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I have enjoying a grt tym wit dis tread I learn alot from al of u God bless u al 4 taking ur tym 2 give counsel 2 we d intending bride by Gods grace my traditional wedding would b taking place in july I pray 2 God 2 give me a long lasting swt & loving memories wit my husband he is indeed a very nice person dat has d fear of God bt there r 2 issues we have nt discussed thoroughly which is giving me cos 4 concern no1 he strictly believe in no sex b4 marriage which I love too bt how 1 knw if a man is ok or impotent den secondly issue of finances hw do I raise question about it without making him feel am nt only interested in his money though he believe it is d responsibility of a man 2 take care of his wife & he always tell he would like me 2 b a good economist can a man tell his wife how much he is earning & wives can u ask ur husband

pls does d waist trainer flattene tummy & pls I dont knw hw 2 dance I want 2 learn how 2 dance b4 july pls can anybody help me out wit training I leave in Zaria

thorpido:
If that is the only issue your people have with him,then it's a simple issue.

YOUR GUY NEEDS TO GET OUT OF HIS SHELL.

I'm a bit of an introvert myself and I'm married to a lady who is not even from my tribe.I talk little but when I'm around my in-laws,I know I must gist.I start talking about politics,football e.t.c
Your guy just needs to understand this and take it upon himself to effect the change..

thanks they think since he is nt calling dem he is nt caring though on his part I been talking 2 him 2 try & cal he has started he is calling My dad more frequent now may God help me

[quote author=babyosisi post=30924679]I wish your family can just back off a little
The choice is yours to make not theirs.Let them tend to their own households and leave you alone.
Your man doesn't need to do a thing,he shouldn't apologize for who he is,that is how his God created him and you love him that way
Some people are quiet and reserved,some are loud and the life of the party
No one person is better than the other and they should learn to accept him that way
Being introverted doesn't mean he wouldn't love his wife's people,why don't they get to know him before judging him
You must make sure to set a boundary with your family members and the time to start that is from the beginning so they know to keep certain opinion to themselves or else this may be a huge problem down the line.[/quote

Hmmmmmm thank u dat wat am trying 2 let dem knw Infact wen he came 2 see my mom in d village d first tin she noticed was dat he was slow & hardly talks & dat was d First tym she was seeing him & I did nt tell dat was how he was bt my dad & sisters r nt understanding him at al initially my dad was nt ok wit d issue course we r nt of d same church bt every other person kicked against his reason so Dats y am even frustrated d more our traditional wedding by God 's grace wil take place ending july dat our own prayer so pls u people should join me in prayers

Anty osisi pls I need advice badly am about 2 wed a man I understand very well & am ready 2 deal wit his challenge bt my family r having issues wit him due 2 d fact dat his an introvert & extremely reserved person he find it difficult 2 relate wit people so they think he is nt d type dat wil accept d family or respect dem so am very confused

y post nt coming in or r we nt planning again

acidtalk:
Fellow compatriots the time has come again to decide our future and the future of our generation even yet unborn.

In about a week from now, we will be taking a decision to determine how things will play out in our lives in the next four years and beyond.

Have you decided on who you want to trust in handling the Security, Economy, Youth Development, Healthcare, Education, and General improvement of the affairs of Nigeria and its citizens? If you haven’t now is the time to realize something.

1) We trusted the last 6years into the hands of a man who people felt his “luck” might bring Luck to the land because of the way he has always risen to power but unfortunately, one man’s favour from God isn’t enough to bring about solution to the land.

2) A man who travels abroad for the slightest flu while ignoring the healthcare system of the entire nation

3) A man whose 6years in power could boast of ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

4) A man whose campaign was based on personal attacks on his opponent about events that too place OVER 30YEARS AGAIN. Whereas can not boast of achieving anything in the last 6years.

5) A man who claims he doesn’t give a DAMN about not declaring his assets and also claims STEALING IS NOT CORRUPTION

6) A man who gallivants with corrupt past and present individuals while ignoring honest and upright individuals in the land.

