Please what is that white thing beside the chopped onion@Kushercain

Bro na diced garlic

BlueRayDick:
Jisos! See as Egg thick, mature and frosh.....Na the alubosa come make me fall on love

E remain make agege pass

oolongtea:
boy, how old are u? u have to learn to stop embarrassing yourself.. he should get her mother's number without her consent and talk your quoted trash. "her mother" "my people". once this child is here, mother becomes the girl in question here who does not want this child and father becomes this 28yr old who is obviously unprepared to be a father but is carried away with the wishful euphoria of the idea of having a cute newborn without factoring in cold hard facts into what it takes to bring a child here and how life will NEVER be the same after this and all the risk and all that could go wrong that one has to accept as far as a newborn is concerned.
this "her mother" you're talking of, maybe your nigerian parents traumatized u so u cant understand the concept of adult independence but everybody lives it. this girl's life will not revolve around her mother's sentiments and the responsibility this dude is foolishly jumping into without properly weighing will not be eased by her mother's moans and sighs in future. and the level of disrespect for this girl to suggest he should contact her mother without her consent. u obviously dont respect women and u are not very bright. if u were, u would weigh in the tremendous responsibility of parenthood and realize that if something this serious is attempted to be done by cutting corners with the number 1 person involved, then it wont end well for anyone and it's a sign to abort mission. it's like russia planning a war that vladmir putin knows nothing about, it will backfire. stop underestimating the importance of what this girl chooses to do about this.

u know what life is like for the average nigerian. imagine that life with a mother who hates u from her whole heart. u ppl have to be careful the advices u give and the spiritual consequences it will have in the long run. bringing innocent souls here that will curse the ones who brought them into such an unfair circumstance and u'll be somewhere saying but your hands are clean while life fvcks u shege. u'd probably pee yourself in joy if given a south african visa just so u can escape nigeria yet here u are suggesting an unstable 28 yr old boy should usher in a baby into a hard life with a 22 yr old girl he's dated for a very short time who absolutely does not want the pregnancy.
i am yet to see one of the keep-the-baby crusaders ask this boy what he does, how much he earns, what his living condition is like, the distance b/w him and the gf, what his realistic plans are for this child, if he plans to marry the mother, if the mother wants to marry him, if he does not plan to marry the mother.. who does he think will, if he loves the child so much why is he ok with the possibility of another man raising him if the mother marries someone else, what are their genotypes, has it ever crossed his mind the child could be born disabled, does he have a child-friendly environment to raise a child in the current nigerian climate(corruption, sexual abuse, kidnaps)

just goat-ish sentimental advices of keep it that wont matter in the long run and will keep everyone miserable and always hoping. the way u think is not what works and the ones who built countries that u would love to go to wouldnt have such great countries if they refuse to apply logic like u. why didnt u suggest he transfer the pregnancy to the girl's mother so he can kuku leave the girl out of the whole thing since u're already suggesting he leave her out of it when she can literally not be left out of it except she gets an abortion. mtchew

Chairman you keep talking about bringing up a child as if it is impossible, so what the op is 28? And so? Have you not heard of a hustling teenager who brought up a child without help from anybody? Sure it wont be easy but that's life for you, you face the consequence like a man and brace the storm why do you keep hammering on abortion If your mom had popped the pills you are suggesting the young girl pops you wouldn't be here typing this terrible advice.

@op whatever you do don't inform her people without her knowledge talk to her. She has her valid reasons weigh your choice well because things will never be the same again. Αll the best

Nobodys:
.. It's owkay to disagree ...


If we were d scriptwriter den we would know tomorrow right?... We wud know where the next opportunity is coming from and even when our role ends .... Do we really write the script?.

I think we can only influence the writer not be the writer.

I get your point but I feel the choices we make equates a pen in our hand and writes the script. I can agree to disagree since you made me think twice.

Nobodys:
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This is so not ryt......You cnt eat hit a man and expect him to stare at u like a slowpoke.... Forget those movie scenes u watch, It ain't right ...

I disagree with ur personal text, I b.live we write our scripts