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Travel / Re: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 9 by LadyJul(f): 4:34am On Dec 15, 2023
Please can I use my husband proof of funds for my student visa application We just got married recently with proof of genuine relationship....He is currently based in UK on graduate visa while I'm still in Nigeria..... Please I'll appreciate your response 🙏
Business To Business / Re: Newly Found Shipping Agent For China Importers - Tested And Proven by LadyJul(f): 4:05pm On Jan 09, 2021
tugrow:
New Tugrow1688 rates

¥ = N72.5
$=N475

Shipping
Normal goods of 3kg and below = $8.3/kg

Normal goods above 3kg = $8.1/kg

8-12 days to arrive


We will no more accept battery goods after next week till next year , this is as a result of Delay in HK goods , we advise customers to concentrate on Normal goods only within this period. Thanks

All clearing is N500/kg

All rate is subject to change at any time as rate are not stable.
can I get your whatsapp contact
Business To Business / Re: Newly Found Shipping Agent For China Importers - Tested And Proven by LadyJul(f): 3:55pm On Jan 09, 2021
papalasun:
Funkam logistics
07031357996
what's your price list for shipping from China....The total cost
Phones / Gionee X1s For Sale by LadyJul(f): 3:36pm On Sep 26, 2018
Gionee X1s phone including the charger for sale ..... price is 30k... still new.... location Port Harcourt or warri

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Phone/Internet Market / Re: If You Have A Gionee X1s Phone For Sale by LadyJul(f): 3:20pm On Sep 26, 2018
KASZYLIEZ:
If u have a fairly used Gionee X1s Phone for sale, kindly drop ur price and location
I have one to sell...30k just bought it recently.... Location Port Harcourt

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Phones / Re: Tecno Phantom Z Mini Screen Replacement by LadyJul(f): 12:35pm On Aug 03, 2018
rekeson:
Techno Phantom z (A7) for sale in Warri.

Front camera and sim 1 port no longer working....
How much do you want to sell it
Phones / Re: How Good Is Oukitel? by LadyJul(f): 11:33am On Aug 03, 2018
rekeson:


U can say that again.

I can't find a single soul to sell Tecno phantom z to...
how much do you want to sell it
Romance / Re: Did She Deserve This? by LadyJul(f): 10:34am On Sep 05, 2017
Hmmmm... See setup oooo... We gals need to be very careful with the type of guys we date... It's very obvious the guy planned everything just to get rid of her... We live in a wicked world... Chai

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Romance / Re: A Relationship Of 6yrs And Counting Abt To Crash...god Help Me, Am Still N Love by LadyJul(f): 2:52pm On Aug 29, 2017
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dna4ril:
hello gyz! I am in an emotionally demented state of mind now, due to a relationship of 6yrs and counting I have been in,such as I treasure so much and I foresee is about to crash. NEED UR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE.....Those who hav been in a similar relationship and have survived should pls share.Pls lets keep it professional.My heart is pounding as I type this, Make no joke of this. and If you ev got no chill , dont bother cos this is quite an epistle.

Kk 2011,we met in our 100 days, I was 21, she was 19. she was so amazing and still is, I fell in love immedaitely, with my swags and all she couldnt resist. we were best friends, she helped me severally in many ways, I did too. fast foward to final yr, I gave her my first kiss and all apart from sex. I loved her to want to marry her so even when i had the chances it wasnt much of a temptation to resist.
I had a first class , she made 2:1....
service yr came, I was posted to taraba, she worked her way to PH where she stays, lets I forget, we met in a private university and her parents are quite wealthy, this I didnt no until we had fallen in love, she said she delibrately hid that from me.Anyways orientation camp camp 2015, I was posted to TARABA state. I couldnt bare the feeling of life without her, I met no real friends, I was alwys calling her , we were tied together apparently. so she spoke t her mum to help in directing my posting...

