majestique:


like I wrote earlier, I am not looking for cheap sympathy but if the sympathy will help me heal quickly so be it. this story is very long that if I have to write it out here I'd be writing a novel. he's not a bad person neither am I a perfect person. the problem is that little things offend him and instead of talking it out he goes silent on me. the first time lasted a month, another one lasted three weeks, yet another and another. the first time it happened, he came back after one month to tell me that he was only punishing me for not picking his call even though I told him I wasn't close to my phone when he called. another time he wanted money for something not so important and I also wanted to use my money for something important so I asked him to wait but he got angry and refused to talk to me. he relocated to Lagos just two months ago and since then I have been trying my best to visit him over the weekend and sometimes during weekdays after work just to see how he's doing. if I have done something to offend him all he needed to do was to tell me and I would apologize but he refused to say anything. the last time I offended him was when we had an appointment and I didn't make it. he didn't talk to me for 4 days. it took the intervention of his friend (that was after several calls and messages that he didn't respond to) before he forgave me. the painful part is that I sent away guys who are ready for marriage because of him even though I never told him so as not to scare him or belittle him but now...he's making me look like a desperado.

I went through ur other thread and what I can say is dat u really loved this guy... U so love him to the point that u got so desperate for his love... My dear I know the truth is bitter but u just have to accept it and move on with your life... Dat guy doesn't love you at all.... He's just playing with ur emotions....I felt so bad for you after going through ur other post and reading ur chat...just imagine d silly excuses he brings just to keep malice with you for weeks... U better move on with your life and forget about him before it becomes too late

Wow... After 7yrs u're just realizing u lost the love of your life... A gal dat truely loved u but u didn't fight for her... I guess u dated other gals and found out those gals were Nothing compared to ur ex... And now u want her back after seven years... My dear u can still try ur luck with her dats if she's still single... Most guys will never appreciate what they have till they've lost it...

What a sad story.... Toke must have really gone through alot.... But I'll still blame her tho.... I guess she was dating him for 4yrs dey had issues and decided to break up... During that break he met Anita and fell inlove with her... Toke like most lady out there wanted to come back to the relationship even after finding out he has started seeing someone new... She believe in the phrase "I was there b4 her" just because she was dating him for 4yrs b4 Anita showed up... Toke thought she had every right to snatch him from Anita.... She lacked low self esteem and couldn't move on with her life... Anita on her own part was not ready to back down.. She felt she couldn't allow Toke snatch her man... And she continued dating him for 8yrs and still counting till she finally got pregnant for him.... Toke would have just moved on with her life wen she found out Anita was in the Picture already but she didn't.... Better still Anita would have moved on when she found out he was getting married to Toke.. But she didn't.... Anyway I think the blame goes to 3 of them.... They were not thinking straight all in the name of love...

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Op am sorry to say... But I don't think your galfriend loves you dat much... A gal dat really loves you wouldn't bring up lame excuse to break up with you... I'm a lady and I know wat a gal is capable of doing when inlove.. Am sure she's falling for another guy dats asking her out... Dats y she's breaking up in a peaceful way not to feel guilty... Imagine She's even asking you to date other gals..a gal really in love won't ever say dat.... Just let her go.. It's obvious she's not dat into you...

Something needs to be done ASAP to stop all this nonsense

smoothtalker:
Ladyjul where are you??

am right here dear... It's just dat preparation for exams is really taking all my time. . I won't be able to login nairaland frequently

Jeez!!

RIP sir...

I chose Dija

I'll choose the one that treats me with respect be it potbelly or 6packs

Yuck! I don't think I can eat any bird except chicken and Turkey...

Cutehector:
yhh dats tru, anyways my lodge is around choba.

Ur currently in ph ryt?

nah.. am not. .

Cutehector:
LadyJul lol i"m just so pissed off abt the whole ish.. like really... i'm a post graduate student tho, pursuin my M.eng in d dept of petroleum engineering. Just two days we were to begin lectures and the riot ensued.


Phew.. so I guess ur at home nw chilling

yes ooo.. . I didn't have a choice, I just had to go home... sch is really empty now

Cutehector:
wow i neva knew u r a uniport student

Yea... I am.. How are u enjoying the hols?.

gbens2000:
okay,but that's the person I think is ideal for the crown.she is very okay am sure u will soon find that out.

hello gbens2000

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mamagee3:
Hi all, Is it possible for your boyfriend to love you even if he thinks you're ugly?

I don't think anyone is ugly... And someone who truly love you will not mind how u look...

Wow. .. this is quite impressive.. .. This wat I call talent

These herdsmen are turning into something else...Government should better do something fast about it

These herdsmen are turning into something else...Government should do something fast about it

I love dis dude eh.... Flex ur meal timi

This is inhuman... Gosh... . I feel sad for this young man. They would have handed him to the police instead of burning him alife.. . I hope his soul will rest in peace...

I bet this white man can't try this in his own country.. ..

Marriage is sweet when u're with the one u truly love and it's sweeter wen the person loves you back

prinsam30:


do u really believe in love

Yea.. . I do

Sometimes I ask myself if the police really our friend??
... Thank God for ur life @op

Hmmmm.... I hope these celebrities investment their money because most celeb fade with time. .. .

I hope he hasn't ran mad .. maybe it's just the heat sha

Hmmmm.... Cynthia Morgan... . What a lady!!!

MRNipples:
I love ladies with open teeth, they turn me on.

lol....