pls N/Landers i need ur help. I am working with a company for the pass 6 yrs  now now am confuse on what to do cos i just got married and am very heavy now so i could not meet up with my resuming time sometime i will be late for 30min to 1hr late which my manager had warned me not to come late but i try all my possible best to keep to the time .

The Problem now is that she is asking me to go on leave if i could not keep to the time or else she sack me

i should be due by next month by the grace of God and i would want to finish this month of August so i could start my leave in the month of Sept.

pls i need ur advice mostly especially the women 

thanks

poster, i can see that u r the bigest fool i hv ever set my eyes on, u r still telling pple that he said this and that I pity u (If it were my hubby U would have been running on the street by now with ur unbore child

Big Fool

is only an Idoit that does this kind of thing, how on earth do u think he will send away his wife & child to marry u, i don;t even know how some of us ladies reason if u know wht is good for u u better get ride of that child cos he is going to run away take it or not

U r a big fool, the bigest Fool i hv set my eyes on and a disgrace to womanwood

Oes it mean that i have not been married cos it was only Traditional or Engagement that i have done but we are planning for Wedding or Church Blessing cos we catholics, we are living together as Man & Wife and even have an issue

A woman will alway want tp protect her home, so she has not done anthing wrong my dear, wht ur inlaw would have is to keep away from this lady now that he married, Am Sure if ur sis gets intouch with her old male he will not be happy, the next time he try to do that, she should try and dail a male Phone No. and begin to talk as if she was talking to someone and see how he will react

I did that to my Hubby last nite and he was mad in the sense that, I asked him for money and he said is the guy u called u should be asking for mony meanwhile i never called anybody, he will answer calls from other ladies and he will said they are just friends

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my Dears, Fhemmmy N Iboyi,
There is non of this things that i have not done 2 nites ago I called his mother and last nite i called his blood sister but nothing sees to work out, his mother said he has refuse to asnwer her call and he will not listening to them, i think u r right by going for those test so that i can know where to start from, and i even think i should get my family ppl invole now cos it has gotten to the stage of him teling me to go. but where do i start from with the baby. i am just too confuse now

I want to go now but i can not afford to rent an apartment now, i can not go back to my perent in the Village it will not make any sense, u know feeding my self and the child is not a big deal but geting accommodation in Lagos is the issue

U can now see why i am confuse

pls i would want a reasonable advice from you guys in the house on how to handle a cheating husband cos mine is something else. right now i am going through hell in all to save my home cos i wouldn't want my 1yr 4months old son to suffer cos he said if am going that i should not go with the child, NL what do you think i should do to keep my man home

He hv to be there cos we did it together, when i had my baby my hubby was in the Hospital with me but he was not allow in the labour room but he in for like 5-10 minutes and when i saw him i was a bite stronger so i suggest that hubby should be allow in the labour room

i can see that u are nothing but an animal, Idoit

My dear it happened to me too

I was very hearvy, at 7months i almost miscarriage my Preg. cos of same thing within 3weeks i catch him with 2 different girls same text Message, telling a lady that he is dying for her and he is seriiously in love with her

pls don't let it bother u so that u can hv ur baby safely dear

that makes us mothers cos i do that too, i call almost every 5minutes to know how my son is going.

But for changing of this and that? My Hubby does not know how to do it

He tried doing it when my son was 3months but it was war o that i hv to redo it again

but he can give him a cool bath and dress him up for church when we are getting late

i know the pain u r doing through as a mother too

My dear, just pray and belive in God for every, there is nothing God can not do, U carried this baby for 9 months and u went through Labour for that baby and u want this child but someone deprived u of ur child, I tell u God is not sleeping he will rise and do something, and i challenge God for this he will do it and u will smile back to us soon

who says we are not here

Present ma

baba Jenior, u hv to face it my dear

father of two

Yes o,, u are going to be a father and u r here talking about tiein down

Does it mean that she tie u down before making love or having sex with u?

U r smart to know signs of early pregnant so u should be smart to be a father too

Idot

when it happened it will be tie down why do u allow her to tie u down when ur dick it self is tie down

u better tell ur mum & dad cos their going to be grand mum & dad soon

i Think the right age is bw 25- 28

I had my child when it was a a month to my 25th B/day, I had him on the 19th of Sept and i completed 19th of Oct. it was with easy. at 32 i should be through with making babies

dbisiback how do u read ur book pls

tell us

how could u been this wicked? the woman u married and now u don't feel any thing for her just cos u hv gotten wht u wanted

and for u Tatooboy, if i were in her shoes, i will not forgive u too when u can not make her to have a child of her her own  and u no that ago is not on her side again

too bad

i no it is a thing of the heart, ur heart is no longer there that is just that ok

tatooboy and dbisiback

just cos u hv started seeing another woman why wot u say all that, just put urselves in their shoes

Simibrasil and Ooldud62 thanks a lot tell them for me o

Go and cut that shit on ur head cos u r a guy not a lady.

pls any drugs or injection that i can take cos he will not want me to keep it,
pls the early the better for me so that i can do some thing fast

pls this is very urgent

advice pls, am 2week Preg. and my hubby does not want the babe now cos our son is just a year old.

I don't want to think of D&C, is there any thing i can do i would hv real want to hv the babe after 2 years from now but it just happened that i don't know wht to do cos he might suggest abortion