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No offence but shipping her off to boarding school is hardly "living with her Dad"

Someone has to take control and supervise her 24/7 why do you think she wants to go to boarding school Its for the freedom she believes she will get. She cant wait to get away from you all.

I for one dont agree with boarding schools but each to their own. She either meets her match and gets beaten to a pulp in school until she behaves or she finds other naughty children and learns even more bad stuff.

At the end of the day I guess its not really your problem you didnt give birth to her. And your parents acting as adoptive parents didnt help her either.

But the passing around needs to stop.

Some good advice here we are all different but let me clarify a few things.

No one said she should be beaten to a pulp it obviously hasn't worked but nothing wrong with physical punishment.  I swear after a 20min "kneel down over there and raise your arms" and then a pep talk she will relax.  

I got smacked and I got physical punishment from my mum and you always got a pep talk afterwards there is no way I could ever think a boyfriend/husband hitting me is the same thing.  Lets not take on these oyinbo sentiments the human spirit is more resilient than that.

I don't think she should be starved please don't do that serve her breakfast warn her she has Bleep mins to eat it.  Once that time is up you take breakfast away and march her out.  Once that has happened to her a few times she she realises shes hungry because she refused to listen to instruction she will learn to eat on time

Shes 10 she doesn't decided what kind of school she goes too shes a child.  But I think she needs 24 hours intense care so shipping her off like all the other adults in her life is not a good idea IMO.

The girl is already overconfident talk to her as a child ask her would she like to go to prison? Because people who lie and steal end up there.  Even if she has Attention disorder is can be managed and its not excuse for her stealing.


You cant give up on her

Granpa indeed 2005!

Its too rampant

I have never changed ID Im yet to be banned

But its so confusing when people change IDs or even sex

What happened to Osisi I used to really dislike her I still pray all her children will marry yorubas

Shes marrying a prince Im sure his family and him insisted that as a princess she could not be seen kissing other men on screen etc

Im sorry shes 10 and shes controlling you?

Doesnt eat her breakfast on time so shes late to school? then you take her breakfast away as soon as its time to go and drag her out the door.

Doesnt do chores? then you punish her no tv no nice things until she does as she is told. Or she can kneel down in a corner and raise her arms for a good 20mins.

She needs routine and a strong hand not weak aunty today crying strong aunty tomorrow.

You check her school books everyday. You discuss what she was taught she might not be a book worm or have the brains to study not everyone is gifted in that department but she must still try.

She goes to bed on time when you say not when she says. shes not allowed to play outside with other kids until you see good behaviour from her even then she should never be allowed to play out of sight since shes already liking boys.

Everytime she is caught lying or stealing she kneels down and raises her arms. You start asking her to carry a stool and increase punishment time by 10mins after each act of defiance.

After every punishment or hot slap you give her you sit her down and you explain why you are doing it. Its because you love her very much and you want her to be a good person and live a good life.

LMAO@TOH

Back in the day we had great topics. The forum would be buzzing you would really LOL at your PC or laptop screen.  Real life drama hilarious picture passing and posting.

Will many people come to birmingham?

Hotels are not expensive over there compared to london I guess

Just started secondary school

WWYI 1997

Really funny thread.

I remember the internet bullies Sauron

Coco29 who had 3 hrs of s e x with , 

Debo back in the day was on heat 24/7 you couldnt help but loff him as he chased all the gilrs with his sweet and tacky loff lines

eldee was just as bad

The Sly I miss him

Morenike my darling getting banned every single day 

Ikamefa is she still around? she was funny

Busta was good fun too





The good old days 

Still in secondary school

WWYI 1992

london

august 2009

Are some of you normal? whats wrong with poohing? As long as you dont destroy the toilet or block the toilet. Is your boyfriend going to sniff your butt cheeks or come sniff the toilet?

Your parents should bloody step in and tell your aunt to back off!!! Arrant nonsense

Does he know why he cant have kids? Low sperm count or ZERO sperm count?

Kick her out. waste of time

Dont do it. You yourself mentioned you had normal marital issues nothing serious please dont cause pain and suffering for no reason.

If she truley loved you she would let you go

Disgusting. Yet another Nigeria ism.

I guess DanGOATe and co dont have enough money yet

Im confused. Can we not produce all cement locally? Do we have such a high demand we have to import it?