I thought it was a joke, put in for redeployment and Ph I went. We finally had the chance to see each other again after school.I was lucky enough that the house I eventualy got to stay was just a minute distance to her house. We were really close that one yr, I went to her house like Kilode, her mum,siblings all saw me and i felt the warm rception.Just for those who ar thinkg that I eat her "pekkus", I didnt stil, all the "close toos" why cos I felt I sholdnt If really loved her, thats my opinio sha...I mean apart from this incidencs there wer times in school , when we went out, alot so thats just me.

Service yr gave me the chance to know this girl really well, so much so that when I was leaving her i said to her,dupe. lets assume thats her name. ''Dupe I can confidently leave you now" As against my inability during orietation. cos we had knitted together in several ways in those yrs, thought and planed our future, prayed together, disgreed and agreed etc, you gyz no all those things na....

Aiit,now late 2015 I left Ph back to the west, leaving her with her parents...I mean life has started in real sense. I started applying,dint get a job, lets I forget I took my professional exams while in ph with her so you dont think am an NFA, Ihave alwz been that ambituos gy, i mean one of the reasons I know she fell in love with me back den in sch. By early 2016,I took up a voluntary job, got some experience and rcommendation that led to my first job of about 80k.....She was happy for me an all, so i was but I knew within me, I hadnt found the right job that will sustain the life I need to leave if I will end up with her, so I pressed on more...
Meanwhile In the passage of time, now that the relatioship is now long distance, I made sure I visited her Once in 3mnths ..I go to Ph to pay her a visit of days, meet her , her parents, I didnt meet with her dad until after service yr..After meeting him in one of the occasions of my visit, he will hand me full cash as TP back, I felt rlunctant collecting it , but then, I thought to humble mysef.


Things went fyn as time passed asided the once a while minor issues that prop up due to distance and when I see tht its becoming an issue , I know its time to pay a visit. On my home front, I had told my parents about her, My mum seem receptive of her as an "OMOLUABI" but my dad ......hmmmn Undecisive, U no men and their ways ...She got to meet my parents and siblings On our convocation day and since then shes been checking once a while and all,just like I have very good rapor with her mum.


Genngeenn.....Then Late 2016 she mentioned travelling abroad for masters, she has been working a while. I liked the idea even thought there and then I felt waaoooo...its gonna be a diff ball game.Anywz , I encouraged her, supported her sef, remembering Closing my account to buy her a pair of White Nike Trainers.....such as I av not worn mysef....What men do for love and gave her on the night before her dparture .
She left may 2017 and I was with mixed feelings, but with the lady I had spent one yr fully with , sch life experience nothwithstandind ,i Felt all will be well.

So I got encourgaged mysef, picked up my cv and started applying, recently I got anther job , almost twice of my previous pay....I felt am begining to be in shape for this my girl....cos looking at her background, we are leagues apart though we met at a top rated private university, But then this girl has been like a queen, character, beauty, homely, she can cook for the middle east.....lol, godly, there were many times she helped my sexual moods and all, can go on and this is the reason why I treated her so highly, I built my life practically around her....


She relocated and almost immediately things changed....she kept a distance and we werent i comm, it took me a while to realize that I was been too greedy , I mean she just relocated for study, she will need time to settle, register, no her ways around and all. When I got this, I gave her time and really she came around. comm was alot better, we began chatting more, calling , even vedio....I then was able to assist her in some of her assignments.......


But lately , In the past One month, what used to be a source of joy to me, is begining to be a source of worry.......
We quarell now more often than not at lttle things
she abuses me by disrespecting me ,,the ladies mght not fully grasp this......She ignores
she determines when we talk and when she leaves....
she no longer conects , that chemistry is lacking , thou we talk, we dont communicate
she doesnt rely my sexual words like geting all dirty and all
there is alwz an excuse for anyting
she doesnt make explanatins except asked..
I gave my sis and mum her Uk no to call her and check up on her, she ignores my sis and mums call
She can shout at you, what sm ple can nagging,
So many , can go on and on



