Celebrities › Re: Bisola Shares Bathroom Photos, And Everybody Is Tripping by ladykolly(f): 7:03pm On May 06, 2017 |
AdoraAmadi: One ambassabor and ex-Big Brother Naija 2017 housemate, Bisola, looked amazing in bathroom photos she shared on her Instagram page.
Bisola, who modeled her radiant skin for CianaFresh skincare luxury brand, had a white towel wrapped around her body and another wrapped in a turban style around her head. More photos after the cut;
http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/05/bisola-shares-bathroom-photos-and.html money is good ooo, her skin is nw lukin lighter |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Does His Marriage Introduction, Steps Out With His Guys (Photos) by ladykolly(f): 6:58pm On May 06, 2017 |
JamieHotSource: I know what you are thinking, So soon?, Yh Banky W is having his wedding introduction today, May 6th after announcing his engagement with Adesua Etomi days ago.
You can check the link below for more pictures, Ebuka Obi Uchendu, Tunde Demuren and Segun Demuren, His Brothers Funmi and Temi Wellington and Banky W's Father are part of the crew.
#BAAD2017. Cute
SOURCE: http://www.jamienaija.com/2017/05/photos-of-banky-w-crew-for-his-wedding.html d tallest man der must b frm his town. nice fresh men u got der |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W And Adesua Etomi Kissing At Their Introduction (Photos) by ladykolly(f): 6:50pm On May 06, 2017 |
sexybbstar: Sombori can not kiss in peace again...nairaland will take it to front page. hahah,wlc to naija |
Romance › Re: List Those Bad Atittudes Your Spouse Might Have To Cope With When You Marry by ladykolly(f): 2:57pm On May 06, 2017 |
FelixFelicis: Dear wife, I mustn't catch you laughing at another niggas joke, what you mean? I should be the only one who can make you laugh or smile.  seriously u must b kiddin me |
Christianity Etc › Re: Stephanie Otobo Turns Born Again After Apostle Suleman's Saga: "This Is New Me" by ladykolly(f): 2:27pm On May 06, 2017 |
Ajoboss: D only thing I can say is;
Dis life na wa The johnsons #hahaha |
Romance › Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ladykolly(f): 8:55pm On May 05, 2017 |
[quote author=infantlion post=56173384]Hello fellow Nairanders,
Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.
We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.
I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"
I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c
In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.
My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..
A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.
Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.
Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor... Me:pastor of which church? She:Catholic Church Do catholic church ordain pastors?
I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.
I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.
One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.
Long live Nairanders!!! Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!
[/quote What a story,frm dec - may hmmmm let see dis,in d month of feb u heard she was at a club den later ur feelings for ha drop to 0%,den she pleaded for 30 days(probably it was by march) and now protrude stomach in hw many days/ month,hmmmm brother somefin isnt ryt here.. |
Romance › Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated A Woman by ladykolly(f): 8:54pm On May 05, 2017 |
[quote author=infantlion post=56173384]Hello fellow Nairanders,
Once upon a time in 2016, I fell in love with a beautiful damsel who happened to be a virgin. We became very intimate and had great sex.After sex, she always thanked me for making her feel so extraordinary.As at that time, I was madly in love with her.
We got engaged in December 2016 in a grant style due to the fact that am working as a graduate engineer in a multinational firm.
I sincerely had the intention of taking her to the altar until early February, my friend alerted me that he saw my girl in a club with four(4) young men...I got worried and quickly called, her phone rang, no response.I gave her 458 missed calls until later in the evening, she answered"Nkem, am so sorry, I was sleeping while your calls came through"
I wept and called my friend to confirm if his is very sure of what he told me...He insisted.I kept wondering, how could an engaged woman flirt around with guys? I was shocked because I got 95% of what women need-money, good sex,good looking, good job e.t.c
In a nutshell, I invited her to my place and interrogated her and she admitted that she went to club with those guys but nothing happened.No woman would truly agree that she "spreaded" her legs for another man.
My feelings for her crashed to 0%..She pleaded for 30 days until she involved my pastor.My pastor told me to embrace forgiveness which I did...We started all over again and she promised to be faithful, loyal and honest at all times..
A month later she took in.The badnews came as a shock to me because I never cum inside her whenever we had sex...I quickly rushed to see my family doctor.He told me there is 100% chances of any woman to get pregnant with the method I adopted.
