₦airaland Forum

LUCAS99:
Exactly. Can you believe at 22 years old I struggle to make conversation with ladies because I don't know what to say to get them to laugh and open up to you so you both can connect on a deeper level.

When I see other guys having conversations with ladies and laughing it makes me feel odd and embarrassed that I can't do what other guys do so easily?

When I see people talking I hardly join them because I don't want to say something stupid and be embarrassed.

I know I need to build my social skills but am so confused on where to start cause right now I lack motivation and all I wanna do is sleep all day.

I really need help cause am getting frustrated.

yungest:
see the bush were person Dept da...Na wa o

bukiii:
I can understand what is happening to the guy,its not that he can't speak or right correct english.He is always afraid of making mistakes while speaking,he get confused with some words and when he types he consult his dico.Just guessing tho cause all these happens to me.

LUCAS99:
Can I be able to talk to you on phone Olarewajub?

I feel like am boring because I don't talk too much. I find it so difficult to relate with people and find a common ground. Even when I see people talking I don't really join the conversation because I don't know what to say. Most times I tend to avoid the conversation because I can't even keep a conversation going. Even when I eventually join the conversation and starts talking I feel like am unable to express myself in correct English. I have spoken to my family members and they are so surprised that I find it difficult to speak correct English.

I am almost 22 years old and It has been over four years since I had a girlfriend. Right now I don't even have a close female friend. I don't even know what to tell a lady or how to be creative when talking with a lady both online and offline.

I have tried reading books and watching television but I always fall asleep when I pick a book to read or try to watch a show. I wonder why I go to sleep so early by 6:00 PM and even when I wake up by 3:00 AM and try to read or maybe do a research online I start feeling sleepy. I know something is wrong with me but I don't know what.

Right now I lack direction and motivation. I have low confidence and low self esteem. I am even thinking of giving up on life. How can I get my life back on track?

how can I possibly increase my vocabulary and speak more fluently? I tried watching some movies but most times I don't understand what is going on until the end and I always find it difficult to recall the exact words used by the actors. Can something be possibly wrong with my memory? Sometimes somebody can tell me their names and within five minutes I have already forgotten their names. Is there a proven way I can expand my memory and be able to think like a grown adult?

What Can I do to improve my basic conversational skills? When I see two coworkers talking and laughing I begin to wonder why I can't get my fellow coworkers to open up to me. Everyone thinks I am stupid because I can't really talk. Everyone I know can speak English correctly why am I finding it difficult to speak correct English?

My Self esteem is so badly damaged and I am so lost where do I start?

VampireeM:
Since the president didnt ve the balls to come to Ogoniland himself but sent his VP, Osinbanjo should ve been conferred the chieftancy title instead

irunooboo:
See as Wike frown like NURTW chairman. If not for mama Piss and the useless GEJ that rigged him in, this thug is not worthy to govern a state

Dabbyfab:
Dumb fool, I have stated the obvious which a lot of people agree to. You know the reason why people flock to PH, maybe you need to take your silly ass out from PH and understand what people are talking about. Fool don't quote me again, cos I won't give you that satisfaction.

Dabbyfab:
You should be comparing PH with Aba and not Enugu. Enugu is on another level.

Abagworo:
Calabar is the finest. Their only issue is with Calabar South which is a ghetto like we have in other Nigerian cities. Calabar does not have beautiful houses like Owerri or Enugu but there is a very good arrangement of houses that makes driving there much more pleasant to the eyes.

I even prefer Calabar to Abuja with my reservation being that it is an isolated town with no access road. I stopped going there in 2013 after I was stuck for hours between Itu and Odukpani with my family. It was a horrible experience.

mrvitalis:
It's obvious u have not been to owerri or enugu Calabar is the most over hyped town in Nigeria
Go to new owerri then come and talk

mrvitalis:
It's obvious u have not been to owerri or enugu Calabar is the most over hyped town in Nigeria
Go to new owerri then come and talk

mrvitalis:
Was born in Port Harcourt, schooled in UNN, I know both city Very well and this my conclusion

Enugu is better planed, the only place planed in pH is the old township

Road network s enugu anyday, thank God for ameachi if not Port Harcourt roads were a mess, he did alot yet not upto enugu

Economy, Port Harcourt is light years ahead of enugu

Social life, bros leave am enugu win am, but pH try sha

Beauty, Enugu is naturally beautiful, most people shouting calabar have not really been to enugu, been to calabar many times and can say authoritatively that owerri and enugu beats it in terms of arrangement and beauty
PH try sha. .. But way back in the line

The truth is that pH was never designed to be a big city it was supposed to be a Port city to serve enugu

So in all enugu win am ooh

mrvitalis:
Was born in Port Harcourt, schooled in UNN, I know both city Very well and this my conclusion

Enugu is better planed, the only place planed in pH is the old township

Road network s enugu anyday, thank God for ameachi if not Port Harcourt roads were a mess, he did alot yet not upto enugu

Economy, Port Harcourt is light years ahead of enugu

Social life, bros leave am enugu win am, but pH try sha

Beauty, Enugu is naturally beautiful, most people shouting calabar have not really been to enugu, been to calabar many times and can say authoritatively that owerri and enugu beats it in terms of arrangement and beauty
PH try sha. .. But way back in the line

The truth is that pH was never designed to be a big city it was supposed to be a Port city to serve enugu

So in all enugu win am ooh

Adaure4ever:
There is no need for this dumb comparism.
Enugu is secured, peaceful, less/no traffic, has one of the 3 best road networks in Nigeria, greenery, Beautiful estates, well planned streets, clean environment, Less Noise, No/little flooding after rain. Etc
O42 is a class.
PH is okay but its unorganised to me with heavy traffics, flooding after rain and insecurities here and there..

midehi2:
thats what i noticed about her too, her mgbekish face refused to adjust to high class babe, she should try and belong jor, na everlasting door open for her so

gp6liveth:
Unical is not the only uni offering anti-corruption course. I also did studies in anti-corruption in UNIBEN at the PG level.
For plagiarism, its a big offence. How lazy or stingy is that prof not to run plagiarism test on the article or book.

Most Nigerian book authors mostly are lazy writers. They will just get a foreign book, remove the cover page and put their name, thereafter, they start selling it for students.

If ur fada na lecturer pls warn him of plagiarism and student extortion.

I need 3 trustworthy and ethically upright persons to join me so we can subscribe to a better plagiarism checker called grammarly. Contact me through gp6liveth4ever@yahoo.com