I tried talking to her once and telling her how I felt, she poured it out on me, not seeing any fault on her part....I have seen my self suffering so much and am wandering, is this the dead end or just another phase...I have thought a break up with her times over even though i still care , but am wandering may be Its me, misinterpreting, been quick to judge, or may be its me suffering with Low self esteem that , I think am not fit for her, I mean I live a responsible and simple life nd to God be the glory, I have a good job....I have also thought may be painfully its time to move on, our lifes have taken diff courses, but then i ask , is that a reason to just jettison 6 lovely yrs of being with her, maybe shes found a new attention ova dia, i HAVE PRAYED PRAYED PRAYED for those who will say go and pray, I have, there as even one night recently I thought to whine God, I said. " God if you can just speak to me in my dreams tonyt about who this girl really is before i take a decision , I will speak to -- no of persons about who Good a God you are" Am sure God was laughing at me , COs i woke up miserable feeling and hearing nothing, But i will still persist, I have an idea he rewards those who seek him diligently....If I can get that Info, then I know My problem is solved....but in the interim PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO PLS.........
Thanks for those who read through.....
Hmmmm... Don't break up with her yet... Relationship has ups and down... I'll advice you to just give her space....with time she will come back to normal... Almost all relationship pass through this stage...and don't forget to continue praying

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Romance / Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by LadyJul(f): 2:27pm On May 11, 2017
That guy was wrong... Someone dat she just met already asking her to cook on the first date... Na wa oooo... I see Nothing wrong in cooking for a boyfriend but it should be something done out of free will... It's not a responsibility till u're married... Person never pay bride price yet he dey expect woman to cook for am.. Clean he house.. Do everything untop all this he go still f*uk am... Women dey suffer ooo... Na real wa

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Business / Re: How Can I Sell On Jumia? by LadyJul(f): 1:54pm On May 09, 2017
hian:


Yes 100% possible it's konga that has long protocol
Am sorry if am asking too much but how do I go about it?? Can the goods ordered online be kept in the dropoff centre instead of taking it to the warehouse in Lagos?? Thanks alot

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Business / Re: How Can I Sell On Jumia? by LadyJul(f): 9:28am On May 09, 2017
hian:


It's easy you just have to create account as seller n log in. Then wait for dem to approve n u can upload n wait for then to approve it so it can b active on their platform
please do u know if it's possible to sell on jumia from portharcourt..... Thanks
Romance / Re: Should I Tell Her? by LadyJul(f): 7:55am On May 09, 2017
How sure are you j has a main gf,?? Are you are you concluding he has a main gf because ur A friend told you so?? If u are not sure of what u're saying don't tell her anything and mind ur business biko

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Religion / Re: Chris Okotie Attacks TB Joshua Over Israel Relocation by LadyJul(f): 10:48am On May 04, 2017
Dat was how Suleman insulted tb Joshua now he is facing his punishment... Ur own punishment is on its way... I pity you

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Investment / Re: How Do I Achieve This?? by LadyJul(f): 3:23pm On May 02, 2017
gidimasters:



Firstly, you need to sign up here


https://sellercenter.jumia .com.ng
[close the space in between]

Are the clothes readily available? Or will just be imported?
They will be readily available... I just want to know how to go about it from portharcourt
Investment / How Do I Achieve This?? by LadyJul(f): 3:06pm On May 02, 2017
Please guys... I want to start selling nice clothes on jumia... I really want to know the procedures.. Am based in portharcourt... Please help me ooo... If you know the procedures just let me know... Thanks alot

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Romance / Re: He Cheated On Me by LadyJul(f): 5:17am On May 01, 2017
My dear u better go back to to your fiance... If u guys love each other then go back to him... If u leave him now another gal will take ur place quickly... Don't think u can't be replaced because they are millions of gals out there ready to date him Asap...