Due to the fact that my feelings for her is still at 0%, I begged her for an abortion and she replied"over my dead body"..Her family called me and I told them I am not ready and they threatened to arrest me...They sent her to my house last week with her protruded stomach without my consent...It was very late and I had no choice than to let her in.
Luck ran out of her this morning when she got a call from one Pastor Mike...I was curious to know if it is "hygienic" for a pastor to call a beautiful damsel in the early hours of the day...I questioned her and she told me the guy is a genuine pastor... Me:pastor of which church? She:Catholic Church Do catholic church ordain pastors?
I called the so-called Pastor Mike and he said, he is not a pastor.
I have contacted my family and friends, but am not yet comfortable with their counsel.
One good thing about Nairanders is that from the bad, the good and the ugly comments, a wise OP should be able to get something out of nothing.
Long live Nairanders!!! Long live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!
[/quote What a story,frm dec - may hmmmm let see dis,in d month of feb u heard she was at a club den later ur feelings for ha drop to 0%,den she pleaded for 30 days(probably it was by march) and now protrude stomach in hw many days/ month,hmmmm brother somefin isnt ryt here. |
Family › Re: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by ladykolly(f): 7:13am On May 01, 2017 |
ItzChinnex: Seun, Please shift this to front page as this may save some shaking Marriage. Thanks.
I am 42, married for 15 years and have two wonderful kids (7 & 3). My wife and I had about 13-14 pretty good years before I began to realize that I wasn't really in love with her, and maybe never was. For a year a co-worker and I began a relationship.
I had always been attracted to her, and I acted on it. Until a month ago we had carried the relationship from some very exciting sex to a very strong emotional relationship. She finally said the words that we should not see each other socially anymore, at least until I decide what to do with my situation at home. I agreed.
My wife and I have been in counseling for about six months, and she doesn't know about my affair. Neither does the counselor, who recently told her she thought the marriage was over. I am deeply in love with the woman I have had an affair with, and told her so during our last encounter (after we decided to call it off).
She told me she loved me, also. Now my wife and I are so distant. I do not find her attractive in the least - and we have not had sex for months. When we did it took all I had to get through it.
My heart hurts badly for the woman I love. She is putting up a strong front and moving on. Even seeing other men. She said in a year, if we are both available, maybe we can try to build a real, honest relationship. My two kids, who are my world, are trapped in between. I don't know what to do. I love another women, but I still care for my wife - just don't love her anymore, and not sure I can again. I've made these mistakes, but I believe I am truly in love for the very first time in my life.
How do I keep hope that things will turn out all right? Please drop your comments
Source: https://chinnex..com/2017/04/advicr-i-care-for-my-wife-but-love.html
Seun , Lalasticlala , Mynd44 From ur write up d most wonderful thing u lyk abt ha is d sex part, ur hrt wants to jump out of ur body bcox of ha, u can neva compel d two ladies,may bcox u hv woken up in 15yrs nd u keep seeing ur wife face den u fink u dont love ha again,dont worry go nd marry ur co-worker wen u wake up nd keep seein ha face for 5yrs u wil b tempted to changin ur mind,rememba der are beautiful nd fresh gals stil comin up.imagine dat woman tellin u to do somefin abt ur marriage nd u agree to dat,instead of she to wait 4 ha own husband,if u marriage lacks love, nd look 4 ingredients to make it work,for dat marriage to dis work u hv to make it work,go bk to dose fins dat attracted u to ha.kip d love up,ur kids re stil grow. |
Family › Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by ladykolly(f): 11:08pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: Hi nlanders, great morning to you all, of recent, have been suspecting my wife. She suddenly asked me for over 2million to pay rent for a new place to continue her biz, in which I declined for good reasons, because the place I had set up for her is just a year old and I spent alot on another mans property, yet no profit has even come out of the biz to even say it services part of the family's responsibility. Knowing fully well I rarely say no to her request, she felt more bad that I insisted on the decline. Infact she told me she was going to take a loan, I said if she does, my hand nor dey there, I said she should have patience like a year more that I will finance it, but she keeps saying the vacancy she saw is an opportunity that she does not want to lose it, I still maintained my decision of declining.
