₦airaland Forum

aroundtheearth:
@OP, I just saw your other thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6126177/wife-says-stingy-money

You were advised on there to start a business for your wife, within/close to your home. Did you two give that a try?

Someone is earning 55k that can’t last the family for a month, where do you expect him to see money to start a business for his wife?

faste:
Don't be a kid,na from there you come out!

Haba, he dey fear him mama na.

Omoslim26:
Yehn yehn yehn yehn

so na to dey Bleep ashawo upandan come be d reason why you come into dis world abi ?

E be like say you no know say na married men dey bleep olosho pass. You must be dreaming if you think say woman go just dey open yansh every night for man because dem don marry. Especially after having kids. Infact, na after that marriage and/or childbirth the women dey lock up pass LOL. Many married men are walking around feeling sexually deprived.

knowhowk:
Work Hard ,Find a Surrogate mother ,Sign an agreement to carry baby/ Babies for you at least two ,Further your contract with her to take care of them till 2 to 3 years ,when they have started Schools ,Work hard to build a good home ,Hire a house Help and a good cook ,U can pay a good school with good environment to have them in the school till you close .Later move them to boarding school .Enjoy your life and stay away from Wife/ Woman Palava

This sounds good but not practical in real life. You think any woman will just accept to raise the child she gave birth to for three years and then disappear after? Not possible. By then the woman would have formed a strong bond with her kids and would never leave. You don turn baby daddy be that and mind you, baby daddy life can be more expensive and stressful than being married. The baby mama will milk you dry and give you so much wahala and there is nothing you can do about it.

Amb1045:
Can you really trust an African man. Can an African women really trust their husbands with what is happening in the society. An African man can wake up tomorrow morning and he will say he wants a second wife nothing will happen. I don't blame the women because it's part of our culture to have freedom. Let me use my grandma as a case study, she and her husband made thousands in Zaria back in the days through combined business buit two house in the southeast of the country when they relocated back east. Suddenly my grandfather went for a second wife who started dragging those properties my granny work for just imagine. In this part of the world our culture don't give women value, they can be kickout anyday and nothing will happen. Just watch people that divorce already. people learn from other peoples mistake. Don't blame Nigerian women blame the culture. Use Fani Kayode as a case study. if that man is in USA he will broke from series of divorce

Great points.

luminouz:
Lmaooooo


I knew you'd bring up the house chores part. Dem use house chores do Una ni? It doesn't matter how hard he provides, you still won't be satisfied. Give her washing machine, a 2 bedroom flat and a maid. She would still complain.
If you don't bring money, they complain, you bring money but don't help them to wash plate, na wahala. It's only Nigerian girls who equate financial independence and house chores.
Chai, these girls are just plain fuqin lazy.

The time don dey come wey Nigerian men that are doing well will start paying women to have their babies and disappear after birthing the baby. Then just employ a nanny to care for the baby. Na the same money wey the man go give him wife on a good day he go give the nanny and she will be very grateful.

chiommy123:
She is saving it for the raining day na

No be only raining day. Na sunning day. Mtchew.

Ardar:
The day Nigerian mails stop been foolish is the day all the water bodies on this earth dries up.

You can not eat your cake and have it. If you want to be a traditional man be a traditional man to the last and if you what to be modern then be modern to the core.

You want your wife to bring part of her income into the house while you don't help her with the house chores and at the same time demand maximum respect and submission from her. You want to mix all the benefits of having a traditional and modern marriage for yourselves all the while maintaining the traditional mode of marriage for your wives.

I am sorry but women are humans not remote controlled robots.

Most women will not mention these things you have written up there before the wedding because they desperately want to be married and answer Mrs. They will pretend to be the submissive wife to cajole the man. But after the wedding, true color will now come out. Believe me, no high value men will agree to marry a woman with the kind of attitude you have stated there. Unless say na lazy and broke fukk boy.

specialmati:
dont just marry any woman discuss how you want to run your family with them before engaging them to avoid this kind of story.if you sense selfishness look for someone else women many na

Some women pretend and hide their true characters in order to cajole the men into marriage. Na after the wedding the man go hear am.

Can never live in Dubai. Hell I can never live in the Middle East, North Africa and Asia. Not for me at all.

PCG1:
tɦɛʍ tʀaʄʄɨċ ʏօʊ ɢօ ɖʊɮaɨ❓❓
ɨʄ ʏօʊ ċaռ't ċօքɛ աɨtɦ tɦɛɨʀ sɦɨt
աɦʏ ռօt ċօʍɛ ɮaċҡ tօ 9ʝa aռɖ staʀt ċօʟʟɛċtɨռɢ աɨʀɛ
ɨ ҡɛɛք aɖʋɨsɨռɢ քɛօքʟɛ tօ աɨʀɛ tɦaռ tօ ʀʊռ aաaʏ ʄʀօʍ ռɨɢɛʀɨa tօ staʀt ʟɨʋɨռɢ a ռɛɢʀօ ʟɨʄɛ օʊtsɨɖɛ
sɨռċɛ օʊʀ քօʟɨtɨċɨaռs tɦɨռҡ saʏ tɦɛʍ աɨsɛ աɛ ʍʊst ʝօɨռ ɦaռɖs tօ sքօɨʟ tɦɨs ռɨɢɛʀɨa ʀɛքʊtatɨօռ tօɢɛtɦɛʀ❗❗
ʍʏ օɮsɛʀʋatɨօռ; ɛ ɮɛ ʟɨҡɛ saʏ tɦɛʏ ɖօռ ċօʟʟɛċt 3000 ɖɨʀɦaʍs tաɨċɛ ʄʀօʍ ʏօʊ aռɖ ʏօʊʀ aċċօʊռt ɖօռ ʀɛɖ աɦɨċɦ ʍaҡɛs ʏօʊ ɛռtɛʀ ɖɛքʀɛssɨօռ ʀɛsʊʟtɨռɢ tօ tɦɨs ʟօռɢ աʀɨtɛʊք sɦa

Oga this your font dey give headache. Haba WTF!

They should please come back in 3 to 5 years and tell us how far.

Misplaced priorities!

It all comes down to luck. Without luck, Linda herself may have been doing olosho work too. There are many ladies that work a whole lot more than she does but nothing ever works for them. So she should just shut the hell up and enjoy the money she’s making from the lazy youths’ need for hot gossip.

This babe don dey old sha. Never knew she was 51!

What’s with this guy always holding a blunt in public. He thinks it makes him look cool but in actual fact, it makes him look like a tout. This guy needs to grow up. No be only you dey smoke Igbo for industry. Smoke your shyt in private fool.

Just take a look at this lady. There’s something unappealing about her. I can’t just figure it out. Is it the lips, nose or eyes. Abi na the whole package. Omo, men dey try o.