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Romance / Re: Please, Help A Confused Lover! by LadyJul(f): 9:40am On Apr 26, 2017
thebest1210:
A pleasant morning to you all.
please, be patient and read this problem of mine.
I'm in a state of confusion now. I had a rship with my ex, Ada (not real name), for close to 8years. During our relationship, we had lots of issues, including frequent fights and quarrels. After the last fracas, we separated, she even went ahead to tell some of her friends dat we broke up. After sometime, I went to plead for reconciliation, but she didn't bulge (don't know f it was based on feminine ego) . Few days after begging her to come, of which she refused, I met a new gal, Ene(not real name), we kick started immediately, and everything was moving smoothly wit ENE.
Just last week, Ada is back! begging me to allow back. I should remember our 8yrs togda, which is more than the few months i'v spent wit ENE. I made it clear that I can't breakup with ENE, cos she has done nothing wrong and she came in wen we broke up (I and Ada). She has been crying and begging for days now and I don't know Wat to do. Her cries are really getting hold of me. But, I can't leave Ene for her,as I have already committed into my relationship wit Ene
Again, my parents don't like Ada, based on the tins she did during our last fyt. And my mom has been warning me against having her back. To the extent of saying OVER HER DEAD BODY for m to have her back.
Right now, I don't know Wat to do. Can't stand Ada's cries. it's really hurting me.
please, what should I do? Don't wanna make any mistake of my life.

Moderator, please help me move this to fp. I need divergent opinions and advice.
thanks
I guess u've already made ur choice when u decided to date Ene... The deed has already been done.... U can't just leave Ene because ur ex is back.. Dats not fair... Just continue the relationship with Ene... Dats my advice tho

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TV/Movies / Re: Big Brother Naija 2017 Winner Announcement & Grand Finale Thread by LadyJul(f): 8:53pm On Apr 09, 2017
Efe finally Won.... HAPPY for him
Romance / Re: Urgently I Need Advice!!! by LadyJul(f): 3:51pm On Mar 28, 2017
Gpopsicle:
guys she did one rather amazing and surprising thing this morning.. hope you all remember I told you she has been calling me since morning, when she couldn't hold it any longer, I had a surprise visit.. alas!!! she came to my house.

I pretended as if nothing happened, she was just sober all through.. we didn't even talk as I pretended as if no one was around.. I offered her food but she rejected.. all through her stay in my house she was just crying..

well, I had called her this evening for us to talk.. lemme get to hear what she will say.. as I type this to you, she is still crying..
It's very obvious u really love this girl...she might really love you but she's very confused... She's only going back to that ex because she knows you will still forgive her when caught....If you really want her to stop playing a fool out of you..then u need to stop forgiving her easily....teach her a lesson she'll never forget..and she won't try nonsense with you again... But if u keep forgiving her easily every time.. She'll continue taking you for a fool...

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Family / Re: Depressed Wife Needs Your Urgent Advice. by LadyJul(f): 10:07pm On Mar 22, 2017
holocron:
Madam, u have no problems. Your husband loves and cares for you. Give him his private space. Stay off his phones and stop snooping around him. Eavesdroppers never hear good of themselves. You are 7 months pregnant, and such can hardly satisfy the sexual needs of your virile husband. At least condoms confirm that he practices safe sex, and nothing is lost. Things will normalize when you are fit again. Create a conducive atmosphere in your home and watch your marriage flourish. Stop making your home a hell on this earth.
Are u sure u're OK psycologically Because u don't sound normal to me...

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TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Tboss Leads Online Polls by LadyJul(f): 7:42am On Mar 18, 2017
Mtcheew.... The winner of this big brother show will shock all of you... You think your vote count... Una done forget say na 9ja we dey....

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Religion / Re: TB Joshua Arrives Israel. Deputy Major Of Jerusalem Said This About Him (pics) by LadyJul(f): 6:35am On Mar 17, 2017
I love prophet tb Joshua... I love how he helps people daily... He even helps Muslim begging on the street... Very humble man..... May God continue to bless prophet Tb Joshua....

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Religion / Re: It's Only God And Apostle Suleman's Wife That Can Condemn Him by LadyJul(f): 7:26pm On Mar 12, 2017
todayboy:


you want him to admit on nairaland or where

only 2 people he can do that to

his God and wife
my dear stop decieving yourself... He owes his church members apologies if guilty

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Religion / Re: It's Only God And Apostle Suleman's Wife That Can Condemn Him by LadyJul(f): 7:12pm On Mar 12, 2017
todayboy:


so true my broda

they don't know if he has prayed for forgiveness
Forgiveness can never be granted without admiting your crime

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Investment / Re: The Truth Behind Get Help Worldwide by LadyJul(f): 10:07pm On Mar 11, 2017
Gethelp worldwide still pays.... I love the platform

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Religion / Re: "Apostle Suleman Likes Sex Too Much & Once Gave Me Proceeds Of Crusades" by LadyJul(f): 8:05am On Mar 11, 2017
sosy25:
I initially did not want to comment on this Stephanie Otobo vs Apostle Suleman saga. But in Stephanie Otobo's press conference she made some allegations that can be easily confirmed whether she is lying or not.