One night, she said she'll need my psychological support on the loan she wants to take, I replied that I cannot offer psych support on what I disagree upon, then she said I dont want to help her at all, that how much did I even spend for the first business, that is it up to 2 million, in which I spent more than. At that moment, I knew the wife I married was an ungrateful one, I just told her point blank that she should go for the loan and loan more to fix the place and buy everything she needs, then after she repays the loan, I'll blv shes a true business man and that I'll financially support anything she decides to do thereafter. She said well, I am scared of the loan, but she'll by whatever means get the money, I replied saying, whatever means u plan on getting it, make sure its clean.
Few days after, I figured out shes no longer interested in orgasm during sex, she just gives me and thats it, I already knew shes probably thinking too much and overworking herself to bring about a solution to where the money was gonna come out from, so I asked her why she has not been interested in orgasm, she said I should know that shes been working on some "BLOW JOBS" say what? She said u know have been working on some projects to get money to continue the biz, I said but u just said Mouth Action, she no I didnt say anything as such, Nlanders, If I lie make i nor see better, that was what came outta her mouth, but I am not concluding anything, just that its strange for such mistake to have been spewed. Though I got suspicious and decided to follow up on her. She has been talking to someone in secret, when she sees me she stylishly and quickly hang up. So I decided to make a very risky and rash move, that would either pay off, or ruin things. I yelled I know what u have been doing, you are a hoe that can never be trusted, that I think am done with this marriage. She got really worried that why would i call her such bla bla, she could not sleep that day, that gave me more reason to feel sumtin is probably going down, next day she sends me a text saying for me to keep calling her a hoe that she must have done something that warrants itm but she does not want to be referred ti as that anymore, and there is something am not telling her though.
I told her, I will break the news of what I know when the time is right, she then replied after two days of emotional trauma that she has finally decided to take the bold step to make my life and hers easy, she dont intend to create no drama, that all she needs me to do to avoid her getting any embarrassment from me, (what she meant is not letting people know why am calling her a hoe) is she wants me to let her know the terms and conditions with the kids and any other thing i think she should know before-hand. She also stated she would have loved to stay for her kids, but her emotions and health is failing her.
Nlanders, though I took a big risk, but isnt my confrontation with just 40% proof brought about a revelation that something has indeed happened from her response? I need candid response here as I am about to take my own decision, I cant stand a cheating wife biko. Cheatin wife!!! I would ask u dis simple question hv u eva cheated on ha,if yes, do 4give ha nd if no stil do 4give ha,,,der should b room for repentance nd 4give.confront ha nd c if she is rily sorry of ha actions. |
Family › Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by ladykolly(f): 11:07pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
adam500hr: Hi nlanders, great morning to you all, of recent, have been suspecting my wife. She suddenly asked me for over 2million to pay rent for a new place to continue her biz, in which I declined for good reasons, because the place I had set up for her is just a year old and I spent alot on another mans property, yet no profit has even come out of the biz to even say it services part of the family's responsibility. Knowing fully well I rarely say no to her request, she felt more bad that I insisted on the decline. Infact she told me she was going to take a loan, I said if she does, my hand nor dey there, I said she should have patience like a year more that I will finance it, but she keeps saying the vacancy she saw is an opportunity that she does not want to lose it, I still maintained my decision of declining.
One night, she said she'll need my psychological support on the loan she wants to take, I replied that I cannot offer psych support on what I disagree upon, then she said I dont want to help her at all, that how much did I even spend for the first business, that is it up to 2 million, in which I spent more than. At that moment, I knew the wife I married was an ungrateful one, I just told her point blank that she should go for the loan and loan more to fix the place and buy everything she needs, then after she repays the loan, I'll blv shes a true business man and that I'll financially support anything she decides to do thereafter. She said well, I am scared of the loan, but she'll by whatever means get the money, I replied saying, whatever means u plan on getting it, make sure its clean.
Few days after, I figured out shes no longer interested in orgasm during sex, she just gives me and thats it, I already knew shes probably thinking too much and overworking herself to bring about a solution to where the money was gonna come out from, so I asked her why she has not been interested in orgasm, she said I should know that shes been working on some "BLOW JOBS" say what? She said u know have been working on some projects to get money to continue the biz, I said but u just said Mouth Action, she no I didnt say anything as such, Nlanders, If I lie make i nor see better, that was what came outta her mouth, but I am not concluding anything, just that its strange for such mistake to have been spewed. Though I got suspicious and decided to follow up on her. She has been talking to someone in secret, when she sees me she stylishly and quickly hang up. So I decided to make a very risky and rash move, that would either pay off, or ruin things. I yelled I know what u have been doing, you are a hoe that can never be trusted, that I think am done with this marriage. She got really worried that why would i call her such bla bla, she could not sleep that day, that gave me more reason to feel sumtin is probably going down, next day she sends me a text saying for me to keep calling her a hoe that she must have done something that warrants itm but she does not want to be referred ti as that anymore, and there is something am not telling her though.