7) A man who can defend supposed militants in the October 1st Abuja bomb attack only to come several years later to LIE that the same militants he defended years back attempted to kill him just because the militants are not in support of his government.

8 ) A man whose wife controls almost all critical national issues. Fellow Nigerians ask yourself this question and be honest about it; “can Michael Obama debate of political, security, and governance issue in America? But yet we see nothing wrong in Patience Jonathan peddling into national issues.

9) A man whose ONLY achievement in 6years is boasting of some outdated railway construction that 98% of the Nigerian population do not make use of.

10) A man who under his watch Nigeria can’t boast of a National Carrier yet he has 5 presidential jet to his name and has helped all his associated acquire theirs.

11) A country that sells forms to unemployed Nigerians only to DUPE the same JOBLESS youths as neither the government or the agencies have any job for the youths.

12) A country whose Universities were close for over 6 months and polytechnics for over a year.

13) A country whose medical health workers go on strike all year round leading to millions of people’s sudden death.

14) A country whose citizens die in their thousands on a weekly basis without the president saying or doing absolutely nothing yet the same president sends messages to a country who lost JUST 5 citizens.

15) A president who has emptied the countries foreign reserve and yet cooks up report to hide his elicit acts

The list is endless my fellow Nigerians. This is the time to end all religious and ethnic sentiments and vote in an upright man.
A man who has NO TRACE of any corruption activities and whose associates have all performed averagely well as governors in their various states.

LETS BE WISE. OUR FUTURE IS AT STAKE. WE CAN’T AFFORD TO WASTE THE NEXT FOUR YEARS AGAIN.

VOTE OUT JONATHAN EBELE AZIKIWE BECAUSE WE HAVE TESTED HIM AND HE PROVED HE ISN’T A MAN TO GIVE A SECOND CHANCE TO.

I pity u

ok thanks breadplanet

february 21

am present even though my wedding is coming up december bt I intend 2 start planning now

breadplanets:
Sorry love just saw this. For that bread you saw there i used
1kg flour
2tbsp sugar
1tbsp salt
1tbsp yeast
1/2cup milk powder
1/2cup oil
21/2cups warm water
Mix the flour and salt together. Measure out the water in a large bowl, sprinkle the yeast on top *i use instant* add the sugar, oil and milk. Then start mixing in the flour until a dough is formed. Then place on a flat surface *i use the same bowl* and knead until the dough is elastic *most times i just leave it when i get tired* the dough should be soft and non sticky, a mixer would make the job easier. Then oil the bowl place the dough leave to rise for 1hr or until it doubles in size. Punch down dough and divide into the number and shapes you want. Then roll up or fold depending on the shape u want, place in greased pans. Then let rise until doubled another 30mins to 1hr depending on how cold or hot your house is. Preheat your oven and then bake for 30mins or so depending on how hot your oven is! When its properly browned allow to cool a bit then bring out from the pan cool down some more and then break out your tea or groundnut or kulikuli or akara or........ Whatever! Enjoy.
Please google can also help you more.
#Dropsmike#

thanks alot breadplanet d mixer is it d same wit dat cake

wow congratulations a very beautiful wife u have there wish u happy married life

pls breadplanet can u give me detailed recipe on hw 2 bake bread

wow congratulations beedam may God keep & preserve ur little baby

& lastly a very gud job 4 my only brother

1st I pray dat God forgive me al my short coming den I wish my parents gud health long life 2 enjoy d fruits of their labour & I wish myself & al my sisters God fearing men dat we wil al celebrate our wedding come 2015 AMEN

am nt always lucky bt hope to load 1 soon bt seriously orders dat have load b4 should allow others d oppoturnity 2 load thanks 4 ur cooperation and 4 al d givers may u never lack anything IJN AMEN

obi4eze:
See corporate begging

not at al dear card or no card is gud u appreciate people 4 their kind gesture hope u understand

pls am in need of d card madam cc God wil increase u protect u provide 4 & ur family

may God bless each & every 1 of u dat have contributed both im kind ir cash d gud Lord wil reward. u al @ Aisha may God increase u in al aspect

BiHung:
Public Announcement!