1. She stated that she spent time with Apostle Suleman in Naples, New York and Lagos. The international passports of Stephanie Otobo and Apostle Suleman would confirm if both of them were in Naples, New York and Lagos at the same time period

2. She stated that Apostle Suleman sent money to her bank account, her bank statement would prove whether indeed she received payments from Apostle Suleman and the amounts. The amounts would also make us know the likely intentions of the payments

I am not for or against Apostle Suleman I just want to know the truth. I am waiting for the day Nigerians would remove sentiments and just want to know the TRUTH.
Suleman actually agreed he sent her that huge amount of money... undecided
Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh Flees With Son, Husband’s Properties Document Worth $1million by LadyJul(f): 8:22am On Feb 25, 2017
Hmmmm... That's wat you get from snatching someone's husband... U think u can snatch husband and cause another woman pain and be Free?? Karma will always find a way to get you... angry
Romance / Re: See What Happened At My New Boyfriend's House Yesterday by LadyJul(f): 6:58pm On Feb 20, 2017
Anuoluwapo23:
I Just Met a guy recently Early last month tho, so he invited me to his house yesterday and i went after church so when i got to his house i sat in his room pressing my s31 because he said he was coming he want to get something outside actually my first time of visiting tho coz have always been busy with work.

So after five minute i was actually feeling dizzy but worried and wondering why on earth he would leave me in the room and just go without even calling first time of visiting.

I went outside to look for him and to my surprise he was outside busy talking to a lady, So i called him he said oh am sorry am coming darling just sorting out something. Then i went back inside.

By the time he came back i was prepared to take my leave coz i was so angry at him.

The next thing he said was she is my ex and suddenly the lady came in and said am not his ex am his Girlfriend and she started shouting, So i shaa Walk out of the room feeling so bad and i refuse to pick his call since yesterday but he has been calling.

Pls What do u think i should about this? Believe Him or Not? sad

Nature addvice plss!! undecided

Note: We Met at a Conference.
Hmmmm... That gal might probably be his ex dat don't want to let go... Or he may still be running things with her... Ur relationship is still very new and u have higher chances of letting go now dat u guys haven't had sex or anything... Am very sure dat gal will keep coming back because she isn't ready to let go... If u know u're ready to deal with all the wahala dat dis gal will bring... U can stay but if not u better run as fast as you can... But I'll advice you to be careful and not rush things with him..

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Romance / Re: Help! Please ! I Can't Take It Anymore. by LadyJul(f): 6:44am On Dec 26, 2016
Hmmmm... I think ur bf is still inlove with his ex... But dat doesn't mean he isn't inlove with you too.... Just tell him to choose between you too from there u'll know wat to do
Romance / Re: Am I Being Too Jealous And Insecure? Or Is He Really Cheating? by LadyJul(f): 9:18pm On Dec 19, 2016
Poor gal... She probably don't want to believe she's d sidechick because she has been dating him for 5yrs....u're Nothing but a side chick my dear... And sorry to say but u're making a fool out of yourself.... The earlier u realized dat d better for you... Just imagine ur so called bf flaunting another gal on Facebook... Inviting and flirting with her on his sis wedding and u were there looking at him lyk mumu... Convincing and comforting yourself with d idea dat u've been with him for 5yrs so u are probably d main chick.... U better break up with him if not he'll continue fooling you because u made urself available to be fooled... Dat guy is completely disrespecting you... And will continue to disrespect you if u don't break up with him.... Y am even wasting my time sef... Am sure after all dis advices here u'll still go back to him.... But a word is enough for the wise... Just be careful and stop being stupid...

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