I told her, I will break the news of what I know when the time is right, she then replied after two days of emotional trauma that she has finally decided to take the bold step to make my life and hers easy, she dont intend to create no drama, that all she needs me to do to avoid her getting any embarrassment from me, (what she meant is not letting people know why am calling her a hoe) is she wants me to let her know the terms and conditions with the kids and any other thing i think she should know before-hand. She also stated she would have loved to stay for her kids, but her emotions and health is failing her.
Nlanders, though I took a big risk, but isnt my confrontation with just 40% proof brought about a revelation that something has indeed happened from her response? I need candid response here as I am about to take my own decision, I cant stand a cheating wife biko. Cheatin wife!!! I would ask u dis simple question hv u eva cheated on ha,if yes, do 4give ha nd if no stil do 4give ha,,,der should b room for repentance nd 4give.confront ha nd c if she is rily sorry of ha actions |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Leave Their Things Behind In A Guy's House? by ladykolly(f): 6:17pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Alero3Arubi: Are you serious!
Now that always is 500naira
Abeg bring am to me oo
It wont look anyhow. hahaha,u nt serious |
Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Tom Samson Wins "Best Pastor Of The Year" Award, Poses In His Limousine by ladykolly(f): 3:31pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Tokziby: Do Pastors pay tithes? If no, are they exempted and proof?
but If yes, who gets to chop the tithes?
Who is the tithe meant for? poor people in the church/community and maintenance of church? OR Pastors?
Where is it written that pastors should enrich theirselves with tithes?
If you ask me, Modern day pastors are liken to politicians, They both get money from the poor masses and spend it on themselves. Yes pastors do pay tithe but most at times it is been paid to a different denomination at been lead |
Health › Re: Men Pay Extra Money To Have Sex With Prostitutes In Abuja Without Condoms - FACA by ladykolly(f): 8:08pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
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Health › Re: Men Pay Extra Money To Have Sex With Prostitutes In Abuja Without Condoms - FACA by ladykolly(f): 8:07pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: Uniosun Student Brags About Raping A Girl And Enjoying It by ladykolly(f): 2:09pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Corper Advises Men To Go For Secondary School Girls Because They're Naive by ladykolly(f): 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
chimebube: A serving corp member and an English teacher at Federal Science and Technical College Awka, Immanuel Ifediata, has taken to Facebook to advice men to leave fine girls and older ladies, because they all now have the 'runs girl' mentality.
According to Immanuel, gone are the days when ladies choose their partners, based on prospects. He went further to disclose that ladies now choose their men based on wallets.
According to Immanuel, if you need a girl without the runs girls' mentality and not yet 'corrupt', the man should go for secondary school girls, or those who just finished their WASSCE or NECO exams. He also narrated an experience.
http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/04/corp-member-advises-men-to-go-after.html his write up needs a second touch,,,who says every matured girl is after a guys money...to d guys in d house stop addressing all gals as one,there re still thousand of gals dat don't fix their eyes on your wallet. is a choice every one should make,even if u marry a primary or secondary school girl dat doesn't assure u to have d best of home,your naive girl is still growing up. |
Crime › Re: 45-Year-Old Man Impregnates Primary School Girl, Says She's His Lover & Fiancée by ladykolly(f): 8:18pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
bastien: the only issue I have with the matter is the underage stuff..! But I don't think it's rape, or I don't think he was even the one that disflowered her.
Will u call 8 months relationship with sexual activities RAPE?
Let the poor girl speak up, and let her speak her mind, not be poison by her mother or class teacher. I rily do undastnd u,d gal is matured to speak 4 haself, but to me I smell rape stuff der, bcox if it wasnt der wouldnt hv bin police on dat case dats if d parent has accepted moni frm d man b4 nw |
Crime › Re: 45-Year-Old Man Impregnates Primary School Girl, Says She's His Lover & Fiancée by ladykolly(f): 12:43pm On Apr 21, 2017 |
bastien: What is RAPE? To rape someone is to force them to have sex with you.... Did he FORCE her? NO
Is she underage? YES, VERY YOUNG
Does he love her? YES
Does she love him? WE don't know, they didn't interview her.