When they carry GeJ's campaign rice come your dormot:

1. Collect am, say thank you

2. Check expiry date to sure say e never expire.

3. Chop am well well

4. drink ice water join...na energy for election day.

5. On February 14, vote for the man wey no get money to bribe you...the man wey no steal your money.

6. Vote BUHARI ... Na the man wey sabi d job

I pity u

brosss:
First off, welcome home to Naija.
Your mom is probably embittered cos she placed much hope and believe in you.
Its probably her own way of reacting to her disappointment.
She doesn't hate you, if she did , she'ld not accept you or provide some much needed assistance.
I don't know the circumstances surrounding ur move to SA but it seems she must have sat you down and given motherly advice. And she probably feel, u threw all that to the wind.
Now that that's explained.
1. Never accept that your little bundle of Joy was a mistake. No! Else you'll fall into the trap of despising or hating your baby. Give that baby all the love He/she needs, be very proud of your child.
2. Talk to your Mum. Apologize to her for not making her proud. Tell her you are sorry. She is pretty hurt cos she trusted u to deliver. Remember u are more hurt by those close to you. Ask her to give u another chance. Tell her u are her own baby and she's all u'v got.
3. Get busy in the house. Don't Just put on AM or MTV in the mornings, lazying about. Sweep, do the dishes, laundry. Make her Lazy. Let her know that u are back. Watch tv only when there's no chores to do.
4. Tell ur siblings how much u'v missed them. And no matter how they ridicule you. Stand up for them and take their sides against any outsider, soon, you'll win them to your camp.
5. Get a Job. However how menial, get something, a teacher at the daycare or something, cleaner, anything. Get outer the house and buy something while coming back.
6. Try and get intouch with ur dad. But on no account should u let them know u are searching for him.

Soon enough, they'll forgive you and integrate you again.


Pray.......it is well sis.

dis a very gud & kind advice pls op try & use it very well as 4 phema sincerely I dont like ur harsh comments it could b anyone so pls try nt 2 judge harshly even though I knw u r legally married

gidjah:
was a member of D 9120 in my college days.you should begin to think teaching,though u do not hav edu cert,try big schools around u,they shall likely gv u an opportunity to manifest.try some rotarians around too,they can realy b of good help as they hav always bin.the only slot i hav got now is 4 a fed sch teacher but not 4ur kind

pls am intrested in d fed school teacher I have n.c.e in biology chemistry thanks

Hmmmmmm I dont understand y almost everybody here is seeing dis as a big deal as 4 me dere ia nothing wrong in going 2 c my 2 b Inlaw @phema it depends on d location u r visiting like u dont except sum1 traveling 4rm kaduna 2 a village in Taraba state 2 go & come back dat same day

dis is d only aspect i hate women 4 & I pray 2 God 4 d hrt of a man regarding dis issue of taking care of oder peoples children cos most women r very wicked in dis regard saying dis out of my personal experience

frustratedman:
RIP


Another proof that God is a wicked mutha fvcker who doesn't give a damn about us. Shebi the guy na pastor, why God nor save am or make e show am vision Oloriburuku God. E nor go betta for GOD

Hmmmmmm r u serious about wat u just type as ur name implies frustrated pls beg God 4 forgiveness of blasphemy & draw closer 2 God u wil understand him better

Awesome God I wil tel u congratulations cos I knw dat wat God is planning 4 I wil soon com 2 accomplishments just sit relax & praise him cos u wil com back 2 testify soon

tatiana009:
lmao, people should continue deceiving themselves. Truth is most of the women who ignore their husband's cheating have simply also joined the game. What is she complaining about when she's getting hers too

dat nt completly TRUE oooii

cityhood:
Abuja is a good place now
U can get around k.d
Zaria
Or if u wnat to further more zaria is a good place to meet mature pple
Iknw what amsaying
Zaria is full of education
All tru
Dnt knw maybe am making sense here cuz am in zaria

were in Zaria