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The poster sounds very young to me.

Dayo must your d i c k derail every thread?

When I say Ashewo
You say Dayo
Ashewo,

Busy_body:
With the ongoing auction presently hovering around the $2.52million dollar mark, she would be able to afford a whole bottle of brandy which she can pretend she only needs to calm her nerves

LMAOOOOOOOOOO

She will be glad of the money when someone she is not attracted too takes her virginity while her whole body is screaming "no get this fat pig away from me"

God help us.

This is quite bad. What sort of problems does he have at work?

Its not easy being isolated as well no family nearby.

Do you guys still sleep together? Or is he always in a bad mood?

dayokanu:
b1tch

kandiikane:
bi[i]t[/i]ch

Are you both ok? Whats the meaning of this?

Where do you want to have the baby Ife?

If you are not ready to relocate to Nigeria dont do it yet without proper plans.

You need to think about accomadation etc

If you prefer to wait until after the baby to do the wedding fine just try to make out some kinda plan.

Erm by the way you said hes moving back to Nigeria are you going to join him?

*sigh*

Whats done is done now.  Babys cost lots of money I suggest you get married now before something more important i.e a baby takes over.

Its the new fashion young couples getting pregnant before marriage I guess its a way for them to know all reproductive organs are working. But I hate the thought of being a pregnant bride.

The north is hostile fullstop. The south will have no problem accomadating people who wish to live in peace no matter their religion or tribe. But its about time we stop decieving ourselves. The North are a problem let them rule themselves so we can have peace jare!

dayokanu:
The first time you and the guy go out, do you expect him to carry the heavy load?

when he comes visiting and there is a rodent around, do you expect him to take charge?

When you have minor Mechanical or electrical issues, Do you expect him to do something even when its the first few weeks/months?

I am talking to the girl in the video and not you. For you, the sight of correct amu would make you do anything

I think as Jenny has rightfully pointed out you must study the person you are dating find out their likes and dislikes. I think trying too hard at first is a big turn off. A girl jumping into some guys kitchen asap is weird to me that should be way down the line.


I like your dancing story Jenny LMAO!

By the way why is this topic not front page

Very good points there Jenny. I think if you can't do something before marriage you are unlikely to do it after. Even sometimes after marriage thongs people did before they stop doing it since they have caught the guy/girl they want so it's no necessary to continue anymore which is wrong.

You have to ignore me cooking is a big thing to me because as kids I don't remember a day (up until now) that I will go home and there won't be some proper food either waiting to be warmed or has just been cooked. My friends used to complain about there being no food at home or having to wait ages for food to be cooked. I hate that kind of life and I think as a copule if you have kids you must make sure you work out a way those kids are going to be well feed all the time and it's best you start doing it when you are dating so by the time you get married it's second nature.

Dayo you have started again!!!

I just think when we date and I mean real dating not this friends with benefits nonsense the marriage issue often comes up.

I'm defiantly in the school of thought that if you don't do it when we date you won't do it when we marry. I see nothing wrong with men helping with the housework it's not a crime if my boyfriend comes to my place and helps me wash dishes or loads the washing machine. If he's doing it to impress me that's fine shows his caring side.

Any parent who doesnt teach their child their native tongue is stupid IMO. No matter where you live you should teach your language to your kids or you are cutting a massive side of their inheritence from them.

jennykadry:
The gurl is right. Truth be told

She is not saying that she wouldn't cook for her man. She wants a woman to see cooking for a man as a hobby instead of cooking with the intention of making the man marry her or see her as a wife material. Ok what if she finally gets called a ''Mrs'' ? will she continue cooking or stop? Cooking as to be a hobby you cannot force or pretend to like doing it for long. Really

BTW i tok am. Naija men must flood in

I agree you cant and you shouldnt pretend you can cook or like cooking. But I dont think people who like to show off their cooking skills should be critised. But in a relationship there should be roles. Some guys are great in the kitchen but that doesnt stop the girlfriend/wife doing her part.

Unless people want to eat takeaway for life I dont see anything wrong if someone wants to show off their cooking skills to show they would be a good life partner.

People do different things to impress their partners if I want to cook like Iya Basira I will oh!


As a future mother I dont plan to leave the feeding of may kids to my husband so I already kinda know I will be doing most of the cooking in the house it doesnt bug me to start it now at the dating stage. Different strokes for different folks.

I am so coming to you guys wedding the love in here is amazing lmaooooooo

Isnt it better to win a guy over with your cooking then with your fanny?

Suicide will be her way out she wont recover from this. So painful two people bought her into this world and neither love her!

I heard of an american woman who was like this it ruined her life.  

Dayo dont start rubbish here

If you have not memorised his number delete it!

See if he calls you if he doesnt have a very good cry take a deep breath and move on.