sure it is the most painful thing but not to worry once the baby is out the pain subsides and you can look at your baby and smile.

Your house must be really big.

@Puresboy,Kx and Iranoladun, I don't care whether u believe me or not, God in heaven knows my heart, i can't be lying on such an enormous issue like Hiv, i would advice you guys to go for own Hiv screening test and know your status don't be too confident as to rain insults on me. You are not better than I am atleast i know my status and i know how to go about it in order to stay alife and healthy

A painted picture would be nice

this sounds strange perform marriage rites on a corpse!!!!!!! wanders shall never end

JJYOU, i don't know how we came about this, i have have avoided and prevented it all my life but it has still happen, all i need now is solution, i don't want to think of how it came about.

Sissy, thanks very much for your advice, im glad you said i have Hiv and Hiv doesn't have me, my dear im so grateful, i will stick to your advice.

As for you not believing me i have nothing to tell you apart from that u are worthless and can't help someone in need.

Some men hide their real character in order to get a lady once they succeed in having you they show their true colours some of which the lady can't just take and hence it leads to divorce.

b]Hello Nairalanders, im in trouble and i need your help, i have been married for 13months now and im 3months pregnant, two days ago my husband came back from the hospital and he tested Hiv positive, i went for my own test and it's also positive. Please im confused the doctor said they will have to put us on anti retroviral drugs so as to sustain our lives and that they will give me some drugs during labour and after birth so that the baby will not be infected. Please what do u think, sometimes i feel like taking my life away i know it will be suicide which is not good but im confused tell me what to do.[/b]

i don't think its advisable i will never do such a thing

Sistawoman i admired you, i and my partner argue over my going to work he wants me to stay at home, i hate it too when he comes home in the evening and stay for long without taking his bath, he will eat and lie in the parlour for hours . He hardly apreciates my hairdo and we argue about that alot.