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Prognose:
This right here.

I know your type. Sorry to say but you're a nag. You may not notice it but its true. The problem with nags is even if you're right, you have so irritated the man with your talking that he goes ahead to do the wrong thing just to make a point.

Solution? I think its a habit that cant be stopped. He's enduring your behaviour just as you're enduring his 'always right' and 'straight to the point' way of doing things. You both will have to sit yourselves down, probably with a mediator so that he cant order you to shut up, and really let your feelings out. And really listen to each other. This will help a lot knowing how each other feels. He sounds impatient and insensitive.

It may look like waste of money but trust me, it will help a lot if u get counsellor's couple therapy.

Thanks really appreciate your input. NOTED.

dingbang:
3 miscarriages..... Who did you offend biko

May God forgive you.

Hello Doctors in the house, please help. I have had three miscarriages in the past and the last was blighted ovum which I did an evacuation on the 11th of April. My period began on the 5th to 8th of may. On the last day of my period, I had large creamy discharge and I wondered why. And since then I have been having discharge. No itching or odour too. Is it a cause for concern? I have appointment with gynea on Thursday. I just wanna know if doctors in the house can tell me what it is before then..

I am also trying to conceive and I had Bleep just once on the 11th. My cycle after miscarriage was 24days.

used to be a constant 26 but with my second miscarriage everything changed. From 24, 26, 28, 30, 35.

pardon my description please.

urgently need beeswax. If you have or know where I can get. please reach out. Thanks.

phabulous88:
And really there's no biggie in apologising, even if you're wrong. Shows you're more interested in peace than who /what is right. Apologising even makes you the mature partner

. Yes. I agree absolutely. I try to give reasons so we don't go back there again. The apology is not an issue at all for me. Not hearing me out is.

phabulous88:
A closed mouth don't get fed, so you must talk.

But then the timing has to be right.

If he shuts you up during a conversation, it's maybe because the argument is getting hot, adrenaline is rushing or he wants the final say. Some men think having the final say gives them control over their family. Not true

Try texting him your opinion once in a while and see how that works

Thanks. I do that too. May have to stick to that more often now.

lacapine:
Hello people and happy Sunday. please I need urgent advice. would make it as brief as possible.

Istly I have been married for six years now with two children. Hubby is the type that wants his decision to be final. Whatever he says, he doesn't want you to object even if you know better or think his decision may fail. If you tell him, he feels he is being criticised, if I don't and something goes wrong, I hurt badly but can't say it.

A times he would say I should just mention it once and stop embellishing it and most times I embellish if I have said it severally and he isn't taking action, then the next time I say it, I start giving him reasons why his actions or inactions is not the best, before I finish, he would cut me and say that he has told me severally to stop embellishing stuffs. It hurts me deeply cause I am one who loves to converse. But hubby shuts me up a lot of times. Except if its just fun gist.

I presently don't have a good job though still searching, I am beginning to be frustrated and seriously looking for jobs or opportunities that would take me away from the home a lot of times so I am not forced to be looking out for him. If I was financially strong, I would have cushioned most of his lapses.


Its eating me up and I have told him severally and he would say I am the problem, that I don't know how to talk. I am not even allowed to be angry if he disapoints me, he picks offense and forgets there were times I didn't mind.

How do I come out of this hole?

He also thinks that when we have issues, let's take for instance that I am wrong or reacted wrongly, I should apologize and leave it there. Me on the other hand, atimes, if he is the one who offended me and I reacted or over reacted, I believe, yes, I have to apologize and I like to let him know that see what and what that made me react this way. He would say that's not apology. He doesn't want to hear what he did wrong that caused me to react. He just wants an apology. He would say, what's more important to me, being a wife or being right? No matter how I try to make him see reasons, he won't.

Hello people and happy Sunday. please I need urgent advice. would make it as brief as possible.

Istly I have been married for six years now with two children. Hubby is the type that wants his decision to be final. Whatever he says, he doesn't want you to object even if you know better or think his decision may fail. If you tell him, he feels he is being criticised, if I don't and something goes wrong, I hurt badly but can't say it.

A times he would say I should just mention it once and stop embellishing it and most times I embellish if I have said it severally and he isn't taking action, then the next time I say it, I start giving him reasons why his actions or inactions is not the best, before I finish, he would cut me and say that he has told me severally to stop embellishing stuffs. It hurts me deeply cause I am one who loves to converse. But hubby shuts me up a lot of times. Except if its just fun gist.

I presently don't have a good job though still searching, I am beginning to be frustrated and seriously looking for jobs or opportunities that would take me away from the home a lot of times so I am not forced to be looking out for him. If I was financially strong, I would have cushioned most of his lapses.


Its eating me up and I have told him severally and he would say I am the problem, that I don't know how to talk. I am not even allowed to be angry if he disapoints me, he picks offense and forgets there were times I didn't mind.

How do I come out of this hole?

Na wa!! wonders shall never end

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The brother should be arrested for this. Is she less than 18? Did he not hear oko wo l'de. Abei guy park well and face front.

dare where is your location?

bastien:
The man just dey reason like any other man




They just dey think how the hubby go take dey fucccccck their daughter big ass.... The thing they pain sha.. . When u reason am say another man go dey fucccccck your daughter



That's why I no wan born girls or even girl self

Na person like you go be "blessed amongst women"

please

Adora please if you can,drop a whatsapp link so with one click, we are direcred to the group. Thanks.

please do you sell MACA root too?

Naija! I hail oooo.... When are we expecting, Who I be polo?? Good stuff though. All the best.

Naija! I hail oooo.... When are we expecting, Who I be polo??

please are there olopos in Abuja? I need their services. someone with their contact should help me. Thanks.

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I'm interested.

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best of luck to applicants.

Admin please take this to front page so more people don't fall victim.

This is to bring to the notice of the general public the fraud that is going on now. 07035743949 was the admin one scam group