Is her parents aware? YES
Do they agree? YES
So what's my fucccccckin business? how are u sure he didn't rape her? bcox u werent der nur me...we are only judging frm wat we read,d gals mother said it was a rape case.lets base on dat til otherwise |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Meets Parents Of Abducted Chibok Girls At State House(pics) by ladykolly(f): 9:52am On Apr 20, 2017 |
chie8: VP Osinbajo yesterday met with Chibok girls parents.He assured them that President Buhari's administration is committed to the safe return of the abducted girls.He said.....
'This evening, I met with a group of the Chibok parents who came to the State House.
President Muhammadu Buhari and I are committed to the safe return of our girls'.
cc; Lalasticlala,mynd44
Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/04/vp-osinbajo-meets-parents-of-chibok.html plz tell us d total number of girls dat returned so we can know how many is left. |
Education › Re: ASUU Calls For JAMB Registrar’s Resignation by ladykolly(f): 8:33am On Apr 20, 2017 |
Standardcosting: 1Useless ASUU
2. Ignorance and religious affiliations is the problem with many Nigerians
3. This man is trying to reduce the many hours spent by candidates during exams to improve their performance
4. No one is talking about why the tenure of the old Jamb registrar wasn't extended. Have we all forgotten that 2016 exams were marked with the WRONG SOFTWARE?
5. Changes don't happen overnight.
6. This CBT everyone happy about was introduced by him at Unilorin before many universities and even JAMB adopted it.
6.Let's not forget that you being a computer scientist or an engineer doesn't make you perform better Despite the fact that the former Jamb registrar was an educationists with many engineers and scientists at Jamb. They collectively performed badly and administered the wrong software. So wat re u implying Read Apollo syndrome and Medici effect |
Education › Re: 21-year-old Boy Emerges FUTA Best Graduating Student by ladykolly(f): 7:39am On Apr 18, 2017 |
congrats dear,u rock. |
Politics › Re: Okowa Slumps Over From Mysterious Sickness - Sahara Reporters by ladykolly(f): 9:28am On Oct 11, 2016 |
mamabomboy: Agbor people and their wicked witches and wizards. Okowa should sign an executive order for the security agencies to purge the village of Igbodo. That is the witchcraft HQ's in Nigeria b watchful of wat u say,did d reporter say agbor people was d causes? stress or thinkin can make n one fall ill...so u neva can tell. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is This The True Consequence Of Not Giving Offering In Church? by ladykolly(f): 4:06pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
DeSepiero: Don't worry, you'll be fine  There are principles of making and keeping wealth. If you follow them, you'll most probably be wealthy. By the way, countless people are not Christians, and obviously don't give offerings in churches but are still wealthy. u dont judge evri one as one person,remember people's grace differs |
Christianity Etc › Re: Owerri Priest Celebrates Independence Day On Dirty Douglas Road (Photos) by ladykolly(f): 3:55pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
PrettyCrystal: too much highness can cause a lot of things is nt highness,is simply tellin u dat nigeria is 56 and c d environ huge dirty....okkkk? |
Crime › Re: Son Calls Police To Arrest Father For Printing Fake Money In Kenya (Video) by ladykolly(f): 12:31pm On Sep 21, 2016 |
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Family › Re: I Thank God I Didn't Marry Her by ladykolly(f): 4:29pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
u guyz would b sayin dat girls love money so much,let me ask u dis...do u love urself if u dont hv money |
Education › Re: Jane Ihuoma-Ottah Expelled From RUST Over Of Hearing & Speech Problem by ladykolly(f): 10:58pm On Feb 09, 2016 |
Gabaleve: She may still hav a bf even with all dis problems o Is this part of d question asked |
Christianity Etc › Re: Celebrating An Icon - Happy Birthday To Pastor Chris Oyakhilome by ladykolly(f): 10:45am On Dec 07, 2015 |
Nobody forced anyone here 2 wish him a birthday msg...so if u nt wishing him, then don't nd stop bringin out big deals 4rm d pasted. |
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole Is The Biggest Thief In Benin City, Says Lucky Igbinedion by ladykolly(f): 12:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Mogidi: Shut-up!! Both of you are thieves. so on point |